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Why the Forums?
December 17 2022
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RHP User
3 years ago
Reading how many times the topic of dogging comes up - so far we are up to 119 this year. The responses are priceless reading. I always get a laugh when some innocent dude gets slammed for bringing up the topic
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Obi1kenietzsche
3 years ago
And of course there may be other reasons as well.
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MrandMrsEss
3 years ago
Good for? Hmmm let me think….why? I do love to delve into my own and others understanding of things and a bit of banter doesn’t go astray. The rest of the questions: Yes No that’ll get you blocked; Yes for both No alas there is only a very small fraction of users that utilise the forum Yes this can be some of the most interesting discussions Yes heaven forbid we lose our silliness I try to refrain… quickest way to get blocked unless the self appointed minders agree with you No Not really with only a fraction of members active not really although have made a few nice connections Yes or is it addiction? Yes we all learn from others I like interacting with people with different life experiences and viewpoints
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countrytouch82
3 years ago
Most of the above plus more. Will be as varied as people are varied, as thus will assist finding like minded even just to talk to, or determine the complete opposite minded. The setup is far from perfect, but in any case it's also an interaction on the site that intrinsically shows that one actually exists (as opposed to having a profile but not posting or messaging, IME).
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nightingale8
3 years ago
I enjoy the Pie Forums because it’s one of few places I can get genuine opinion and information that’s not curated or personalised for me. I think it’s good to make space for other people’s experiences and opinions, I certainly learn a lot. Plus it’s entertaining to read and think about sex. Ellis had a lot of great friends 😁
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RHP User
3 years ago
A profile is just like a Realestate advert. You know it's there to sell the property but you also know there's going to be a little embellishment. It doesn't really let you know what a person is really like. Their forum posts do give a bit of insight into their personality and how they thonk about certain issues. So when I read the forum I'm gleening a little bit more and it will help me decide if they're worth my time. There are those who just use posts for self promotion or just to knock the op, I notice those who comments are persistently negative and wonder why they are here in the first place.
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RHP User
3 years ago
I use it to see how men interact with women, and to see which women are more drama than someone to have an adult conversation with at events. I occasionally use it to ask questions but most of the intellectual men won't waste their time on forums so neither do I.
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MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
SHHHH! 🤫 The best kept secret is never shared. I'm here because the forums are my secret addiction. Do I need therapy....ABSOFUCKINGLUTY! Ms Foxy 😁🤪
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teamaj2
3 years ago
Obi , as always an interesting post . I do like the forums for many varied reasons . It is sometimes a learning curve . Some of the topics discussed are of interest as they are far cry from the discussions I have with work colleagues , family and friends . Some of the posts are interesting, from the perspective that they give an insight into the people posting . Profiles often don’t show peoples true self and occasionally people let the walls down on forums with their view points and opinions . I love people and I’m a social being . Peoples take on things is interesting . I’m happy to give my cents worth of advice , if I feel I have some experience or advice on the topic . When we first joined , I did post a few questions . I loved reading others advice and opinions . As much as I hate to admit this - it’s a great time waster if I’ve got a rare moment of peace at work or laying in bed at night pre slumber . I think it’s a pity more don’t voice their opinions and questions on the forum . Ax
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Obi1kenietzsche
3 years ago
Thank you everyone thus far for your comments. It’s great to them, I believe that the function of the Forums is perhaps somewhat more important than one might initially suspect. To anyone thinking of replying please do so, as there are no wrong answers and your thoughts are appreciated. Obi1
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Ex007
3 years ago
As per the dictionary forum “a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.” I see the forum as a community where people get to share whatever it is they would like to share.
