F57
Too much foreplay
July 09 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
My profile reads that i ONLY want foreplay. Meaning, penetration is merely an option for her.
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RHP User
14 years ago
What is stated in the profile is rarely the case anyway. Yeah yeah they all say they love giving oral. All say they will give oral for hours. Truth be told, they dont enjoy it, rarely give it and when they do it is only a perfunctionary few minutes to say they had been there. Personally I love all the foreplay. All the build up to the final release. Happy to stop, have another glass of wine, conversation for a while and then start again. Plenty on here only want to get thier cock wet and not too interested in the finale for the woman. If you can get one to give oral for hours......send me a personal message and give me his profile name will you?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' What is stated in the profile is rarely the case anyway. Yeah yeah they all say they love giving oral. All say they will give oral for hours. Truth be told, they dont enjoy it, rarely give it and when they do it is only a perfunctionary few minutes to say they had been there. Personally I love all the foreplay. All the build up to the final release. Happy to stop, have another glass of wine, conversation for a while and then start again. Plenty on here only want to get thier cock wet and not too interested in the finale for the woman. If you can get one to give oral for hours......send me a personal message and give me his profile name will you? I agree totally but may have been a fraction kinder *giggle* ... but only a fraction!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I enjoy being woken in the early hours of the morning by my partner for a quickie with no preamble. Sometimes all you need is a bit of a flirt and a quick kiss.
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RHP User
14 years ago
as the title suggests , i like to make sure my nose is rubbing your clit, my tongue is licking your pussy and my fingers are hooked inde you, rubbing your "g spot", and getting you right off, to the point , "fingers croseed" YOU BLOW YOUR MIND AWAY IN A GREAT CLIMAX !!!! BUT FOR THE GIRLS WHO JUST LIKE IT SHORT AND SWEET AND JUST A GREAT FUCK, I AM ALL FOR EITHER
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' I enjoy being woken in the early hours of the morning by my partner for a quickie with no preamble. Sometimes all you need is a bit of a flirt and a quick kiss. MissT now you can only ever hope for such efficiency in marriage, now we pups like to be all romantic and stuff but it is kinda nice to be able to roll over and lay my hardening member between Mrs Pups butt cheeks and whisper in her ear "wanna root?". An accepting giggle and a push back with her butt is all the damn foreplay we need..ok ok sometimes I'm extra romantic and give her a kiss on the nape of her neck.And all you people out there that have something against marriage - look what you're missing out on!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mmmmm one thing I can say is Ilove giving oral to females. Nothing better then feeling a lady shuddered as they are climaxing. I gave mammabear69 oral for hours and she loved every minute of it. Cant wait to do it again.
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RHP User
14 years ago
mammabear69 you lucky girl. Oral for hours with the Monkey. Did you want to give us your assessment ? xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' mammabear69 you lucky girl. Oral for hours with the Monkey. Did you want to give us your assessment ? xxMeeka Good call Meeks!Jessica - I made a forum topic a few weeks ago about the lack of fucking.... it was removed for some reason! I totally agree with you! Less fingering and toysing and handing and mouthing and more slamming hot screwing!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Its a matter of taste (no pun intended lol). Sometimes it needs to be long and slow. other times hard and fast. Its all good so long as everyones enjoying it. I couldn't agree more that a short sharp hard fuck is intense. Doesn't matter where it is...in bed, with you sitting on the batroom vanity or kitchen bench, in a carpark next to the car, the beach, the bush...theres endless places good for a hard quick rogering. Happy to obligue anytime Jessica321!! Bladez
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm pretty sure there're also forums around here complaining of exactly the opposite. Certainly the lack of foreplay is a traditional complaint...Reading through these forums it's becoming increasingly hard to ward off the impression that women love to complain...(ducking for cover...)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Those guys I have met that are slow at getting around to the penetration aspect of a sexual encounter dont want to...they purely and solely just want to have their cock sucked! Stop giving head and you may have more luck with achieving penetration. . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
