RHP

RHP User

M50 F34

Whats with that?

December 03 2017

Why do singles and some couples send the flirt saying 'damn you sure are hot, what do you think of me?'. It's an absurd way to approach a couple, because who are you talking to? Usually, it means the female, but we're a couple, not just a girl. And when a couple sends that? Who is asking exactly? We don't usually pay attention to flirts unless there is something particularly captivating about the flirter, but that particular one when sent seems too silly for a couple to read. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We should have flirts like :- “I know you’re a couple, but nothing a bat won’t fix, what do ya say?” Or .. “My god your missus is fucken hot, did she get her operation in Thailand? I’ve heard they do amazing stuff!!” Or... “I drink tea, you should both drink me...” Or.. “If go into the bush today you’re bound for a great surprise....yeah bloody crabs!!!” They’d seem more appropriate do you think? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I understand it's personal and not everyone likes flirts. I do however. They are less personal to me, with less pressure to reply, or less guilt over not replying. I think they're a good first move to gauge interest, then to messaging from there if both/all are keen. Re couples. If it's a genuine couple, then both would have checked you both out and think you're both hot? Never going to be 100% equal attraction I guess but enough to want to get to know you. Can't see the harm personally but that's just me. You can always ignore flirts or I think select something in settings to stop receiving them?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Flirt to a couples profile, they will be talking to you both as a couple. Eg they are interested in you both. On the other hand I’m sure there are plenty of others out there who may only be looking at one of you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I guess that may be true for some. I just read it in a literal way, so find it weird. But it could be just the way I have interpreted it. Or it's somewhere in the middle of those 2 possibilities. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    It is the standard flirt sent if they view you in the hot members section. Therefore the person who sends it doesnt have a choice of flirts. Take it as a mutual compliment on don't sweat on it 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It is good to have these different perspectives which I hadn't considered. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    lmao 😂😂 funny stuff

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    As they like the look of the couple. What makes you think they are only addressing one of you? Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    When they have no pics up. Fuctards

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Almost as annoying as my spell checker.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hot or Not. When you flick through the pics, RHP isends an auto flirt to those you think are hot. I get them all the time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    She is too hot for you. You are correct to be insecure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yes agree re no pictures 'I think you're hot. What do you think of me?' No pics, site needs to add this reply flirt 'How the fuck would I know?' 😂 More confusing when they flirt then block? I don't get that. Possibly a time wasting fake, who knows but that happens a lot. Got one today, no pics, no about me or looking for spiel, hardly any stats/heaps of ask me's. But the good news? He put in his star sign 😀 His sun and moon signs are battling it out for dominant personality traits. See how that goes. He could get a look in 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Jeoulous? ^_^ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Auto flirt? Is that true? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    " do you wanna fuck" so its probably the next best option!

  • Great_vibes

    Great_vibes

    8 years ago

    I think Touch nailed it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Lol, those ones are classics! Zero effort, zero reward. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    The wording of the flirt is more exclusive than inclusive. I do a lot of reading, so tend to take the words written as a true form. But with some of the replies people have written here, I have a different perspective for it from some people now. Others, though, I think are being rude. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Rating on Hot it What?. The flirt from there starts with... "I think you're hot..." Copied, I think, from the standard flirt that starts... "Damn, you're hot..." The flirt on HoW? Is pre-ticked for women... And goes back to default again if you change any of the settings.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We would only contact couples who we were both interested in. A flirt was just a quick little way of saying "we like you, fancy chatting" pretty much every flirt ment the same thing. I wouldn't read into it too much

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have to wonder why the MODS dont clarify these things. Ey Mods? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FireHorse101

    FireHorse101

    8 years ago

    I agree with "i touch" (shes a hot premium member) ..flirts have a purpose.Yet, Im sure guests like "curiousity"(shes hot too) dislike them more then members, for obvious reasons...Yet I do agree there a way to show interest, for those with limited messages it can save a little sacrifice :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ''You're not as bad as I first thought and I've run out of messages today that I sent to my top-shelf choices.'' Ummm yeah, naaa... but it does support the process of elimination!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    "as there is no flirt option " do you wanna fuck" so its probably the next best option!" 😂😂 you are the master 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    "How the fuck would I know?" That's just gold! 👏

