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What makes someone SEXY ;)
August 04 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
a nice water tank... that will do it.. ps.. no idea why your haing trouble.. other than you are a plane fair away.. just a wild guess.. but i think geeky would melt for you.. where are you son?? LRE (working in the redhead factory)
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RHP User
17 years ago
There are so many variables and so many different people out there that I think this question is just not able to be answered satisfactorily. A bit like "the meaning of life" different for everyone. Some guys prefer small women some prefer BBW. Some like sexy flirty some like shy and bookish. Sorry but this one comes down to personal preference. Cheers, R n D
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RHP User
17 years ago
Sexy, by an individual’s perspective, could be summed up by Forrest Gump “…. You never know what you’re going to get’. What tickles one’s fancy, may not even come close to floating another’s boat. For example, the vast majority of my friends would chew broken glass for their 2 seconds with Jennifer Hawkins. Me, no thanks (NO I AM NOT GAY! LOL) I just don’t feel that attraction for her, hence, don’t see her as sexy. On the other hand, Livinia Nixon will have me run from one side of town to the other just to catch a glimpse of her? Go figure? For me, looks aren’t that important. If you are confident, witty, and for me, have a cheeky, almost devilish smile, and I can connect on a mental level, then we are halfway there. Put yourself out there the way you want people to see you, intellectually and via image, to attract the sort of people you are looking for. Be patient, it will happen.
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RHP User
17 years ago
someone with amazing eyes is def sexy to me!!!!!!!!!!! i guess different things on different people are sexy.... for example.. 1. eyes, win me over every time. 2. tattoos on some guys ive seen are sexy, specially when it goes up aound his neck yummmmmmm 3. hands..... specially when you know what he can do with them ;) 4. a perfect tan... sometimes does it for me.... specially in nudies case :) 5. a great sence of humour is also sexy 6. Arms, another great one 7. mmmmm someone back.... well i dunno if any of the above has um helped ya.... but thats what i find sexy :) n good luck tiges xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Believe in YOURSELF....That's SEXY Portray the real YOU....That's SEXY We are all UNIQUE.......That's SEXY I am ME......................I'M SEXY............I believe in ME dazichane
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well i have my sexy guy at home.... but if one walks past me in the street, what do i look for, firstly im a face person, nothing like a good looking guy, tall, broad shoulders, has to have nice hands, and a nice butt, and then good shoes, dont know what it is about shoes, lol Mrs H
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think Roughneck said it pretty well, It comes down to personal preference, most of us have our preferred body & personality type, just as you do! Apart from that sexy is a state of mind. Also the more specific your wish list is, the harder it will be to meet someone, it could be a case of chucking the baby out with the bathwater. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
17 years ago
.. Is what Dazi said... and Be extremely happy with what you have around you be extremely loves who you are. Loving oneself is ok.. it just swaying "I enjoy being me! i love this life i have!" etc etc As an intelligent, gsoh fun guy, I seek gals not only hot in bed, but can be able to stimulate my mind other times. But thats me :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
are you sexy???? to me your name, pics and what I interpret your attitude to be through your profile makes you sexy so yes you are. but meeting may not have the same affect or may enhance what i already think. no doubt people who are gifted in describing themselves in profiles do very well on here, if they can back it up in the flesh, then there are others, me included who may have poor skills in this area. at the end of the day face to face is the only way to tell. i enjoy the openess of what you ask and say. good luck PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
mmmmmm....eyes and smile do it for me... not the size of shape of his cock..like men make us think we are attracted..ok ok..Some men...lolol
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RHP User
17 years ago
yep thats right i make myself damn sexy heheheheheh oh and still single wooohoooo mal
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well Busty for me it's very simple. Two things to be honest: 1) A man who makes me feel safe and protected without being jealous, clingy, standoffish, OVER-protective or arrogant with my trust. 2) What I call "man-smell". A very good male friend/lover of mine gets me going every time just when we hug. Fully clothed no less. He takes care to shower regularly and use MINIMAL cologne which makes the natural smell of his body come through......and it's YUMMY!!!!! Karlyn x
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RHP User
17 years ago
Busty: You have nothing to worry about sweetheart, you are a very attractive woman. For me to find someone attractive (sorry really dislike that word sexy as it speaks to the insecurities that society attempts to build into us *shudder*) all you need is a glimmer in your eye and a wicked smile on your face that suggests things that are best left unspoken in public ;) When opening your picture the smile that suggests more than it tells and the playful light in your eyes makes you very attractive. The green hair speaks to a quirky sense of humour which I think is reflected in your eyes and that is quite intriguing. I think that men who overlook you probably aren't worth your time anyway :) I find that men and women can be very shallow and not look more closely at a picture to find the real person hiding underneath the masks that we so easily hide behind.
