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Your journey
November 23 2015
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Learned that I am definitely a 100% straight person sexually 😛 I knew I was never into women since very young age, but because I didn't have any way of finding out before my journey on RHP, I gave it the benefits of doubt for a while and until I got here. So that is one gain on my journey here 😊 Have I grown from my experiences?.......absolutely willowtree_2! When I first joined RHP, I would believe in the majority of things that men said to me, especially the complimentary words that they said about my body, or the fake promises that they made, etc. However, I do not regret those hard lessons learned because, it's those nagative experiences that have helped me grown positively and become the wiser person I am today! 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I still have lots to explore and experience. that I do cum easily I can squirt I find the randomest things sexy
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RHP User
10 years ago
No longer as naive as I was when I first joined nearly four years ago..I have made some good friends,but that's it xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CucknShells' Shells you nailed it 100% That sexy comes from within. That if you feel sexy then you are.I have thicker skin than I thought.I am not as scared as I once was. That stepping outside your comfort zone is good.Not to take everything so personally.That there are three sides to every story.To keep it simple. And most importantly to live in the moment. Enjoy life and savour it. Shells.PS Yes I have grown a lot and I am better for it. All this is the same for us and as an added bonus we have also discovered an even deeper level of intimacy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I learnt strong discipline from years of playing football and that kept me grounded.. The thing I learnt most about being here is there are multiple personalities which you gradually start to get a handle on after time. From this experience you can't help but form a picture of what you perceive certain members are all about , right or wrong.. If there were one thing I could change , that would be some of the females ( and males ) stop taking them selves too serious... Just my observation...
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belladonna888
10 years ago
I have learnt everything is negotiable, i am shallow, random sex is hollow and meaningless, attention is addictive, people are rarely what they say they are, never trust anyone, and i never in a million year's thought i would have so much sex ...lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
to be honest. I came on here earlier in the year probably looking for some experience to take my mind off the early stages of separation. When we separated at Xmas time I was ok for the most part I thought. Sure it was hard and trying to understand what I have done wrong is impossible because I've not been told. Sunday Night I learned my ex has been seeing someone in the last couple months and has slept with him. I went from being ok and really looking forward to exploring next year to my world imploding as my true feelings for her resurfaced. Unfortunately my ex is a ridiculously stubborn person. Once her mind is set then you are lost. There is no way she will allow herself to show weakness by going back on what she has said. She'd rather cut her nose off.......Having said all that as said in the other thread I have made a lot of sacrifices and given up a lot to try and make her happy. So I'm unsure of my journey now. I'm scared that when I meet up with someone next year after the doctors give me the all clear that my emotions will get the better of me and ruin the experience for both of us. Sorry for the little rant just felt like the background etc. was part of my journey here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Discipline from being a professional dancer and that has kept me grounded. I have learnt that it is best to express yourself and leave others to express themselves. The mix is interesting. Serious or humorous. It's all valid. Oh Ffs. I just had a dig. Bad me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im totally hearing you. My experience and outcome as well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can rant as much as you feel like. You have lots going on. All at once. It will be an emotional rollercoaster. Just ride through it as best you can. And rant whenever you need to
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RHP User
10 years ago
You should still meet people.make some friends..go to a meet and greet it doesn't have to be a one on one..I know it's hard but if the opportunity arises ,take it xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Random group sex until you are ready for the next step. Put yourself out there and fake it till you make it. You'll know when the make it moment arrives. All the best.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Random group sex. Yeah thats a good way to avoid and put a bandaide on any emotional connections. Thats something I learnt on my journey.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Random group sex does sound fun and is something I'd like to tick off. Thanks guys.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Self discovery, it's been all about me, learning, growing, exploring, discovering, experimenting and achieving things I would never have dreamt about. I've learnt more about myself in the last 2 years than I ever thought possible. I've met some absolutely amazing people, I've met some down right crazy people, I've met some terrible people that I never wish to cross paths with again, I've definitely had my up and downs, but it's all been part of a worth while journey.....💋
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IamMrSilly
10 years ago
I was going to write something but then read Shells' reply and had nothing to add... Quoting 'CucknShells' That sexy comes from within. That if you feel sexy then you are.I have thicker skin than I thought.I am not as scared as I once was. That stepping outside your comfort zone is good.Not to take everything so personally.That there are three sides to every story.To keep it simple. And most importantly to live in the moment. Enjoy life and savour it. Shells.PS Yes I have grown a lot and I am better for it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The first year was all about experimentation and just having fun. The second year was enjoying the social friendships that I made here with some great people. So glad that RHP turned a corner and especially for the singles became more social.The 3rd year has shown me that this lifestyle is not always so good for the single female. Sharing the adventures with a partner is much better experience. Having said that I have my moments when I still like to let it all go and have some fun. When I do I can guarantee that some of the friends I have made are happy to have fun along with me. Learnt that having sex without a connection is not worth having. Learnt that I am bi-sexual, learnt that even though I'm BBW there are men and women who are very attracted to that. Learnt there is nothing more important than being open to try new experiences.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been on here since this time last year and it started out with a bang, Here is what I have learnt. I have met some great couples and a few odd ones too. Everyone wants something different although in the same category of sexual expression, some watch, some film, some participate, some love to share, some want to cheat. Single females are the shadiest bunch on here, at least you know what a single guy wants even though a majority of single guys ruin it for the decent blokes out there. I enjoy sex more and more but I am getting bored so I seem to push for things I don't have or should not be doing from the "vanilla " lifestyle. I crave intimacy because I don't get it often and I enjoy threesomes more than 1 on 1 sex as sharing is caring. I am not ok with orgies but I am ok with gangbangs. I am straight mentally but I am not physically.I get stage fright and go limp if I am not enjoying myself or over think things.I feel embarrassed about my looks, I have a small dick and I am fat ect...My confidence is up and down as you get shut down a lot even though I have been picked up many times too. It effects us all. I still don't know what I want but I am more clear on what I don't want.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dimeshreds, that rang true for me..." I still dont know what I want, but I know what I dont want". When you get that dreaded question of,"what do you want"....I DONT KNOW!!! But I can tell you exactly what I dont want.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Morganuh, I agree with what you say about expressing yourself and the mix.. Makes things interesting... Lovinit28 , I think your journey is the way it should be done.. exploring things you once never thought you would ever do. Just realized how much both your profile pic's look the same... Good look btw..
