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August 31 2016
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Two_Tarts
9 years ago
We always take messages more seriously if the profile is verified. There are so many challenges with finding a good match and it can consume a lot of time. At least if people have taken the small amount of time to get their profile verified you have some reassurance that they actually are a couple, that they are both involved on some level, and that they were serious enough to go to the effort.....that just leaves figuring out if they are the right people, and whether you have found them at the right time and place for things to progress further. It is no guarantee of anything, but at least it's a start! xxx
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RHP User
9 years ago
With the contents of their profile.....number of pics, are they reasonably accurate and do they look like the same person... I've chatted with a lady that had a few pics, but unfortunately the breast size seemed to vary....a cup vs d cup kinda thing....
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We feel that if a profile is verified, by RHP admin, there is less chance of it being fake. But of course no quarantee. That said , we look at the profile wording and photos. If there are too many template listings and "ask me's" we generally don't take the profile too seriously. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
is not a must for me. I have been on site for a long time, and initially I was in the chatrooms a fair bit, so in there you soon learnt who was who. Also, I myself did not bother with verification until relatively recently - I just never really saw the point in it (still don't, tbh), but some people just can't seem to steer around it. As mentioned above, look out for discrepancies in what they write down and what you are told, or pictures presented. If someone is intent on being deceptive for whatever reason, verification is not the be all and end all either. Tall
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
To me once you let them know , it says one or two things ,one they are just too lazy or egotesticle to do it ,if it was a cost or hard ,then I would understand but it isn't ,so the red flag goes up ,or 2 not everything is above board ,which we want nothing to do with anyway ,if it's legit ,then I'd exapect a message explaining why ,and possibly move to another platform for all peeps to be involved in eg Kik - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Lol, someone should start a thread with a list of known ,profiles that have been busted , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
But you can be verified, then change your pics and your stats so.....kind of defeats the purpose. Just shows me that the person has gone to some more effort. What Summer said I agree with - language, details, public toilet photos etc are more what I look at.
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' What Summer said I agree with - language, details, public toilet photos etc are more what I look at. Just luurrve your twisted sense of humour, mmm. Tall
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ReyandJean
9 years ago
We look more seriously at verified profiles. Too busy, lazy, insecure to verify indicates to us that they'll be the same about a physical meeting. But we look for the clues SS mentioned, too.
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RHP User
9 years ago
they have not responded to you OP because a message stating you should get verified is too demanding and makes you sound like hard work to be honest. Nobody's got time for that! Easier to move onto the next couple desperately searching for their perfect match/dream. 😄
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RHP User
9 years ago
We are not verified and have no intention to do so for anyone. We do however look for signs to recognise if someone is genuine or not. It is not that hard really. The way people present themselves with words and pictures tells a lot. Phone is helpful too. (Ms)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'boobs_or_bust' To me once you let them know , it says one or two things ,one they are just too lazy or egotesticle to do it ,if it was a cost or hard ,then I would understand but it isn't ,so the red flag goes up ,or 2 not everything is above board ,which we want nothing to do with anyway ,if it's legit ,then I'd exapect a message explaining why ,and possibly move to another platform for all peeps to be involved in eg Kik - Posted from rhpmobile I don't think that is necessarily true many people simply don't want to deal with the risk of putting their face's on a adult website due to hacking. Plenty of them have been hacked in the past (not this one from my knowledge) i've had my details leaked and threatened with blackmail on another website. However i don't have anything to hide so we did verify our account. If you choose not to consider people that are not verified i think you will find that you will have very few meets.Good luck though.
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
But then not everyone has time to keep on attracting dudes just wanting pics ,pretending to be couples either , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'boobs_or_bust' Lol, someone should start a thread with a list of known ,profiles that have been busted , - Posted from rhpmobile "Please do not post anything that defames or villifies. " Right above the text window you will see that.If you simply report them RHP staff take action quite quickly besides in chat word of mouth moves fast enough to curtail to many fakes.
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Supernova
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Deal-breaker: More than one occasion why the female half of the couple cannot speak on the phone (out shopping, tonsillitis, visiting her sick auntie twice removed) The amount of fake female profiles I've caught out for the simple inability to speak on the phone!! if there's always some dodgy excuse, I then know it's probably some 50 year old sad bloke trying to get dick pics out of me. If 'she' cant speak on the phone - massive deal breaker!!!!!
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Check out some profiles of your fellow men and you'll see the public toilet pics are no joke. As that is not my intended target I have not gone to that length, but I will take your word on that.I can't say I agree with their methodology, but to each their own, I s'pose. Maybe a case of what you post is what you attract (or don't).
