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What's your number?
May 03 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
At our age Seachange, I think discussing numbers is banal and worthless. I think you were right to not discuss. I think his desire to discuss numbers wear probably a symptom of 'mid-life crisis' or boasting or pretentiousness, all quite unattractive qualities in my opinion.
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Yes. The motivation about the numbers reveal was perplexing. I was stunned for a minute but couldn't get myself to reveal the numbers because it's embarassingly low compared to his. In the past year, I haven't been looking for new friends and happy to stick to my current set of 'friends'. I was never one for numbers but more for getting a connection with a few that I could truly trust and have an enduring sustainable friendship with. Hence my numbers were deliberately low.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think numbers in this context are irrelevant. Phone #'s, house #'s yes, but encounters, no.If you are attracted to each other just get on with it. The past is gone.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
I agree, context can make the number quite meaningless. Especially in this scene. You also have to define the idea of how you have slept with someone that counts as a number. Does it mean only when you have successfully met, connected, and taken someone/couple at some point for a private encounter? You can go to a swinging/sex party and have a sexual interaction with 2, 3 or 4 different women. But it doesn't mean intercourse is involved either. Does having someone else's hand or mouth on you for a few minutes count? I was on zero for many years. After my first few players parties, I could have then said more than 10, but then private dating wise the number was still at just 1. Post swinging, if you count ALL physical sexual contact, it could be closer to 50 now than to zero. However, if you count only 1 on 1 private encounters as vanilla society might be referring to or assuming in the question, then it goes back to much less than 10. So go figure... :)
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toasty4all
7 years ago
Well look I’m a honest person and I lost count by the age of 25 and I’m 37 now, always had a healthy appetite but as I get older some weeks I could have sex 4 times a day then others I couldn’t care if I do and I think guys aren’t as concerned as much as girls because I’ve had girls ask and I say about 15/20 when it’s easy in the hundreds as I’ve learnt you tell girls that and they are gone
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
A high number doesn't necessarily indicate a great level of sexual prowess either. A number of 30 or so might seem like someone has had much success, but if you're about 50 that number could technically mean you've had sex - if perhaps with a new person each time and not managed repeat sexual dates - about once a year only.
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RHP User
7 years ago
What happens before me or after me, doesn’t have any bearing or impact on what happens WITH me.... Numbers are meaningless as I wasn’t there through each encounter in order to verify them.....
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
What ever number l tell you times it by 7, divide it by 3, add a butcher, baker and possibly a candle stick maker with a dash of partridge in a pear tree. And then l might have a rough idea on numbers 😄 I agree, it's irrelevant l can't change mine or theirs.
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RHP User
7 years ago
for a period of time many years ago. She wanted to know my number.. I thought about it - and lied.One night she asked me to relate some specifics of one girl.. any girl I had "Fucked" (Her choice of wording)I thought about it - and lied.She got "Off" on it.. big time..Then she asked me if I wanted to know about her "Fucks"I thought about it - and lied.Point is.. when she told me.. "I fucking got off.. big time too"I guess there is some "Voyeurism" in me.. Maybe there is some in all of us Seachange - maybe that was your "Friends" intent?
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Swingingnudist
7 years ago
Mmm does having sex with Mrs Palmer count? Because if it does Im right up there with any politician on the campaign trail at the moment throwing around the big numbers.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Neil Young sings - "Numbers add up to nothing"!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Always view this topic with scepticism. 4 boats 9 bikes 3 4WD 5 houses 1 ex wife And 1 absolutely gorgeous girlfriend 😋 Having a work crew under me and it’s mostly the young guys concerned about numbers and peer status. Doesn’t mean squat to me. Sounds like they’re phishing for an answer they like. Catch is typically you never get the answer you like 🙄 or then they’ll just lie to get what they want. Mr PF.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
0407 321 😱oh never mind it’s the wrong number 😂 mr b
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is UP :) Hugs Q
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Is not Indicative of one's virtue or character to me. RHP has given me the sexual freedom and opportunities to experiment and learn about myself more at a rate my brain can process. Like Mr PF said, the intent could be boasting among the boys. And we can say those numbers in that scenario is usually inflated and likely plucked out of the air. My numbers if put on a timeline is like an ECG reading, little peaks here and there but peaked high before I got together with my ex husband , flatlining while married to him (and our sexlife flatlined too) and then peaked again when we separated and I started dating again. So if we only zoned in the numbers in a short period during the peaks, my conservative gfs would label me 'loose' or fast. I hate the judgmental terms as they've been married for a while and I think they're a smidge jealous. Hence I feel uncomfortable revealing anything about my numbers or sex life to anyone I don't fully trust. And I trust very very few people.