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RHP User
3 years ago
I'm an oddball who doesn't fit in that well with any particular subculture. Or didn't until I discovered this community of fellow sex freaks 8===D --- --- ----
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RHP User
3 years ago
I like the forums for many reasons but mostly I’ve learned a lot about people, preferences, communication, myself and what I will and won’t accept from people...I’m always observing and learning, I don’t always put it to good use but I try to, lol. In the world of sex and relationships there’s an unbelievable amount of manipulation, both good and bad, gaslighting also happens and it’s been very valuable to me discussing these things and learning how to deal with them. As someone who’d been in a marriage since my teens I was completely unaware of how deceptive adults can be in order to get what they want and completely unprepared when it came to defending myself against it. Obviously I have many experiences to learn from now but making sense of some of them has been really tough, so I’m grateful to the forums for helping with that and opening my eyes so that I might also learn from other people’s experiences. The haters are teaching me how to stand strong and only make statements I believe in and am willing to stand by. The fragile folk are very slowly teaching me how to be more gentle with my words or just say nothing. The positive stories have also taught me a lot and are fun to read, there’s a few people on here I look forward to seeing in the forums for their stories and opinions. All in all I come here because it’s entertaining and educational in one way or another.
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Sawadee
3 years ago
Mainly for the entertainment some of the forum dwellers provide. Being here for quite some time now ' ive watched some of the shy regulars come out of thier shell and become very entertaining. I particularly enjoy the light hearted banter and try very hard not to get too serious.. As far as meeting someone for intimacy ' lve accepted its almost impossible because l cant and wont display my pic on my public profile because of a recognisable sporting history. The few l have meet ' l released my pics from my private library . I have a personal dislike for those who post war and peace type topics when they can say what they want to say in half the words... Theres a old saying ' if you dont have anything nice to say ... dont say anything.. Finally ' my pet hate is some women here who because you say something nice' they think youre trying to hit on them , which couldnt be furthest from the truth. Having a competitive nature ' l would once be happy to take on the agitaters but the mods didnt see it the same' so these days l keep a low key.. The forums are for everyone ' so enjoy yourself..
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EarthQueen
3 years ago
Initially as a total noob I used it to help me navigate having sex after divorce. It was so helpful at the time and I learnt so much( including things I may have been better off not knowing.) I met some really cool people as well. I'm no longer an active member as such but I still like to drop in every now and again because ... I like the feeling of people helping others because dating and relationships can be hard and confusing. I like the banter. It feels quite real on here compared to other forums. It has a community feel. I get bored easily and its nothing if not entertaining. I'm glad I found the forums , they have been a fun part of my life.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Bit from column A , bit from column B. I do like a bit of light hearted banter. But I also think it’s a good way to asses other pie folk
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CuriousAsianCpl
3 years ago
Bored and looking for some entertainment 😂
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RHP User
3 years ago
I like the forum's (not all the topics interest me) because you lot are bloody interesting. I have laughed out loud at the funny replies, shook my head at the frankness, made me stop and think from someone elses point of view, cringed at the partial savagery, but mostly I enjoy the tongue in cheek responses and it has come to my notice that most of you are around about the same age. Also letting the younger members who are maybe asking their first difficult question are treated with respect. Like walking into a room of interesting people who don't actually stop talking to stare at you but keep talking.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Why? I can say things here I can't say anywhere else. I feel connected and have watched it shift and change over many years. It's been special to have a chance to explore myself here that I haven't had in any other place and I've learned a lot I value. I wrote that last night lol. Came in to follow up tonight and got detracted. But here I am lol, safe and sound. Glad to have the ability to have an opinion for better or worse. 😘🍑
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RHP User
3 years ago
In a very politically correct world we need to have a spattering of political incorrectness from time to time given that in the real world saying such things gets you taken to HR or worse “the Ballarat senior woman’s association”. I enjoy being politically incorrect as age brings out sarcasm and you have a much wider judgement of stupidity. My only avenue to express this political incorrectness is in this forum and the haters will hate and supports will support in this small world without permanent repercussions for freely and honestly speaking my mind.
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ElectricDreamers
3 years ago
When we were first investigating opening up the forums were a wealth of information. When they were more active they were a fun place to banter and sometimes break out the popcorn. When meet-ups were a regular thing they added actual connection.
