M41
What do women want?
May 26 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
I could tell you and it may spare you the pain of discovering it for youself. maybe there's a reason young people cant work this out till later in life maybe the power is just to much, a system overload, may even be linked to spontaneous compassion. I found out the answer 7 years 2 months 4 days and 23 minutes ago. ancient monks in the forbidden hills call it ''the awakeing'' ....but ok i tell you,but first you need to prepare youself and you surroundings, a large empty room and a adult nappy should do it,we dont want to make a mess do we. ok here we go! WANT WOMAN WANT IS....hangon someone at the door.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi mate! Interesting topic. If only we knew the answer to this one... We'd be treated like gods! I have a suggestion... All a man can do is please himself and if a person of the female persuasion is enjoying the ride along the way well that's always a bonus. The only certain thing about women is that they're unpredictable. It's the biggest paradox in the universe. I heard Billy Connelly ask "if women are so good at multi-tasking why can't they have sex with a headache". Yep, he's right. We just have to laugh about it and struggle on. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
all this little white duck wants is honesty and fun....some one that takes an interest and at least pretends they care....but then im easy to please hehe you will find the right one eventually so dont give up on us girls just yet...have fun with it all, enjoy the ride for as long as it goes for good luck Leggo hope you find what you want ohhh and most importantly....dont play us, we dont like it and sometimes get a bit nasty if we are played good luck mwahh roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is an age old question that i dont think will ever be answered. What do women want??..i think most women dont even know what they want. First things first...i can multitask...ie: i definately can have sex and with a headache...in fact it can make the headache go away ...most times...hehehe. As for women...yes I agree with Roxy, dont play us...we cannot stand being played...but definately dont give up. Enjoy everything that the site seems to give and your luck will change as women see your personality and intellect come through. Women get charmed and fooled so often, the more it happens the more their guard is put up. Good luck Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Hi mate! Interesting topic. If only we knew the answer to this one... We'd be treated like gods! I have a suggestion... All a man can do is please himself and if a person of the female persuasion is enjoying the ride along the way well that's always a bonus. The only certain thing about women is that they're unpredictable. It's the biggest paradox in the universe. I heard Billy Connelly ask "if women are so good at multi-tasking why can't they have sex with a headache". Yep, he's right. We just have to laugh about it and struggle on. Hugs Stalky women want men that have a vision for their life, go after it, do what's right for them first, and at the same time treat others with love and decency. I want a man that can feel deeply and express that to me. That is in awe of the passion and love that can exist between a man and a woman, just as I am. That is very comfortable saying no to me, but also enjoys saying yes just to see the joy it brings me. That has a full and active life and is happy to share it with me, but doesn't need me there all the time, or vice versa. That is interested in being a better man, learning from life's experiences, rather than defending his position and staying the same. That knows how to make love to a woman in a way that makes her feel all woman. And that loves it when a woman surrenders to him because he's all man. That can 'fix' things. This a new discovery for me but o_m_g I get so turned on when a man is capable and can build things / fix things / take care of stuff mmmm mmmmmm.I am blessed, I have that man :)lilmiss xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
mmmm caramello bears.... mmmmmm :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
You had me all excited there. The one that just got away did it to me in a week. Now I wait in silence for two weeks as she gets her head right. I have to man up and show that she has my upmost respect. I hope that she is looking for what you want. Sometimes people enjoy the roller coaster and attenion that comes from this modern life. I know what I want. That unmistaken attraction reciprocated. Nothing more and definately nothing less. Fab. Still dreaming.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just looked at the Guys Ask column... First Subject line: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT? Second Subject line: FACIALS Don't need to add more pmsl xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Obviously I can only speak for myself. I want someone mature and easy going. Someone who knows what they want and is honest with how they go about it. If you say you want no strings, if you say you want fun, if you say you want a FWB's then I know what I am getting myself in to. If you say Ï am a sexual animal and I just can't get enough"then don't bother saying it to me. Me, I am looking for an affair so if your looking for sex once then that's not want I am looking for. I think women like some attention, as in what I call after care. Occasional phone call that doesn't start with "what are you wearing"'" Oh and for me you need to be pretty intellegent. It's just me it is a fetish of mine. Well and there is the shoe fetish too but that's another story. Look I think the other really important thing is that 40 year old people don't usually want what 20 year old people want. Thank God. Be yourself if you want to find someone compatible. The bedroom stuff will follow very nicely. Miss K
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RHP User
16 years ago
hhmmm a loaded question... I think men want what women want.... some one who is sexy, fun and honest.... finding those 3 atributes in a person you are attracted to is a great start.. then there core values that should be a foundation to build a great relationship on ...... I think honesty is upmost the biggest quality... if you have that you have some thing special.