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Seachange73
7 years ago
That's you and me and everyone else. ,😄😄
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RHP User
7 years ago
You can all line up behind that. Lol, I dunno, I lost count around 12. It's probably somewhere between 20 and 30. Sometimes I wish I had kept some kind of record, like a diary I could refer back to to remember old times but I think it's pretty low class to discuss it in detail, especially with other lovers.
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Used to be able to say less than a century more than a bakers dozen 🙄 now I’m not sure 😁😇
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Samnite
7 years ago
I'm not really concerned with a person's numbers other than to know they have been playing safely. If I was to see someone on a regular basis or even become serious with them then I would expect an open and frank discussion on numbers, sexual activity, experiences, likes, dislikes, etc. Afterall it is important to be able to communicate effectively and to not hide anything from people when in some sort of relationship. TBH... the thought of knowing my partner is uninhibited and is able to describe in detail her experiences is a major turn-on.
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RHP User
7 years ago
@ Samnite I agree that having sex safely is paramount. Starting to see someone regularly or seriously would absolutely warrant sexual health check up and clearance. Moving forward together from a positive start. I recently read a comment you made, on another forum topic, about trust and how this is a very lengthy process for you to work through. I understand that stance, as I would be the very same. Your comment here about 'expecting' a discussion about numbers and activity as part of forming a new bond with someone would be an indicator, to me, that I should not trust you. Let me explain. A man that demands to know a woman's sexual history could later, easily if he's that way inclined, use that history to control, ridicule or blame her for any/all relationship issues. Baiting her to reveal all to you, as a measure of her commitment to effective communication and having no secrets in the relationship, is a smokescreen for your own insecurities and trust issues. Don't do it. At this stage of our lives it is a pointless exercise. Most probably with poor outcomes. @Deepest. It does seem though we may all like a little story or two whispered in our ears...
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RHP User
7 years ago
This topic does bubble up from time to time And I’m inclined to state that numbers absolutely DO NOT matter And here’s clear examples of why We are not born with any knowledge or experience in anything, and that includes sex. Some people take the conscious decision to learn, some educate themselves or their partner while they share themselves, while others think they just inherently know it all The high school sweethearts who have a number of 1 might have absolutely fulfilling sex lives after many decades of living and learning with each other monogamously Similarly, there are couples with a much higher number that are obviously not enjoying a healthy and positive sex life because they are not listening to each other’s needs and feel very unfulfilled It should be such an obvious statement that the tally of people you’ve been sexual with does not automatically correlate to your merits as a lover. Nor does it automatically signify your compatibility with another lover of their number. A friend was with a guy who claimed a tally over 1000. (Knowing his personality and appearance i called bullshit), but, he could only get aroused by porn during sex, and he was a selfish two pump chump, so 1000 was a zero for her. Rather than focus on a number which exists in the past, I feel people should simply focus on the here-and-now in your life, and give then your best
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RHP User
7 years ago
0 is a number,
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RHP User
7 years ago
Health perspective This podcast will give you a different understanding of the quantity factor as it pertains to wellbeing and intimacy. https://livingbeyond120.com/episodes/41
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Seachange73
7 years ago
It is interesting that see such diverse perspectives, specially those well thought out posts.