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Obi1kenietzsche
3 years ago
Again, is great to see these responses and the diversity in them. 👍. It goes to show what a valuable “space” the Forums have provided over the years, and for a wide range of reasons. The common threads regarding sense of community. humorous interaction (banter) and informative dialogue are evident. The Forums have indeed changed over the years, with both posters and responders coming and going, but the inherent value of this feature remains. On that point, are there any particular things about the Forums and rules regarding it that you would like to see changed? Obi1
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AnnieWhichway
3 years ago
I've been on the forum for 8 years now, for better for worse. Seems to sterile these days. Robust discussions very much a thing of the past, as with many things these days, more PC. Being such, many people have left and with them much experience that would be valuable to those new to the lifestyle. I used to look forward to the hundred responses to topics such as squirting, milking prostrated and multiple screaming orgasms. Alas, all gone. Replaced with the moderation of dogging in far reaching places of the country. There used to be a unique community that would travel to the legendary meet and greets. There is still a community here but sterilised Even the OP has had his testicles removed by aliens......
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Libertine001
3 years ago
The banter can be great at times and other times derogatory. I think a forum such as the one on this site can give a general consensus from a majority which in a way is what is socially acceptable and what isn't regardless of rules and regulations. There's many different strokes on here but the one thing about being on a site like this is we are mainly sex positive. For too many years discussing sex in public was frowned upon especially if it's a certain kink one has but here it can be spoken about freely although there are still judgemental folk around which to me says they are not truely open about everything to do with sex. Anyway that's my 2 cents worth. Now for more shits and giggles..👊 Libertine
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RHP User
3 years ago
Alot of people don't even explore the app. It's not unusual for people not to know how to access the chatrooms and forums little known about them. I would like to see the app provide more direction to new and current members. Forums for me is about looking closer at different points of view. Then challenging those ideals with my own perspective and life experience. Try to keep it positive and respectful. But some just want to be a troll and be disrespectful.
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Ex007
3 years ago
I think wobbly Wayne Woke has moved to the town Mod. So sad he took the blue pill.
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madotara69
3 years ago
Obi, back in the day and probably when you even were looser and acquainted with the like of that pirate Captain No Beard and rumours were tossed about, if I seen them I’d have catches them in me finest net and keel hauled the scurvy pufferfish fluffers, but the rumours evaded the wind in our sails of our Good Ship Lollypop and by the Third and First of the Twenty Second code G of the pirate code, rumour may it be, it be no given wind and lay not travelled nor ye the sakes of yay , Yor or argh me lads!! So even if you did assist Cpn No Beard and thee Pirate Quests and all the bottles of finest wines and whot ever else could be read in the life of Pirates and the lure of reckless high adventures ship and open sea, curiosity favoured and desire of want by the ladies of the forums fine indeed, port in every storm the warmth of warm breasts, it was the GILFS that secured and held fresh for the taking Grannies on 24 hr watch and many grannies had purely self sexually served self serve ways had their ways and used you as an object sex toy to play with, regularly gang banging and baking roasts to keep you well fed and nourished just to get the best endurance and stamina a sex slave.. How when clearly doomed did you escape that impossible chance to freedom become sexually liberated obi, ? There was the electric fence that rendered you unconscious through the eye of your penis, the alien abduction and sexual experiments performed on you only one could imagine actually a happening thing and once again escape with one of their space ships, remarkable survival skills indeed. It all is a little blurry for what was what and when again and again, we truly are blessed you are safe and can tell, briefly most likely but, it all comes down to the minutes living on the edge of danger, surely not just because it gets the girls hot and wanting the wild ride…? Mado Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
3 years ago
Oh what a sight for sore eyes and little fits of worry something sexually and we’ll organised for an over extended period of time, in any other events you have , narrowly in some, otherwise impossible with a few of the more sophisticated syndicated organised underground or up a tree, outer space, etc operations, if not for looking at you in the flesh and pretty good condition, cool calm and collected. We only logged in over Chrissy. Find a poem and been waiting in baited breath to wish you a merry Christmas. Happy new year and as it lays.. a happy Easter 🐣 Great you are safe again.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Some topics are great and it helps others are a good laugh 😂😂, I also find there are others that advertise what they are looking for....which your not supposed to do so it's a mix really....like a box of chocolates you have no idea what will rise next
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