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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  My experience is that the females can't be bothered with all the emailing and is happy for the husbands to do all the vetting, etc.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Then Mrs Flicka has the final say, especially if we are in the mood for a MMF. I then do the flirts, msg's or calls. Mrs Flicka is avaliable to chat if necessary...

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  him_and_me

  12 years ago

  It tends to be (Mrs) Me who does more of the writing but we do take it in turns. x Me

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  For us it is whoever sees the message first, sometimes hubby replies & then other times I reply it does confuse some people but it also just shows that we are both on the site.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  This is why I made a comment a while back that it'd be nice if we could identify somehow if it was the M or F making forum comments..... simply by identifying at the end of a comment... Mr or Mrs. For example..... I don't know if mr nowra or mrs nowra wrote this topic...... Buy i can take an educated guess based upon certain parameters. Perhaps sadly, I hold the view that everyone in here really looks like Gimley the Dwarf until proven otherwise. :-) DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Personally think, if the woman's photo is up, then the lady can talk and visa versa, otherwise I've learnt to ask straight up. Also must say, when it's a couple posting, prefer to speak to the lady.

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  Taby_DK

  12 years ago

  99% of the time it is me (female) replaying to all messages and flirts. I honestly can not remember the last time DK replied to a message. Sure he logs onto the site and has a look in the inbox to see who I have been communicating with but he prefers to let me run the profile and reply to messages as he doesn't have the time. I will admit that sometimes If I'm unsure about a couple I will reply to messages pretending I am DK until I get a feel for the couple and suss it out. But other than that I'm the active member of our couple on RHP. Taby xx

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  Fantasyplus

  12 years ago

  It all depends with us, as to which one reads the message. We both work odd hours and check RHP at different times, I'm happy for Mr Fantasy to reply on my behalf if messages from couples are directed straight at me (which happens a lot!), I'm also happy for him to set up "Play Dates" as well. Couples are given my mobile number as a contact number as he is always in and out of service, this arrangement works well for us. Mrs Fantasy

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  Two_Tarts

  12 years ago

  I (Mr) do most of our messaging because Mrs likes to save her energy for squeezing into short skirts and drinking Champagne..lol... Also because her typing is painfully slow and she is awfully lazy (luv ya honey!). Just lucky for her and me that she is still sooo hot after nearly 23 years together....(see, I told you I luv ya honey!) If it looks like there might be enough potential for a date then we will both sit down and look at the profile and pictures together before we message to arrange anything. Neither of us is much into the online fantasy stuff so if someone looks hot and fun to us we will usually suggest they join us for a drink by the third message, so we definitely will not waste our time on endless or pointless messaging. Mrs spends an equal amount of time looking at Rhp, seeing who has been in touch, highlighting profiles that interest her, and reading the forums, but she will not bother with typing if I am around to do the leg work for her.lol...

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  rootratandlady

  12 years ago

  The lady part of us. He never talks on the phone. He does like to message but usually I am only talking to the male side of a couple and the female gives him nothing.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  does all the messaging, chatting, flirting and a lot of lurking. Mr Choc is happy in his role of checking out the photos Mrs Choc.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  It's always me that does the contact, but it's usually guys on the receiving end, not couples. We Hotwife/Cuckold rather than swing, so Hubby is quite happy for me to do the picking and choosing and whatever else I want!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  As stated we both do but the female usually handles the the selection of the single guys and we usually discuss other couples together.We find the best way to find out if a couple is genuine is talk with the lady on the phone as soon as its possible and after that confirmation it's a good chance they are indeed a couple who are playing together so after that we are happy to talk to either.

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  him_and_me

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'we_want_to' but she will not bother with typing if I am around to do the leg work for her.lol... Let your fingers do the walking! x Me

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