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RHP User
16 years ago
attentive, someone who wants me for me, someone who appreictaes my eccentric side, someone with the perfect size cock for my cunt, someone who delights me in more ways than one, someone who understands I want a lot of sex but who also understands I'm really notjust here too fuck just anyone. someone who I can laugh with whilst being completely stupid. Someone who doesn't mind I get on RHP forums when drunk and bear my all. :)Someone who wants a girl like me, who i quite fancy uin= treturn.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I always say what you want and what you get are two different things... Personally honesty is a must, respect and like getyourroxoff said "some one that takes an interest and at least pretends they care" there is nothing worse than someone pretending they are interested in what you have to say or do... As well, someone being themselves.. Late x
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RHP User
16 years ago
A friend ... to laugh with and have fun with .. do dinner with and do the movies .. walks on the beach etc A lover ... who understands what makes me tick ... and how to get me ticking ... A comforter ... someone to hug at the end of a bad day .... when feeling abit lost and down Honesty ... a guy who is striaght up about what he wants Intellegince... someone to have a good conversation with .. who can string 2 words that make sense together ok ,... back to dreaming now .....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is a chocolate dick that ejacualtes money. Thats all.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'frocker' A friend ... to laugh with and have fun with .. do dinner with and do the movies .. walks on the beach etc A lover ... who understands what makes me tick ... and how to get me ticking ... A comforter ... someone to hug at the end of a bad day .... when feeling abit lost and down Honesty ... a guy who is striaght up about what he wants Intellegince... someone to have a good conversation with .. who can string 2 words that make sense together ok ,... back to dreaming now ..... I'll take one of those... and a money tree too please... wrap it up and I'll put it in my AMEX Black... hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
16 years ago
My tounge in cheek answer to Leggos poser would be a woman with a dick! ORWhat Whitey says......we all remember Whitey don't we?My serious Answer is well....its long and you might all be bored....so i am gunna spare you!...lolCheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Latenites.....you are one pretty lady! Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'gamerx'Is a chocolate dick that ejacualtes money. Thats all. i take back my previous answer i miss whitey Nev...wonder where he is??...hopefully barbie heaven roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'NevandKj' Latenites.....you are one pretty lady! Cheers Nev Why thank you Nev.. I try to be inside and out :o) Late x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Can I just say to all those men who say women don't know what they want. - MEN ARE NO BETTER. Apart from a root do men know what they really want? And men also seem to change their minds on what they want as well - thats not just a women thing! And they blow hot and cold too!! But I digress - Leggo85 I think your wanting to know what women want in the first email or contact. I can't speak for the a 20 something girls but what gets my attention in a first email that would make someone stand out would be - Something that makes me laugh. A specfic comment to show that you have read my profile Otherwise it just depends on how I am feeling on the day. (hahahahahahaha ) Kisses Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah - I am in bed on this crappy day (raining all week here in Sydney) wishing for the same thing. One day they will invent a vibrator who will take me out to dinner first. I have to believe that there is some hope out there. M
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'gamerx'Is a chocolate dick that ejacualtes money. Thats all. Straight into my coinslot until it is overflows!! A little cynical for one so young? M