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I've lost count of the times I've posted about the Hot or What? flirt because it's not explained anywhere except on the page itself. I wonder why they don't have something that explains it instead of letting it be the nuisance so many complain it is. We can block flirts now too...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Think they should have a suggestion box? 😯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yeah, we had no idea until you told us. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    The flirts you're receiving would be better than this message I got today "Hi would you be interested in a hookup tonight just straight to the point sex at my hotel .. No beating around the bush just thought i woukd ask" Is there any woman who wouldn't feel like an unpaid hooker reading a message like that? I really do feel sorry for him. Poor thing just doesn't understand how intimate the act is and in his 40's, never will. He's washed up. Try telling me you like me first mate 😂 Sorry, I hear Perth has good paid services 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just chattering away to myself here 😀 But flip that around, most men would think that was the perfect message lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Give a man 100 messages like that a day and his dick would fall off 😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You might be surprised. We get ones quite similar. Not even a hello! Just "I'm available tonight", or some variation of that. No conversation at all. At best, they get deleted. Usually, they get blocked. We LOVE good conversation. Without that, there's no chance. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'curiosityx' Jeoulous? ^_^ - Posted from rhpmobile I am

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Once upon a time in RHP land of swingers and deviates people did hook up just like that. Why is he washed up is my question tho.......? 🤔🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    That question for me? I'm not even engaging with you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was never one of the keys in the middle of the table set lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thank you for the topic. Unfortunately once the haters come in, best I leave the topic, before I get blamed for derailing it. Great topic btw I was enjoying it 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I missed you were chatting to yourself. Carry on 😁😁😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We learned a few things from responses here. Thanks everyone :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Note to self, don't tell a woman you'd fuck her son 😇

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Haha, I hear the Neighbours theme playing already 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It's not auto generated flirt, no way. It's just a predefined template lazy people click on to express interest. You can test it by yourself. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I believe rhp encourage the use of messages by providing a limited array of flirts. I would take any flirt as non-literal and someone expressing interest. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I take a flirt to mean that someone is interested in us together as a couple, rather than just the person pictured in the profile pic if it is just one partner. I think for many people it’s a safer way of testing the level if interest before progressing to messaging. Some people are ok with rejection but for others it’s not so easy. With a flirt it’s easier to ignore in my opinion than a message that someone has put effort into writing. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I think you’re on the money there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We take all flirts regardless what they say as a compliment. We have pics of both the male and female on our profile, so we will take it minimum, they looked at photos. We all ways respond with “if your serious, message”. Its excatly that. You serious, message.. if you start with a flirt, we are not going to chase you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • justjules05

    justjules05

    8 years ago

    I know when I'm searching for couples, I look at the entire package as of course I'm going to be more attracted to the woman than the man as I'm gay but if the man is hot as well and I can cope with the thought of them touching me in any way I send that very flirt just as was said before, as an opening and a testing of the waters as such! I've only come across one couple that knew exactly what why and how they wanted it and there was no shocks or surprises anywhere! And I hooked up with them the day I joined the site pretty much & will be back! Every other couple has had issues with each other being touched too much or them not enough or something and it ends in me leaving very slowly and never going back! I think that maybe if it's a single person they would look at you both, at least I know I do so don't feel left out or confused about who they are speaking too as you have a couples profile so they are speaking to you both! Men on the other hand may well be thinking you're too hot for your hubby, unless your hubby wants to play with them too don't engage! I'd stick to other couples and single chicks 🐥 just sayin! Good luck and remember, it's a fuck site, we are all after the same thing! I'm not here to make friends and nor are 98% of the people on here, they / I just want quick or long, no strings fucks or ongoing duck buddies but not everyone can have sex without emotion hence I stay away from the single ladies as they get too fkn crazy and want to move in the next day! This suits me perfectly and in a few months on the site, there's only been one time where I was in desperate need of a fuck and couldn't line one up, otherwise they are falling from the sky like a shower in summer! 😉 just the way I like it! Rule one of the swindle on here and anywhere in life is never take seriously what's poked at you in fun! Happy hookups kids, JA x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I dont dend flirts as i find them impersonal and lazy, a generic 'msg' that can be sent quick and easy...i prefer to send a msg and make references to the ladies profile so she knows ive actually read it 40's and washed up?...poor bugger - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Time is fleeting, one day that unwanted attention will be but a distant memory and the merest hint that you are still desirable something to cherish. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Classic xx Mado Mado Tara xx - Posted from rhpmobile