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The things we do
January 10 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
dinner with Tom cruise :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Giving up dinner with Tom or penciling him in? I haven't had a lamb roast for so long, think i'd be lusting after the roast more than Tom. He'd be too old for me now anyway lol 😉😁 in some respects, nothing stops me sometimes, like a dog with a bone 😀😀😀 but i'd never give up my freedom or being happy within myself, or allow anyone to disrespect me, or control my emotions. I'd also never give up exercise so long as i'm physically able, that comes first 👍😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
Always with the quick and witty response, keeps it interesting - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' dinner with Tom cruise :p I'd never realised that it was Naomi Watts in that ad.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That is a pretty open ended question ! I seem to find the more I compromise the more I get but the less satisfied I am.
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RHP User
10 years ago
About settling for what we can get,rather than what we want? In my experience that can just lead to heartbreak because the settler is always left wondering about the "what ifs"..and then if someone does come along that really floats their boat..a dilemma..do I stay or do I go..and often this can effect a whole range of people in that persons life xxFreya
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sweetgem
10 years ago
If it's a committed and serious relationship, I am willing to compromise in order to make a relationship works, but only to a certain level where respect is exercised. But if it's only a casual arrangement from here, I am reluctant to compromise, though I will understand and respect other people's circumstances, provided that people's reasonings are convinceable. In my own experiences of RHP, going too far out, or too much compromising, would result in the other party taking advantage of me. Hence, if a man contacted me and didn't show genuine interest from the start (like exchange a couple of messages and disappear for days/weeks, then resurface to demand for a meet simply because he doesn't have any plans on), then I am no longer interested, nor would I be willing to give the benefit of doubt to their excuses. And it's ok if that attitude would see me meeting nobody for a long time because, I am not here just for sex only! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, I agree, just finally released a demon a few days ago who was, I feel, treating me like backup, when there's nothing better on offer, frustrated with he online experience, dry spell, whatever, I finally woke up and thought why am I allowing him to treat me this way, I'm too good for him I realized, and moved on finally without a backward glance. Felt really good 😀😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' if your feeling you are being "used" you probably are, i touch, he(or she is not just using you he/she is screwing you ***k that! hold out for more much more..raise the stakes and the 'company" will follow :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wise words, Freya, sweetgem and I touch myself 2! *high 5's! I think compromise to a certain extent is necessary to make a relationship work. But compromise should never rob you of your intrinsic identity altogether. That never works out in the end because the one making the sacrifice will grow resentful and the one who is at the "winning" end will start to lose just that little bit of respect for the pushover. Eg. Husband wants a FFM threesome but wife hates the idea and ends up compromising just to please her husband. That sort of "compromise" eventually leads to a potential volcanic eruption! LOL! But men are funny creatures - you give in and they'll think you have no self respect and do not stand up for yourself. You don't give in and they'll think you're inflexible and set in your ways. Best to look for an easygoing bloke who won't sweat the small stuff, gets along well with people in general, and does not exhibit red flags of passive aggression.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' About settling for what we can get,rather than what we want? In my experience that can just lead to heartbreak because the settler is always left wondering about the "what ifs"..and then if someone does come along that really floats their boat..a dilemma..do I stay or do I go..and often this can effect a whole range of people in that persons life xxFreya we all should value our worth much higher than we "think' so even when we do offer a little compromise we can be satisfied that we are still putting our happiness and self respect foremost :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
One part of happiness is intimacy/companionship. As with all critters (including human) the species would die out without the need to connect, mate and create the next generation. Some critters will eat there partner after a quickie, so be careful if she offers to go down after (you never know).
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RHP User
10 years ago
Raise the stakes, yup 👍
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me I have found it will go one of two ways, I either still feel good about myself and my actions or I don't. If I'm feeling like it takes something from me that I'm not prepared to give . Then I would not compromise my own self worth.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' About settling for what we can get,rather than what we want? In my experience that can just lead to heartbreak because the settler is always left wondering about the "what ifs"..and then if someone does come along that really floats their boat..a dilemma..do I stay or do I go..and often this can effect a whole range of people in that persons life xxFreya And "what if" Mr Perfect doesn't come along ?I've seen this too many times, usually with women looking for the Lawyer/Architect/Doctor, "I have standards" "why should I compromise " And they wait and they wait and they get older, lonelier and more bitter.And yes men looking for trophy wives can end up in the same place.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is from the movie Thelma and Louse: you get what you will put up with! Whether in a relationship or just fwb its about treating someone the way I like being treated. If that isn't happening it's time to go. - Posted from rhpmobile
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