As a guy all you hear about is how women want it in bed. As Billy Connolly puts it, women say 'give me orgasms and plenty of them, I'll tell you when to stop' :-) How often do you see articles or videos 'How to Pleasure Your Guy'?? For years its been hammered into guys (who supposedly just want to get their dick wet) that foreplay is absolutely essential for a woman. No ifs no buts. So guys adapt and do the foreplay. Now women say 'I just want to shag, forget the foreplay'. Please, how is a guy to know if a girl doesn't want foreplay and just wants to shag? Is there a sign? Is the sign the girl pulling your head up away from their kitty?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Seems, people are reading into it that I just want a quick hard fuck, but quite the contrary.....I want a long, hard, slow pumping action....all sexual postions... What I seem to get is endless forplay...a few pumps and we're done....lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
To have all those choices.Hmmm which one will I have tonight...The one who gives me oral for hours on end, or the one who gives me the hot slamming....Now lemme seee...eeny meeny miney mo...One of each, alternately, orBoth at once (probably achievable with some gymnastics)Maybe flip a coin.Could it be that what you are really saying is that you have trouble expressing what you want and asking for it without feeling like you might offend? Focusliaison's column on communication could be applicable here
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'scorpius4113' Wow. Im going to find a mod to delete all my spam. Not sure how or what that happened, but it sure is annoying. Perhaps something to do with XP on a laptop? These things are generally due to IO error.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The only foreplay for most men is to have their cock and balls sucked! I refuse now to give ANY head unless he licks my pussy and gives it a good licking! I like my pussy to be warmed up and nice and wet before he sticks his cock in...it is all about the build up to the point that you just scream for their cock to be deep inside you! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Monkey24' Mmmmm one thing I can say is Ilove giving oral to females. Nothing better then feeling a lady shuddered as they are climaxing. I gave mammabear69 oral for hours and she loved every minute of it. Cant wait to do it again.oh babe now they all know who my fuckbuddy is lol but hay u r all mine n i cant wait to do it again with u 2...mmmmmmmmmmm got to say u r who u said u were n when u stay with me all night well u r going to get it n more.but u forgot to say that we fucked 4 4hrs straight...must say i did love ever minute of it..n u get me wet just thinking of u.cant wait to c u again...oh n ppl monkey n i even had my hubby join in.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'mammabear69 you lucky girl. Oral for hours with the Monkey. Did you want to give us your assessment ? xxMeekaok love he did get me going n cant wait til he does it to me again. i have never had a guy that can give my oral like monkey did..woow he still go me smiling
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Quoting 'MistressT' I enjoy being woken in the early hours of the morning by my partner for a quickie with no preamble. Sometimes all you need is a bit of a flirt and a quick kiss. MissT now you can only ever hope for such efficiency in marriage, And all you people out there that have something against marriage - look what you're missing out on! My partner and I are not married and we have no intention of doing so. We aren't missing out on a thing!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe it has to due with reading your partner and simply understanding what makes it all work...a little give and take? I wonder if by the time you were ready to go again, you know when Roger gives Jessica a thorough rabbiting...maybe then you might slow down the pace and all things come to those who...|...go for it! |Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl' These things are generally due to IO error. |Yes ma'am...a classic ID-Ten-T or IO sys ops error, just write the first one down and only click on submit once.|Someone has their eye on you. Maybe watching the keyboard might help. huh?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sounds like you need to engage a decent tag team. :PHUgsStalky
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jessica321'Seems, people are reading into it that I just want a quick hard fuck, but quite the contrary.....I want a long, hard, slow pumping action....all sexual postions... What I seem to get is endless forplay...a few pumps and we're done....lol. Quoting 'xFunlovingx' The only foreplay for most men is to have their cock and balls sucked! I refuse now to give ANY head unless he licks my pussy and gives it a good licking! I like my pussy to be warmed up and nice and wet before he sticks his cock in...it is all about the build up to the point that you just scream for their cock to be deep inside you! What you are finding Jess is a very excited guy having to hold on for so long during foreplay that he can't any longer when you need him to. I see the scenario as plenty of foreplay for you to get you off a couple of times then plenty of sucking for him to get him off too. After that he should be "good to go" at it with you at whatever pace you want for quite a while until you both get off again together, hopefully with you being able to many times in the process. How does that sound for you ? ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry to let the cat out of the bag mammabear69, but nothing bette rthan giving you oral. Cant wait to catch up again soon