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'gamerx'Is a chocolate dick that ejacualtes money. Thats all. Straight into my coinslot until it is overflows!! A little cynical for one so young? MNot cynical. If i had a chocolate dick that shot money, pretty sure i wouldnt need anything else either. Hahaha.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I haven't I'm the most hopless romantic. I beleive in that attraction you can't describe. You just know. I'm really too modest to say this but I am close to what you sheilas want. See I had to take the piss out of myself cause I don't need anything except confidence to actually say Hi and then bee myself. I feel that when guys have that confidence or me for that matter I will loose that little indescribable part of me that separates me from the rest of the pack. Even today the nerdy boys have confidance. Me I'm still like Mathew McCarthy in any of his roles. To put me in a group like in " The Breakfast Club." I am all the guys in one. Except the wanker of the teacher. I have been naturally like this all my life. I just want to find Molly Ringwald. Oh I can dream can't I. Lol Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fab - I may be your Molly Ringwald to your Judd Nelson - well maybe not but I can do the trick with the lipstick between my boobs. Wanna see? Sounds to me like you have been getting plenty of action lately. Lucky you. Kisses Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
From what I can see yes you are. Oh and I can just imagine you doing the lipstick trick. Oh no I'm stuck in the eighties. Do you want me to be Judd Nelson eh. Yes every girl wants the bad boy. Lol. I guess that sometimes I keep him tied up in the back of my mind too much. I'm more Mr Niceguy. In fact I think if there was a challenge I'd beat him there hands down. Yep I'm challenging the master. Nah not nescessary. I just know. That's how nice I am. He can think that. Oh before I get corrected it's Andrew McCarthy. Surprised no one realised. How apt. Not a shiny star to remember. Maybe I'll get to meet everyone in person. Does Sydney have a meet and greet planned. I desparately need a holiday. Thinking of driving down. Already met most of brissy forumers. Exceptions are nudie and roughfkr. All are wonderfull. I have met. .......... Hi BJ thanks for hosting and putting in the time. Xxx Wayne aka Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Me I don't chase it much. Lol. Plenty of action. Well some I'm not a looser. Just getting over a heartbreak. Best way I think. Oh that and help from friends. Nothing else can do it. Than spending the night with the most beautifull woman in your arms. Even if she can't be mine. It sorta validates your self esteem. A wirlwind relationship where everything was perfect untill outside forces stopped it devestated me. It hurt more than the one that was for 4years. I need my confidence back. It is funny that no one has said that this is what they want in a man. Mine is lacking at the beast of times. Now I almost right you can probably tell as my posts are less cynical again. So I put it to you girls it's confidence isn't it. This is the initial thing that you ultimately and subconsciously seek. Then all the other stuff comes into play. That stuff I'm good at. The confidence I'm not so i never get the chance. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'fab69'From what I can see yes you are. Oh and I can just imagine you doing the lipstick trick. Oh no I'm stuck in the eighties. Do you want me to be Judd Nelson eh. Yes every girl wants the bad boy. Lol. I guess that sometimes I keep him tied up in the back of my mind too much. I'm more Mr Niceguy. In fact I think if there was a challenge I'd beat him there hands down. Yep I'm challenging the master. Nah not nescessary. I just know. That's how nice I am. He can think that. Oh before I get corrected it's Andrew McCarthy. Surprised no one realised. How apt. Not a shiny star to remember. Maybe I'll get to meet everyone in person. Does Sydney have a meet and greet planned. I desparately need a holiday. Thinking of driving down. Already met most of brissy forumers. Exceptions are nudie and roughfkr. All are wonderfull. I have met. .......... Hi BJ thanks for hosting and putting in the time. Xxx Wayne aka Fab. A Sydney drinks night that is... ;-) And no - whilst you might be a Niceguy - you can't actually BE me... only I can... unless you've cloned me into you...ohhh now that would be freakin scarey.... hehehe... Wayne (great name btw mate... already the cloning is working)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fab - Yes confidence is definitley sexy. Maybe this comes with a bit more experience? I don't know. You seem like a very sweet guy who falls deep and fast. Can't change who you are. Here is a contradiction for you - I would love to be swept off my feet by a confidant, take charge kinda a man. Who likes to dominate in the bedroom and take me out of this world. But if he ever tried to tell me what to do I would have to kick his arse!!!! M
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RHP User
16 years ago
I absolutely loved Judd Nelson in that movie. A bad boy who is really a softie underneath. mmmmmmmmm........
