What's the deal? Legit hook ups or nah ????

May 31 2024

Heya, total n00b reporting in and awkwardly welcoming feedback in how guys experiences have been when asking out for first time etc. do you find casual or friends with benefits works ? Any tips to allow a date would be awesome. I just feel a lot of girls here are more so about benefits for them and money talks... Id love to meet a girl that's into same as me friendship and banging away as often as we can. Cheers in advance

Comments

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    2 years ago

    Well, you don’t have a photo and you have a date finder up asking for a sugar date. What else other than money talks are you expecting? Your profile is laid out to receive that.

  • GNUtous25

    GNUtous25

    2 years ago

    In my limited experience I'd suggest, decent photo/s, there is a lot of what you like, not what a potential partner would like. Be more tactful in your language. You will need to message a lot to get replies based on malevto female ratio. Make messages polite, bit sexy. A message is just to get them to see your profile. Than it's up to them to reply if there interested. Thick skin helps.

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    2 years ago

    As “single” males on here, far outnumber females (200 to 1 ?) you need to understand, and accept, that there will be a lot of competition. As a result of this highly skewed ratio, us females are “spoilt for choice”. Your profile is incomplete. You have not filled in all the drop down boxes and as such there is missing information. You have no photos - you have a blank profile. Your profile wording says nothing about you. What I do find off putting is “I can’t keep up with my sexual appetite “ . That is certainly not a good trait (in my opinion) nor a good opening line, and will most probably chase a lot of females away. It’s like saying “ I am a sexual beast and just can’t get enough, and as such you will need to accept that I will expect sex from you daily and on demand “. It implies that a date with you will be all about your sexual appetite, your wants, your needs, your expectations & your perceived entitlements. And that you cannot control nor can you keep up with your sexual appetite and desires and that ultimately you are looking “to go wild”. If that is all that you have to offer, and all that you are wanting & expecting (it appears that it is all about your sexual needs/your sexual appetite) you will most probably not get much response to your messages, and or only receive interest from women who want to be paid, for the service (satisfying your sexual appetite) that they give you. I therefore recommend that you put more effort and thought, into your profile. That is if you want to better your chances of meeting up and going on a date with a woman from here. Just my opinion, as a woman, based on your profile at this point of posting my comment.

  • Libertine001

    Libertine001

    2 years ago

    Even with the perfectly worded profile still may get you nowhere if the message isn't even looked at. It's a case of throw your hat in the ring and if something comes of it than fantastic otherwise it's just a move on... Libertine.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    You are wanting great returns, with no effort. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT! Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    In my opinion use send messages and try to establish connections that way. Be weary though as you will send many and receive very few replies. It's a tight rope but if you are respectful and not a dick people will reply. Read their profile also and make sure you align too :) I do agree with the others in the post. You should put up some photos though. Also using this forum is a good way to get people to notice you as well :) good luck playa :)