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mammabear69' Quoting 'Monkey24' Mmmmm one thing I can say is Ilove giving oral to females. Nothing better then feeling a lady shuddered as they are climaxing. I gave mammabear69 oral for hours and she loved every minute of it. Cant wait to do it again.oh babe now they all know who my fuckbuddy is lol but hay u r all mine n i cant wait to do it again with u 2...mmmmmmmmmmm got to say u r who u said u were n when u stay with me all night well u r going to get it n more.but u forgot to say that we fucked 4 4hrs straight...must say i did love ever minute of it..n u get me wet just thinking of u.cant wait to c u again...oh n ppl monkey n i even had my hubby join in. Oh how sweet... Can you get hubby to type for you next time?
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is why i like the girl to be in charge. She knows what she wants and all she needs to do is tell me what to do, and how to do it in a way that pleases her.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Awww, fionabee, u cant just throw an opinion over all men and just assume we all only wanna get our dicks wet and are just padding our profileswith the lingus praise because i am and have always been a guy that loves to play down town for a while and at least get the lady "relaxed" before we move things along and pick up the pace as im a real fan of the moaning and the movement and everything that goes along with that
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Monkey24' Sorry to let the cat out of the bag mammabear69, but nothing bette rthan giving you oral. Cant wait to catch up again soonoh babe i cant wait to c u again n give it to u 4 hrs i loved it when u gave me oral i want u again n again n again...mmmm.niceeeeeeeeee..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Sting63'Awww, fionabee, u cant just throw an opinion over all men and just assume we all only wanna get our dicks wet and are just padding our profileswith the lingus praise because i am and have always been a guy that loves to play down town for a while and at least get the lady "relaxed" before we move things along and pick up the pace as im a real fan of the moaning and the movement and everything that goes along with that Heard it all before. *yawn*
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'Sting63'Awww, fionabee, u cant just throw an opinion over all men and just assume we all only wanna get our dicks wet and are just padding our profileswith the lingus praise because i am and have always been a guy that loves to play down town for a while and at least get the lady "relaxed" before we move things along and pick up the pace as im a real fan of the moaning and the movement and everything that goes along with that Heard it all before. *yawn* Well Sting , you just have to feel sorry for her , the men shy can get now , must be pretty bad. That whats shy always telling people anyway .
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Hotsexycouple88' Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'Sting63'Awww, fionabee, u cant just throw an opinion over all men and just assume we all only wanna get our dicks wet and are just padding our profileswith the lingus praise because i am and have always been a guy that loves to play down town for a while and at least get the lady "relaxed" before we move things along and pick up the pace as im a real fan of the moaning and the movement and everything that goes along with that Heard it all before. *yawn* Well Sting , you just have to feel sorry for her , the men shy can get now , must be pretty bad. That whats shy always telling people anyway . You may just not like the back lash.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You all taste different, I guess it's a chemical thing but the woman I have now I could lick for hours (well, 30 mins or so), I can't get enough of that soft flesh pressing on my lips & tongue. The feeling and the taste drives me crazy. I'm not interested in fucking until she's come, after that she's a whole lot more juicy and passionate. Cleanliness is important, if it's a clean sweet pussy, expect it to be well explored, you always get back in spades what you give... Thinking sexy thoughts while I'm doing it always seems to bring her to the boil quicker, or maybe the time passes faster. Remember not to breath through your mouth when doing it in the shower, I almost choked on sat night...too funny, you should have been there;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' The only foreplay for most men is to have their cock and balls sucked! I refuse now to give ANY head unless he licks my pussy and gives it a good licking! I like my pussy to be warmed up and nice and wet before he sticks his cock in...it is all about the build up to the point that you just scream for their cock to be deep inside you! xFunlovingx I totally, uttery, 100% couldn't agree more with funloving on this one. Boys - take note of this one if you ever get with the girly. Girly. xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well my last romp ,the foreplay lasted about 45/60 mins , and that was 50/50 each way, i have no problem spending ages down there, whats the point of getting your dick wet and then its all over . Nothing better than watching and feeling your partners body quiver uncontrollably until shes comes.
