RHP

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Validations..

June 22 2010

Just wondering whether those who have been validated have more success than those who have not? I have validated two or three guys and was wondering whether it works in helping them with attracting other women? Do other women prefer to be with someone who is validated, as each person likes different things anyway, so not sure if it assists? I guess it is good for assessing whether a person will turn up, and are actually genuine.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    dont' mean a thing to me. I have had some guys want me to validate them, even though we never met. Also I remember this girl wrote to me from another State asking me to take her friend off block (annoying arsed male who flirted and sent so many messages in one day), anyhoooo she and I got talking and it turns out they never met...yet she wrote a validation for him on how hot and sexy he was in bed!! For me personally, I want to know what a guy is like in bed for myself...I wouldn't take another girls word for it...after all...we are all different and have different tastes and love different yummy things done to our body. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lolz... I've got validation! Hey pick me... pick me.. hehe. Meah, I haven't noticed any difference... sniff sniff. hehe. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You know it is becoming almost useless. I too know of folk who validate for only having chatted to someone !!!!! "I sorta kinda well mighta think shazza is an kinda fairly good chick (on a monday after she's had a few drinkies) I think or so she said I should say on this validation" Aghhhhhhhhh Head goes bang on wall Head goes bang on wall Head goes bang on wall....... repeat !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Why did I spend all that time meeting the people I have validations from ??????? Ahhhhhhhh..................................... ok now I remember !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    validation...not because i want to say how lucky i have been...because i want to say how special i think that person is...and i want everyone to know how special she is...any validations i send come from my heart...and my soul...cheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Validate when asked too by the person involved if I had met them, I would not expect anyone to validate me...I wanna speak for myself I tink.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It would help I'm sure. It helps build a sort of reputation for reliability. One of the things that people regularly say about guys here is that they're unreliable and that they never turn up for meets (this doesn't go for all guys obviously) but by validating them you help identify which ones are genuinely up for fun as opposed to the ones that fantasise about being up for fun. With the two levels of validation here you can make an informed decision about who you meet up with. RHP validation; you are who you say you are, and MEMBER validation; you act like you say you act. Validation, I don't think, is such a specific thing as to say a guy/ girl/ couple is good or bad, as you say, each person likes different things anyways, a sentiment shared with xFunLovingX. BUT you can say that a person is real and who they say they are, even if they don't meet your expectations. I reckon people validating people they haven't met just defeats the purpose!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I only ever gave one person a validation. The dude was a whole heap of fun to errr... hang with, well natured, intelligent, a seriously good sport about stuff and we had a hoot tag teaming some bitches. I don't know why people give validations if they've never met. That just seems innapropriate. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think validation should indicate that someones profile is accurate... why lie? you will only disappoint if you meet up with someone and they were expecting someone/something else.