RHP

RHP User

M54 F49

Verified profile

April 04 2017

Had a lady asking why our profile wasn't verified. Apparently it's not about us but it's about her and if it's not verified then "she has to assume we're a single guy".....seriously?.....the question wasn't neutral but actually worded quite rude. Do people really use it as a reference?...We gain contact then move to another medium to find out about each other.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm totally new to all this...but having fun! I suppose that being verified brings some sense of trust, and knowing that you are willing to be open before expecting someone to "reach out and touch" you by giving you their contact information. I'm sure most people - especially women - want some sense of safety before letting go, if even a little bit. Like I said, I'm totally new to this, but have submitted my verification request and awaiting for it to be approved. I really don't think it is an unreasonable expectation! IMHO.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    9 years ago

    There are plenty "couples" in here, who are not really couples but rather single guys. Some are genuinely single whilst others have a couples profile on here without the wife/girlfriend knowing about it. There are also many males posing as females. Verification, by admin, does help weed out the fakes but is not 100% accurate. Many people become frustrated by the high number of fake profiles on here, and like us (and the unicorn who contacted you) now prefer to only deal with verified profiles. Verification is a really easy, quick process. Most of us now have smartphones with cameras and so there really is no excuse not to be verified by admin. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • cccouple8

    cccouple8

    9 years ago

    Are often just the guy. It's really easy to get you profile verified and prove you're a real couple. Gives others peace of mind. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ...to verify your profile on this site and not a bad idea, male or female. Add in Meander's comments and you've a nutshell overview as to why. I agree that talking on the phone is the next natural step in the process of screening however once again as a couple, be sure you do talk to both. LOL... there are even quite a few profiles here that on surface look quite ''female'' however they are just trolls! I'm rather pedantic about hygiene too however no one is ''always in the shower''. Best......... CM

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Heck, now I'm almost wanting this excuse, so I could ask them to go to the bathroom, so the lady of the couple could say a hello from the shower - it's not video phoning after all. I'd like to see how creative they could get with excuses. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    If I'm in the bathroom you may need to speak up as I'm wearing a towel. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    The yellow light comes on. Doesn't rule someone out with me but l proceed with caution and that procedure becomes time consuming and sometimes the unverified person/s become a little annoyed at the hoops they have to jump through. It not hard to verify yourself so why not. Takes a few minute

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    9 years ago

    But nope , not anymore ,have yet to meet an unverified couple or women ,agree with others it's not hard ,it doesn't cost ,if you can't ,don't get shitty ,cos if you do ,trust me kiss that one goodbye and can fuck right off ,damn think yourself lucky she contacted you and go get verified ,that is if you can , Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It's a simple process and gives peace of mind to anyone communicating with you that you are a couple. There are plenty of people in here who are not what their profile states they are and it's highly likely she's only taking precautions. The choice to verify your profile is yours to make but there are no disadvantages to it. 😊

  • itsjustsex13

    itsjustsex13

    9 years ago

    We have sent the stuff to verify our but for some reason it didnt get done and really have just not worried about trying again We have also met killerh and can assure people they are a real couple and very sexy and fun couple to boot . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    I am going to buck the trend. I've been on this site for a number of years, and have never bothered with verification. And if you want me to jump through hoops to prove (prior to meeting) that I am single and female via a simple pic sent to the site, we're not going to get get on well. I have enough friends, have been mentioned in many forum posts in a manner which indicates I have street cred (AKA... HAVE BEEN MET, AND BEEN POSITIVELY IDENTIFIED AGAINST MY PROFILE!), and post the odd comment or two in the forums lol, oh...a couple of validations as well last time I checked. If that is not enough for people to establish I am legit, or they can't use the tools available on this site to look for clues themselves then, again, we're not going to get on well. For example...a nice couple I have chatted to...well its not going any further. They want to talk on the phone to establish I am indeed female, I don't give put my number prior to meeting people. They want verification, I don't do it. Their loss. Oh, I just remebered a perfect example for this thread! Awhile ago I chatted with another "couple" who seemed fantastic, very enthusiastic about meeting them, and did so on the basis of them being verified. Ha! They had been separated for over a year, only HE turned up. Reported it, but jeez folks, don't be so trusting of a easily rorted system!

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    I am going to buck the trend. I've been on this site for a number of years, and have never bothered with verification. And if you want me to jump through hoops to prove (prior to meeting) that I am single and female via a simple pic sent to the site, we're not going to get get on well. I have enough friends, have been mentioned in many forum posts in a manner which indicates I have street cred (AKA... HAVE BEEN MET, AND BEEN POSITIVELY IDENTIFIED AGAINST MY PROFILE!), and post the odd comment or two in the forums lol, oh...a couple of validations as well last time I checked. If that is not enough for people to establish I am legit, or they can't use the tools available on this site to look for clues themselves then, again, we're not going to get on well. For example...a nice couple I have chatted to...well its not going any further. They want to talk on the phone to establish I am indeed female, I don't give put my number prior to meeting people. They want verification, I don't do it. Their loss. Oh, I just remembered a perfect example for this thread! Awhile ago I chatted with another "couple" who seemed fantastic, very enthusiastic about meeting them, and did so on the basis of them being verified. Ha! They had been separated for over a year, only HE turned up. Reported it, but jeez folks, don't be so trusting of a easily rorted system!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Ashley Madison was the first thing that came to mind. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Just spent a week up there, hope you guys are ok - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes thank you.....just got services restored where we are.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Certainly believe that there are alot of untrustworthy deceitful men posing as a couple just to get a meet and greet with a unicorn. Also a valid point from Annie about it not being to hard to verify yourself. Cost nothing only your time. Shall do it myself asap... Here lies the problem. Some people lack integrity who are desperate and will do anything possible to get a date.Unfortunately cyber dating has created these trolls that live under bridges and prey on any nieve person passing there way. There are so many ways you can check but also evade and lie. I just say here is my gallery. My face is shown for anyone to see and pic's are current. Have nothing to hide. Not sure why someone would won't to fabricate a profile ? It certainly won't get you anywhere... Apart from a bad name and no action... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm real and I own my profile.pics & words. More then happy for anyone to challenge who i am. I don't have to prove myself to anyone but happy to do so if asked.😉 If anyone thinks I'm a fake check my mobile phone number. It's validated. And as I'm just a guest now & here for the forum's I don't contact people. Not all men are trolls. There are some old school gents with style,witt and class. It's up to you to believe. 😉😊😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    9 years ago

    We are verified but will never demand an unverified profile to share a reason. Depending on how it is asked and after how much interaction. It can be perceived in many ways from just being straight talk to rude and invasion of privacy. Unfortunately even if you feel it is rude you have to answer it or move on because single girl simply have more power.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I just spat my breakfast out over one little porkie pie. Wow aha 😇 Bart Simpson 'I didn't do it. Nobody saw me do it. You can't prove anything'. Oh yes we can. Get yourself/selves verified and own who you really are, simple, anyone who has a problem doing this, it only takes a few minutes, well you do the maths 😉