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When men become desperate
March 09 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
One word that would describe them is. WEIRDOS - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dryphuz
8 years ago
of my dry spell and i can honestly say that I'm still not desperate enough to lower my standards let alone start thinking about guys. In the last several years i've been hit on by one Bi guy who immediately backed off when i told him i wasn't interested. And the only views my profile ever gets is from blokes. i assumed they were just checking the competition, but now i have to accept it could be dudes checking me out. I havne't checked their profiles to find out.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
that many of them believe, that because this is an adult /sex site, that (a) they are guaranteed to get sex (b) they are entitled to get sex (c) all the women on here are sluts, who will open their legs on command (d) the women on here like being spoken to (albeit in writing) in a disrespectful manner. (e) it’s easy to get sex in here as that’s what we are all here for It is when they realise that it’s not going to be a site and easy thing, that they get desperate. And then when they get rejected, frustration and anger sets in, and they become abusive. We have seen it often at swingers clubs. The guys pay $100 to get into the club, only to discover that there are so many more of single guys (his competition) compared to females (the female of a couple). They think that they can walk straight up to the women and say “ wanna fuck ?” . When they are turned down, they can’t comprehend why. It is after all a swingers club is it not ? And one therefore has to be willing to have sex? And then they get turned down by others or they see that some single guys at the club are getting lucky and they are not. And then frustration and desperation sets in and they realise that they have to do something to get the $100 fuck that they think they have paid for........ And they wonder why so many of us are so apprehensive and mistrustful of single guys? We have had several MFM 3somes . Our point of departure is that we vet them thoroughly and take our time to get to know them, lay down rules & boundaries. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
IF you think the behaviours you've listed are solely the domain of men....... you will want to learn a bit more about the behaviour of women, my friend. Humans can be a scheming lot
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RHP User
8 years ago
Don't worry about it. You can always politely decline the offer. We need you on our team! One thing i haven't done is hire a car and drive 460kms.......(Why did that thread get locked down?)
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Scheming and conniving is not gender specific. Lots of women on here are just as manipulative and devious to get their way without the hapless individuals noticing. Always be on guard. 😎 Again some resort to this behaviour out of desperation and loneliness.
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
I just can not be fucked analyzing, nor understand the lengths of "some" peoples behaviour, just to get their dicks wet or pussies pumped. I do not want to know. I have my own shit to worry about. All I know is, there are some pretty f*cked up people out there, which are not for me (creeps me out). Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
I would never be that desperate to swing the other way, ever. Can't understand why men would be pushy or disrespectful, we all encounter rejection. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Eat that apple cause Eve said it was alright and sweet!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah some men do some pretty extreme and shitty things in their pursuit of sex, but I don't think it's fair to label paying for sex or going for other men as desperate behaviours in and of themselves. That seems to just feed into the stigmas that still exist around prostitution and men having sex with other men. To be fair, you don't know that the guys that are contacting you are desperate for sex...for all you know they might be having it every day, with women or men or both. Yeah some circumstances can lead people - not just men - to going down sexual paths they might never ordinarily go down (being in prison is an example that immediately comes to mind). Then again, even in those situations you don't know if they are truly going against their 'usual' preferences, or if they always did have those predilections but were just too afraid to engage in them because of societal stigma etc.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Anyone mention begging and whining yet?
