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Why so hard

December 03 2020

A couple of questions I’d like some feedback on, sorry if I apologise too much and it all seems a bit negative but we’re curious. Also, apologies first off to the few people that we have said no too.. but... why is it that so few single guys can host? Why is it so hard for singles (guys - >30, fit hung and can host.... Ladies, just nice normal friendly reasonably fit and don’t need to host) that show interest, msg msg msg then...... nothing, or a no show... so damn annoying to waste ppls time like that.... just be honest and say somethings come up, a generic response.......... whatever.... we are a genuine, time poor, highly sexual hot cpl that like to play with a similar third on occasion

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boxestotick

5 years ago

Go halves in a room!

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RHP User

5 years ago

Maybe because they're not as single as they pretend...

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FeistyFatty

5 years ago

Problem solved... you host. Hard to ascertain from your post but if you're unable to host seems hypocritical to expect others to accommodate you.

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RHP User

5 years ago

The joys of RHP....so many ghosts at least the form provides some reading material. Unfortunately to many people on here don’t quite appear to be who they say they are.

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RHP User

5 years ago

It's hard because you have a pretty long list of requirements for the single men, and the type of men you want are also sought by most other couples who do MFM. Also wanting them to host is adding another layer of difficulty (if I'm interpreting your post correctly you don't need single women to host, which is interesting). A lot of the men you've been chatting with are likely either not single or have other reasons for not being honest, so it's up to you to improve how you vet people so you're not spending time talking to people who aren't what you're looking for. Don't rely on others to always be honest and upfront. Also, when it comes to single women their needs and preferences are usually different to single men, and reading your profile you're not offering an attractive proposition for the women (needing it to all be about your female half). If all you're looking for in a woman is attractive and no diseases, and you're not really concerned about her pleasure then a sex worker would probably be your best bet.

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RHP User

5 years ago

Why’s it all about her pleasure? What about her partner, and the third person? See zero incentive to your profile, and the photos need work. If ladies are consistently losing interest in you after chatting maybe it’s a you problem, not them

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RHP User

5 years ago

The attractive, well hung, buff, single men in your very specific age bracket and who can host are few and far between. Good luck hoping they will be interested in a couple up to 20 years older when they have have a tonne of other options, including woman and couples who actually enjoy time with them for their personalities as well.

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AnnieWhichway

5 years ago

Geez. I really think that couples are hard to deal with. All about them. Its hard for singles to meet singles, How much harder is it for a single to meet a single x3 ie, a couple? I've done it a lot. It never gets easier. And I'm not sure if its easier to host or go there. If you go there, easier to fuck off but at your place, you have 2 of them to get out the door if it goes south. So prob maybe consider the single. Couples have each other for moral and physical support. Singles are just that. Solo. So consider the situation and just go with what the single is comfortable with. Different peeps prefer different scenarios but with couples calling the shots, it can be a bit much for us singles to contend with. 2 against 1. Be accommodating. You'll find success rates increase

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Champagne333

5 years ago

Thanks everyone for your input, we have genuinely taken some good advice from every comment on our post ✔️

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teamaj2

5 years ago

It’s okay to have a long list of what you want as a couple . Obviously , the longer the list the harder it becomes to find someone to match your criteria. Patience is the key . All good things ( we hope ) come to those that wait . As I’ve previously said on forums , I’m a great believer in waiting to find the right person or people that fulfil your wish list . It’s always important to be mindful that the person or persons joining you or meeting you have wants , needs and expectations . To have a successful meet up , I feel ALL needs to some extent need to be met . People that stop communicating with you possibly weren’t wasting your time . By communicating with you they get a feel for what you seek and what you are both about . For any number of reasons people change their mind . I understand it’s annoying but we are all entitled to have a change of heart . People could just say that via message but it’s more likely that silence speaks for itself . Goodluck Ax

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RHP User

5 years ago

We feel your pain as we have also been dealt with a bus load of ghosts on here and other sites, yet we simply want to meet without any expectations and or judgement...

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RHP User

5 years ago

More importantly.... did you end up finding a fella??

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