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RHP User
17 years ago
In my opinion the same thing can make sexy, as quick as it can make UN-sexy!! That is confidence. I mean being able to look someone in the eyes when you speak to them. Really listening to them, and being honest. Ask any guy, within reason, body shape or size, etc matters little when a confident girl walks into a room.... On the other hand, over confident people, I find a turn off.
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RHP User
17 years ago
My thoughts : A nice smile and some words that reciprocate, feelings evening in an innocent conversation. Its interesting people sometimes only see the I want I want, which can be nice to to have desires and be desired. But I feel that simple words and pleasantries are a start to something promising. Regards abitofflavor
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RHP User
17 years ago
Nice smile, but the eyes have to smile too...but the best thing is - your mind. That is one powerful weapon and very very sexy.
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RHP User
17 years ago
1-people that are themselves...(obviously not the self proclaimed dkhd's) 2-people that can laugh at themselves 3-those smiles, u know the contagious ones, the ones that make U yourself smile & wriggle with delight mmmmm yup yep yeeaahhsss
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tripod8barbie
17 years ago
I agree that we each find different things sexy which is a great thing since we are all different in our own right. I tend to go for the face and eyes firstly but then it really comes down to the whole package including the personality. Some of the sexiest looking people really just don't do it for me because they can't back it up with a Great Personality Sexy is definately something that comes from within....Having the Confidence and the Cheeky Streak without becoming too over confident is the key regardless of size, age, gender, hair colour, eye colour etc. If you feel sexy it comes across to others Sometimes you have to put yourself out there in order for people to notice and faking it til you feel it is a good way to get out there.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Not really an answer to the post but just wanted to say:-Busty you look great to me :) and as a woman with curves myself i wish i had the nouse to go out there and die my hair blue and green lol looks great i agree with the post above get out there and the saying is true to some extent Fake it til you Make it~it is highly used in the unemployment industry too so i dont see why it cant be used to your advantage in your personal life Good Luck cheers
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RHP User
17 years ago
As much as being yourself and confident in yourself is the key, I believe a crucial criteria is ensuring your in an environment...were you trust enough to be yourself. With out the trust factor I find being open and honest a bit hard
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RHP User
17 years ago
well i find long black hair and long red hair extremely sexy... (thow not both on the same head).. pale white skin and freckles thats sexy too... a beautiful glowing smile is the first thing i see usually... as far as looks there just guide lines as i find beauty in all shapes and sizes and in all reces ... what turns me on the most is the chemistry i have with someone... someone who isnt afraid to ask what they want or like... someone who doesnt seek more then what was discussed... (thow sometimes thats a bonus but not always) i love openess and honesty and i find extremely sexy is a partner who askes for me to please her often..as i do like to hear her ask.... but above all i love to share my girl with another sexy lass who craves exactly the same (ok well it is every guys dream to be with 2girls) i have and im hooked ... so much so id love 2 be in a full time love triangle thow i know theres little chance... its nice to dream hey
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RHP User
17 years ago
FIRST OF ALL. you locked your profile, so how can anyone contact you if you do that? secondly a lot o women complain about the same thing but when a guy approaches them they refuse because in less than a few seconds they "know" that guy is something they dont like. u see women are very judgmental by the very nature. this is why women bitch more than men. and this is why ts eaiser for a woman to get a guy than for a guy to get a woman. plus guys have more guts to take chances i had girl refusing me cause they thought i was a player ..this is after only few seconds..you see guys never jump onto conclusion or judge you easily what im trying to say is is not about being sexy the easiest thing is to get a guy in a bed. it is about giving people chance and taking chances. and for gods sake dont lock your profile and then winge how u not getting laid..fuck you if you want to ..of course right now you are thinking how rude and asshole i am..am i right?lol. if i am then you did not get a thing about what i said
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RHP User
17 years ago
Busty_Wench1's post is close to a month old and her profile was unlocked till recently...maybe she found what she was looking for??? Your response does not in any way answer her post (What makes someone SEXY ;)) and makes generalisations bout the female and male sex which makes me wonder if perhaps you wouldn't be better off with a guy if you see them as so much better than woman! As many RHP members are happy to do for people who just want to bitch lately, I would like to refer you PerthDom's bitch session post under hot topics! :-P Busty_Wench1...I don't find sexy that easy to classify, which is why I haven't responded to your post before...but I have enjoyed reading your responses :-) Ciao 4 Now... MrsP :-Deb x
