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What were they thinking?
June 06 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just block them...I wouldn't even give them the time of day to come back with any type of reply! Some guys are just so up themselves that they can't believe that ANYONE would turn them down! It is their insecurity not yours! I had a guy tell me today that it was "your loss" cause I didn't think anything after a few messages (no chemistry)...That saying has me laughing my arse completely off as how can it be a loss when you have never met the guy and really...us girls do have the pick of the crop on here! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
As funloving mentioned..How can it be our loss when we never met? Silly boys ! :P ooohhh..I got one..He asked if I wanted him to rip me a new hole.. Charming lil man, who I just cannot remember why I blocked him Men get frustrated.. women get frustrated..I mean how much can a koala bare with all the rejection? I guess manners go out the window sometimes..sad that. Hey I can go out dressed to the 9's but guys wont even approach me! lol.. They go after the chcikies with bigger boobs..lol.. sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
THAT WE NEVER REPY TO MESSAGES
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CoastFunSeekers
15 years ago
Its called rejection - most guys can't handle it, block them and move on to all the nice people that do frequent these sitesCFL
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RHP User
15 years ago
They obviously have an issue with feeling rejected. This would make it their problem, not yours. Unfortunately shit happens, but it is usually caused by arseholes. There are those of us who, whilst being dissapointed by a rejection, can be man enough to cop it on the chin and move on. I hate rejection as much as the next bloke, but know my particular thing I am after is, unfortunately not for everyone, no matter how much I know they would love it if they gave it a chance.
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RHP User
15 years ago
name and shame,,,, or is that petty,,,,
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RHP User
15 years ago
These guys are clearly desperate. The fact that they initiated contact with you and then after being 'rejected' come out with those nasty comments just shows how dumb some people are. I'm sure they would be complimenting your arse given the chance :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
To all the guys out there who wonder why they cant get to first base.. Just read what naughtynessie has to say then you will know. To all you guys who are the sincere honest types, you can thank these wankers for dragging you along with them.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Morning coffee and a read of the RHP should be a nice event.. but sometimes the coffee will taste bitter after reading the morning news..lol.. The guy who let's you know your daft, cause you declined...He feels that because he can offer a great MFM or MMMF for me that I should be jumping on my bed, jumping in the shower and saying come get me boys !!! ( I do have on my profile * straight guys only*). My profile, my choice. The guy who let's me know that it's a shame I declined as he comes down to Bunbury often, but was polite and wished me well. The hottie that asked if I come to Perth often...No dear, It does not matter how hot you are I have it on my profile I don't get up to Perth. To which he replied * well if it is a sure thing then I will drive to you*...I don't make promises I can't keep as you have to meet to see if that connection is there. I do have it on my profile * meet first play later*. oohhhh...and I did have to be ME and let him know that I am proud that I actually do read profiles..LOL.. Some read, some don't. Some are sweet, some are sour. Some are polite, some are ill mannered. Some are funny, some are crude. Some think just cause they offer we should be thankful and lie down with our legs open wide....Quite a funny world we live in really...lol Huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Just block them...I wouldn't even give them the time of day to come back with any type of reply! Some guys are just so up themselves that they can't believe that ANYONE would turn them down! It is their insecurity not yours! I had a guy tell me today that it was "your loss" cause I didn't think anything after a few messages (no chemistry)...That saying has me laughing my arse completely off as how can it be a loss when you have never met the guy and really...us girls do have the pick of the crop on here! xFunlovingx Spot on....tell them to fuck off by blocking them. They aren't worth your time and it's a reflection on them, not you. What a bunch of dicks!!xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
What you should do is start conversation with them and encourage them to let you know more about them and then fire a message back simular to theirs. or Even better would be to arrange to meet these dip shits and then just never show up have them on a string after all they sound like dead shits
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RHP User
15 years ago
Unfortunately some people's egos can't take the bruising that a 'no thank you' elicits. I've never understood it myself, personally I think that people being polite enough to say 'thanks, but no thanks' is in itself something to be respected. Flying off the deep end like that's really just childish - I suppose in one way while they're trying to push what you're 'missing out on' they're letting you know about the bullet you dodged ;P
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks guys, I really appreciated your opinions on this. Like most of you suggested I have blocked these guys and not bothered with a response. I think I have dodged a few bullets, I can’t begin to imagine how they would react if I were to upset them in person. Now looking for a kind sexy man to enjoy Nessy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
nah fuck withem its more fun
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RHP User
15 years ago
welcome to the less than attractive side of internet play-dating........... these guys are wankers. so dont give them credence by posting that you were upset by the tactics they employed. its just bullying. childish selfish bullying. write it off to experience and hey, its their loss not yours..........
