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Validations and sharing cams

February 23 2013

Just wanting to know how much do women rely on seeing a guy on cam or seeing him with another girl does it then make him real more available so to speak??? I've noticed guys wanting to meet up just to be seen on your cam in the chat rooms. Also validation do we believe what we read or is half made up from just chatting in the room?? I know many a guy that suddenly were in the hot contacts list now but they sure weren't that hot a profile a few months back. I know I like to see a guy on cam but that doesn't make him any better until I've met him and judged for myself ... So is this just to get the younger girls in there loop? Anyone else had these thoughts? And how do you delete a validation ?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

Deleting a Validation: I wanted a validation removed once and wrote to RHP Admin and explained why I wanted it removed and it was gone by the next day! . Validations mean nothing to me, actually alot of them are a turn off the way they are written! . I won't meet up with anyone without seeing them on cam and them seeing me on cam! xFunlovingx

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RHP User

13 years ago

Yes I have had guys ask me if they can come over and fuck me on cam when I play with myself on cam..Would I do it? Yep....but not under my profile name! It's funny how they back off when you ask them to do it under their profile name! You seem to never hear from them again....UNTIL...I next play on cam of course! xFunlovingx

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MrPrimal84

13 years ago

Hhhmmm I'd be more then happy to fuck you under my profile on cam miss funloving ;) Xxx

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JessicaRabbit

13 years ago

Id probably find it a turn off if i knew the guy was just playing on cam with another girl to try and 'raise his profile'. No one wants to feel like one in a long line of conquests either. I do like reading validations, however. Even if the way that they are written is a bit off its still a good indication that they will actually meet. Don't like overly sexual ones though because, again, it sounds a lot like boasting to me and some things should be kept between the two (or three or four or more!) participating people. Dida Xx- Posted from rhpmobile

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WHY_NOT_LOOK

13 years ago

Thanks for your input yeah I agree validations are really more of a yes they will turn up for a date... And as far as guys on my cam or me on there's I doubt it will ever happen again ... Loose faith in friends on here yet again back to the real world for awhile- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

We all see things differently and from different views. Validations show me what they are saying the person is validated to have actually met,I always go to the validators profile to make sure it's not a fake profile. As for being on my cam or another's cam I am yet to do this myself but if I see it I don't judge those doing so. It is a sex site and if those two people want to put on a show let them and if or if they want to show who they are playing with let them it's their choice you don't have to watch. Just because someone is willing to play with some on cam or validate some one doesn't mean they can't keep a secret.I am sure both parties agree to the validation and that not everyone wants a validation so they don't validate those people.- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

I like validations because it at least helps differentiate fakes from reals, but I do know some profiles that give validations without having met.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I have met 10 or 11 people from here - not all for sex. I have no validations, nor have i given any. I personally find some validations a bit gross. I get that they are supposed to show that a person is who/what they say they are, but whenever I read a validation that just makes me think 'sloppy seconds'I dont want someone else's used and discarded toy! (in the form of a human) sure we all have a past, and have past lovers, but I dont need to know what they did and who they did it with. People who know what theyre doing must have learnt it from somewhere, and practised to perfect it, I dont care how.Getting back to the topic point, If hes with another girl on cam it makes him LESS available to me. I wont meet without cam in the chat room, messaging a bit first (yes ping pong. deal with it) then that may or may not progress to skype/phone number/hotmail/facebook... whatever. I think only 1 person actually has all of that.

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enange63

13 years ago

Weve met many and played with some over an extended time on this fabulous site, we neither give nor receive validations.To us, a quick hi on webcam is just common sense, shows that we are all real and its also nice to see how people react to a chat, a funny line etc.Sadened by the closing of msn :(

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WHY_NOT_LOOK

13 years ago

Hey no i love watching cams whatever there doing wont offend me at all...the more the merrier ... i was meaning to show that they meet others not even to do anything on cam.... I dated a guy from here years ago we both loved to cam, but as soon as we were on the same one his messages and flirts would start and some girls didn't give up the chase then... It was fine by me at the time as we were not serious and if we were then id be pissed off id say... its happened with another girl on here to the point she stopped meeting anyone....I have validated people Ive meet but never state what we have done ect just that there the real deal

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RHP User

13 years ago

I deleted a few recently and only kept the one that was completely non-sexual. To remove validations yourself, go to 'My lists', click on 'My validations', click on 'Approved', then 'Remove".

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platinumblonde69

13 years ago

My thoughts exactly. Just because you click with someone and you validate them doesnt mean your a sex machine and going to click with everyone you meet. I like validation to be non sexual to verify a person is true to their profile.Plat

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