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What would you do....
August 29 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
days of our teenage schoolyard lives.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'd tell her to pull her head in 😇 Why is girl 1 upset if she didn't want to continue with him? Women, I can't figure them out 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Introduce them to swinging, all 3 can get it in together 😛
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RHP User
8 years ago
oops get it 'on' I meant, or did I? 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
1. She ended it 2. But kinda ended....? Leaves avenues open and confusion so 3. Number 2 creates number 3 where she goes nuts if they have still been playing and he kisses girl 2. No wrong or right. A lot of factors that can be misread by each single element. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
MOWED someones grass... 😂😂😂 A tad jealous and had tagged the fella. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Girl 1 or Girl 2? or asking for a friend?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Grown ups do what they wanna do, it's no business of anyone else's to gossip or get involved (unless your opinion is requested). 👍😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not sure if girl #1 was the one to end it or not. I have a feeling she did. I'm not either girl, just thought this situation was dumb and wanted to see if you all agreed. I don't see the issue, I'm not sure why girl #1 is upset or even know why she thinks she has a right to be... Not sure of other people here practice non attachment as my partner and I do hahaha
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RHP User
8 years ago
You want me to send that shit storm your way??? Bahahaha
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can understand getting a bit upset, even if you don't really have any sort of claim on someone - it can still sting. But how "nuts" is "going nuts"?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Women seem to have this unwritten rule that if a friend or colleague has dated a guy that makes him off limits to everyone else in that circle. I find this a little frustrating as I dated a girl for a short time, it ended between us but we remained friends.I now have the major hots for one of her friends but I'm not even going to bother trying as I know for a fact I don't have a chance as she's very close to the girl I dated and won't violate the girl code.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If I was girl 1...I ditched the guy for a reason, so good luck to whoever he's with next (that wasn't intended to sound malicious...What I didn't like, someone else might really like and it would work out for them). If I was girl 2...it wouldn't have happened. Plenty of men out there..I don't need friend's or workmates "cast offs". I also wouldn't be playing around with the workplace player (MY own interpretation...if he's going through all the women he works with). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
of who girl 1 and girl 2 are, I don't have an opinion on that anyway, but it makes no difference re the question and/or our ability to answer it. The reaction from girl 1, this is a fun topic btw 😀 her reaction is natural I guess if she's still into the guy, if she was the dumpee and not the dumper, that little detail makes a big difference. Most people dumping someone do it because they're not into that person and couldn't give a crap who else they're with. The dumpee however will suffer seeing them with new partners, like taking a knife in the heart. The full extent of their feelings may not always be sharing fully/fully disclosed, a defence mechanism we fragile humans use 😉
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Tara72
8 years ago
But still blown way out of proportion. Girl 1 wouldn't have a problem unless she still has feelings for the guy (or a passionate hatred). Girl 2 and the guy should both have shown a little courtesy and sensitivity and consulted with girl 1 if they were embarking on a relationship. Professionalism would normally suggest not dating at work anyway, or at least not bringing any relationship you do have to work with you. But as earlier posters have noted the whole situation has the pettiness of the schoolyard about it...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Fuck me....sounds to me someone needs a happy meal lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
This is my thoughts too. Sure it might sting, but I don't understand the behaviour, I'd let my feelings out to my close friends and move on. I wouldn't even say they were dating. Going nuts as in having to be dragged out by a bouncer....