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
JUst block them...but hey you should also tell everyone their usernames so others know who to avoid!
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RHP User
15 years ago
just block them Think for a minute if they are like that when u say no thanks here on rhp What would they be like if u were alone and they didnt like they way u spoke to them face to face these men have problems with woman and the word no Just tell that their mother wasted a good blow job for them to come into the world now go away and do something with your life then block them hahaha
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'I know it's very tempting to get even, to teach them a lesson, but please considerthat everything you water will grow. Everything you turn your attention to will have an impact on your day.I seriously doubt that any response or action you take will "teach a lesson" as people on that level of abusive responses are pretty locked into their own behaviour.Save your energy and direct it somewhere positive that will make your day better and allow the abuse to roll off your back without another thought.I wouldn't just block, I'd probably report it as well. There's no excuse for abusive emails and RHP admin really are the only ones that are able to ensure the next girl doesn't get the same disgusting reply. That is something positive you can do that will definitely ensure you're moving in a self-beneficial direction.Excellent posting! It sounds much better coming from a woman too.There's one other thing that you can do and come to think of it, this might be a reasonable approach for all the women here. For every guy that you report and block for an abusive message, reward one guy who sent you something original and that showed some effort.Even if you just tell him (by templated reply?) that you liked his letter and wish him well, but he's not your type. If every woman did this, the bar would come up. Dickheads would slowly drop off and decent guys wouldn't lose heart. You have the ability to fix it, you just need to commit to a tiny bit of effort...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow09' What you should do is start conversation with them and encourage them to let you know more about them and then fire a message back simular to theirs. or Even better would be to arrange to meet these dip shits and then just never show up have them on a string after all they sound like dead shits Sorry wow have to disagree here .... no need for the ladies to lower their 'standards' for tools who don't know what 'standards ' are. Some of these boofheads (nicer than dickheads lol) couldn't even get laid at the local brothel as their manners are that poor lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was always told never to walk out of a job giving the boss the finger, if these fools had responded in kind and maybe waited patiently you may have given them a second thought, but to their own detriment and thank god showing their true colours they have shown what a complete waste of time they are.Keep looking Naughtynessy your suitor will arrive and good luck.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Block! Don't feed their behaviour. Never lower yourself to their level. Just my opinion. xxx Trust me there are some great guys and girls on this site. Take care xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Personally I think dating sites like this are great way to meet people and Im glad that its available to all of us. But like all good things there is a downside. Guys like that have an opportunity to "say" things to your face that their sad little minds conjure up and wouldnt have the (brain)balls to say to your face in person, simply because of rejection. And because of them ,we men, who are a bit more thoughtfull,polite, and hopefully decent get painted with the same brush( hopefully just a little bit). Im sorry you have to put up with insults like that. All of you women deserve better. ps if you do message them back please correct their spelling for them, I know its trivial but "hore", thats just pathetic.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'I know it's very tempting to get even, to teach them a lesson, but please consider that everything you water will grow. Everything you turn your attention to will have an impact on your day. I seriously doubt that any response or action you take will "teach a lesson" as people on that level of abusive responses are pretty locked into their own behaviour. Save your energy and direct it somewhere positive that will make your day better and allow the abuse to roll off your back without another thought. I wouldn't just block, I'd probably report it as well. There's no excuse for abusive emails and RHP admin really are the only ones that are able to ensure the next girl doesn't get the same disgusting reply. That is something positive you can do that will definitely ensure you're moving in a self-beneficial direction.Excellent posting! It sounds much better coming from a woman too.There's one other thing that you can do and come to think of it, this might be a reasonable approach for all the women here. For every guy that you report and block for an abusive message, reward one guy who sent you something original and that showed some effort.Even if you just tell him (by templated reply?) that you liked his letter and wish him well, but he's not your type. If every woman did this, the bar would come up. Dickheads would slowly drop off and decent guys wouldn't lose heart. You have the ability to fix it, you just need to commit to a tiny bit of effort... I have had the dipstick abusive messages .. from one person .. who was reposrted and put in block .. unfortunately ..he still remains on the system atm .. But I have also followed Snowshoes advice .. from the day I joined RHP .. a little bit of niceness goes a long way ..