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'Sting63'Awww, fionabee, u cant just throw an opinion over all men and just assume we all only wanna get our dicks wet and are just padding our profileswith the lingus praise because i am and have always been a guy that loves to play down town for a while and at least get the lady "relaxed" before we move things along and pick up the pace as im a real fan of the moaning and the movement and everything that goes along with that Heard it all before. *yawn* While I understand FB that this has happened to you, I still have to agree with Sting due to the fact that you have not tried all of the men on here. There would be some of us (me included) who are serious and dedicated to a woman's pleasure first because karma dictates we will recieve ours in due course and it is their memories, not ours, of a pleasurable encounter which will have them ask us back for more. But I do have to correct Sting a little...it is not just to get her "relaxed"...it should go way further than that Besides, just like women don't all like being painted by men with the same generalisation, neither do those few of us men who are genuine. ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
ladies, it's called femfresh or any other manner of names. I am sure if you all took a little cleansing to heart you will find guys have no qualms about diving it, but frankly it is surprising how many pussies have not had a decent clean for what must be days as they smell like rotting vegetation at times. I am sure the same applies for guys as well. The best way to get a guy chomping down hard is to present it fresh and rosey not like some garbage dump in suburbia. And that applies to everyone. Akso, if you take a leak before engaging, please 'wash it'.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Hotsexycouple88' Well Sting , you just have to feel sorry for her , the men shy can get now , must be pretty bad. That whats shy always telling people anyway . If that is your only comment for this thread I don't know why you bothered.
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RHP User
14 years ago
OK, so there are a few rumblings of discontent in the bedroom. So, then I ask myself a few questions - what was the breif? Did you discuss the must haves and the hard limits? I overheard a guy talking on a plane recently. He said if I tell my kids to go and clean there room then they perform below the required standard.... if I go into the room and tell them I need you to remove all of your dirty clothes, put your shoes away, tidy the book shelf, make your bed and vaccum the floor then you get the desired result. It makes sense... if you give clear instructions and form a mutual understanding of the 'mission' you are half way there. I don't mind a bit of constructive criticism relating to my performance, so to test the waters I surveyed a RHP friend post romp to better understand her needs.... it was a 1 - 5 Star rating - including oral - missionary - doggie - on the side - pounding - hair pulling - verbal com - spanking - fingering -... etc .... I should add that I said if you give all 5's then I have no room for improvement :( and I will need to understand what I did that was so fantastic.... There are a few natural questions that you should include if your going to conduct a survey... such as: "number of times you came?" "would you like to cum again soon? ... ok how soon?" "is there anything that you would like to try that we haven't yet covered" I think she was honest ..... let me know what you think :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have had guys that like to lick for hours but very few of them got it right no matter how much guidance or encouragement I provided. Enthusiasm is no substitute for technique and finesse.
