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Whats Wrong With Guys

September 07 2009

What wrong with these guys?????They send you messages saying your profile caught their eye!And they couldnt resist in sending you a message and how they like to get to know you.So we females read and like sound of there profile ect ect so repklyu back as they sound genuineSo few emails go to and fro for awhile.exchange email accounts and ph numbers they send you texts and guantee at the end of the text message they write babeSo the big day/night arrives to finally meet...Get on really well share a few laughs ect ect At the end of the nigh the says chat to you soon sweetie and all the sweet talk that goes with it.And dont hear from them again.In my case i did meet a particular guy off the site we got on so well he left never heard from him until i sent text asking if i had done anything wrong as i had not heard from him like i usually didHis text back(Was not was not u babe its me im not ready)I would like to know what NOT READY means to a guy?IF YA NOT READY FOR ANYTHING WHY BE ON THE SITENot like i was asking him to marry me lolThey see your photo and read your profile so not like they dont know what you look like and profile cover your interest and what yuou looking for.SO GUYS THINK ABOUT THIS B4 YOU DO IT US FEMALES R NOT STUPID JUST GOT WISER

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RHP User

16 years ago

"Was not u babe its me im not ready" is the nice way of him saying he's not interested.Seeing ur pic and reading your profile only gives men/women a brief outline about the person.Meeting them in person is a totally different story. mr pip

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RHP User

16 years ago

Mr Pip, I agree with you.........it's a polite way of saying that maybe you didn't rock his world (or even rock the bits of him he wanted rocked)Pictures, profiles and texts give you some information about the person.....but let's be real here......anyone could say anything on these things. It's not until you meet someone in person that you really get an idea of who they are.......would you really prefer someone to just come straight out and say "Look, I just don't like you"? I think the "was not u babe, it's me I'm not ready" just softens the blow a little. And in reality - just because we've met someone once, it doesn't mean that we have to expect something else to happen. As for sending a text to ask if you did anything wrong......well that's just doing yourself a disservice - why does it have to be anything that you've done? Maybe he was just a tool and you had a lucky escape! Good luck with your search.........and if you don't hear back, maybe he just wasn't that into you. :)H xx

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RHP User

16 years ago

Easygoin I have been on the other end have agreed to meet at a pre determine place get there only to wait 1 hour and no show it has happened 3 times. So your lucky in a sense that they actually showed up

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RHP User

16 years ago

Struth. He might have been trying to let you down gently... well, that might have been in his mind... just sadly lacking in the creativity department so far as delivery is concerned.... but have you considered that yur instincts for liking him to begin with are accurate.... and maybe he really decided he wasn't ready. What's so wrong about a guy making that decision? :) Warm hugs Gazza

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RHP User

16 years ago

Profile could be a small and minute part of a person, sometimes its not them that all. Chat same.You cannot assess a person on one date.Chin upNot just here everywhere.Miss MAC

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RHP User

16 years ago

Im sorry to say but not every man hits it of with every female it is ok 4 males to not be interested I hope.

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RHP User

16 years ago

No use putting in any effort or wasting your thoughts on a person who is not interested.No man's worth chasing especially as there are so many other gorgeous specimens out there.Miss MAC

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