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RHP User
15 years ago
The morning news....This was a guys reply to me when I told him that I won't discuss what fun I have had on this site.. its just a casual question honey dont flatter yourself for someone that like to be used like a basketball you sure are sensitive are you under the impression that your a lady, darling your just a slut read your profile Funny as he had said that he needed an intelligent conversation. ok..I am laughin way too hard here... hahha.. sweetpetite41
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have no idea why these guys respond the way they do but like sweetpetitie I have decided to laugh, no point getting upset about it. I would rather get the poor responce via a message than in person, so maybe it is a good thing these people are so good at showing their true colours.
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RHP User
15 years ago
This was a message to a guy this morning..now normally I would just ignore and block.. You know ..I am sick of some of you men saying that it is my loss! How is it my loss? We have never meet! This site is like any other site...We are all here to find what appeals. Just the same as meeting someone in real life. Just because someone wants to meet another does not mean they have too. You say in your profile that you have lead a sheltered life. Well let me explain something to you.. The woman on here are not whores! We are normal everyday women who hold real jobs, have childen, help in community events..NORMAL! If you think that any woman on here should drop on their knees and thank a guy for their attention..Sir, it will be your loss and your undoing to meet any lady from here. It is my choice to decline and I did politely decline. Grow up and accept it! I myself have been rejected or stuffed around and I accept it. I do hope that you hear my words and have some respect for the women on here who are just open minded and wishing to explore their desires... with whom they choose.. We have the right to choose! A narrow mind = A narrow heart and soul. Good luck to you Sir. .....Now, I did proberly over step with this message... but I guess I wasn't in the mood for another * Your loss* message. Coffee time ! :P sweetpetite41
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is not at all a comment about your butt...I prefer to save those judgements till after first hand inspection. However the picture itself is not very good. The little lacey thing you are wearing creates a weird illusions...the seam on it roughly traces where your saceral crease is (the fold of skin under the bum). When your first look at the pic it appears as if the rest of your body is in doggy position...and normally in doggy position there would not be that much of a skin fold along the saceral crease. You are actually upright but on your knees and when you look more closely at the pic you see your bum is still plump but a pretty nice shape. As for comments from guys - rejection is the word...I mean absolutely no disrespect by this but if a guy gets rejected by Elle Macpherson he can handle it a lot easier than when he gets rejected by somebody who he perceives as unattractive. I am prepared to bet the mind sets of the guys that contacted you were that "she'll be good for a night - I'd actually be doing her a favour by having sex with her". And to have their gratuity rejected adds insult to injury. The other thing to bear in mind is that this is online dating. Of course we all know that they are real people reading our messages but the nature of online dating is that you think of these people more as words on a screen - not actual people with real emotions. To be honest - online dating is a pretty horrible place for all players - very few people show basic consideration for each other
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