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  Evo6717

  21 days ago

  Was it there first time?

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  Felicitous

  21 days ago

  Personally.. the longer we have been on here.. the more validations give us the ick. Even though in the beginning - I found them a very helpful tool for sifting potential partners and enjoyed writing and receiving them. Might be more about them than you. Try not to take it personally. In the past i've deleted validations and had one person remove mine. I deleted mine because I felt I out grew some connections and parts of myself in that process. That person that deleted mine said they didn't want others comparing past lovers. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I would definitely make judgements about suitability of profiles based on their friends and how they wrote in their validations.. so it's understandable people can tailor their list to alight with such things. Could simply be they don't want too many because that's a 'thing' so cull their list. V

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  Nightglider

  21 days ago

  I’ve removed a couple of validations in the past, both sent and received. It has been with people who have shown a different side of themselves post play, where I have decided I don’t wish to be associated with them, or promote them in any way. It’s rare but it happens.

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  selfless__lover

  20 days ago

  Validations have an expiry date in my opinion and after a period of say 2-3 years they aren't relevant anymore. Always reminds me of a fish and chip shop in Seafood that has a sign right across its front windows "Fox FM's best fish and chips in Melbourne" and then when you look closer it says 1997 🤣

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  Alex_Lover

  17 days ago

  I don't like to have too many validations, so I remove the older ones over time. Or... keep the better validations over time. I like to think I don't have much of an ego... but I do like to keep the best validations :) If things change for the validator... they may remove them too? I've not noticed any of mine removed, but I've removed numerous validations over time. No big deal either way I think. Thanks, Alex.

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