Unwanted Messages

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  You are under no obligation to reply to anyone on here. Under "Messager Settings", you can set up quick message replies. Im the Queen of them and have heaps, depending on the message/s I receive. Just recently I did a total mind fuck message reply, to "OOPS I think I did it Again" (#FreeBrittany), and the twit still didn't get it! No matter what you say or do people have their own agendas and their minds are made up. They do it, because they can. Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  Sometimes, even just a witty "no thanks" reply, is enough to set yourself up for an abusive reply, because you've rejected them. Some (not all), just can't handle a that, because they believe under the impression free roots are handed out free willy on here. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind free Willy as long as he's humble, elegant and full of substance. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  We really can't relate to this unwanted message thing, we've asked single males not to message us and they never do.

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Wouldn’t the messages go to your “all conversations” folder and not your “matching” folder? That’s how it works for me, so I only see unwanted messages if I go looking for them. In which case of course the simple solution is to only check your “matching” folder and have that set as your default.

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  I’m a single guy on here (just joined here recently) and I thought if you match then what’s wrong with sending a message? If you have listed on your profile that your interested in men, and then you have no single males then you should probably update your profile

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  Mrs_Deep_Love

  4 years ago

  I think couples put it on their profile because other couples do, a bit like the universities and other research facilities empty threat of legal action spiel couples put at the end of their profiles.

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  pieadventures

  4 years ago

  I had this discussion with my play partner the other day and maybe there needs to be a new acronym developed of RMFP: Read my f#cking profile! 😉

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  There are far too many single guys. In order to get a response they have to message 100's of people regardless if they are a match or not. I am a single guy on here but I am also married in an open relationship. I take the opposite approach, I actually rarely message women. I state on my profile that if a lady finds me of interest she should indicate with a message, like or a fav. My profile doesn't get heaps of messages but that's not also what I'm looking for. I already have my special partner, everything else is fun so I look for quality interactions with quality people only.

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  I count my lucky stars that I get minimal attention. I surely feel like my profile is read better than my posts 😂

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  I had a nice message recently, even though my profile clearly states it’s a business… ‘love your pics, would love to see more’ Thanks, there are plenty on Instagram. Which launched a non stop tirade about how he was an adult and didn’t have to lower himself to childish endeavours such as Instagram. I recommended he try it, it’s mainly pictures and he wouldn’t have to worry about reading profiles like people should on here, before they message people. That was enough to get him to lose control and get him banned from RHP for abuse. Just because we have a profile on here, are kinky, love sex or, you know, are just women, it does not mean we owe anyone a response, photos, entertainment or anything that seems to be the general expectations the majority of people have. Whatever happened to being respectful of people’s wishes on their profiles? It’s why we make an effort for them, to save miscommunication and to avoid wasting anyone’s time. It’s called communication. Read a profile first, learn about the person and see if you have anything common. This ‘any hole will do’ attitude is disgusting. Have some standards.

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