Trust

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i had an encounter with a rhp lady some time ago...we had chatted for ages...never met...but the night we did meet she arrived at the hotel room and waiting on the door for her was blindfold that she had to put on before i let her into the room. WOW, what a night..we had a ball...i tied her to a chair and the bed...i undressed her very slowly....she had many orgasms and let me do lots of fun things to her... eventually i took her blindfold off and the fun and games continued...mmmmmm...great night, great memories, would love to do it again

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  The boys like to please us but if they love us they are always worried about going to hard or hurting us. It takes practise & communication to find the right balance! Love the mix too & LOVE being spanked & throttled. mmmm I would have to trust a guy alot to let him tie me up. One of the bonuses of playing with a hubby or regular partner is that I can let strangers tie me up, because I know he wont let things get out of hand. I trust Mr H to look after me. We havnt done it yet...but its on my list! Mr H doesnt spank hard enough or long enough, he keeps getting distracted...lol Spank on!!! Mrs H xxx *SLAP*

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Know exactly what you mean! I dont think I could go completely into the scene but looking forward to finding someone who lusts after me but doesnt love me...Im lucky that Mr H doesnt think its strange & is happy to endulge me! Love the sting! And dont get me started on the rush that getting my tatts gives me! mmmm xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Trust is definitely very important .you are putting yourself in a vulnerable position you have to have trust,or as other have said a watcher who u can trust .men being to frightened to hurt or frighten women and they love us they are always worried about going to hard or hurting us.i have not had this problem so far in my life . communication ,practise ,safe words, etc .i think with a connection and trust u know how far and hard to go before pleasure turns into pain . we have a bit of every thing ,hard ,soft ,romantic etc .variety is the spice of life .i'm happy to see others like and enjoy this kind of play .but back to the question .So my question is this... How much do you have to trust a playmate before you will let them do such things to you? Like being tied up, made to beg for sexual favors, being held down and spanked, being made to do embarrising things (that you gave them permission to do to you). Who else likes this kind of sexual play?u have to trust them with your life ,a very high level of trust and know them well .there are a lot of strange and dangerous people in the world ,so one has to be careful.u wouldn't let a guy or girl or a group of them do stuff to you with out someone watching over you ,if u had only just met them .that's just crazy .

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Obviously I have huge trust issue. It just aint gonna happen here. No tying me up Na huh! No spanking (I have a mean right hook and WILL use it if hurt) BEGGING FOR SEX? Not bloody likely. I would rather do it myself than humiliate myself by begging. Fionabee

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Its ok Sweetiepie...I like the gutter too . And I agree Fionabee. Mr H and I have been together for 11 years, so I trust him to take care of me. It would be very different if I was venturing out alone. That said, being held on his lap (though I dont know if I would fit as well as Taby would...lol) and being spanked is a good compromise! Safe & Stingy! mmmmm

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