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RHP User
8 years ago
See my comment above. I don't shit where I eat, so no, I'm definitely not any of the people in this situation. Don't see why it would matter anyway? 'Kinda' is because they weren't really going out so to speak, so there was nothing to end.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Pommyfucker' Women seem to have this unwritten rule that if a friend or colleague has dated a guy that makes him off limits to everyone else in that circle. I find this a little frustrating as I dated a girl for a short time, it ended between us but we remained friends.I now have the major hots for one of her friends but I'm not even going to bother trying as I know for a fact I don't have a chance as she's very close to the girl I dated and won't violate the girl code. Yeah never understood this myself, it depends on how long and intense it was. But if you were never an actually couple. I don't understand it. but everyone is different
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Eiliethiya' If I was girl 1...I ditched the guy for a reason, so good luck to whoever he's with next (that wasn't intended to sound malicious...What I didn't like, someone else might really like and it would work out for them). If I was girl 2...it wouldn't have happened. Plenty of men out there..I don't need friend's or workmates "cast offs". I also wouldn't be playing around with the workplace player (MY own interpretation...if he's going through all the women he works with). - Posted from rhpmobile I agree, I would never have been in Girl 2s shoes either. But that is only because I don't shit where I eat. But I never see anyone as somebody else's property. I respect boundaries, you have to in this scene. But I don't get the possessiveness of some people. It's just fascinating to me.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' of who girl 1 and girl 2 are, I don't have an opinion on that anyway, but it makes no difference re the question and/or our ability to answer it. The reaction from girl 1, this is a fun topic btw 😀 her reaction is natural I guess if she's still into the guy, if she was the dumpee and not the dumper, that little detail makes a big difference. Most people dumping someone do it because they're not into that person and couldn't give a crap who else they're with. The dumpee however will suffer seeing them with new partners, like taking a knife in the heart. The full extent of their feelings may not always be sharing fully/fully disclosed, a defence mechanism we fragile humans use 😉 I'm almost 99% sure she did the dumping. It was at least mutual. I find her reaction crazy, as in... I couldn't imagine it... I just don't ever see myself acting this way. I mean I sure went crazy when my ex cheated, but we were swingers and had boundaries and we were getting married in 2 months haha
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Tara72' But still blown way out of proportion. Girl 1 wouldn't have a problem unless she still has feelings for the guy (or a passionate hatred). Girl 2 and the guy should both have shown a little courtesy and sensitivity and consulted with girl 1 if they were embarking on a relationship. Professionalism would normally suggest not dating at work anyway, or at least not bringing any relationship you do have to work with you. But as earlier posters have noted the whole situation has the pettiness of the schoolyard about it... Yes, it is petty as I stated in my op. So childish by everyone involved. I think girl 2 and the guy didn't intend on anyone finding out for a bit. They were just drunk and shit happened I suppose. I don't think they intentionally meant to hurt anyone. There are full on Facebook posts about it all now, and the two girls work in very close quarters... Not looking forward to the weekend. I have to laugh over it, I never get involved on work politics, this behaviour from adults just blows my mind.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It depends how deep the feelings were. Just to be clear though, I am also not possessive, not anymore, I used to be once. That said, yes it would be difficult, but I would be happy for him. Love and a quick fling without the deep connection are two different things though. Only happened to me twice in my time on here, one was RL, the first was a player anyway, we're still friends, was just talking to him yesterday. Waves to him, re the player, you know it baby, you're the best in the business 😉 The other I'm also still friends with, bit of a shaky transition but I'm very happy to still have him as a friend. I would hope that he will share that part of his life with me, and not feel the need to conceal it from me. Although a bit difficult, I only want him to be happy and will be happy for him. Life moves on, we move on, and we don't have any right to claim ownership of that person. Just my experience in recent years. Different story when I was young though so can appreciate how hard it can be 😃
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RHP User
8 years ago
Girl 1 should fuck the boys best friend. Then they can all date together! 😝
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'MsSexyDeviants' I agree, I would never have been in Girl 2s shoes either. But that is only because I don't shit where I eat. But I never see anyone as somebody else's property. I respect boundaries, you have to in this scene. But I don't get the possessiveness of some people. It's just fascinating to me. I don't get the possessiveness thing either. My comment wasn't from a possessive or "owning" the guy viewpoint. Only that I'm happy to find/meet men on my own...and not rely on guys I may have met through a friend (someone she has slept with). And though no one's virginal these days, like I said...enough men in the world, I don't need 'hand me downs' lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
then this WOMAN set me straight...."Don't try to understand us women.. WE understand Women... and we fckn HATE each other" Fair call...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Girl 2 found Girl 1's stash it seems :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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