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RHP User
17 years ago
whatt is sexy busty. sexy is not a look in my opinion. sexy is a combination of lots of things like smell, voice , personality,openness , understanding and more. As long as people continue to pass judgement on others looks and desires our ability to understand what sexy is will be cloudy. Its just so much more , more than words can describe. Everyone is sexy to me in there own special way. crazycritter i
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RHP User
17 years ago
interesting that after reading your minor rant and rave i went to check YOUR profile ..only to find it LOCKED !!!!! isnt there a saying about pot calling kettle black.?!?!?!?! in response to the post...... busty.. i find many things sexy in a man, but eyes have to be a big one for me along with smile, but then again any guy who can get me relaxed and laughing in the first few mins also has me ..... lava xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think everyone is sexy to someone. Generalisation says sexy is slim toned tanned.. I met one of the sexiest ladies off this site not so long ago .. slim short and shapely, attractive, dark hair. great personality, friendly, small butterfly tatt on her butt, and glasses which made this vixen look oooohhh soooooo innocent lol. All this gave her sex appeal, there is no doubt about that but what i found most sexy about her was her body language, her mannerisms and innuendos, she just oozed sexuality and carried it thru to the very end. She will be etched in my memory forever lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
Being sexy is more than just something physical, it's more a behaviour plus atitutude, it's not something that can be pretended (at least not for long). Eg. a fully dressed person can be sexier than someone who is naked.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Intelligence and the ability to hold a stimulating conversation is always a huge turn on for me, i love a quick mind and mental foreplay. I'm also a sucker for earrings on a man - something very, very sexy about a man who wears his jewellery well. Being a fan of perfume/cologne on the easiest ways to turn my head is to smell good, nothing overpowering just enough to etch you in ladies mind. i still recall certain men by the cologne they wore - years later! Aside from that - confidence in oneself always makes someone that much more appealing.
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RHP User
17 years ago
" SEXY!!!...4 me, I believe sexy cummms in all forms ...A well manicured & styled lady will do it 4 me everytime...hair,eyes,confident posture & walk, sensually & seductively cheeky...butt not loose, level head'd smart, not too many inhibitions..."' REV Lustschild'
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RHP User
17 years ago
in the attitude...confidence without being cocky...sensitivity with strength...and that something indefinable that makes you catch your breath ;-) MrsP oxo
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well for me it is: - Long hair - Inviting eyes - A smile that makes you smile These are what I look for first. body shape etc are not that important but there still has to be an attraction ;) Personality counts a lot for example I like: - Someone that knows what they want in life - Is willing to explore life and what it has to offer - Knows who they are They would be the importrant traits :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
What makes someone...? Their very essence... that's what it is!
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RHP User
17 years ago
For me, being sexy is all about having the right attitude, not only about yourself but also about other people and the world around you. I dont think I can really put my finger on "sex appeal" but it's things like..values, intelligence, a smile for a stranger, having a glint in your eye like youve just done something deliciously decadent, confidence in your own skin. Think Jack Nichollson, Gordon Ramsay, Katie Noonan, Ben Lee and Parisian women...not fitting the physical mould of sexiness but man do these people have that "WOW" factor! Love yourself and the sex appeal will come! Rosie
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RHP User
17 years ago
Someone that I feel comfortable with that either clearly lets me know they are interested, or that makes the moves. I hate having to guess things, and I'm pretty clueless at picking up the hints. The blue and green hair is rad. I miss having sea green coloured hair. :( LOL! A lot of people won't like the hair, and that's OK, because you should be fairly used to that by now. The main thing is that YOU like it, and that the people who like it LOVE it! I have two favourite circumstances surrounding my blue green hair.. A lady and her grand daughter in the shopping centre and the child says rather loudly 'That boy has green hair Nanny!' and I turned and said 'Yes I do, do you like it?' and she said 'No, it's yucky!' HAHAHAHA! But the Grandma said 'Well I think it's very nice.' and she seemed genuine. The other one was getting off the train and walking home when this guy from behind goes 'Nice colour hair mate' to which I replied 'Thanks!' only to have him continue with 'I bet your parents are really proud' Actually my parents were really proud. My Mum loved her 'jelly bean' and they were both really proud of the fact I was doing so well at Uni and being exhibited at MCA in Sydney. Poor fella obviously felt threatened. Meanwhile... I'm awesome! LOL!
