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What am I doing wrong ? Profile feedback please
November 25 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
Honestly mate, you don’t sound like you’re humble at all in your profile; or to put it more bluntly, you sound up yourself. You have pictures of you posing instead of just being natural. You call yourself a sex machine which implies you think you’re God’s gift to women lol And to top it all off, you mention due to high popularity on social media you cannot post a face pic! Talk about being a legend in your own lunchbox. Take the tickets off yourself, relax, take a deep breath, come down a few pegs and be more genuine and down to earth. Maybe then you can have a normal conversation and actually discover a connection with people that may lead to many fun times.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks for your time to actually write something mate. Sounds like a keyboard warrior but still thank you
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RHP User
7 years ago
NO I totally agree with ConnectionSOR you do sound and look like you have tickets on yourself in your profile. Just change the wording in your profile a bit about the no pics because I am so popular on social media. And we can see you have a great body no need to pose. Other than that your profile and other pics are great. Good luck😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'connectionSOR' Honestly mate, you don’t sound like you’re humble at all in your profile; or to put it more bluntly, you sound up yourself. You have pictures of you posing instead of just being natural. You call yourself a sex machine which implies you think you’re God’s gift to women lol And to top it all off, you mention due to high popularity on social media you cannot post a face pic! Talk about being a legend in your own lunchbox. Take the tickets off yourself, relax, take a deep breath, come down a few pegs and be more genuine and down to earth. Maybe then you can have a normal conversation and actually discover a connection with people that may lead to many fun times. with Connection SOR's comments.Speaking for myself, I doubt I'd ever wish to meet you even if I was still meeting new men online.In addition, you have heaps of friends there on your profile. Why not play with those? That'll keep you occupied for ages.......unless they're not reeeeeally "friends" (???)
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
You have 43 friends and 4 validations. Do you not go back to see any of them again? After reading your profile I remember the words busy, sex machine and popularity. We are all busy. Sounds like we should be grateful if you free up half an hour to see us. Or its an excuse to fuck & run. Sex machine. Sounds like I am either going to be pounded like a jack rabbit (no thanks), or tossed around into 100 different positons (and considering how busy you are 😎 thats a scary thought). Popularity. This doesn't seem to be translating into this site. I instinctively think "twat" when I read things like that, but thats just the way my brain works. 🤣 So perhaps, as already suggested, calm the ego statements down, be more interested in others and explain what you are looking for. It's not uncommon for people to launch themselves on this site in a blaze of glory and used condoms, only for things to settle down. And that's when manners, self depreciation and an interest in others come into their own.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have to agree with the others. No one is being a keyboard warrior. You asked for opinions. They're giving it. They're being honest. Plus they're right. Listen to them, it will help. Don't be so arrogant to ask for advice (or fish for people to look at your profile) and then not take said advice.
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RHP User
7 years ago
The posing pics put me off before I even read the profile.
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
What I would say, is that you need to add more content in your description. When we’re seeking men, I like to read about who the person is and what they’re seeking before I decide whether to message or not. You say you’re popular on social media, so why not expand on that a little? Give women more of an idea of what’s in a meet up with you for them? In saying that, let us know if you’re ever in Perth. I’d be interested in exploring your profile more 😉 Ms HNP xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
No something wrong here if you say you are that good I am a ol chubby 54 bloke and I can still pull them people can read between the bullshit ok good luck
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
No one is ever that busy. Not even the Queen of England. She's on social media too. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm an astrologer. There is an asteroid in our chart called Chiron "The Wounded Healer" we can either fall victim to it or we can heal that wound and in turn heal others. From 1991 to 1993 Chiron was in Leo. Leo rules the ego in it's detriment over inflated. From your profile I see you were born in 1992. Unhealed Wound: Need for validation, attention and approval, presenting a false front, addiction to drama and intensity, romance/love addiction, chasing the high Healed Wound Gifts: Empowering others through authentic self-expression, playfulness and healthy hedonism, using the arts to uplift and spread a positive message To give you an example of Leo energy when it's over inflated and working against you, Trump, Bill Clinton, Ben Affleck, Mick Jagger, Hulk Hogan, Kevin Spacey are all over the top fling your penis around like everyone should worship it Leo men. But the Leo's that have their shit together are stars and earn respect and admiration Chris Hemsworth, Barack Obama, Jason Manoa, Neil Armstrong. It's a dicey game when you put yourself out there for validation when you don't 100% on a soul level validate yourself first. Muscles and instagram followers don't make a man integrity does. Happy healing.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you so much for taking your time to go through my profile. Those were some harsh words to tell someone what’s actually wrong but yeah we just love to pull everyone’s legs for posing in the pictures or for simply just being honest. To be honest I’ve given up on RHP. You get judged no matter what you do. Especially people blocking you even without stating yes or no because of your skin colour is absolutely disgusting and frustrating. Even though they made the first move to contact me. Anyways I wish you all best of luck. Cheers
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Ahhh previously known as Dominant Alpha Male?? Clearly muscle bound with a little wiener for brains. And then you pull the skin colour “race card” as the reasons for you being rejected and not quite being the Dominant Alpha male that you thought you were ???? Clearly full of self entitlement, expectations and demands .....