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gazpacho
8 years ago
They’re so desperate that they put on a frock and ask you to pretend that their mouth is the mouth of a woman? Lmfao. What a load of shit. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
Regroup, think about a different approach and enjoy your time alone. Try something different as one definition of insanity suggests doing the same things over and over expecting a different result every time? Good luck. ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
About 50% of my views are from blokes. I've had some advances from blokes as well - the last one (some time back) was from a bloke, and the message was 'Hey man how about a blow job?' I didn't know whether he was offering a BJ or whether he wanted me to give him one. A tad confused, I settled for blocking him and moving on.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Im not buying it. Think your full of it. There are plentey of male profiles on here where guys are wanting guys. Why would so many males be coming onto you. Would be interested to know if other males on here get that much attention from other males - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
8 years ago
To be comparing Bi sexuality as to any set of standards, especially with things like lowering to the level of, or lower standards, so desperate to swing the other way. It's not right and how can anyone be so sure ? Besides, it's not right. Mado Mado Tara xx
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gazpacho
8 years ago
It’s not right! Lol. Seriously, this guy is truly hot. Desperate blokes are lining up in their frocks to try and turn him! It’s not right that he is so damn sexy! Well, I’m partial to chocolate, it’s true. All these desperate fellas need a night out in SYDNEY Park. Just wait in the bushes and call “next”. You can leave your Square dancing frocks in the Cupid. A pair of footy shorts should do it. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
There’s bushes in Sydney Park? Lol
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
At what point did I say that men are lowering their standards to have sex with men? I never said that at all. Second, stigma? I never at any point made a reference that having sex with other men was bad, I said that men are offering me sex and that they say some weird things to try get me to have sex with them. Some are married and always tell me they need "discretion" as they don't want their wives to find out. Next people telling me that if I think it's just the men who do it think again. My post was about what I experienced with men. If I wanted to add women into it I would have said it. Thats for another time
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RHP User
8 years ago
I get views from guys but I think I've probably had 1 flirt from a bloke in about 2 years so none of this lining up in frocks. I do however agree with what a lot of other people have said that desperation and rudeness isn't gender specific and I've certainly experienced a lot of rude women on other dating apps!I hate it when messages are ignored, I don't buy into this "but we're overwhelmed with messages!" Bullshit. "Sorry we're not interested" then cut and paste, problem solved! I always reply to messages when I have time and I've had a lot of women (mainly older who you would think should know better) get a bit scornful when I say no. The only difference is up until now I've never mentioned it in the forum's because I don't want to break my arm jerking myself off.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtyandfriendly' At what point did I say that men are lowering their standards to have sex with men? I never said that at all. Second, stigma? I never at any point made a reference that having sex with other men was bad, I said that men are offering me sex and that they say some weird things to try get me to have sex with them. From your topic: I've found a lot of men are so desperate for sex that will do anything, lie, cheat and even go for other men in an attempt to curb there need. Your wording is implying that you think these men are only propositioning other men because they are desperate, i.e. that it's not something that they would, or should normally do. You then say that you have never been so desperate that you've switched to men or paid for sex, which is also implying that those are abnormal things that only desperate men do. People are responding based on what you posted. If you meant something different then by all means clarify that.
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gazpacho
8 years ago
One flirt in two years? Man, you need to work on your presentation! Hugs Gaz
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gazpacho
8 years ago
Ok OP, I’ll be straight with you. Men who have sex with men, on a part time or casual basis are not “desperate” for sex. It’s a surprise to you, no doubt. But hear me out. Such a man get get a shag at the slightest whim. I did say walk into Sydney park at night and call “next”.... lol, that’s so close to the truth it’s not even a joke, no matter how funny. If a bloke who is care free and well protected, he can easily shag fifty guys a week. These guys are not desperate to shag you, they’re just taking on a challenge to see how desperate you are! That is, all you straight guys are the desperate ones. When a dude who plays both teams isn’t getting a root from his frigid missus, I guess he can get one from a mate every time he gets a dick twitch. There’s no challenge in that, obviously, so it’s a bit of a game to try and bend the desperate straight guys who are “just practicing for chicks”. You see? So, what colour was his frock? Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
...I was in a busy shopping centre...Westfield Carousel...with my partner at the time, and I went to use one of the public toilets, while she waited in the main area.While I was using the urinal, i noticed that the young man next to me seemed to be perving at me.I didn't look straight back at him, because guys don't do that in public toilets . When I started washing my hands at the taps, he stepped up, smiled nicely, and asked, "Hey, can I suck you off? We can go in here.." I was a bit lost for words, and I smiled and replied, "No thanks, I'm right.." I walked outside and told my girlfriend about the proposition...and she laughed and laughed and laughed..I think I made her afternoon.
