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Women have sex with....

May 21 2026

Women have sex with who they want to. Men have sex with who ever they can. Discuss.

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  • PartnersnCrime

    PartnersnCrime

    15 days ago

    Depends on man's ability to choose 🙃 some are desperate, others can choose only what they want.

  • Lostyanumber

    Lostyanumber

    15 days ago

    When it comes to the senior demographic women don't always have a steady stream of suitable men beating a path to their door but they do have more choice than men in the same age group. There are more older men lusting after younger women than vice versa.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    14 days ago

    Consent matters. Ms Foxy

  • Zpaset

    Zpaset

    14 days ago

    Not exactly but very close. Women have far more choices and can afford to be more more selective. I don't care what she looks like to an extent but more about how she views herself and how she treats me. If she believes that she is the prize and doesn't need to provide any information past a few photos of her boobs then it's a pass. A little information about what she is looking for and interested in is essential. One tells me if my attention may be wanted or am I going to be one of the pests that she has to constantly deal with and the other gives me something to use in my introduction to show that I've read her profile and am interested in learning more about her. But yes, guys send out hundreds of carefully written introductions, a few are read with no reply a very few are replied to and even less actually participate in the conversation rather than give one word answers the rest ask a few questions and ghost you. A man's first flowers are placed on his coffin.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    14 days ago

    Your question promotes scarcity mentality. So you will get scarcity answers. It’s not what you know, it’s the questions you ask. This is why social media and AI suck. They give you the question and make you think it’s your own.

  • Cucknshells

    Cucknshells

    14 days ago

    This is only from my perspective. I personally like to have sex with someone I connect with. I don't want to have sex with someone that isn't attractive to me. So, while it might be true I that I have a lot of options, finding someone that wants to have sex with me, as a whole person, is not easy. We are all different. It doesn't matter if you a woman or a man. Some people like having sex just for the physical act of it. Some people are very particular with who they have sex with. It goes both ways. So while it might seem women have more options it's not always the case as at the end of the day it's hard for everyone to find someone that aligns with what they want and need. I would love to have sex with Theo James but honestly, he would never want to have sex with me. So while your statement might seem true on the surface looking deeper I think there is much more to it. It is hard for everyone to find someone to have good sex with. Shells xx

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    14 days ago

    I've always been selective.. so it's not easy.. l need something more than the quick fix. Means my head count is not as high, but i like to think the quality is..

  • nutsundae

    nutsundae

    14 days ago

    Kinda sorta IMO. Plenty of guys are very picky, and can't get it up unless they are very attracted. There are many women who, at particular moments, have a criteria list that isn't much longer than erection = yes. Nothing wrong with either, btw. Broadly though, there is distinction between men and women's sexuality. For starters, there's cultural conditioning. Thousands of years where marriage was essentially an economic contract, forcing women into asymmetric dependency, and where the role of the woman was to preserve the husband's bloodline and make the future distribution of his wealth simple and convenient, while he was free to fuck around as he pleased. The whole slut shaming women, high-fiving blokes, thing, which drove women into a very oppressed position sexually. There's the biologic argument that says men's primal drive is to spread their seed as far and wide as possible with gay abandon, whereas women - as child bearers with high table stakes - are naturally selective as to which dicks they opt to sit on, vs those that get a card in the mail with a politely handwritten 'thanks, but no'. So even if we break down the social conditioning, which is slowly happening generationally, and take it to raw eroticism, where women are every bit just are horny and naughty as men (and in certain life phases, considerably more so) - we still have fundamental differences that are rooted (pun intended) in our biological purpose. Equally up for it - yes. How we need to get there - very different.

  • Still_us

    Still_us

    14 days ago

    This is the guy from the couple, so this is my take on this interesting subject. I’m only interested in women who I initially find both attractive and sexy. There has to be a connection for me, otherwise there is no real point. As a much younger guy I wasn’t into the connection thing, but soon became a bit over the feeling you can get after sex, when all you think about is leaving as soon as possible. So for me a connection is a must. I also realise that this is just a personal view, and that for many others, both guys and women, is not a necessity.