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RHP User
16 years ago
Meeka id love that too a man with the balls to sweep me off my feet, dominate me in the bedroom but yes try and dominate me out of the bedroom and il kick his butt....but having said that id like a man that will stand up to me too...if that makes sense lol roxxy xxx
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16 years ago
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16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' Meeka id love that too a man with the balls to sweep me off my feet, dominate me in the bedroom but yes try and dominate me out of the bedroom and il kick his butt....but having said that id like a man that will stand up to me too...if that makes sense lol roxxy xxx Yeah same ... ... I totally get that!! So what ... we now need to find 3 guys that fit that profle ... one for Meeka.... one for Roxy ... and one for me hmmm... like i said ... will keep dreaming
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey dude most women are complicated and liberated nowadays and challenge you on everyground, some will never be happy treat them as what they do and treat you its worked for me be like them.Dont let your guard down respect and trust needs to be earnt ...............If their fair dinkum you will know you will connect, dont try too hard let them come to you.In the mean time have fun without expectations enjoy your freedom like they do happy bonking dude
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RHP User
16 years ago
Need to hit head against wall. Last one I was so confident. So sure. I even told her. Could not have been more confident. Failed. But I wasn't me. Lol. So what am I to think now??? Confidence shot. Oh just snap my fingers and shout next. That's what stalky would say. Confidence you say. Last night as I was out dancing three confident guys in suits with there pony race club pins were trying to pick up by standing on the dance floor. I kept my ground. But what arseholes. Tried to pick a fight with me cos I was havin fun dancing with a friend. The funniest thing is I left at 1.30am they were still trying. Confidence, too much and you look like a tool like those guys. Wayne. You know buddy. Let me know the dates. So I can get some holidays. Might even get on a plane. To have more time down there. I need to get out and enjoy the world before it gets fkd up more. Even if it's just Sydney. Only been I'm bored with brissy. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am with miss fussy.. huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
good to see you back sweetpetite xx roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm new here and this thread has been pretty helpful. Never really have been good at introductions.Quoting 'frocker' A friend ... to laugh with and have fun with .. do dinner with and do the movies .. walks on the beach etc A lover ... who understands what makes me tick ... and how to get me ticking ... A comforter ... someone to hug at the end of a bad day .... when feeling abit lost and down Honesty ... a guy who is striaght up about what he wants Intellegince... someone to have a good conversation with .. who can string 2 words that make sense together ok ,... back to dreaming now ..... In past relationships I have found it easy to be these things. Where I falter, and it's almost inevitable, that I cannot put my needs ahead of my partner's. I can be both logical and empathetic, however I have trouble putting myself forward at the best of times. But I suppose knowing the problem is half the battle :)Cheers,Z
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not back Roxy...Just an occaional flyby post. But thanks. mwah! sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Welcome to the ooze pond. Lol. More like slush pond. I hear you. Bro. It's called co-depenancy. Bad cause if it ends you loose. Ballance is the key. This is best started right from the get go. But when that is is the trick. Say you are interested in someone. You're doing the chasing. She's looking at her callender. See we are behind mostly from the start. One thing is important mates. Try being mid 30's and ending a relationship where you lost your mates just over time. This is scary. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
dont worry what women want, they change their minds every 5 mins.. Think about what YOU want...and how to make yourslef a better/funnier/happier person :) Then the girls will naturally want to be your pal have fun Neo
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is a message I got from the Author of this Forum....hmm now I can work out why he isn't having any luck. Other than ME being out of his age group I had alread replied to 2 of his flirts that I wasn't interested. (ie: Sorry I don't see our planets colliding yadda yadda yadda)...Have any other girls on this Forum received the same messages/flirts? Now I see that he wasn't interested in what we want...he was only interested in what will get him to bed us!! PS: A message like this will not get you a root!!! just reading ur profile babe id really like to ask u to reconsider. u sound like ud b such a good fuck that i am only too willing to do anything u need to be satisfied. please reconsider ur hot and i wanna fuck u senseless. ;-) xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
