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The perfect 10
December 09 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am still waiting for the perfect 10.. Do they exist I wonder. It's a team effort isn't it? Although, I do have a current friend who interests me on a mental level of 10. The day I meet someone who can do that for me I will marry them. As long as I can keep my other friend of course. Lolz
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RHP User
13 years ago
well hang on a min...let me have a look around,yep there he is...ooops nope he's gone again ...damn..almost The perfect man is a figment of Jane Austen's imagnation,gawd that D'Arcy has a lot to answer for.And now we have D'arcy with a rope and whip,Christian Grey,and the vampire dude,Edward whats is name...the strong ,tall silent archetype lives on. In the meantime confusion reigns. Where is Carl Jung when ya need him.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Everyone is so different n what one person will enjoy another might not like! It's the chemistry between ppl which makes the magic happen! Being comfortable with each other, being great friends, n enjoy each others company...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had an affair to remember with a qantas pilot its because it was an affair, five star hotels , magic stuff but thats just sex the other stuff is a lot harder to maintain in life But he was sure a 10 worth every second of my time. the sex also came with roses and jewlery so that may have helped
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not a perfect 10, but someone that it was so f.. good between the sheets for me.Noone has ever been able to match it afterwards and I'm beginning to wonder whether anyone will.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The short answer is Yes, this man made a point of learning all he could about women, both on a physical, mental and emotional level. His reasons for doing this were simple. He once told me that by nature he was not brilliant academically, he wasn’t sports material nor was he successfully a blokey bloke and he knew that he wasn’t the best looking guy out there – so when he discovered this about himself, he looked at what talents he did have and that was that he truly loved pleasing women, he set out to truly learn the art of “Pleasing a woman” on all levels. (Trust me he loved the research – much of in conducted in brothels on his travels with the Navy) but he was an eager student..he really did want to understand women in order to be an amazing lover….. He was the most successful swinger I ever knew and his secret was that simple, he studied women, got into their heads and figured out what made them tick and reacted accordingly…he was truly the most unselfish man I ever met In bed (may I add out of bed..totally different) but he knew his trade and plied it well. I have had lovers since and trust me on many levels, they were just as good if in some cases not better, however this one man truly knew what women wanted and needed in our very many guises and reacted to those wants/needs accordingly…..his married now..and bored..and therein lies a story.. and as to why he wasnt the "Perect 10"- mmm he didnt marry me !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'CheekyArses' Everyone is so different n what one person will enjoy another might not like! It's the chemistry between ppl which makes the magic happen! Being comfortable with each other, being great friends, n enjoy each others company...The initial question came about because the woman I mentioned had elevated someone I would have considered to be reasonably ordinary up to a pedestal that others in her opinion could only aspire, the gold standard of their personal experience. I wonder if it's been the same for other women out there who have got a guy who just hit their button like no other.
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RHP User
13 years ago
now if you are just talking about sex OP then yes,there is one man and I haven't found another who knows how to press me buttons quite like he does..a perfect 10..
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have dropped my button! If you see it, just give me a call
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RHP User
13 years ago
here I wait for my 10, 9, 8, 7 1/2I do believe it's a combo effort, and I have to work on feeling comfortable in my own skin to have a connection powerful enough to attain the almighty "wow".I'm working on it, I'm having fun....but still always wondering if I can truly connect on enough levels and let down my guard.Gosh, I feel a little vulnerable right now.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissPoppins' here I wait for my 10, 9, 8, 7 1/2I do believe it's a combo effort, and I have to work on feeling comfortable in my own skin to have a connection powerful enough to attain the almighty "wow".I'm working on it, I'm having fun....but still always wondering if I can truly connect on enough levels and let down my guard.Gosh, I feel a little vulnerable right now. I'll need to check out exactly how high you're setting the bar here MP!.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sadly he died 30 odd years ago so maybe the memory is youthful fantasy but I dont think so.
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RHP User
13 years ago
On if you're talking about sex only or character too.... Sexwise, I'd say I had a 9.... a guy I hooked up with a few times last summer.... bloody hell that was the best sex I ever had!!! Characterwise, I'm far far away from finding a perfect 10....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'nameisinuse' Quoting 'MissPoppins' here I wait for my 10, 9, 8, 7 1/2I do believe it's a combo effort, and I have to work on feeling comfortable in my own skin to have a connection powerful enough to attain the almighty "wow".I'm working on it, I'm having fun....but still always wondering if I can truly connect on enough levels and let down my guard.Gosh, I feel a little vulnerable right now. I'll need to check out exactly how high you're setting the bar here MP!.
