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Women are visual creatures too!
November 01 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I won't even bother to exchanging emails if I don't see a face pic. I am attracted to a persons face or maybe it's something about their eyes? Sorry dude, if I don't like your face & you don't have a reasonable body I don't even bother to read their profiles. Oops am I bad? Meeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well, as for feelings... Yes I want to know if you are smart, sensitive, funny, etc, Plus I want to know if you are a bloke who is just looking to put their dick in any hole. That is why women read profiles. We don't have feelings from a profile or from a meeting. That view point just annoys me. :( Besides men have feelings too right.... Horniness. That's a feeling right.
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RHP User
13 years ago
is different,I have met quite a few people without seeing their photo first and sometimes when I have seen one they look nothing like it.I have even noticed on profiles here,that photos of the same person can look like two different people.Hmm now there's a thought,twofers..x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like to get a face pic - I'm a sucker for sexy 'fuck me' eyes ... I am a VERY visual person and love all sorts of pics. Happy to reciprocate.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm with you. On the rare occasion i get a new contact out of the blue. They never ask to see my face..I wonder what's wrong with it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm not that visual, therefore body pictures don't mean much to me. "Good" looks are hardly as important to me as what a man says, does, writes etc. But from faces I find you can tell so much, just from someone's expression. (Anythingjustnow: love your photos. You look very kind)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im a heartless bitch but I still wanna see the face of the bloke I'm talking to....Roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'"........ I won't even bother to exchanging emails if I don't see a face pic. I am attracted to a persons face or maybe it's something about their eyes? "Fair enough :-) A sparke in someone's eyes can be a huge turn-on! There is nothing wrong with asking for a face pic, it's just that some people are not as photogenic as others, and look so much better in person. For example, I have been told on quite a few "first-up" meetings that I ......"look so much better in person"....lol......which is fortunate for me.....but what if you were a person who wasn't as fortunate????? :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes women are emotional and men are visual, although here its more about sex and less emphasis on finding 'the one' If i am wanting sex, yep I want a pic and generally I will be damn fussy with my eye candy that I am only going to use for sex.. Why bother about the emotional stuff when I am not in the mood to seek more than my own selfish needs and desires (yes insert eye roll here!) If I am seeking a new FWB for ongoing fun, then I am less llikely to be asking for a pic straight up and more into getting to see if I like the person for a chat/coffee etc and less emphasis on the pic to begin with. Also, well sometimes, I dont wanna chat I just wanna sit and perve profiles, just because, I can! ... BTW its a womans perogative to change our mind, several times a second if we want! hahahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I won't even bother to exchanging emails if I don't see a face pic. I am attracted to a persons face or maybe it's something about their eyes? Sorry dude, if I don't like your face & you don't have a reasonable body I don't even bother to read their profiles. Oops am I bad? Meeka im totally with u! bodies are nice, but i need to see something in their eyes, smile, mouth , whatever...something i know will spark the visual chemistry :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I won't even bother to exchanging emails if I don't see a face pic. I am attracted to a persons face or maybe it's something about their eyes? Sorry dude, if I don't like your face & you don't have a reasonable body I don't even bother to read their profiles. Oops am I bad? Meeka agree here as well....theres no point going somewhere if you dont like what you see....we are of the opinion tho, that its the whole package that makes someone attractive or not....shame that people dont get that...and that being a 'nice guy' or a 'lovely woman' just isnt enough................oh, and any suggestion that women are less 'visual' than men....is way wrong.....if anything, women are much much more particular about what they see......and if they like it or not..........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I won't even bother to exchanging emails if I don't see a face pic. I am attracted to a persons face or maybe it's something about their eyes? Sorry dude, if I don't like your face & you don't have a reasonable body I don't even bother to read their profiles. Oops am I bad? Meeka ^That. I've never seen a cock or body that made me decide to fuck someone all on it's own, although I've seen cocks that made me decide NOT to fuck someone. The face is the decision maker.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have nothing against cock pics at all, I think women who won't even look at your profile if your cock is visible are a bit odd, particularly when many of them will also show a tit or pussy pic. Hilarious.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeviousMissM' (Anythingjustnow: love your photos. You look very kind) Right back at you. Your new pic is definately my fav
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RHP User
13 years ago
starts with the face for me. The sparkle in the eyes, the expression, the lips, smile/teeth, jaw line. If all that works, then I will want to gaze down to the body, I don't start at the bottom and work up.I can read much about a persons character, mood, psyche from their face - so if they don't have a photo of it, I won't start chatting even if their profile sparks interest and ticks my boxes.If the face works visually and the profile works mentally/emotionally, then I am happy to chat. If chat works and we have a connection, then I am willing to meet.~It's just the way I roll~
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Meeka ^That. I've never seen a cock or body that made me decide to fuck someone all on it's own, although I've seen cocks that made me decide NOT to fuck someone. The face is the decision maker.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have to agree... Some cocks should not be shown cause they are fugly. It's a turn off. Pretty harsh I know. Lol. It's the man and what I see in his face not his cock. Seriously, don't guys put cock pics up so that other guys can see them. The cock off? As a guest now I don't see the cocks... Can't say I miss them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'I'm with you. On the rare occasion i get a new contact out of the blue. They never ask to see my face..I wonder what's wrong with it? on the train?