first problem mate, ya cant generalise when it comes to "what women want". All are different, geeez, we all know this for a fact don't we!? Some want this, some want that, some want soft where as others want hard.....ect. you'll go nutts tryin to understand it thats for damn sure!!! A small lesson we learnt a long time ago from a lesbian friend of ours...... " if women dont know what women want, what chance does a man have to figuring it out" Leggo85.... mate, sleep easy knowing that its a lost cause tryin to figure out the impossible!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's what I've been doing. Belief. In yourself. I know all I have to do is have faith. This is hard sometimes. Lol. Thinking back 2 weeks. God. This was a low. A short sharp, very sharp low. All I could do is rely on friends and bounce back by havin fun. Not quite there. Need more fun. Lol. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The truth is we have the raw end of the stick, women get to pick and choose through the hordes of single men approaching them for attention, we simly dont get the deal they do.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Come on boys - don't you know there is a man shortage!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why oh why do you all moan about the fact that you cant find women? You spend all your time chasing women but once you get them you don't want them. Or for only one night...... I don't get it????? Please explain... Kisses & hugs Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
Heya,I don't blame the poor little sap, sounds like the blood might have drained to less....intelligent areas?I know reading your profile makes me wish I was at least 30 :)As for hughsy86, women have always had the right to choose (least in my lifetime). Unfortunately the older they get the more bullshit they've heard before. I've found being genuine and not over promising tends to help. Not to mention a good level of selflessness in bed, that does tend to get repeat performances.Cheers,Z
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RHP User
16 years ago
More like female shortage. Lol. I hate the chase yet love the excitement of new love. I'm taking a rest. Yes it's a Friday night and I can't be bothered going out. Just sitting bak and listening to music. Damn just realized I've blown a tweeter. Now that's three speakers I've blown. Lol. You never want to be my neighbour. But yes I've given up the chase for now. I'm going to spend my weekend with my family for once instead of being a vampire and I hate the fact that they have shut down both yours and Waynes threads. So I'll say it here. Look out Sydney. Ima coming. Lol. I'll be in party mode. Normally I'm Quiet. Not. Ha ha. Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
Interesting tips here. Suggestion is to grab the ones you like Leggo85 and add to your profile. A profile gives the first impression ... being 'bored' doesn't sound too much fun. What women want is as different from one woman to another. A sexy, sensual guy and one who communicates well with some GSOH gets me. Good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't get it why are our Sydney drinks nights threads being shut down do you think???? My one completely disappeared. It is really wierd. M
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RHP User
16 years ago
The answer still remains out there. I guess we are all different. That is the beauty of nature. I guess we are all after the same thing or different at the same time. Timing is essential. Today women are more like men. They too are sexual creatures. Great when timing is right. Sucks when it's not. All of us here have a past. Many of us damaged. Even the ones that have never been in a long term relationship. As time goes by women come to a point where theyhave heard it all before. Well so have I. Jaded given up. Yep. Confused. God I did somthing stupid. I bought a cd. By the Gin Club. On it is the song I heard on New years day for the first time 2 hours after my break up. This song is so toucingly beautifull and sad that after five months it affected me. I thought I was stronger. I'm going to have to hide it from myself. Lol. Or walk into the sea. Sorry still listening to music. The neighbours aren't home. Yay. Swapped tweeter. Yay. Now cd player keeps jumping cos of base. No I'm not listening to that song. Or just one cd over and over. But it's loud and pure. Lol. Oops too much base need to put cd player on the carpet away from the speakers. Ramstein next I think. Fab. (soon to get a headache better than heartache)
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Tart_Du_Jour
16 years ago
A puppy, a unicorn or maybe even a pony. Or even afternoon tea on a sunny day. That would also be nice.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think just to start with ... to get our attention ..... manners and respect when you message ..... you're hot i wanna fuck .... is neither nice or respectful ..... or nor does it grab a girls attention .. ... you just come accross as a neanderthul anyways ... good manners cost nothing .... use them
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Baise_Moi'A puppy, a unicorn or maybe even a pony. Or even afternoon tea on a sunny day. That would also be nice. Simple things for a guy to achieve... I have a stable of unicorns in my backyard... but they keep fighting with the Gryphon I have... oh well... Guess I should get a horn tailed dragon to go with them and I'm set :-) hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
16 years ago