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fitsyd
7 years ago
Seachange, as many have said on this thread already, a discussion by a man (or anyone) on “the numbers” is a very obvious brag. I’ve always avoided the numbers question because it doesn’t lead to anything useful or good. If in the opinion of the listener, it’s considered too low, then you’re a prude, if it’s considered too high, then you’re a slut. And btw, there can never be a “just right” number because everyone’s sexual journey is different. I’d love to know more about you what you like and dislike. The numbers don’t matter.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Eh ? What do you think I am ? An accountant?? Lol
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Exactly what I have said in my previous posts. I don't care about the numbers. It is the connection and the experience I have at the time with people I connect that matter. Frequency does not correspond to prowess in the sack. I think that is obvious. But my friend is younger and maybe he felt the need to beat his chest in a show of bravado and testosterone. The reveal didn't do anything for me. Never had.
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
I'm not interested in his. I don't really like hearing too much about my lovers previous/other lovers. I don't care how many he has had. I just don't want to hear about them. I still think women get judged on theirs. Probably men do as well. I agree with what Fitsyd says. If I was pressed to give a number it would make me curious why he wanted to know.... and I still wouldn't tell him.
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thecatsmeowaus
7 years ago
Any mature, well adjusted single/couple in this community are well beyond number counting or broadcasting their ‘number’ to others for recognition or validation. It’s a turn off hearing someone brag about their achievements. We can all joke and laugh about previous sexual mishaps together and things like that. But I would never say to another person how many guys/couples I’ve been involved with in the past just before we were going to be having our own encounter.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Oh the memories! I needed a calculator,,, The Square root of 69 = 8 something hahah 8.30662386292 to be precise. Who really counts anyway,
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RHP User
7 years ago
In financial terms if you know how much you're worth then you're not worth that much...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Because honestly, I couldn't say. We could then go further and break down the numbers to types inclusing one night stands for eg. It's amazing how we want to add structure to our lives with these details we ask about, Peachy
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Mask_007
7 years ago
I believe everyone have some valid points, and in saying that, for me, the realization of quality in better than quantity.
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Seachange73
7 years ago
"We could then go further and break down the numbers to types inclusing one night stands for eg." Why would you want to even go down that path if you are not willing to share your numbers on the first place? I personally won't and won't entertain proceeding further. However I do get it some people don't mind or is a turn on. To each their own.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'GetMePlease' @Deepest. It does seem though we may all like a little story or two whispered in our ears... You mean something like; "You're going to be one of the ones I remember"?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I could sit and tally up the amount of sexual encounters I have had, it wouldn't be that impressive but it would be enough. There are probably people out there who married their childhood sweetheart, are still together and have only ever had sex with them. If you asked them if they wished for any more I would say most would answer in the negative. If I shuffled off tomorrow would I be disappointed with my escapades? Not really, no.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Seachange'Peachy "We could then go further and break down the numbers to types inclusing one night stands for eg." Why would you want to even go down that path if you are not willing to share your numbers on the first place? I personally won't and won't entertain proceeding further. However I do get it some people don't mind or is a turn on. To each their own. I was thinking of movie scenes when I posted the sentence you have focused on, and it is my finishing sentence that explains what I think is the issue when people ask these questions. A need for structure and understanding of our places in the world. Cheers, Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have no idea how many girl friends I have had, but it's too few. I'm meeting a new girl friend at an hotel today...
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
It all has to do with intent: Is it playful fun just comparing? Is it something weird that if you say the wrong number it will negatively affect his view of you? Is it voyeuristic and he wants to lead on to discussing past experiences to get off? I have no qualms in answering that question to anyone I was having sex with but wouldn’t just tell anyone that asked.
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Not familiar with the movie
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RHP User
7 years ago
There are movies and series where the 'how many have you slept with' question comes up. Sex in the City is probably one and then the levels of one night stands and such become part of the convo. Generally comedies. Me, I think it is an interesting thing that people want to know this info because it seems to come from a place of needing to grade ourselves in comparison to others. I know I've had the convo with hubby myself, lol. It's interesting to me, cheers, Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you took into your next relationship what happened in your last relationship then you're playing yourself straight out of that game it's not about what you did in your last relationships or what you learnt from your last relationships or what problems you had in your last relationships it's what goodness you are bringing into your new relationship if you sleep with someone that has a lot of sexual partners and they're s*** in bed you know they're lying you would expect someone that slept with a lot of people to actually be good at sex people who have limited partners turn out to be really decent people because they've managed to keep relationships together
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
A more interesting number conversation for me would be “How many people have you truly loved in your life” then further discussions around that. I’ve loved a few and learned so much from each in the highs and lows.
