RHP

RHP User

M60

Where to look??

April 17 2018

Do be honest I have found the whole 'search for a fantasy' or looking for sex a bit disappointing.Not sure if it's the profile or lack of attraction, but to put messages out there and not get many responses (if any at all at times) has been off putting. has anyone else had this issue? it's obviously a lot different for the ladies, but i'm sure you have other types of issues to deal with as well.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Attend events, communicate with others, and add to the community and parties. That being only you can make things happen. And def a forum is a START. Best of luck without expectations

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    How do you therefore get messages out there ? Guests can’t message - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    In your profile it says : 'My arrangements have changed for the moment and I do not have a play partner (ie I am a single male, but married..sort of...does that make sense)' ... no, it doesn't. That would put me off. The rest of your profile is fine, but maybe add a face pic. Might help in an indefinable way. The other feedback you received was also relevant. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Ummmmm.......okay Im a single woman so let me just say, your profile is very wishy washy. Im not sure what you want. You don't want timewasters......I like to suss out guys before meeting them - there's alot of unstable people out there and I need to have my safety ensured first. Second, you need a connection first.......is that like a flowing conversation? Is it you seeing me as fuckable? What do you class as a connection? How long does it take you to feel like you have this connection? You dont even know where you are at with your relationship - are you married or single? divorced or separated? is it really that hard to tell us where you are at? What kind of messages are you sending women to get their attention? Are you on chat? Do you attend social events? Sounds to me like youve signed up and put in zero effort and are expecting the ladies to flock to you.....

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    If your wife knows you are only sort of married. Maybe when you are away she becomes sort of single too......

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Found a datefinder from a woman in Melbourne whose husband is going to Tassie the same dates as the OP. She's organising a gang gang on that night. So no problem here. Good luck OP. Enjoy your trip

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    RHP is a great site! The trick is to not get attached or bent out of shape with msgs or responses And as for stomach shot pics, women actually arent into that..i get more interest with a photo of my butt as a profile pic! Anyhow, for the guys having trouble meeting girls on here..They can sniff out needy beta males from a 100 miles away I have a great time using this site.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Try not to take the negative responses personally. It'll only bother you. But, you'll have to try at first.