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RHP User
14 years ago
So what technique does work for you? For me it's about finding the right groove & sticking to it, break the rhythm & you're back to square one. Then when the signs of involuntary titching start to appear, get more intense but don't start freestlying. Then when you know she's about to pop, do whatever you like, nothing is going to stop it so have some fun!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'fitnmature48' ladies, it's called femfresh or any other manner of names. I am sure if you all took a little cleansing to heart you will find guys have no qualms about diving it, but frankly it is surprising how many pussies have not had a decent clean for what must be days as they smell like rotting vegetation at times. I am sure the same applies for guys as well. The best way to get a guy chomping down hard is to present it fresh and rosey not like some garbage dump in suburbia. And that applies to everyone. Akso, if you take a leak before engaging, please 'wash it'. Then how come some will actually spend hours and hours there and others give it a quick lick or two just to say they have? It has nothing to do with lack of cleanliness in my department. I always pay particular attention to such things. I also make sure that I have the right ph balance to eliminate any nasty odours. My ex would happily spend hours down there and playfriends I have met on different sites have no issue as well. This seems to be a particular problem to the men I have met from this site only....inspite of all the claims to the contrary. No wonder we women no longer believe them. I also find it is often the same with wanting a prolonged pounding. Sometimes is is all about just the fucking. The OP is right on here. Men want to spend more time mucking about now than what they used to in days past. Maybe it has a lot to do with the advent of the internet and the readily availabe access to porn. Real men need to realise that porn is not real. JMO
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'fitnmature48' Men want to spend more time mucking about now than what they used to in days past. Maybe it has a lot to do with the advent of the internet and the readily availabe access to porn. Real men need to realise that porn is not real. JMO I think its more of a case, everywhere you turn and everything you read all you hear is " men dont spend enough time on foreplay" so what are we suppose to do , pardon the pun but were fucked if we do and fucked if we dont , pretty well a no win situtation, unless there is mutal understanding as to what you expect before you begin. Ive had partners refuse to let me go down there until they felt relaxed ,even though i was gagging for it, but they inturn had no hesitation about blowing me of !!! , you cant blame porn for everything , i thing the so called giirly magazines cleo etc etc have a lot to answer for in there expections of the guys.Shit even in mens health magazines they have sections where females are commenting on what they want in bed , and guess what they want MORE foreplay. We have unfortunaly all been lured into the huge internet /media circus where we are being told this is how its done and this is how you should do it and we all follow like sheep, where in fact everyone of us is vastly different, maybe only slightly ,but different in what we need to experince pleasure and satisfaction
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'safariray' We have unfortunaly all been lured into the huge internet /media circus where we are being told this is how its done and this is how you should do it and we all follow like sheep, where in fact everyone of us is vastly different, maybe only slightly ,but different in what we need to experince pleasure and satisfaction Well said. Anyway, life is too short for baaaaaad sex!
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RHP User
14 years ago
well wtf!!.... us gals been bitching for years that we want guys to warm us up and get the motor reving before they " rodger" us...(hopefully silly!!... LOL!!!) ..... and now you are complaining of too muck ???... girl, take the foreplay for as long as you can ....then make him fuck you again and again till either youve had enough.... or he croaks it ....
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RHP User
14 years ago
i havn't read all the replies. but if you just want a jolly RODGERING, RODGER DODGER. you just need to look in the right places. cos ask my missus, sometimes i can foreplay for ages, but most times i forget, because she just wants a good RODGERING... or i forget cos i can't wait. but all in all the cosmic balance is relatively stable. but then again ... maybe no-one has made you cum purely with forplay. what an experience that could be??? leave you with that thought. maybe you might be going to the maqarade party in adelaide. and maybe you might stay at 65 hindley street (grand chancellor) or holiday inn as it is on the internet. we feel for you. did you pick up on the hint ???
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well all I can say is I get and enjoy plenty of foreplay and oral,(trouble is I couldnt hang on for hours of oral as I come off very quickly when my clit has a good tongue on it),he gets plenty of foreplay and oral,and I get a good shagging when I am ready for it nothing to complain about here
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RHP User
14 years ago
but you should always pleasure the girl first ALWAYS
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