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
SSExplorer Yes! So much more intriguing and interesting.
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RHP User
7 years ago
The number is irrelevant, it not a reflection of anything regardless of a "high" or "low" number. I still remember all of my encounters. What matter today is being happy with who I'm with and enjoying the moment, not working if I'm a future number etc.
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Definitely an interesting topic. Why don't you start a New topic on that?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ummm my number is high. Is that a bad or good thing? Lol 😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't believe you have to mention it for hookups but for an honest real relationship you shouldn't have to hide it or lie about your number either. Honesty is everything. Number doesn't define a person and a high number of woman doesn't mean they are good at sex either. Many high numbers could mean sex with a number of women only once at various times of the year, different years. Doesn't actually equate to a lot of sex. A guy with say 3 partners, probably has had more sex and is better at it. But that's my take. My number is two... But I havnt had a lot of sex or a relationship 😂 only started last year 🤷♂️ Tbh if my future gf had a high number, I'd probably feel a tad jealous but it wouldn't make me think any less of her.
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RHP User
7 years ago
None of your business. End of conversation.
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
Ty, had a look at your profile, excellent! You’ll go far young man 👍
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I did get asked recently what's my number. He was very interested in my phone number. I told him to use it or loose it. He used it or course. 😍😎 Ms Foxy
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joanne1991
7 years ago
Why would someone on this site want to know, I for one don’t keep a record, totally irrelevant unless the relationship becomes serious
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
If a woman has a gangbang with 20+ men, does she count that as 1 or 20+ men that were there? Does a number classify as full penertration or Anal, fingers, toys etc??. 🤔 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I heard recently that women in Australia on average have had 8 sexual partners, men have had 12. Not quite sure how that maths adds up but I’m guessing our gay men are more active than most. Now that being said my number is higher than 8 (clearly I’m above average 😜) and my now ex-husband asked me my number at the beginning of our relationship and I simply asked him this. Do you actually want the answer to that question because I’ll tell you what ever you want to know. But don’t ask me a question you don’t want the answer too. So do you want to know? He didn’t and never asked again. Your number is irrelevant as long as you are safe. The real thing that baffles me is how people make life decisions of partners when they clearly have practically no other reference points. Anyway just my random thoughts. Best of luck Xxx
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fknhotCUPL
7 years ago
I’ve always hated this question, especially when asked by a partner. The truth is I actually don’t know. I stopped counting when I realised I was having sex for all the wrong reasons. I was also an alcoholic during the height of my “numbers” and a lot of these encounters are vague to say the least. It just goes to show that for some, that figure is a testament to glory days gone by. Where as to others it’s a shameful dark numeral we wish would could be erased.
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RHP User
7 years ago
In the real world numbers are irrelevant.... it would only matter the level of quality for each number and how both parties felt afterwards. Sounds to me that, either he was an accountant or trying to using his large number set in an attempt to impress you of his expertise on paper, instead of where it matters.....
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s not the number but the experience within itself that counts
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Happydaze61
7 years ago
It's not a competition....numbers are irrelevant unless your trying to win lotto!!
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Seachange73
7 years ago
An interesting perspective. I haven't thought of it in that way. Made me look at the situation in a different light. Thank you. I'm always open to new perspectives and experiences. Your post made me think and is well thought out. We hope to hear some more from you in the forum. P.s. BTW is it Mrs or Mr writing?
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Seachange73
7 years ago
"Ummm my number is high. Is that a bad or good thing? Lol 😂" It does not have to be either. It's your perspective in that situation with whomever you are with that matters. You don't have to tell anyone if you don't feel right. You do you. Have fun.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would definitely not discuss numbers. The things you say to people change their perception of you. If your number is not as high as theirs, they may think that you are inexperienced. That is not always the cold hard truth either. You could have slept with as little as 5 people your whole lifetime, but trusted said people enough to have had a whole wide range of sexual experiences. Quality over quantity. My advice to you is; I always ask the questions first. That way, when they answer, I have time to tailor my response to that particular individual. I use this in my daily life as well.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quality is better than quantity, ever. I would never ask anyone that question.