  • PandaAndBri

    PandaAndBri

    14 days ago

    It depends on the demographic. Some guys who have less options ie scarcity of females, less confidence in themselves or less attractiveness, certainly would be in the quota of “what I can get”. Some women also may also be in that boat due to the same demographics but also from their life conditioning. It will also be the younger age group that are so horny any thing with a pulse will do - and I have seen that in both genders. As I am confident in myself generally speaking I will have sex with whom I find attractive either visually, mentally or usually a mixture of both. And most if all - if I WANT to.

  • 55SexyandSingle

    55SexyandSingle

    14 days ago

    I have always been very selective about who I share my body with … My body. My choice. Whilst I may have plenty of men wanting to have sex with me, but that is never reciprocated unless there is a connection and chemistry … which can be elusive, and I would prefer quality encounters with good men (who are good humans), over meaningless sex with randoms any day !!

  • Felicitous

    Felicitous

    14 days ago

    I completely disagree.. Women have sex with whomever they want to. Men have sex with whomever they want to. The quality and quantity of liaisons are all proportionate to preferences (for both sexes)

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    14 days ago

    A most common conception, which may be somewhat correct as a generalisation but then again might be an over simplification of reality. It did inspire me to take a walk back into my past. I have counted 11 significant sexual relationships in my life, all of varying longevities. Each one was the complete focus of my desires at the time and I feel grateful to have spent that level of closeness with every one. I've also had some fun and frivolous sex with a handful or two of one night stands and again all but one I can remember being absolutely a great choice, the one was a taking one for the team wing man event to support a recently separated mate. Now it does seem a lot of guys around here will stick it in any place warm and wet but I've seen quite a bit of the same kind of thirst from many women here as well so maybe it's the place skewing the results.

  • Nightglider

    Nightglider

    14 days ago

    Depends on the man and depends on the woman. I get where you’re coming from given the higher number of men to women on these platforms. There are definitely men who fire off copy paste, cookie cutter messages to anyone they think might respond. Cast the net wide and hope for a bite. But if it were really as simple as “men will have sex with whoever they can,” that would suggest men have zero standards or emotional investment in who they have sex with, and I don’t think that’s true for a lot of men. .

  • sublime

    sublime

    14 days ago

    I can speak for myself when I say I enjoy a connection, banter , anticipation, random hookups don’t do it for me. But each to their own

  • selfless__lover

    selfless__lover

    13 days ago

    What in the Incel nonsense is this post? And how would you define non-binary or transgender people? People in general have sex for a multitude of different reasons, in many different shapes, forms and flavours. Tarring people with the same brush almost comes across like a rage baiting post as it's so ridiculous. I know plenty of women who will have sex with however the opportunity arises with and plenty of men who require a connection and mental stimulation before jumping into bed, others of both genders are asexual and it takes something extraordinary for them to even consider sleep with someone. RHP to me is all about celebrating all the flavours of different sex drives, kinks, persuasions and desires, not somewhere we need to resort to labels or broad statements about groups of people.

  • NewOldStock

    NewOldStock

    12 days ago

    Hmm, I think it might be reductionist. There are probably as many "dynamics" as there are people. For example: I've been rejected by everyone I've ever been interested in 😂, but even a lifetime of that wouldn't be enough information to make this statement true.

  • onelastride

    onelastride

    11 days ago

    Yeh and men marry who they want women marry who they can so it works out equal in the end. For instance a girl could knock back a guy but a better looking guy might not ask her to marry her but ask a more attractive good to marry him. And yes attraction matters but it’s funny you could meet the love of your life the 1000% compatible person in ever other way than looks but we as humans will never know cause we choose looks over getting to know someone,

  • Rogereleven

    Rogereleven

    10 days ago

    I think this is a simplistic statement. Many men won’t have sex with someone who they don’t connect with. Sometimes you need to give a man more credit than that.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    9 days ago

    This is a pretty basic viewpoint. Women also get raped a lot and have sex when they don't want it. 1 in 5. Mostly from someone we know. We have it so much better? Alrighty then.

  • Dugie78

    Dugie78

    4 days ago

    Sweetheart, men marry who they want and woman marry who they cam !

  • Gentlelovers

    Gentlelovers

    11 hours ago

    Totally disagree with your statement.