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RHP User
13 years ago
an intellectual and emotional connection plus the person in question being physically attractive in MY eyes. I don't care what other people think they look like, if I find them attractive everyone else's opinion means jack shit to me. However, I won't meet someone off the net without a face pic first. More for security reasons, I need to know exactly who I am meeting prior to the meet. I want full disclosure, because I offer it in return. I've got 2 babies I would rather not leave motherless because I wasn't careful enough with who I met or they werent who they said they were, blah blah. Don't necessarily need a body pic because I'm not one to complain about a guy who only has a 6-pack and not an 8-pack!
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RHP User
13 years ago
80 % of woman rely on the their eyes for their decisions , or fall for the players , lets see famous examples Shane Warne , Tiger Woods , Etc , women will accept being treated badly by good looking guys than treated well by ugly fuckers . Just my opinion
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RHP User
13 years ago
security lol how do you tell about a person by their picture, fact most serial killers killers are on average attractive to woman or would be largely unsuccessful. So ladies question what's your experience , on average who has treated badly by above average looking guys as compared to average or below average
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had a 6 pack dammit
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah it's my face.. But if you can tell how I look from that you have an imagination I'm quite jealous of..~smiles~
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RHP User
13 years ago
The majority aren't here to make new friends (although that has been a delightful side to this experience) If I am going to take the time out to meet someone (spend time on hair, makeup, deciding what to wear, and the actual time taken out for the coffee, dinner etc) I would prefer there is a good chance we will hit it off in regards to attraction, the only way to ensure this is to see a face pic. Being a woman on here means you have alot of men to choose from, if I met everyone who messaged me I'd basically not have a life.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think females are more visual than males. To the OP you seem to have a fairly level head and observed a lot over time like myself. From my own experiences and also from listening to women i've fairly certain females base nearly the entire package on the physical. Listening to comments sometimes shocks me as women seem almost offended if they come across someone not blessed with looks. It may be a general comment about someone they don't even know....or the old "omg as if i'd go out with that' etc. Also reading profiles where women state you must be above a certain height....be a certain type or size...be fit and athletic etc. If males write those type of things they are regarded as pigs, arrogant or ass*****. Then i think about certain behaviour in life where everything is about the look of it for women...for example...does my bum look big in this....thats a lovely ring or pendant or earring....the house looks great and modern....those new shoes you bought are so hot looking. Guys never say that about anything we are much more basic. The lucky guys that lucked in with good genetics can be complete pricks and women seem to go to them regardless...versus a decent, genuine honest guy that basically gets ignored or even left felt embarassed after a not so good rejection. Just the reality i've found.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72'The majority aren't here to make new friends (although that has been a delightful side to this experience) If I am going to take the time out to meet someone (spend time on hair, makeup, deciding what to wear, and the actual time taken out for the coffee, dinner etc) I would prefer there is a good chance we will hit it off in regards to attraction, the only way to ensure this is to see a face pic. Being a woman on here means you have alot of men to choose from, if I met everyone who messaged me I'd basically not have a life. You said it, sister!
