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theoxisback14

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Well really that's rude

August 17 2018

I was on this site about 4 years ago and it was really good I met some people and made some friends This time however things seem to have changed.there seems to be a lot more disrespectful people on here,This has happened to me a few times now and it's kind of upset me I've been exchanging messages with a lady and talked about what we did for work names etc.She suggested that we exchange face photos and I agreed because I would like to see who I was talking to so I open up my private gallery with face photos of me{no dick pics or rude ones} and waited for a reply.No reply came so I few days later I clicked on her profile and to my surprise she blocked meNow I can understand why people block others as there's some annoying people on here just like everywhere but if you're exchanging messages and you're making requests then at least have the respect to tell them they're not what you're looking for.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi,. I quess its easy for myself as I have 3 photos so any one can have a look , just no one will find any sexy shots , I,m not sexy enough to be bothered any way and I wont put any up. I dress well and in most shots taken are of myself in Edwardian or German garb. maybe one day I,ll get one or two closer up. as others know I have met members from here any way so I am real. Not many guys would be that interested in me any way, so does not matter .at age 71 not likely . ...noeleena...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I'll say what others here will probably say, which is to just shrug it off and move one. It does piss you rightly off though. I can move on from such things, but usually after a bit of a sulk for a year or three. Unfortunately you just have to go into any possible interaction with anyone on here with low expectations. Expect to get stuffed around and it does sting a little less when it happens.

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Exchange face pics straight up, then save yourselves the drama of a mismatch. That's what i do. Then just politely say, sorry not enough initial attraction for me to persue anything physical with you good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    gave people different options as opposed to old fashioned meeting someone in the street or in library. These kind of sites also gives us anonymity to express ourselves freely but with it comes certain risks, such as coming across people who do not care about pleasantries anymore. If we exchanged messages with people, and our opinion is that we don’t have chemistry. we tend to write back to let them know why we are not interested. If we can keep up with number of messages. When common motive is hedonism, don’t expect much courtesy. It’s the ugly truth. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • theoxisback14

    theoxisback14

    7 years ago

    I’m not to fussed about being told I m not their type,I’ve been on these sites for a long time and I’ve had all sorts of responses. The thing is once someone tells me they’re not interested I’ll leave them alone because I’d just be wasting my time,I never ask for photos unless we’re planning on meeting Oh well it’s definitely not the worst response I’ve had 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    You may in fact leave the other party in peace once they've said no thanks but there is ALOT of men that turn into absolute little Gremlins and begin spitting venom when told the same thing. I block once I say no thanks too, once bitten twice shy and all that jazzz....👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I am not their keeper....as they are not mine... Whatever has motivated them to not reply and/or block is not a reflection of you, but a projection of them.... Sweat not the bullets that are dodged and take solace in knowing that whilst they’re not the type of person to be honest.....you are... ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I have given a polite no thanks and yet the messages still arrive from the other party What’s wrong with me? It’s easier to block then receive messages after you have said no thanks Don’t take it personally

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  • MissRedFox

    MissRedFox

    7 years ago

    To share face pics straight up - an observation overall is more women than men seem to have their face pic publicly If you approach me with a profile a message and a pic I can give a general you're not what I'm looking for If we chat then suddenly I've seen you face and I don't find you attractive I'm backed into a corner and it feels brutal to reject someone based on looks Having said that rejecting someone based on a pic is rare as if we're getting along I'll often still meet Having said all that it's interesting when guys complain about these things bevause I think men have no idea what us women put up with and and the frequency that it occurs XX - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • theoxisback14

    theoxisback14

    7 years ago

    I sure do know what you put up with,I've had a couples profile on here and seen what fwb deal with daily,That's what's made it hard for the single guy on here but we're not all the same.

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  • Supernova

    Supernova

    7 years ago

    Initially getting unfairly blocked can be frustrating. But After a while on here, getting blocked will just make you go 'meh' and move on!! I was blocked once because a girl who was a bit nuts and I didn't want to see again told some spiteful lies about me to their friends, and they subsequently blocked me - 'meh' And the other day I was blocked by a regular forum troll after exposing their trollish ways...'meh' The point is to not take it personally, these people arnt worth your time anyway 👍🏻 There are plenty of great women on here, and soon enough you'll click with some of them and have an awesome time, so don't give up ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • theoxisback14

    theoxisback14

    7 years ago

    I wasn’t complaining about being blocked or not replied too The issue is when someone makes contact to you and you’re having a conversation then they ask you if you wanna EXCHANGE face pics to see if there’s a mutual attraction.So you agree and open your pg for them and then no reply then blocked. It’s something like being respectful as I never asked for anything No need to get snappy 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I know what you mean mate a lot of disrespect. Beautiful faces can't fix ugly personalities - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • theoxisback14

    theoxisback14

    7 years ago

    But I didn’t even get to see a beautiful face 😂😂😂 All good I’m not losing sleep over it,just thought I’d share a story Seems some people read it the wrong way and get all snappy - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • theoxisback14

    theoxisback14

    7 years ago

    Now I’m confused 🤷‍♂️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Put a nice smiling face pic up as your profile pic. that way you're giving people a choice, before the exchange of the messages begins. Ms Foxy

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  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    with entitlement issues, whose true colours quickly emerge when he does not get what he wants. Next ...... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • theoxisback14

    theoxisback14

    7 years ago

    Maybe you should read it properly - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • theoxisback14

    theoxisback14

    7 years ago

    Thank you all for your input Lesson learned - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Yes all of the above. Abused nagged and pestered.I have a theory when you first sign up to a page like this you get inundated with all the douches everyone else has blocked.Face pics early i think is good too. Prob not all that necessary to block someone based on their pic and for no other reason.I might if i think it looks completely different to how they have presented themselves in their other pics.Having said that Ive had the turn up and they look nothing like their pics!!!!! I have had to tell guys to their faces. I do block profiles I think are fake or just not acceptable. Not as big of a deal here but on other sites there are issues like that. Or seem to have rejected myself but not told me. I get called a cunt a bit too. All I can think is well my radar is spot on... Personally i think hun is more annoying. Or spelling what like wot. Ive certainly given guys ive chatted to a bit a go and met with them despite not being sure of their looks and finding that they are actually better looking in person! Unfortunately, with online dating you are forced to make snap decisions based on a small amount of information. Maybe she is a cow maybe you sparked a red flag in her radar that you could have had no control over.I say dont stalk move on.Its better than being stood up or having a person turn up who doesnt look like their pic!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Couldn’t agree with you more. As much as i feel like a bitch for saying it, if i see a face pic and it’s not what im seeking i will tell that person politely. Its common courtesy in my opinion which sadly is lacking in todays society. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Rudeness comes with in most people are rude it’s a reflection of how they are with in themselves it certainly says nothing about you as a person and a lot about them I think it’s more about not having a ending to it all it is nicer if someone says your not for me best of luck I will say this it often means they wasn’t meant for you in your life more better way to look at it then beating yourself up over why they choose to say nothing at all It’s my Way I look at it Certainly works for me 🙌 Enjoy your day 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Snap dragon.. Couldn't agree more with your comment. Personally, I/we more often than not reply with a response in line with the guys initial contact. Sometimes though this simply isnt enough to get the message across, and so blocking is the easy answer.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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