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RHP User
17 years ago
for me, looks are not that important. many people are stunners, but thats where it ends. i like conversation, bubbly personia,a bright smile,personality,genuine person.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Sounds like a tough one mate, I think that ship has sailed hon. sorry
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RHP User
17 years ago
There's no way i can honesty tell you whether i find you sexy or not lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
A healthy confidence, not overly so! I find when people try to look sexy, they just look funny & make me lol, but when a person feels sexy, they seem to emit it. I personally love eyes, because i do believe the old saying of "the eyes are the window to the soul".
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platinumblonde69
17 years ago
For me sexy is a total package. Someone who can communicate, display humour and wit, be well groomed, and be easy on the eye. Oh, and a nice looking cock can also be a bonus. hahahaha. But seriously, not everyone is attracted to everyone (although some guys in chat swear all women are sexy.....which i dont believe, cause i dont find all men sexy). I have met total model looks guys with zero personality and presence real life, and some pretty ordinary looking guys who if i didnt chat to them first, i prob would not look twice at in the 'real" world. Sexiness isnt about body shape, hair colour, cock length, its about a confidence u ooze about being happy with the real u.
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RHP User
17 years ago
For me? the eyes...their smile and their smell...xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Its all about attitude!!!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Definitely you can't decide until meeting someone if you find them sexy. I've met hot girls who've put me off with their attitude and vice versa. Overall though, someone who is independant and interesting gets a good start.
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RHP User
17 years ago
There are many things that I find 'sexy' both physically and personality wise. Physically I'd have to say, nice shapely legs, breasts, a killer smile and eyes will get my attention Personality wise a good sense of humour, with a bit of a cheeky side will always do the trick for me, as will intelligence and also a bit of inner child when called for
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RHP User
17 years ago
I like really natural looking girls ... someone that is just naturally beautiful, and doesn't have to put a lot of make up on or spend too much time on their hair, a beautiful face and next would be a sexy pair of legs ... legs, ankles and feet ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
There are so many variables to this one. Lets pick a few. a) Distance. You might see someone across the street and think, mmm, yummy. Get closer and the opinion may be reinforced, or totally changed. Of course it works in the opposite too. A nice smile, a certain sparkle in the eye - lots of different things. b) Physical versus mental. A woman may be quite attractive, and a total pain / turn off. Of course this one has a vice-versa too. c) Totally unknown. There is a woman here that works in a club. She is lucky to be 5ft tall. She has bowed, hairy legs, she has a mouthful of teeth that are beyond the capability of any dentist to repair, she cant hold a conversation. She is generally unattractive. I am not joking with this description. Despite all this there is just SOMETHING about her, and a few mates agree with me. The person that works out what it is, and how to bottle it will be able to retire their great grandchildren.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I used to work with a bunch of guys in a mobile situation. Often there would a minimum number of available, attractive women in whichever place we happened to be. It didnt take me long to work out a plan. I would make my presence known, just very briefly, to the woman in question - while the other guys tried their hardest, bought drinks, etc, etc. At an opportune time, and not too quickly, I would flash up the 'lawnmower' and go in and cut the grass. It was astounding how often it would work - much to the disgust of my mates that were fawning and drink buying. I remember one guy that got really shitty and started on this whole noisy "he just wants to get into your pants" rave to the woman. Didnt make any difference, as I doubt it was a shock to her. ;<)
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RHP User
17 years ago
For a woman to be sexy, in my opinon, is simply in the way she carries/presents herself. Looks really dont play a part in sexiness, that falls more into attraction department, all though in saying that a womans eyes are definatlely sexy. But as i said in th above statement, if a woman can present herself in a confident, uplifting, bubbly, flirty manner, that cuts in for my definition of sexy. Roundhousenorris
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