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The wrong approach
March 24 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree with you don't get me wrong.....i think it's shit people message you like that.... But..... It's a risk of publishing your phone number on your profile instead of giving it to those who deserve it.... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why put it up if you don't want people to use it? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
What did you think was going to happen? George Clooney would call and invite you to be in his latest movie?! lol.... I presume you've received the usual messages where people expect you to meet them right now and let them shag you...... adding your phone number only heightens the sense of urgency these people have. Posting it on a public website is just asking for trouble in a non perfect world - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Common sense says leave your phone number for a second message, if you get that far, imho. Private galleries - the same.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
You are on the site, you are looking for people to have sex with.......is this incorrect? Of course they are going to use the number to contact you to arrange to meet and to hopefully have sex. That's why you put the mobile number up isn't it, so they could contact you to arrange that? If you answer NO to these questions, then Houston we have a problem and you may have stumbled onto this site not really understanding what the words 'sex with others' means. If you answer YES, BUT (then insert reasoning to substantiate the BUT)...then you have a problem. If your BUT relates to the text content you are getting, well what did you expect they would say? Have a half an hour text/phone conversation about everything BUT sex and when you could meet them? Ask you how your day has been, who do you think will win the footy this season, the obligatory hows the family (oh, wrong context, that could be creepy), do you like vegemite? Really????? (A few extra ?? just to drive Summer mad 😉). I'm sorry, but if you don't want to be hit on for sex via the phone, take the bloody number down. Simples really.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Because they can. Lol. we know there are a lot of creepy people here, just like in real life but being online gives them impetus to ump the creep level because of the anonymity of their online persona. Some people don't understand nor respect personal boundaries. I think if you dont want any unwanted intrusion, don't publish your number. Selectively giving out your number to people you have chatted will give you back the control over your personal space. Just makes sense. Best not to dangle the carrot in front of the donkey. Best of luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
it was bloody obvious and wonders why one needs to write a forum on it Must be me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is NOT a sex site... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
1800TXTAFUCK - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
complaining , you never find time for sex anyway. It's those not posting or complaining who are the one's having all the fun . Change of attitude and expectations would go a long way. There's no fun in meeting someone full of their own expectations. OP, I'd remove the telephone number if you're getting these awkward calls. Only give it out to those you feel comfortable with.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you put a contactable phone number on your profile, it stands to reason that people are going to contact you via that number. It's probably a great way to weed out the undesirables instantly. Seriously, those texting with a "Hi" or a "Wanna F*&%K" and on, and on it goes, you get to press the DELETE button and then press the BLOCK button immediately. If you don't want messages via your phone, don't publicly post your phone number on a dating website.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Someone should be entitled to put their phone number up and not be hassled by creepy strangers sending them harassing texts. Lets put the blame where it belongs; with those creepy strangers.
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madotara69
10 years ago
She said "well your ph numb........ could be rather a polite and reasonable response, possibly offended, defensive, taunted, objectified, labelled, dignified, humbled, settling, respectively in the better interests of well being and forgiving then moving on. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'deepestpurple' Someone should be entitled to put their phone number up and not be hassled by creepy strangers sending them harassing texts. Lets put the blame where it belongs; with those creepy strangers. I agree but in reality, like the Yellow pages, if you advertise, people will contact you. When one puts a number up, on whatever site, are they not expecting and asking people to contact them ?
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sweetgem
10 years ago
To publicly list your phone number in your profile HotdesiresCouple, you are also giving those disrespectful strangers an excuse to use it however they like because, they won't see it any difference than finding a sex hotline in the newspaper or via Google search too call, whenever they needed to! Human brains/minds are funny and for those who have different worldview than others, they believe they are entitled to abuse others at will, when things do not go their way! Therefore, to avoid further verbal bully and frustration, I would suggest you to consider removing your number off your profile and only give it out to those you connect well and/or trust. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
No, I meant TO call 😛😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
10 years ago
I read your profile and to me it looks like you are looking for sex or it one of the things on the menu. If this is not what you want it may help you to make it clear in the profile. Now regd PPL calling you and telling you not to put phone number if you are not after sex. It is non of their business to dictate you how you use your phone number but I don't see anything wrong if they are merely making suggestion. And just in case you are indeed looking for sex but want to start over phone in some particular step instead of jumping straight to sex questions. I will suggest make it clear in your profile what you like or not like to hear over phone. Finally if it just one odd reply that doesn't tickle your palate...ignore it...it is unlikely to find the reason and it is unlikely everyone will have same reason.
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