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Enigmaoflove" and "Mischeviouslad" make some very valid points in their respective rights! I would like to add that if women can assess the man.....purely on just face pics, which some may claim as superficial, then I am more confused and puzzled as to what is in people's heads???? OR they know something that the rest don't!! To be fair, I say this, whether I had stunning looks or not. But then again, this is RHP and perhaps only a small pond in the scheme of things. Generally, I do understand that most people do make judgments on the face, the body and profile content (a virtual personality), but don't you think you are passing up some fantastic people, who are clearly judged on mere face pics. But then again, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" as the old saying goes.........!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72'"..........I would prefer there is a good chance we will hit it off in regards to attraction, the only way to ensure this is to see a face pic. Being a woman on here means you have alot of men to choose from, if I met everyone who messaged me I'd basically not have a life". If the face pic presented .... is on "face value" a true depiction of the man......then good for you for screening it well and finding "online attraction" ! To me a face pic is only a guide....... I prefer to meet the woman first to assess the whole picture, (including their personality ) to see if there is any attraction in reality. For me, just face pics and on-line chemistry has on many occasions disappointed me, when meeting the woman in person. So it can be a case of "hit and miss" at times....lol. Saskia.... then again I understand that....being a woman in the RHP pond, means you can be selective in choosing from a "smorgasboard of men" with all their varying facial and bodily features! Pity for those ugly buggers then....??
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RHP User
13 years ago
most men will bang any women once irrespective of looks
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' Also reading profiles where women state you must be above a certain height....be a certain type or size... Guilty of the height requirement, though there is nothing visual about this for me. I just like a man to be bigger and stronger than me, as it makes me feel little and protected. Maybe a little submissive. I do enjoy being pushed up against walls and thrown around a bit.
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RHP User
13 years ago
EXACTLY...The face pic is a GUIDE. If I like a face, then have a chat, then decide from those two factors whether it is worthwhile (for both parties) to continue on to coffee or drinks. Generally after this process you can then decide where things go from there. I haven't yet had one of those disastrous meets where the person doesn't look anything like their pic, so am happy to continue with what works for me. It's a little less time consuming than meeting people and getting a surprise, or meeting someone who I am not really physically attracted to in the celluloid, only to find that even though he is lovely/funny or whatever, but alas I am not physically attracted to him. It just seems to make no sense. Alot of the men when replying to topics in this vein talk about how if things don't work out, you can make a new friend if all else fails... I have to wonder how many of them though would continue on meeting the woman if he knew there was no chance of there being any sex involved. Think about it. Miss Devious knows exactly what I mean. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I finally renewed again so I can see all the naughty sexy pics I want.....Oh and to read all the naughty stories in the erotica section too. Yes Voldermort thats probably is true.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'voldermort'most men will bang any women once irrespective of looks dont know about 'most men'....but i can say that some of us are very particular.
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RHP User
13 years ago
is either off re-reading his Hairy Potter collection or is much too busy banging away at a succession of very lucky women. Enigma ,you have said something similar before and quite frankly WHAT ARE THE WOMEN OF SYDNEY THINKING. You are fit and fabulous,intelligent and thoughtfull....so there...x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
i think this is funnyscrolled through two pages and only 3 female faces showing on their profiles.. ironic
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RHP User
13 years ago
I personally find penis pictures to be off putting. Typical boys 'OMG PENIS!!! CHECK IT OUT!!!' *click* Men need to know that the head of their penis being the only thing in shot isn't appealing for some people.I like subtle pictures personally. Trying to figure out what they're hiding, or what they really look like is sexy. I do get upset when there isn't a face picture though as I'm all about looks. But we don't have face pictures so we can't really talkMrsSplicey
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RHP User
13 years ago
YOU are NOT most men. That is all, now be off with you, you little man.