My considered opinion is wonderful in what they want they have three years issue as men don't understand women know what they want when it comes six out to it in the manner penetration women understand how much they want and how often is now understood this to understand what Many Randell
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RHP User
16 years ago
What do women want? Well that is a good question. I guess the first thing is you need to know is what you want. Are you looking for the love of your life or just a quick encounter? Really women are looking for the exact same thing as everyone else, someone who wants them exactly as they are, who makes them feel safe and cherished. Someone who looks at them like the are the only person in the whole world worth knowing. Basically all anyone wants is to feel wanted.Of course being smoking hot and good in bed is an added plus. Being able to have an intelligent conversation is also a bonus, I know for myself that anyone who challenges me intellectually and makes me think is huge turn on. But most of all you have to be respectful and have manners. Saying to someone "you're hot, lets fuck" is in no way a compliment nor is it likely to get you anything more than a slap in the face. Treat others as you would like to be treated, and you should be fine. hope this helps Michelle xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
From what i've found given I be right or wrong who knows, but one main thing. Honesty. Be straight down the line, cut the bs and just be yourself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I had sex with a headache quite a few times.... Then I divorced him! Sweet
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RHP User
16 years ago
what i want is a guy with a good sense of humour, who loves me for me, is not after just sex, gets along with everyone i know and understands thats sometimes i need to be told im beautifull, and that im a little crazy but its all part and parcel of being me, thats what i want not sure what other ladies want but yeah
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RHP User
16 years ago
Women will come on here and list the things that they want and like. Even when a man contacts them and pleasantly illustrates that he fits their requirements he will run a very real risk that he will be savagely rejected.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with ambertail05 I recently spoke with a woman friend who is looking to hook up with another lady. She was saying "what is it with these women, what do the want" I commented to her exactly the same, if women can't figure out women then what hope have men got. I think women saying there is a man shortage is just one more thing they dream up to play with our minds. I agree with fab69, there is a female shortage and always has been, as women reject reject reject.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ogrilp you are too funny hahahaha. An automated reply is a reply you tool. And seriously looking at your profile pic...you look like a woman not a man in that pic (just being honest). Just because you guys think that YOU fit the requirement does not mean that woman are attracted to you. And since when is a 54 year old that wears a gstring (yuk and that is just my opinion as I don't find any males look good in a g) fit in the criteria of 27 - 40 year old? Seriously, you need to do more with your life you are now just looking like a very very sad man, although I am enjoying having a good laugh at your whingeing on here all the time. To all the girls, if you get a message or wink from this man..do not reply at all..otherwise he will be here whingeing to everyone how rude you were if you reply in the negative. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks funlovin - didn't realise that was a man. Ooops. M
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well not all women obviously want a guy parading around in a g banger. Not everyones cup of tea. Lol. Well I guess I'm having a girl shortage cos I choose. Lol. Damn the day I went guest I got three flirts. I guess women sometimes like to meet a guy who is chasing everyone here. Maybe this is not a food look also. I think the women folk here as a guest get one message a week. So if they like what they see in my profile they can contact me. Lol. I'm sick of the chase as well. Here in the virtual pub, pick up joint you can loose it as the chase is 24/7. This may at some point burn you out. That is why I'm chillin. I spend so much time on these forums well it's more fun that endless hours hunting and then waiting for a reply that never come. I think some times it's guys like you who stuff things up here for guys like me. If you have read any of these posts well you would understand that women need respect over anything else. Even the most seasoned swingers are people too. Belive me I have met some of them. All are beautifull people and got my respect. So boo hoo and to quote someone else learn to shout "NEXT!!!!". Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well at least some one out there is having a good laugh, good on you. Great to see that I have your attention. I wasn't aware that my life history was on here, or on the net for that matter. Bit scary, can some one tell me where it is listed?, just want to check that it is accurate of coarse. Ah, love this banter, just great. Lets keep it going.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with you Fab...it is the ones that cannot take no gracefully that do ruin it for the rest. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
So perhaps a suit would be more to peoples liking?