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madotara69
8 years ago
If your testing the waters by putting out some kinky thoughts due to finding that you have? or all along?, either or, no matter, not around here, if anything you would receive support in magnitudes from most all in the pie, yeah if finding men sexually attractive and you feel like,...... well how you wrote your introduction beckons the whole kit and caboodle. Not so much word for word, more just as to the flow and perhaps rhythm with how you put yourself out there and what you wrote here OP, (which is Original Post OP) just flows in similar jist, yet as if from two belly buttons, one being jist the other jism, parallel with a one way direction. You mention a level of empathy for feelings concerned of the women who's partners cheat on them, but with men also ? as if it makes a differance or doubles the..What exactly? no feelings expressed for why you feel sorry for, Sorry for,'People who deal with these men' 'For the women who's partner cheats not just with women, men also' That you have not had sex since September (flowing with profile) for your dirty, open minded deep kinky desires, public sex, dominant smack on the arse, taboo fantasies, amazing, love attention, toss vanilla into the shitter, rough sex, young women looking for a daddy, scared these women have a high sex drive, fantasies too much, you'd love it if they would orgasm and your favourite is cumming all over them and they are going to have to wear it, respect the elders of course, exhibitionism, group play, threesomes, moresomes, not sure if everyone is ready for your entradee, once open minded, fun and actually interested in being dirty. Yet men are weird for being bisexual and reading what bi sexual men might find raunchy in your profile, even sexy about you, be their daddy dom and a smack on the arse when naughty, suck your cock wearing cum, dirty dirty have a go at anything most would be scared to be so open about fantasies, and considering it's only recently you've enjoyed the thought of doing it anywhere with anyone for that matter is open for your bisexual shenanigans. It's ok, you have made your point, don't be so hard on yourself and you won't need to pretend to be a woman, be the man and be good at it all. Cos what you wrote is not really so romantic, however you have said sorry a few times that you are sorry for them women, the rest has been more emotions in the flow and the rhythm, jist and jism towards theses natures in men and advances colourful, into fruition.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
A lot about guys, bi, gay, experimental and straight I'm not engaging this bullshit thread. And the word sums it up. Bullshit
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RHP User
8 years ago
You do have a block of caramilk between your legs... why wouldn't anybody want that?? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It was a load of bullship from the start. Whats your game. No way on this earth did all these men message you. And im amazed so many fell for it. I have yet to read from any guy, saying that they also have the same , if you can call it problem. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It must be your handle, “Dirty and Friendly” does sound a bit “rough trade” to me. Not that, that is having a go. Like the other guys say, I (thank fuck!!) get very few guys checking me out. Possibly it’s a slip of the finger on a touchscreen, or when you’ve written something, (like this) maybe another guy, may check your profile out to see if you are sending mixed signals. I think others have the good oil, most peeps on here, especially guys are full of crap 💩. Remember, bots abound on here, and they are learning all the time, something about them could sound a bit, strange or foreign, But if you’re a bit desperate, you’ll just have em down as foreign!! To check, ask what do Aussie’s call people with red hair? (Blue!!) M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' A lot about guys, bi, gay, experimental and straight I'm not engaging this bullshit thread. And the word sums it up. Bullshit Yet you engaged in the thread
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Dirtyandfriendly' At what point did I say that men are lowering their standards to have sex with men? I never said that at all. Second, stigma? I never at any point made a reference that having sex with other men was bad, I said that men are offering me sex and that they say some weird things to try get me to have sex with them. Some are married and always tell me they need "discretion" as they don't want their wives to find out. Next people telling me that if I think it's just the men who do it think again. My post was about what I experienced with men. If I wanted to add women into it I would have said it. Thats for another time I read your original post the same way LD did regarding lowering standards and desperation, which is why I didn't engage. If that's not what you meant at all, I'm hoping you'll clarify. As it reads now, I would have to agree with Annie. What I said in regards to that was that when they couldn't find sex with women, they would try with men. I've experienced it, if people want to call bullshit go for it, I have had it happen. If People don't want to believe it that's their problem. It's great when people stick to the topic on these things.
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Ok OP, I’ll be straight with you. Men who have sex with men, on a part time or casual basis are not “desperate” for sex. It’s a surprise to you, no doubt. But hear me out. Such a man get get a shag at the slightest whim. I did say walk into Sydney park at night and call “next”.... lol, that’s so close to the truth it’s not even a joke, no matter how funny. If a bloke who is care free and well protected, he can easily shag fifty guys a week. These guys are not desperate to shag you, they’re just taking on a challenge to see how desperate you are! That is, all you straight guys are the desperate ones. When a dude who plays both teams isn’t getting a root from his frigid missus, I guess he can get one from a mate every time he gets a dick twitch. There’s no challenge in that, obviously, so it’s a bit of a game to try and bend the desperate straight guys who are “just practicing for chicks”. You see? So, what colour was his frock? Hugs Gas Ha! the conversation didn't get that far
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RHP User
8 years ago
desperate but I don't think desperate enough to want to change their sexual orientation. LC.