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RHP User
13 years ago
can we same the same about females Boob and Arse pics ??lot of the female profiles i surf through. it's either arse or boobs in your face and no pic of there face at allit works both ways i thinkhums the band "Surpernaut" song "like it both ways" and buggers back off to profile surfing
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Animenut' i think this is funnyscrolled through two pages and only 3 female faces showing on their profiles.. ironic I used to have my face shot up and then one day thought oops do you know how many people in my area are on here and know me....and I worked in a child friendly envireoment I didnt want people judging me for being here....and the day my friends son was checking me out well thank goodness I had my face shot hidden then.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can tell from a face pic if there is any attraction on my part. I dont like to even begin chatting to a person before I see a face pic. My personal rule is: No face pic - No reply. I dont want to waste my time or yours.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im the let photogenic man in the world, I don't smile because I don't like my teeth, they're all straight buy I have an overbite lol, and if I put up ab/stomach pics women will flip out coz of the huge scar on my stomach. Sooooo, any Suggstions for me lol!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Animenut'can we same the same about females Boob and Arse pics ?? lot of the female profiles i surf through. it's either arse or boobs in your face and no pic of there face at all it works both ways i think I have face pics in my PG and am usually happy to show them once I've seen yours. Have to make sure I don't know you first. p.s. I really liked having my face pic up for a bit though. Feel kinda sad now.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Yup agree wholeheartedly with this. Why would women view men with less visual stimulation in mind than men view us? I prefer a picture but still love the way people describe themselves on thier profiles. This really is no different to any other marketing campaign where you are promoting yourself....think about it. Do you want $12/hr, no progression and zero opportunity or stand out from the "herd" and be in the run for $69/hr 😉, progress and opportunity?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Animenut' can we same the same about females Boob and Arse pics ??lot of the female profiles i surf through. it's either arse or boobs in your face and no pic of there face at allit works both ways i thinkhums the band "Surpernaut" song "like it both ways" and buggers back off to profile surfing Of course it works both ways.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Torturedcliche' Im the let photogenic man in the world, I don't smile because I don't like my teeth, they're all straight buy I have an overbite lol, and if I put up ab/stomach pics women will flip out coz of the huge scar on my stomach. Sooooo, any Suggstions for me lol!!! Scars are seriously hot. Dated a guy for a few weeks who had massive burn scars on his back and shoulders. I found them incredibly sexy. That's just me though.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Did I just admit to being visual? I meant his scars FELT great, is all.
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JessicaRabbit
13 years ago
I will always want to see face pics and body pics (not the redhot ones) before meeting to see if I think i'll find the person physically attractive, otherwise there's just no point meeting them. It's much harder to get a sense of 'feelings' through exchanging emails than it is to decide if you find someone attractive. The 'feelings' stuff comes up when you meet in person and see if there's that spark or not. Dida xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi AllWe're still very new on here, so its great getting this insight to what everyone thinks.Will definitely be adding an un-fuzzed face pic into the private galleries!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't smile cos I'm trying to hide missm's pigeon :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd be smilin if I got anywhere near missm let alone her pigeon or anything else ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Of course they are, there is a little thing called a "bad boy" image, perpetuated by woman. Image is visual, thank you I just won it for the men! Now where's my giant novelty cheque and 2 hotties "escorting" me down the stairs and beyond ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I own thirteen birds. Not pigeons though. Someone suggested yesterday they'd make a great fascinator to wear to the Melboune Cup. Must remember to freeze any that die, for next year.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72' The majority aren't here to make new friends (although that has been a delightful side to this experience) If I am going to take the time out to meet someone (spend time on hair, makeup, deciding what to wear, and the actual time taken out for the coffee, dinner etc) I would prefer there is a good chance we will hit it off in regards to attraction, the only way to ensure this is to see a face pic. Being a woman on here means you have alot of men to choose from, if I met everyone who messaged me I'd basically not have a life. Exactly what she said! One's face (and therefore face pics) is very important...regardless of the level of investment in the meeting of the person, we connect with people firstly and primarily through the face... it's what you talk to, what you read expressions into, what you kiss (if all goes well), etc. It has to be shown up front (honesty) and it has to feel right (instinct)... The eyes are the window to the soul after all :)Sadey
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RHP User
13 years ago
You may be surprised to learn that there are 412 different human emotions. But if you're a woman this may be obvious.The Sex ID eyes task asks you to match someone's eyes with their mood.Women are said to be better at distinguishing between the fleeting expressions that cross our faces every day. According to Professor Simon Baron-Cohen at the Autism Research Centre, Cambridge University, this is because empathy comes naturally to women while men are wired to understand how things work.http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/sex/articles/empathising_systemising.shtml
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