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RHP User
16 years ago
So perhaps a suit would be more to peoples liking? I can do that too.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ogrilp women are strange. Many ridicule budgie smugglers. So I oblige and wear boardies overthem. I used to swim competitavly so I not used to boardies. Lol. No you keep your g bangers mate. It says deviate. So good luck. Horses for courses. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' The only certain thing about women is that they're unpredictable. It's the biggest paradox in the universe. With respect stalky: the question "what do women want" , and so too your reply that "we" are "unpredictable" , sort of makes me laugh because they miss the most important point. To be "feminist" about it (albeit a horny, naughty one), you cannot assume that any two women are the same. That is, the question and your response seem to want to define women in a way that ignores their uniqueness. THE LESS YOU DO THIS THE MORE LIKELY YOU ARE TO TURN A WOMAN ON.... STOP, STOP, STOP assuming ANYTHING about "women" per se. Every woman is an individual......and Leggo, just be yourself...keep seeking women with similar sexual interests...and ye shall find - eventually. With love, kisses and an excellent blow job... Lunar XX
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well not much, except a hot looking dude, who lives on the edge, who likes to chill with me, listen to some music, have a few drinks and other things, great sex. See I don't want much at all!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can see a chocolate money dick causing all kinds of yeast problems O.O
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like Queen sings... I want it all. We live in a visual world. Its about being seen and noticed. Being honest or DTE or fun or just a plain nice guy does not cut it. We do live in competitive society. Always wanting bigger and better. And online does not make it any easier. I have met one person from this site for a coffee in 1 yr and a bit.....but hang, i meet more girls just through going out to pubs and clubs. I must admit, having been divorced with a kid or two...one can become jaded and some dissillusioned. Some want the fairly tale, the spark, but the reality is fairy tales are just that, they are tales.....the spark, may not last...it could exciting but really, something genuine, wow it actually takes effort, and a risk, you gotta put yourself out there and say, " I am not afraid to feel!" Some ppl are hell bent on protecting thmselves to the point they push someone away. As for me, I met a girl in a club, and she seems pretty cool. We hang out most days, and it flows. I am a little wild for her liking but she ishanging around. She a really gorgeous, and has a calming effect on me. I don't know where this goes...but i like her. No massive spark...just feels like i am spending time with a friend i have know for years. She had lunch with me and my folks on sunday and i was embarrased a little cos they can be.lol. But she loved it. Lets just see waht happens!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sweetwithdesire' I had sex with a headache quite a few times.... Then I divorced him! Sweet Haven't heard that one before - absolutely pissin meself Tears are still rolling
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RHP User
16 years ago
It seems to me like almost everyone has missed the point of this guy's post (I didn't delve into the second page, so feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.) He asked what women want from RHP...what sort of messages they want to be sent, etc. I guess it's the same as in general - women want different things. I'm only new here, but I gather that a lot of guys don't have much luck finding people here. My theory is that any moderately attractive woman on here will get about 10 or more generic variations on 'I have a penis that I want to fuck you with' every day. I think that a genuine, honest, personalised message that doesn't try too hard is going to set you apart from the guys who just copy and paste the same lines, and fill their daily message quota with the most typically hot girls they can find. Maybe I'm still idealistic about making this RHP thing work; but I think that the best way to get talking to people is to start talking like a person instead of a dick with a brain attached to it. If that doesn't work for me, then I'll cancel my membership to this site and give the real world another shot.
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RHP User
16 years ago
as a great band once sang "you can't always get what you want but if you try sometimes you will find you get what you need.(rolling stones). So i wouldn't concern myself with wants as much as needs because they are the things that you can do something about.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MaxofSydney'It seems to me like almost everyone has missed the point of this guy's post (I didn't delve into the second page, so feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.) He asked what women want from RHP...what sort of messages they want to be sent, etc. I guess it's the same as in general - women want different things. I'm only new here, but I gather that a lot of guys don't have much luck finding people here. My theory is that any moderately attractive woman on here will get about 10 or more generic variations on 'I have a penis that I want to fuck you with' every day. I think that a genuine, honest, personalised message that doesn't try too hard is going to set you apart from the guys who just copy and paste the same lines, and fill their daily message quota with the most typically hot girls they can find. Maybe I'm still idealistic about making this RHP thing work; but I think that the best way to get talking to people is to start talking like a person instead of a dick with a brain attached to it. If that doesn't work for me, then I'll cancel my membership to this site and give the real world another shot. you are oh so right ..... and got it in one and most of us girls will respond to those genuine personalised messages oh ...i had a new variation on the wanna fuck tonight...... let me share it with u so u know what not to send lol..... your pics are so hot i am wanking over you right now would luv your mouth on my knob fyi boys ... that is just tacky and will not get a reply .... from me (other girls might)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just to add to your point - I just love the ones that go on to say they would love to have you and another faceless girl as well because obviously one chick aint enough for these stallions ............ So yes this is a sex site and apparently we are all here for one thing .... but boys usually the girls want it done with a bit of class ! At least pretend an interest in the girl FFS. M
