Wife and another guy

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  Your wrote : “on getting my wife to have another male in the bedroom. ” “ but something keeps holding her back” So if we understand your post correctly, you are looking for advice on how to get your wife to engage in a MFM with another male and you, despite the fact that she is not interested ? Looking at what you wrote, it is clear to us that this is all about YOUR desire and YOUR attempts in getting your wife to have sex with another male. Pushing / coercing her to “take one for the team “ or do something that she is clearly not ready to do, could end up destroying your marriage / relationship. Does she even know that you have a couples profile on RHP and that you are asking advice about her, on here ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  FeistyFatty

  8 years ago

  Is key. And dont rush her. When and IF she ever wants YOUR fantasy to happen then she will let you know. And dude theres a HUGE leap from texting a bit of, "I wanna do ABC to your XYZ", to having an MMF. For us, the threesomes have been at my behest and i have chosen the men and organised etc. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  MsJonesy

  8 years ago

  You are doing alot of thinking. But perhaps not as much talking - to your wife that is. At the moment it appears that this is your fantasy, not hers. Sure you two are having some extra spiced sex after she has been a "dirty girl with another guy on kik or similar". But that in no way translates, and in no way leads to, her enjoying another man IN PERSON. She may be doing all the dirty chat etc it because YOU like it. And unless your wife explicitly requests it, there is no point you "thinking" she might like it. If you are, as you state, relatively new to this, clam the fantasy a bit and get in sync with what you both would like to do. This fantasy of yours may - or may not - happen. Probably best not to build to many fantasies /scenarios in your head, as you may well be bitterly disappointed. Its her body, and her choice as to whom she she shares it with. 😊

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Mate, as DC36 have commented, it sounds like you want her to do something she is not comfortable with. You could tack the word ''yet'' onto that sentence, and by that I mean you could continue to gently press your cause with her - but if she still doesn't come around to it you are just going to have to let it go.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  The fact she has been on the webcam chatroom and spoken to numerous guys on rhp should answer that question, "does she even know you have a couple profile on rhp". And it is just nerves that are holding her back, I've been with my wife for a long time and know her well. I would never try to make my wife do some thing she is not comfortable doing, and she wouldn't do anything she isn't comfortable with. So I was trying to get people's experiences that have gone through with the mfm scene. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  MFM can be a lot of fun, with the right other guy, and provided all are comfortable with it. Are you okay with any MM side of it, or would it strictly be MF interactions? Sitting and watching is one way, she is the hotwife and enjoys the pleasure of sex, while you get the pleasure of watching her pleasure, and maybe playing later. If both males are okay with getting closer, then it is a lot more fun, but both males need to avoid the stigma of touching another cock is a bad thing. Communication with your wife before, during and after is the key though.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Hey bro. From reading your post to me it sound sound like you are trying to coerce your wife into the mfm 3some so ignore the ones who think so. We have had a few mfm's if i can say that and they have certainly enjoyed them. Like any solid couple as we are everything is about discussing and letting each other knows the things that we like, so telling her that you would enjoy an mfm 3some is not coercion. As i found you have to be patient and let her move at her own pace as i did and if she doesnt feel the desire to take the next step you have to be respectful of her decision. Once my girl decided that she wanted it she was all in and she handled herself beautifully as the validations support. The key is finding the right guy, i mean as you wives and partners are targeted big time on here and there is never a short supply of guys that want to fuck your wife. It can take time finding the right guy but if your patient it is well worth it. Just yesterday my girl said the words " i want another 3some" which fuelled my desire with her for the next few hours. I never expected to enjoy mfm with her so much but now i love it. So be patient with her, don't nag her, make her the centre of attention and wait. Hopefully you both find what you want on here. Good luck my friend. - Posted from rhpmobile

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