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
Ok ,never thought of that side of it ,time to change some Thought patterns in the verification thing and go with gut and other indicators , Thanks all , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was verified before but wont verify this profile. We have met a lot of people from Perth, they know we are real so I dont see the need. And I can see now how easy it is to spot fake couples. Received a message from a couple 2 days ago, no pics, lots of ask mes and the message read "Wanna swap some pics then". There are a few profiles on here of people who no one seems to ever have met and that does make me wonder? Anyway, I dont mind if they are verified or not, you can usually tell in other ways if they are genuine.
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RHP User
9 years ago
How would you know if the profiles on here are fake ? I've heard a lot but most seem so real. Lol I've only been on here for a few weeks - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
9 years ago
Significant cpls are unverified and hopefully doing well. Will like to read their views specifically in demand cpls for example young attractive Cpl. One view can be if it is working for me why bother to get verified. Also people may want to remain unverified for reasons not obvious to others. Assuming fake profile is just an obvious reason.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Do very little for me, as I have had negative experiences with men whose profiles are verified! So, like Summer, I go with my gut instinct instead of relying on a little label that says "verified"! 🙄 As my mentor always says to me, watch what they do instead of listening to their words. Hence, my theory about verified profiles is, the Mods can only verify whether or not the people are real, but cannot verify who they are in terms of personality and behaviour. Therefore, I do not give a heaven if a man I meet has his profile verified or not! After all, I have met nice gentlemen whose profiles aren't verified, and complete A-holes whose profiles are verified! 😏 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
That 'problem' gentleman you had recent bad experience with, was he a 'verified' member ?I hope that you have not run into any further similar circumstances. Best wishes,Tall
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sweetgem
9 years ago
No, he isn't, and he is a real person, just a real scumbag that's all 😠 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
9 years ago
If you ain't got nothing nice to say , then don't say anything at all. I've come across verified ppl who I found very unlike what their verification had to say . But rather than say something untoward , I just move on and leave well enough alone. Maybe the verifier seen something different .. Who knows ? Ive never ask for or been asked for a verification, it doesn't even enter my mind. But still ' I've meet some really great ppl who are still friends . I think that says something..
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
I'm pretty sure all the men claiming to be men are men , and don't need to be verified, can't see a women or couple hiding behind a mans profile, but that Could be an awesome sneaky cover ,lol,I was always referring to couples when it came to being verified - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I do prefer verified but tend to not really specifically check unless i"m already suspicious of someone. If stuff is not adding up and its not verified then i'm out. I did ask one person to verify and they did - so that made me feel more at ease :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Hotstepper85' Quoting 'Summersolstice' Deal-breaker: More than one occasion why the female half of the couple cannot speak on the phone (out shopping, tonsillitis, visiting her sick auntie twice removed) The amount of fake female profiles I've caught out for the simple inability to speak on the phone!! if there's always some dodgy excuse, I then know it's probably some 50 year old sad bloke trying to get dick pics out of me. If 'she' cant speak on the phone - massive deal breaker!!!!! interesting - I wont speak on the phone purely because I wont give my number out to someone I don't yet know in real life and I dont like speaking on the phone. I've also experienced issues with giving my number out then being harassed with phone calls and messages well after I've lost interest and my phone does not have the ability to block numbers (trust me I've looked into it) I don't want to have to change my number due to giving it to the wrong person but I'm certainly real as some of the other forum members would be able to attest to. To be fair- there are so many single blokes on here that if I don't want to give out my number - I dont have to . Not trying to be rude but just pointing out that not speaking on the phone doesn't always indicate that a person isn't real . Of course each to their own and if that's how you choose to filter people then that's your call (pun intended)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was going to say what summer said, I think you mean validations which are different op I had my profile verified eventually, but left it unverified for a very long time. Why? Because I know I'm real and I supply shit loads of photos showing all of me, including my face, a very detailed written part, if they can't trust from that, particularly when all I get in return is one or two pictures at best, usually not showing their whole self, then they can take a hike basically. To add to that, I no longer display friends or fb's, some I've been seeing for as long as I've been on the site, about a year and a half, but my profile would appear as though there's no activity, wrong, I just don't display it. There came a time where I saw that as bragging and unnecessary, for me personally, I don't judge other people, but I didn't feel the need to show the world who I was interacting with, so although a profile may appear inactive, not always the case. I also go on instinct, I look at other things, a combination of how they interact, how guarded they are, and the old public toilet pictures lol they are starting to jump out as a red flag. Who needs to take pictures in a public toilet?? But so much more. The ones that try to rush me off the site without allowing me to verify them myself, well they can take a hike too, I'm not stupid but they treat me like I am most of the time. Being verified means your face has been sighted by the website, from there, they can delete and replace with any pictures they like, stolen, borrowed, 20 years old from their youth haha we have no clue. I do use it now as a first point filter, but other filters quickly follow. My experience with fake profiles has been extensive, really bad, on this and other sites, so I always proceed with caution and don't even talk to anyone I don't trust. Way too many stalkers out there. This is the internet and however you choose to check them out, my advice would be to be very careful and never trust they are who they say they are, without using your own checks and intuition/gut feeling