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RHP User
16 years ago
Frocker hun your missing all the fun...they are the ones that you amuse yourself with as i keep saying...play with the morons they are fun...let your creative side come out and have fun with them roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh Roxxy. You are. Ha ha ha. Now I know the type. They aren't on here cos they can't read. Lol. So your secret is safe from them. But just maybe. One of those guys might steal your heart. Consider this place a pub. Some of the genuine guys do hide behind their bravado. Lol. Do you like to play with this type. Lol. Some I suppose you would wheel out a classic go away line. I can almost picture you. Mmmmwwwwaaarrrggghhh. Ha ha. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' Frocker hun your missing all the fun...they are the ones that you amuse yourself with as i keep saying...play with the morons they are fun...let your creative side come out and have fun with them roxxy I do that too ... sometimes feel bad about it, but you've given me new inspiration ;)lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' Frocker hun your missing all the fun...they are the ones that you amuse yourself with as i keep saying...play with the morons they are fun...let your creative side come out and have fun with them roxxy But Roxy ... there are just way too many .... i just dont have that much patience ... or time to deal with umm ... idiots who dont know how to communicate .... lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lower your expectations and your upset/dilemma will fall correspondingly. What women want is a question older than I can well imagine. It varies too much to pin-point but how about what we all want, fulfillment/happiness whatever that means to you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
What women want is that lovely bit of grass just over there on the other side.
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RHP User
16 years ago
BAhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahaha,.................................classic
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have been on a number of sites in the last 5 months, including RHP and I have changed my mind on this subject. I only send messages to women who I think would meet me based on the fact that there was nothing stated in their profile that said that they wouldn't. I was never rude or abusive, quite the opposite, I was polite and respectful. When my messages were being read and I was receiving no replies or replies that said thanks but no thanks, I was convinced that it was because I was overweight (not obese) and a bit older. After reading some on the comments on this forum, I now realise that this is not the case as some guys who are slim and younger that I am, are having trouble meeting women as well. I guess that some men are just not attractive to women in any way shape or form. One of the worst things I have encountered here is that a number of womem have agreed to meet me, then changed their minds at the last moment or have ceased contact after I have suggested we meet for coffee or drinks. A large number of my messages have never been read and I think it is because the women in question received too many messages or the profile that has been set up is false. I am at the stage now where I don't want to send any more messages as it is a complete waste of time.
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Tart_Du_Jour
16 years ago
I'm sorry that's happened to you LoveBustyWomen, I don't really understand people who would agree to meet you and then change their minds at the last minute. I mean sometimes things do happen and you might need to reschedule, but if it gets to the point of wanting to meet someone, how hard is it to turn up for a quick coffee? Even if I wasn't sure about someone, even they have made the effort to turn up, why shouldn't I return the favour?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Baise_Moi, Thanks for your understanding. I cannot believe what goes on with adult dating sites. I thought people were here to meet each other and have some mutual fun. When I read some of the profiles, I honestly believe that some people set their expectations too high. Some women are looking for well mannered, well endowed and gorgeous looking men, These men only exist in fantasy land. Some men don't do themselves any favours by sending a message to women detailing in explicit terms what they will do when they meet. The basis of good relationships between people, regardless of the nature of the relationship is mutual respect. There is no mutual respect on adult dating sites.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for the understanding Baise_Moi. Meeting people is a lot harder than I anticipated. I thought people joined adult dating sites to meet other people for mutual fun. I am no longer sure that this is the case.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Women want to be taken Caveman style.Me Tarzan you Jane. I will remind you what a man is ....are you wwoman enough
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RHP User
16 years ago
Women want to be taken Caveman style.Me Tarzan you Jane. I will remind you what a man is ....are you wwoman enough
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RHP User
16 years ago
Women want to be taken Caveman style.Me Tarzan you Jane. I will remind you what a man is ....are you wwoman enough
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