Validation - does it really matter?

July 25 2011

sex

Hey all this is my first thread so you all be nice. I have been on rhp for nearly a month and have had the fortune to meet some really great, fun people on here. So what if all those great, fun people haven't given you validation? Should i take this on board and think well i musn't be their cup of tea, or the sex was no good? This has been irritating me for a bit. Do people really read the validations when they are making a decision whether or not to meet up with someone new? Am i just overthinking it i mean its not like i am in a drought or anything. Plenty of water and an abundance of seamen, Lol.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Does not count one little iota. In fact it can work against you. If you have 15 young studs all validate you.....it is like marking your territory really isnt it? I rarely, if ever look at validations. I dont want to know where he has been before me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Validations not so much. Verifications... most definetly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' Does not count one little iota. In fact it can work against you. If you have 15 young studs all validate you.....it is like marking your territory really isnt it? I rarely, if ever look at validations. I dont want to know where he has been before me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i have validated you, just needs approval :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Don't mean a thing...I have had guys ask me to validate them BEFORE meeting them and have heard this happen to other girls too! I do look at validations to see where they have been before and if I read..."Can't wait to meet up with him again"....I pass....He is already getting regular sex...I would rather give it to someone that ain't getting it (haha)! I did the mistake of validating a guy...but luckily the girls that were interested in him had contacted me and I told them the truth (as he was sitting next to me as I validated him)! RHP should put up a link so that you can unvalidate someone! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Validations don't matter so much... But I do read them if people have them. If they have more than 4, I start to wonder whether we really want to be going there... I mean - sure, they might have been here for 4years and had 1 validation per year... but still, makes them look like they're very "busy", and I feel more inclined to look for someone else who isn't a "swings every weekend" type! Having said that, if we meet someone and play, I expect them to put up a validation - if they were happy and satified with us and our experience together. We are pretty picky about who we play with though, and get to know them abit first, to ensure that any experience we might have together - will go as well as it possibly can. Verification, on the other hand - is an ABSOLUTE MUST! It tells us that you're real... We're definitly wary of those who are unverified. (MRS)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    why is verification so important? is it for everyone?it's not like there can be a fake male profile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sorry folks but I think verification also means diddlysquat. I can sit here at my laptop, take a pic with it and get verified. How does that tell anyone that I am real? All it means is that I can take a pic on webcam and post it. Yay!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yeah, but try doing that with a picture that isn't yours. Not quite so easy - which is the point of verification.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'GonzosDilemma'Yeah, but try doing that with a picture that isn't yours. Not quite so easy - which is the point of verification. That I am who I say I am. Or that I had a ring in to pose for the pic.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think its funny as i only get flirts and no one acctuallys messages me hahahahahahahahahhahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'realfun2221' I think its funny as i only get flirts and no one acctuallys messages me hahahahahahahahahhahaha maybe your profile pic has something to do with it........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Don't mean a thing...I have had guys ask me to validate them BEFORE meeting them and have heard this happen to other girls too! I do look at validations to see where they have been before and if I read..."Can't wait to meet up with him again"....I pass....He is already getting regular sex...I would rather give it to someone that ain't getting it (haha)! I did the mistake of validating a guy...but luckily the girls that were interested in him had contacted me and I told them the truth (as he was sitting next to me as I validated him)! RHP should put up a link so that you can unvalidate someone! xFunlovingx I had a similar issue with one guy....I politely asked the moderators to remove my validation (after having explained the situation) which they did....there are ways around it . KIsses Focus