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sigh..... tough love lesson ahead. You asked “what am I doing wrong”.... so clearly you’re not satisfied with the results you expect in here.... and probably beyond RHP So, there are four things you need to realise, from your own topic and attitude behind it 1. Nobody owes you anything 2. You need to understand your expectations and why you have them and project those onto others without their input 3. Controlling how you look does not control how others will respond to you 4. When you ask a question, you should be prepared to LISTEN to the responses No aspects of your displayed attitude suggest humble, or humility, and your last post was a petulant and judgemental rant that is based on your own assumptions and judgemental view of other people’s choices when presented with your attitude You have a long and bumpy road ahead if you stay on your current path End of lesson DG
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Oh goodie. The race card 🙄 I'll bet my first born it has nothing to do with your skin colour.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You said: "You get judged no matter what you do. Especially people blocking you even without stating yes or no because of your skin colour is absolutely disgusting and frustrating. Even though they made the first move to contact me." Really? So a "no reply" is cause for calling out racism? 'Tis harsh to make that call, as it seems like a pretty open community here. Are you really "Native American" as your profile states?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes I’m Mr USA man. Not only that I’m an Australian citizen too migrated here 12 years ago. I asked for a simple opinion and you guys lash out like you’ve nothing else to do in your life except to put others down. Yeah I do have posing pics. I have worked hard day and night to achieve that physique so of course I’m gonna show off to stand out from the crowd. I’ve Never been disrespectful to anyone ever whether they approached me or I approached them. Simply keep your opinion to yourself if you can’t deliver in a manner of respect. Thank you
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RHP User
7 years ago
And he wonders why no one responds! You have a lot of maturity to still do mate. When you do eventually outgrow your vanity and arrogance, you will look back at yourself and think “what the hell was I thinking” lol The posing and the comment about social media might attract some of the fake bimbos who wear too much make up, have fake hair and pout their lips, but for real women, women of substance, women of depth, women who are embarking on a journey of self discovery via sexual expression, the kind of women who are in RHP, the women who understand that forming a connection elevates the sexual pleasures by a billions times; these women are well beyond your reach until you overcome the vanities, false pride and self image you currently have on yourself.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your ethnicity could well work for you Downunder. You could try a little humility, and I mean that in a positive way. Good luck.
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RHP User
7 years ago
My question to you being Native American was... well, you're unique. It should work for you.You do seem bitter, though as to race - that's a shame. That could reflect in your emails, replies, and profile. Class up the pics as suggested, and hopefully things will turn around. Good luck!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Jesus theres some brutality on here. Ease up on the geeza.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you so much guys. My apologies if I did say anything wrong. I’ll work on my profile and see how it goes. I really do appreciate your efforts for actually taking time to provide your valuable opinions. Guess I have a lot to learn. Thank you so much 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
😉
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Supernova
7 years ago
So basically there seems to be a general rule: If you are MALE, don't be proud. Don't be happy with who you are, and definitely don't be confident about your physique. Right, got it 👍🏻
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lol he says “I’ve given up on RHP” yet his ego ran like a wolf on the hunt lol If you’d actially given up on RHP then there was no real need to have written this thread eh?? Because by the time it was written you’d already given up one would think...else you’d have not said it... This kinda suggests that maybe your previous wording wasn’t entirely filled with credibility was it?? Cos anyone that’s as popular as it was apparently being claimed, really wouldn’t give two fucks if 1 of the avenues that were used to meet people, wasn’t entirely delivering the outcomes one was hoping for...would they??
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mate seriously ?! The thread has been ended. People gave their opinions and I’m taking them into account. I wouldn’t waste my breathe on a person like you. This time that I’m taking to write this reply to you , are the only few minutes you’re gonna get out of my life.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You report that initially you were successful and then interest has tapered off. Have you considered RHP as a resource reservoir? When you first signed up there was a pool of women already here, a certain percentage were looking for someone like yourself. Initially you were successful but you were consuming this resource faster than it was being replenished. Now you are at the stage where you have exhausted the reserve and your extraction rate has reduced to be in equilibrium with the replenishment rate. You can't affect the the replenishment rate, if you wanted to increase your extraction rate you need to change the metrics of what is an extractable resource from the existing reserve. Basically, I would look to change-up the niche you are filling. The two approaches I would suggest are: As has been mentioned, get rid of the bodybuilder poses in your pics and maybe tone down the muscle man references. You are identifying yourself as a distinct stereotype (gymbro/muscle dude). There is certainly a market for this stereotype and it is a considerable strength of yours. However it is a polarising stereotype and you seem to have ridden it for most of what it's worth at this stage. Switch up your approach for a time and tap a market you have previously neglected by toning down the emphasis you put on your physique. I would work the native american angle more, that is quite exotic here and could also be a strength for you. Secondly. Know two things about RHP. Lot's of women filter by penis size and it is assumed that men exaggerate this almost to the point of ridiculousness. You are being ruled out by a segment of women based on your assumption your average 6 incher is in reality an underwhelming 3.5 incher. Bump it up to 6-7inch and make it extra thick. (If you're already exaggerating at 5-6inch well you might have to accept this limitation)
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