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gazpacho
8 years ago
LC, I’m thinking maybe prisoners are that desperate? I’ve never actually been in prison, but, you know. Desperate people do desperate things! Mind you, if you’re not in prison, or confined to an island solely dedicated to the habitat of men, a bloke would probably lower their high standards a bit after a few beers. What the op may be trying to say is that the difference between a straight bloke and a curious one is four schooners and an opportunity? I wonder how he feels about an MMF.... I hope our balls touch? Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
With the exception of Jailbirds, quite right. LC.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You don’t know their situation just like they don’t know yours... For all they know you might be curious but haven’t admitted it yet...that merely makes them inquisitive.... So... You can get inquisitive yourself or not, that’s entirely up to you... Are there men desperate though?? Fuck yeah, but I’d hazard a guess that there are equally as many desperate women, as their sex drive can be their masculinity/femininity or as a result of other factors.... Can’t control things that isn’t part of you...only how you react...even then that depends on a few things... Point is, meh... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ol mate looks up at his cell Mate for the first time and he pipes up. “ so, you want to be the mummy or the daddy” Newbie thinks for a bit then replies “ umm, I’ll be the daddy” Without any second thought the retort is. “ well come over here and suck mummy’s dick” 😝 I have heaps of views from guys, my profile says I’m straight. Which I am. I would just politely decline any invitation if it came along. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Talked to a few married guys who have had sex with men because they arent getting any at home. One guy wasnt even allowed to hug his wife. He said if she changed her mind he would never go with another guy. I found it incredibly sad. Why stay with someone you have no feelings for, to the stage that you cant bear them touching you?
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
Quoting 'OnTheOpenRange' You do have a block of caramilk between your legs... why wouldn't anybody want that?? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile I dont actually have a dick, I have a continuously regenerating block :P
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
Quoting 'VivalaKoko' Talked to a few married guys who have had sex with men because they arent getting any at home. One guy wasnt even allowed to hug his wife. He said if she changed her mind he would never go with another guy. I found it incredibly sad. Why stay with someone you have no feelings for, to the stage that you cant bear them touching you? I was called out for bullshit for saying this. A lot have told me it's easier to find a guy than it is a woman for sex.
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a bi male if i see a males profile where he has listed seeking male and ticks my boxes then like everyone else on this site, who can, i will send a message. But to say that a guy is lowering his standards contacting another guy is harsh and very disrepectful. I doubt the same would be said if a female contacted another female. That would just be labelled as "hot." This is an open lifestyle. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I haven't had any desperate men contact me but some have been rude and made me want to vomit - an older man expecting anal when he wasn't physically appealing in the least was vulgar and off-putting...his attitude was forceful and nobody gets to assume what they will be entitled to!!! Ever!!! I have had one beg for a chance but it wasn't in an offensive or desperate way and did make me giggle. I think a man will only turn to a man if he's that way inclined and has to do with preference and not desperation. I also think that the character of a man and his preferences decide whether he will cheat or be desperate or bi. I don't think that all men become desperate or pushy.... Their character defines that, not the passing of time with no sex - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Oh really what a topic weird - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well said Brunette_Dragon Spot on! ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This Guy who messaged me was much younger than I wanted as stated in my profile and maybe he was desperate for sex also. After complimenting me to which I responded, he then became abusive. Not sure if he then read my reply though........ 👽 hi i think your stunning and gorgeous. love to chat ☺ Sorry you don't match what I'm looking for. Good luck with your search. 👽 your lucky someone like me showed interest in fat fuck like you ☺ Your reply has neither upset me nor has it deterred me from enjoying who I am and why I'm on this site You are a poor excuse of a man. I'm sorry if I have hurt your ego, which by the way must be huge but quite frankly you don't deserve any woman's respect or acceptance with an attitude like yours. If you had read my profile instead of just looking at the photos then you would have seen that I'm not interested in anyone younger than 45 and besides that, your profile is vague. Maybe it is a primal thing, the thrill of the hunt, but women deserve to have their opinions and thoughts taken into consideration. If a female does not want to talk to you, respect her wishes like a gentleman In your case, I can be nice and polite, or blunt and straight forward, yet both would yield the same results: an angry, ego-bruised man which is obviously what you are. Women are not objects, they are not anyone's property so if a woman politely declines your invitation then take that loss and move on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Checker
8 years ago