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RHP User
9 years ago
re phone number. I made the mistake of putting my number up on a website when I first started doing this omg I ended up with some very creepy stalkers through that, just wouldn't go away, a year later, they were still trying, never again. Even recently, I had a guy ring about 20 times in a row, I'd hang up, and the phone would ring again, I'd hang up, over and over. I was on a walk at the time and it was really creeping me out. I don't even know who it was because a voice message left was really hard to understand and weird, sounded drunk. I eventually blocked later that night. Did I give him my number? Who knows, but he shouldn't have stalked me like that
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Hushed is the premium second phone number app that lets you separate work or dating from your personal life.Hushed provides high quality calls, text and picture messaging, advanced features and responsive customer support. Download Hushed and get a second line with a new caller ID and voicemail so you can keep your personal number private. Give us a try and we'll give you a starter phone number so you can text and call for free, on us. "Ideal for communicating with anyone you don't necessarily want to have your number, like... on Craigslist or a blind date you're meeting for the first time" Might try is out! I'm sure the IPhone will have something similar. In the past I've had a different phone specifically for online dating, but found it too much trouble. I can understand people who hate talking on the phone though, as I do too. I've actually met more guys I did not speak to beforehand than vice versa.With couples/women it's different though as the risk of being deceived is greater, so I do prefer to hear a female voice first. A simple "Hello, I verify I have a vagina" is enough for me. I tried a similar one a little while ago but it didn't work very well - would be keen to know how this one goes if you try it?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yeah for sure. I was new, a novice, I had no idea how to move into this. Didn't even know about this site at that point and was looking for quick action, I was desperate for action, so I guess my mindset was to give the number, get things happening faster, rookie mistake. I took myself off facebook around the same time or shortly after I think and haven't been back on there since, best thing I ever did. I'd rather be here talking about sex the new app sounds good too, I also would like to try that
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patch4733
9 years ago
I would suspect that this issue is common on all like sites on the internet. We just need to be aware that we have to be careful what we release to others, but, at the end of the day make valued choices. It is not easy. We tend to follow simple rules. No photo, no response. Talk as soon as possible rather than text. Review prospects friends list and arrange to meet those who meet your criteria. Also we take the view that if a person contacts you the least you can do is respond.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Strange, but when I was not verified women answered to me. Once I got verified absolutely zero response. Weird - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The guy you had trouble with, is he from western Sydney? I have had a rotten experience with a guy on here and was wondering if it's the same guy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
How do I verify my account? I'm a newbie and not sure if I have or not. Any advice would be appreciated. Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think verification is a good sign but not worth betting the house on. A more credible indication is whether they are a guest or not I think. Putting your money where your mouth is means more to me. There are many people here who try to take advantage of members by using the 'guest' excuse. Personally I do not think a guest should be able to make any contact. Including the girls.
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Supernova
9 years ago
Quoting 'PoisonIV' Quoting 'Hotstepper85' Quoting 'Summersolstice' Deal-breaker: More than one occasion why the female half of the couple cannot speak on the phone (out shopping, tonsillitis, visiting her sick auntie twice removed) The amount of fake female profiles I've caught out for the simple inability to speak on the phone!! if there's always some dodgy excuse, I then know it's probably some 50 year old sad bloke trying to get dick pics out of me. If 'she' cant speak on the phone - massive deal breaker!!!!! interesting - I wont speak on the phone purely because I wont give my number out to someone I don't yet know in real life and I dont like speaking on the phone. I've also experienced issues with giving my number out then being harassed with phone calls and messages well after I've lost interest and my phone does not have the ability to block numbers (trust me I've looked into it) I don't want to have to change my number due to giving it to the wrong person but I'm certainly real as some of the other forum members would be able to attest to. To be fair- there are so many single blokes on here that if I don't want to give out my number - I dont have to . Not trying to be rude but just pointing out that not speaking on the phone doesn't always indicate that a person isn't real . Of course each to their own and if that's how you choose to filter people then that's your call (pun intended) Or, you could simply call said person with your number on private? Seems a simple enough suggestion, and again I've had that suggestion declined. Why? They cant prove who they are. Simple. Girls you must understand how many fake profiles are on these sites, as a guy I have been tricked before when I was inexperienced on dating sites, and now if a girl cant find ANY WAY to simply prove who they are, I cut them loose quickly. And you would too if you were a guy...believe me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mutualfun05' How do I verify my account? I'm a newbie and not sure if I have or not. Any advice would be appreciated. Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile nice profile The written part about what you're looking for or about yourself, it's awesome, lucky girls who get to spend time with you and you look good too btw
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