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RHP User
13 years ago
With you I could apply for countless positions ;-) it's a shame you are so far from me, I would like to at least try for a 9
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do believe I am blushing
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RHP User
13 years ago
Apart from my main man , playing wise I did meet someone a whole ago who was a 10 sexually to me! I doubt I'll find someone else who just instantly gets me like that again ......just a pity he lives so far away ! I have met some 2's too along the way :) more 4's than 5's and the occasional 8 that keeps me coming back for more. It's been a wild year of sexual exploration for me - i have learnt a lot about myself , not sure what next year will bring from this lifestyle for us but I think something a little more predictable , like a FB will be on the cards !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Perfection doesn't exist, idolising a utopian ideal will lead to endless disappointment.. be grateful and happy with what you have instead of judging against non existent standards. Sure strive to improve, learn and grow as much and as often as you can.. however don't ignore whats right in front of you because it doesn't tick every box you have on some list in the back of your mind.I think if people learnt to be more grateful we'd all be much nicer happier people in all areas of life...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its Knowing the women and reacting and acting accordingly to her body, her needs and passions, plus knowing the limits to push her too is the pure reason we can be great lovers....plus having the physical and mental attraction I agree shinasbabe27 it's knowing the person as all women are different My thoughts anyway M
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RHP User
13 years ago
But as soon as he started talking, ths score plummeted. Good thing he liked to keep his mouth otherwise occupied :) hmmm, memories (*sigh!) I do live in hope, though 10 all round may be a bit unrealistic ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
...goes to 11, it's louder than 10.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ah...the endless pursuit of the perfect male, the BIG 10, I feel is a myth of fairytales & legends. I have spent so many of my younger years chasing the illusive physical/mental/spiritual connection, that I gave up...It's just more fun to have fun.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your question strikes a nerve..big time..and in short the answer is YES..He was a spontaneous, spur of the moment, sexual impromptu hookup via cyber..You never expect to encounter someone that hits every note in you, in this circumstance..the experience was so overwhelmingly good..such happy experience..I'm just grateful to have lived it..There is no formula except accepting that you don't know everything about yourself until "the one" is in front of you..because on appearance he was completely not what I would describe for me..but everything that turned me on..from long hair to deep deep eyes that could see right through me..softly spoken & gentlemanly..yet a firm way of guiding what was going to happen..& that was my pleasure..If you are looking for perfect 10 list of facts/circumstances/actions..I guess there were many more..I was smiling without knowing why in seconds with this stranger..kissing, kissing kissing..nothing needed any guidance it just was exactly & precisely perfect..I would agree with 'number 10' as this gentleman must've possessed a well trained ability to read my face & body, & seeing his observation just propelled my senses further..I think a key indicator is you automatically trust & want to do things with this person that you have never done before..you allow them..kinky, risqué or sensual..this is amazing..soul defining..Without saying anymore to appear gushing..it was just such a positive experience in so many levels..& made me believe again..since though..no one has hit his mark which is frustrating..though the biggest frustration is he asked me to be his friend & without thinking, overwhelmed, I said no..I don't know why..Anyway, Sexy Jesus (as I like to refer to him) was a perfect perfect 10..between the sheets & out..the nicest 10 hours of this year..
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RHP User
13 years ago
wow belle , i was thinking of sending you a msg today but now reading your post im cowering in my boots ..gonna need a few days to muster up the courage for that one i think haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hummmmmmm...Is there ever a PERFECT "10" ????It's true...there are amazing men - a perfect 10 - I'm unsure on this one as no-one is perfect...I 've perfected the art at making lots of "mistakes" so does that make me a GENIUS??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Perfect 10 only exists when two people are perfect together. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' Hummmmmmm...Is there ever a PERFECT "10" ????It's true...there are amazing men - a perfect 10 - I'm unsure on this one as no-one is perfect...I 've perfected the art at making lots of "mistakes" so does that make me a GENIUS??In this case I'm refering to someone who as they left you made your jaw hit the floor and left you wondering if that performance or collection of performances would ever be surpassed?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Referring of course contains an extra R!.
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
Where a guy outright told me I'd never find anyone as skilled as him... Nice sentiment from a deviant control freak but he was way off the mark. I am grateful for the experience though as really the relationship was 18 months of sex therapy and I wouldn't be so comfortable with my sexuality if I hadn't gone through that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' Where a guy outright told me I'd never find anyone as skilled as him... Nice sentiment from a deviant control freak but he was way off the mark. I am grateful for the experience though as really the relationship was 18 months of sex therapy and I wouldn't be so comfortable with my sexuality if I hadn't gone through that. Albeit on a different time scale!, on holiday once with some friends I watched my mates over the course of a week take a string of massive knock backs from a stunning young lady determined to spend her week away man free, on the last night of the trip I decided I had to have her and spent the night talking, laughing and flirting with her while promising quietly that a night with me would be like no other!, this resulted into a late invite to her room much to the dismay of my mates who had all decided "she must be a lesbian!". The following half an hour went downhill rapidly, after being dragged up from cunnilingus by a frantic and excited woman desperate for penetration I found myself completely flaccid and almost numb with alcohol, I tried to excite myself to no avail and while standing naked with numb flaccid penis in my hands my mates had pin pointed the room we were in from outside and were cheering encouragement believing I was making sweet love to the girl who was actually looking at me and shaking her head in disbelief.
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