Dirty and friendly could be interpreted in certain ways I guess. Apart from that, #metoo?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Considering that if a meet is to take place, why lie? You just sunk your own cause. Be honest, say what you seek, show respect, handle rejection with grace and then you raise your chances to find who and what you truly desire. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Good for you Pinky, given as we have spoken many times I am a little biased but no-one on this site should be subjected to that kind of puerile ignorance, especially someone as lovely as yourself. That guy should be reported and booted, a profile condition is a profile condition and should be treated as such.I hope it doesn't deter your continued membership. Best.......Cole X
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Brunette_Dragon' Yeah some men do some pretty extreme and shitty things in their pursuit of sex, but I don't think it's fair to label paying for sex or going for other men as desperate behaviours in and of themselves. That seems to just feed into the stigmas that still exist around prostitution and men having sex with other men. To be fair, you don't know that the guys that are contacting you are desperate for sex...for all you know they might be having it every day, with women or men or both. Yeah some circumstances can lead people - not just men - to going down sexual paths they might never ordinarily go down (being in prison is an example that immediately comes to mind). Then again, even in those situations you don't know if they are truly going against their 'usual' preferences, or if they always did have those predilections but were just too afraid to engage in them because of societal stigma etc. Like - not everyone can be tarrred with the same brush. Yes my experience says there is a lot of desperation out there, but not always. I for one am married, we used to play together, but stopped for a while. I re-learnt the concept that playing didn't have to be just man and woman, but was actually dependent on two people liking each other, attraction of consenting adults... I enjoy dressing up in woman's clothes at times, it could be to play with the wife, or to live out a fantasy of mine to act as a girl with another man. I wouldn't coerce the act from someone, but have had conversations that have led so far until one of us has stopped it. Remember guys, not all gay men want to sleep with you, and not all straight, bi or curious men are desperate.
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Not_ur_ordinary
8 years ago
I have had similar offers from men. I get men messaging me that often I had to put that I wasn't interested on my profile. I can honestly say I get contacted and profile viewed by more men than women. I could never be so desperate that I'd turn to men as it's just not what I'm into and would never find it a turn on however I don't judge others that do. Everyone has their flavour. J - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I get a lot of views and messages from men or couples that are actually a man ,so can confirm that . I am bi only when there is some femininity present (lady or ts ) and find hairy guys total turn off . He is correct in some are persistant , but his wording and definitions appear to be derogative and infer that a totally straight guy that is celibate is superior - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Plenty of posers and bots on RHP. Had two guys proposition me directly through RHP. Plenty of time wasting bots and catfish account. Just learn to spot em and you'll be fine. Honestly. Hire a prostitute if you are THAT horny or desperate. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
8 years ago
I do believe the OP's experience. I don't see it as bullshit. Seen this happened many times My younger fwb has discussed with me his experience on here and pretty much gets hit on a lot by other men, mainly 'straight' men who are searching for women only in their profiles. Desperate indeed when they are persistent and almost begging to pleasure him even after he said 'No thanks' as he doesn't swing that way. Oh the begging, then trying to convince him what he is missing out on then some get nasty. I've been shown some of the messages when I thought that this was too incredulous and shook my head in disbelief. This is the OP 's experience so why would people think it's bullshit?
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LetsFrolic
8 years ago
To come to them and then they're getting constantly ignored and we starved.. longest I've been celibate is 8 years and it was hell. It waas still and is still really hard just to meet a decent person or couple to play with regularly or have a relationship with. I've head similar experiences to you but I hadn't done them and wouldn't as you mentioned.. I'd do it as a kinky fun thing openly for a woman or couple but thats all. But the fact men have to do all the work and we are all competing against each other for the few females that will even reply is disgusting. And it's not like you can just pick up a girl when you're out these days either. Women have the power and they know it.. they just refuse to use it so we are left always pushing and then being judged harshly just because we want to meet someone which is a basic human quality and need. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I believe an applicable term here is ''multi-faceted''. Whilst generally men who have sex with other men are not desperate - they are either gay or bi and enjoy men every now and then like I do - there are some men who will seek sexual gratification with men simply out of a complete lack of sexual gratification in their lives. I have entered into arguments on other sites about this, but I believe there is a difference between ''homosexual acts'' and outright homosexuality (or bisexuality for that matter). As BD pointed out, sex between men in prisons or other such situations is often purely out of a desire for release - or as I call it ''the itch I just can't scratch''. As a member of another site for bi men, quite a few blokes I have chatted with in their forums are quite open about wanting to have contact with a man because A) they aren't getting any at home - none at all, and B) men are far easier and less picky when it comes to sex. If you want to get outraged about that, just google the term ''blow and go'', or go hang out at a public toilet after dark and just watch the parade of men come and go (literally). Whether they are in denial about being bisexual or whatever is another debate to be had, and probably quite a lively one. That's not even brushing on the whole idea of ''labelling'' (which I am actually all for). Other posters here are correct though OP, you do tend to imply that men who seek sex with men are just desperate - which is the case some of the time but by no means all or even most. Oh, and engaging prostitutes is perfectly fine. I have done so and will probably do so again.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You think you’ve got it bad? Imagine if you were a super hot chick, between an 8 to a 10 and had to deal with all the socially retarded desperate losers out there. They get harassed Constantly ever day of their life on the street, at work and ESPECIALLY on social media. Even the average to mildly attractive woman still gets a hell of a lot more attention than what most guys get. (Probably why most dudes don’t have a clue). I kid you not, a female friend of mine (crazy gorgeous woman, perfect body, intelligent and an incredible personality ..... yeah she’s definitely a 10!!) gets a few hundred Facebook messages a day with guys hitting her up for sex, trying to flirt with her or get attention from her. A flood of unsolicited dick pics (around 100 or so a day, I didn’t believe it till she showed me. It’s actually crazy) ....... honestly why do so many guys, just send photos of their penis to a stranger??? Or tell them how much they love them or want to marry them? Freaking psycho’s man. They wonder why they never get laid -_- The amount of attention she gets on instagram is insane, the messages and dick pics are even worse. As a result she never even bothers opening up her inbox anymore. When she walks on the street by herself, she’s constantly wolf whistled at and gets hit on by randoms. If she says no (as she always does lol) they get abusive/rude because she’s not interested in them. SMH I’ve also dealt with a ton of straight guys, when I’ve worked security or been on set/events with strippers & porn stars. So I’ve observed and born witness to this subject matter for a very long time & in great detail. I could get way more into this and elaborate a great deal more upon this topic as I was in the sex industry for 8 years and it was my job to entertain/please women & I’ve also dealt with a LOT of gay guys as I had to entertain them, just stripping never sex as I’m straight and I really don’t want to have sex with a guy ...... so I kinda understand how frustrating it can be to have guys trying to hit on you and get sex all the time. Even when you tell them you’re not interested. No different to a straight guy hitting on a girl and her telling him she’s not interested...... this is where most guys suck at reading women and knowing when a girl is into you & when she’s not. Also if she’s super hot I don’t know why the average guy (that isn’t rich) even try’s to get with her when she can have ANY guy...... which includes all the males that are vastly superior to you in every way. (Basically their male counterpart). Being nice or a decent person isn’t good enough! (That’s why most guys on here are single desperate and lonely, they have nothing special/significant over their competition to offer a woman). why? Because there are guys out there that are great lovers, handsome, with great bodies, very intelligent with fantastic personalities........ of course if you have a ton of cash you can bypass many of those failings and (sometimes) get a girl well out of your league. But so what, she’ll cheat on you take your cash, fuck the hot pool boy and never love you........ hmm this must be why suicide rates are higher among men than women So yeah all in all, dudes are pretty damn desperate. Some more than others. It also depends what’s in front of them....... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
Quoting 'Tigerz' You think you’ve got it bad? Imagine if you were a super hot chick, between an 8 to a 10 and had to deal with all the socially retarded desperate losers out there. They get harassed Constantly ever day of their life on the street, at work and ESPECIALLY on social media. Even the average to mildly attractive woman still gets a hell of a lot more attention than what most guys get. (Probably why most dudes don’t have a clue). I kid you not, a female friend of mine (crazy gorgeous woman, perfect body, intelligent and an incredible personality ..... yeah she’s definitely a 10!!) gets a few hundred Facebook messages a day with guys hitting her up for sex, trying to flirt with her or get attention from her. A flood of unsolicited dick pics (around 100 or so a day, I didn’t believe it till she showed me. It’s actually crazy) ....... honestly why do so many guys, just send photos of their penis to a stranger??? Or tell them how much they love them or want to marry them? Freaking psycho’s man. They wonder why they never get laid -_- The amount of attention she gets on instagram is insane, the messages and dick pics are even worse. As a result she never even bothers opening up her inbox anymore. When she walks on the street by herself, she’s constantly wolf whistled at and gets hit on by randoms. If she says no (as she always does lol) they get abusive/rude because she’s not interested in them. SMH I’ve also dealt with a ton of straight guys, when I’ve worked security or been on set/events with strippers & porn stars. So I’ve observed and born witness to this subject matter for a very long time & in great detail. I could get way more into this and elaborate a great deal more upon this topic as I was in the sex industry for 8 years and it was my job to entertain/please women & I’ve also dealt with a LOT of gay guys as I had to entertain them, just stripping never sex as I’m straight and I really don’t want to have sex with a guy ...... so I kinda understand how frustrating it can be to have guys trying to hit on you and get sex all the time. Even when you tell them you’re not interested. No different to a straight guy hitting on a girl and her telling him she’s not interested...... this is where most guys suck at reading women and knowing when a girl is into you & when she’s not. Also if she’s super hot I don’t know why the average guy (that isn’t rich) even try’s to get with her when she can have ANY guy...... which includes all the males that are vastly superior to you in every way. (Basically their male counterpart). Being nice or a decent person isn’t good enough! (That’s why most guys on here are single desperate and lonely, they have nothing special/significant over their competition to offer a woman). why? Because there are guys out there that are great lovers, handsome, with great bodies, very intelligent with fantastic personalities........ of course if you have a ton of cash you can bypass many of those failings and (sometimes) get a girl well out of your league. But so what, she’ll cheat on you take your cash, fuck the hot pool boy and never love you........ hmm this must be why suicide rates are higher among men than women So yeah all in all, dudes are pretty damn desperate. Some more than others. It also depends what’s in front of them....... - Posted from rhpmobile I could imagine she dealt with that. A few years ago I organised a threesome and a small gangbang for a friend and we put an event online and put our requirements and what we are looking for. We received so many replies it became a chore just to sift through men and there were a lot who didn't fit our requirements, but still thought they'd "give it a shot" anyway. We got a lot of "I know I'm not what you're looking for, but......." responses. I think people are putting their emotional context into my forum post. I am at no stage implying bi or gay men who play with men to be desperate. In no way am I saying that, what I'm saying is that there are men out there so desperate for sex that they will get it any way they can. Whether it's lying, cheating, manipulating or yes swinging towards men (I'm not talking about those who are bi or gay who often play with men).
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’ve had 2 guys contact me with flirts and messages. That’s 2 more men than women I’ve had contact me on this app. I’ve done heaps better from the free dating apps. I’ve met one couple that was into the cuckhold thing and that’s it pretty much. Probably doesn’t help where I live though 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If a guy is that desperate to swing the other way then if you ask me, they must have some bi in them. As someone that is straight i know i would never turn, its just not me...there must be plenty of closet boys on RHP
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RHP User
8 years ago
I know this might be controversial but has anyone ever thought that these guys who do this, enjoy doing it, and have every right to live their life enjoying doing something that they like. You don’t need to take part in it. You don’t even need to acknowledge their message, just ignore it. Somehow I don’t think it’s out of desperation, yes I think they might want action as we all do. Let’s face it, there are so many more men on this site than women but I seriously think you have to enjoy cock to take it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Pretenses is disgusting though, everyone has to right to have their preferences respected. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The OP is in denial about how his original post comes across. I too read it like LD and Meander did and it does sound as though you are passing judgement OP. Situational sex is the term given to inmates who have sex in prison. The prisoners may be heterosexual in their world outside the prison but the situation itself leads to homosexuality. Sex work is the oldest profession. I too never understand why people think visiting a sex worker is a sign of desperation. I see it as good self management.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ok I'll Wade in here... Sometimes it's the person having a really high sex drive, but you are right when men get toey they'll (pardon the pun) fuck a hole in the ground to get off. As far as jumping in bed with other men yeah I don't know about that one. And I have been hit up by a few guys on this site. But it's not exactly like I've been swamped in offers. As far as dating sites go it's women that get harassed as everyone knows. Nine times out of ten it's exactly like "pommyfucker" describes, mostly older lady's that get the shits on when you're not interested. Right where's my frock 🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We get messages from guys and we are polite and say sorry we arnt looking for guys. The next sentence they say is they can please me more than a woman? Totally bypassing the reason of mental and physical attraction to a woman. I again say politely no thank you . The reply is well can they join in when we play with a unicorn wtf???Say no and then the request comes can you set me up with girls and again i say no! We actually had a situation where a girl we knew was actually looking for a guy to go to an event with so we messaged them and got silence. Now when we get a message from a desperate guy they get blocked instantly Has anyone else had this experience? Mischa
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