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DebonaireDoctor
7 years ago
I see both sides of the argument. I am not into boasting on either side of a sexual relationship. So from that side of thing the numbers are irrelevant. Personally however I find that I am tremendously turned on hearing about a partners previous and current sexual adventures. That is the voyeurism in me and a discussion of numbers often comes up as part of the wider discussion.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' If a woman has a gangbang with 20+ men, does she count that as 1 or 20+ men that were there? Does a number classify as full penertration or Anal, fingers, toys etc??. 🤔 Ms Foxy Asking for a friend Foxxx?
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RHP User
7 years ago
it's nothing to do with a no.as such . or is it there relevents to it no! more i thing to a long the point of being upfront. it only vould mean that she or he well tunend in and runs like a dream. besides i don't mind a comphy ride.
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RHP User
7 years ago
lost count at many many moons ago.
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RHP User
7 years ago
@ Deepest actually there was a glitch. My post to you was supposed to have looked like this '@ Deepest 😘'. And then recognition that some of us seem to desire a bit of whispered sexiness. But actually yes, can I stick with your comment?
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RHP User
7 years ago
and I wouldn't like to be in that position to be expected to answer it. People do judge. My number is embarrassingly low (almost as someone here who is 25!) and I just can’t let go of my preconceptions and relax. In my case Fkn alcohol doesn’t help much. It helps me to relax but I just simply never go over the line. It’s like some internal clock that tells me - stop. I don’t even flirt - I don’t know how. Ridiculous I know! Anyone with this problem?However, there are other things in life, that doesn't define us. (Ms)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Personally I think it is a redundant question, as most people would probably lie about it anyway. And if they did tell you the truth then you would probably have doubts as to the legitimacy of the figure. Did they reduce the number, so as not to appear like a deranged sex addict? Or Did they inflate the number in order to try and impress me? Who counts anyway? Is there a prize involved? If so what is it... i might need to run a tally if it's something good 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi. , Was Married for 35 years once I,m single as many know a few years, is only over the last 3 1/2 years I have spent time with any one most here will say they wont belive me when I say I have only spent 6 hours with 5 guys to find where I can fit in sexually , so numbers have little bearing to me time spent with some one does, yet you can laugh or say is there some thing wrong with me if that is all the time I have spent with any or the 5 guys , 6 hours spread out over 3 1/2 years, I was told and most likely many would spend time with each other in a night, in one go. or a day sexualy, so I really have not done much at all let alone with guy,s. ...noeleena...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'GetMePlease' @ Deepest actually there was a glitch. My post to you was supposed to have looked like this '@ Deepest 😘'. And then recognition that some of us seem to desire a bit of whispered sexiness. But actually yes, can I stick with your comment? Sure no probs, I love the new pic ;)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Could someone please msg husbandwife0208 and ask them to contact us on kik ree.m321🤞🏻🙌🏻
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curiousnhorny05
7 years ago
If someone asked me that now it would depend on what community this person come from. My vanilla lifestyle only those pre swinging and diff for those in the lifestyle. Interesting I think I’ve noticed some just want to know how experienced you are rather than numbers. Some guys get insecure about someone who’s had a variety of men.
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duo4mfm
7 years ago
Nobody’s business but ours
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Sometimes a past sexual encounter or story can be interesting or a turn on to hear, but none of that requires the full disclosure of number/s answer. I agree with other posters also that it's no one else's business about the past, generally speaking, although a number of current partners might come into it if you are asking about safe sex concerns. In this community things might be a little more open, but as far as family (and many friends) are concerned, they only know of just the number of 1 for myself (because they met her and knew she was the first), none of them know about anyone else (besides some attempts at vanilla dating I've told them about) or any further adult/sexual activity with anyone since, as it's not applicable for them to either know or meet them. Of course, I don't like to lie, so if asked anything about numbers or a sex life in general, I go with the refusal to answer, or slyly divert the question, or the old "maybe/maybe not", or say something that is technically the truth but still doesn't reveal much info at all.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't know.
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Kinkycplaus
7 years ago
mmm With a GB you can get the numbers up pretty fast. - in a night, it doesn't take many nights. I like a lady that LOVES men and women, so the more the merrier from my end
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's never crossed my mind and how would I count them?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi, how are you?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Lee26' Hi, how are you? Hi Lee, I'm fabulous, thanks for asking. How are you?
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abcplus1
7 years ago
Numbers mean something to some, and nothing to others. The only number we worry about is 2, as in the 2 of us. We need to make sure we are always the priority in this. We then like to try and add to that number when we can
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi Mr here Well you could keep it all and share the good with your new partner 😉
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Seachange73
7 years ago
"Could someone please msg husbandwife0208 and ask them to contact us on kik ree.m321" You are a paid up member so you can send messages to anyone. Not why you need to get someone else to spend their messages for you... UNLESS... You've been blocked by husbandandwife0208? 😎
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RHP User
7 years ago
An ex asked me what my number was. At that time, I still knew what my number was and while my number didn't bother her too much, what it came down to was her own insecurities. She felt if I had a larger number than her, then my experience would be so much better and she wouldn't be as good as what I've had. She was completely wrong, just a little bit insecure (as cute as that is). I've no idea what my number is now and someone else's would never bother me. Can be an interesting topic in conversation though. It's all about quality, not quantity!
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bonefide
7 years ago
What’s your number RH- Pie squared then subtract the length of the deodorant can, times the cans circumference and the fug it a bit.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Anni, amori e bicchieri di vino, nun se contano mai. Years, lovers and glasses of wine; these things must not be counted.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ve only been asked this by one girlfriend when in my early thirties. Back then I could count them (on 5 hands) and told her. Didn’t seem to make much difference - her number was similar. I don’t think she got off on it. I didn’t. Maybe if she’d said 100, my ears might have perked up ;) Today, I’d only be able to give a wild guess. Totally lost count a long time ago. For me the only numbers that seem interesting are how many people you’ve had a significant relationship with and how long they lasted. I find how they answer (not the numbers themselves) tells me a lot more about a person’s character, and probably a bit more about how mature and open they are emotionally, which I find makes a difference in sex ;)
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jriste
7 years ago
69 is always a good number , but a wishful one too xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love hearing the stories of other people‘s sex. So I would definitely ask and want to know. My own number is so low having been married so long. And only long relationships. But wondering quite often what number I need to get to to call myself a slut which I would like to do officially rather than just doing so anyway. 😂 Then wondering what is counted to such as sex with the opposite sex or is it just penetration by penises for me?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm 31 an probs slepted with about 11 girls😅 not the most impressive but the truth
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes thank
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi everyone who wants my number
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RHP User
7 years ago
Who is in Darwin?
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Who's really that obsessed with numbers.. I know how important it was way back in my teens because its what teens do. . But after that , l wouldnt have a clue ? Its not high and its not low . But i will say that being fussy kind of guy definately kept my numbers lower than it could be. Ive always perfered quality over quantity, so fucking to get the numbers up was never a option.. All i can say is , l have had some very sexy ladies with nice memories..
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RHP User
7 years ago
How much is a lot? I’ve always played it safe but I’ve been with over 200 women and I’m not there to put another notch in my belt I just love sex! I’m not fussed with how many guys she’s been with before just as long protection was used! 😆
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RHP User
7 years ago
I wouldn’t care. The man I’m falling in love with has probably been with lots more than me. He’s amazing and gorgeous so probably. My ex husband had been with more than me when we met that did get to me a bit but I was only 16 haha. It’s the past, all that matters is that you’re together now. If a couple are in a relationship there is a reason they are in that relationship and hopefully feel secure in the relationship. Sometimes I get bit sad that maybe my bf and I won’t have any firsts but then again that doesn’t really matter cause every relationship makes new memories and special moments, must be that 16 yr old girl popping back into my head when I get those silly sad thoughts lol.
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Sawadee
7 years ago
200 ? Yeah OK... 🙄 better buy another belt ?
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RHP User
7 years ago
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