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RHP User
10 years ago
'Single women are the shadiest bunch on here' Really? Absolute crap, by the time we eventually get real or current pictures, which is usually a long and tedious process, then if we're not attracted, we leave it there. And this makes us shady. I show myself very clearly, and am very clear in the written part about what it is i'm looking for. Pot calling the kettle black i would think - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Appreciate where you are at-: Because if you think you are in a bad place, appreciate because it will invariably get a whole lot worse Because if you think you have hit rock bottom, appreciate it, because as it turns out, it was just a shelf on the way down Because if you think you are doing ok, appreciate it because, you know that shelf mentioned above. You gonna hit it Because if you think you are flying at your best, having the greatest moments of your life, appreciate it because you gonna miss that shelf................
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Appreciate where you are at-: Because if you think you are in a bad place, appreciate because it will invariably get a whole lot worse Because if you think you have hit rock bottom, appreciate it, because as it turns out, it was just a shelf on the way down Because if you think you are doing ok, appreciate it because, you know that shelf mentioned above. You gonna hit it Because if you think you are flying at your best, having the greatest moments of your life, appreciate it because you gonna miss that shelf................ How right you are!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Didn't you just contradict yourself? : take a re read ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Katkat
10 years ago
I have only been here for a couple of months Im enjoying it & there is so much more to do & explore. I say live life to the max but somehow I still prefer 1 on 1 rather than a group party or sex orgy it's fun don't get me wrong but I crave for that stimulating & connection with that person so much better when there is a mutual attraction rather than just a fuck orgy. Definitely need to try more party I guess but I'm too picky somehow don't know why. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great sex is available in many forms, but gets better with practise(with the same people).No one sees themselves as awesome as others do.There are some amazing people that are too complicated to be in my life.I will be judged by my lifestyle choice, I won't judge others for theirs.Gossip is inevitable.The less I care of other peoples opinion of me, the more content I am.The more I care about those I love, the happier I am.Acceptance is the key to happiness.Dachshund minions are hilarious.Don't discuss non usage of condoms in forums(*). * I know I know
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RHP User
10 years ago
Very well expressed and great advice. You are wise beyond your years!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I started on here judging people but also being terrified of being judged myself? Recently, Ive learned that what someone does, what they are or what I do is no one elses business if no one gets hurt. So live and let live. My journey has shown me that Im still a sexual being at the age of 52 and Im loving it. The best thing for me is all the friends Ive made. There are so many special people on here, girls and boys. love you xxxxxOh, and I am honoured to have had one of RHPs most flamboyant members name her pet python Miss Koko! I like big snakes
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like most it seems its be an amazing ride my first year and a bit. learnt so much! Be responsible for your own happiness, you deserve to not rely on anyone else, they should simply compliment your happiness with awesomeness :) You deserve it. Others don't need the burden.Choices people, you have the power to choose so many things, sometimes the answer is the harder one, but it might be the right one.Be honest, about everything, all the time. Its easier in the long run.You can only help some people so much before they need to help themselves.There are more beautiful and amazing people in this world than there are bad, you just need to see it.Always travel prepared, usually with a suitcase.Your not nearly as bad as what you think you are.ALWAYS keep half a carton of beer in the fridge. I owe a lot to beer and not in the way you would think!Learn to accept compliments.Be a nice human being. Surprisingly simple.Take a leap of faith sometimes and trust your judgement.Change what you can if you want to but don't dwell on things you cant.Its OK to have emotions, you're a human after all. Well most of us!You can never have too much Country Music. Probably my biggest lesson, which I still haven't quite learnt yet is DONT COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS! I'm yelling that at myself more than anyone else as for me its a constant battle. Those people you compare yourself too aren't you, so don't try and be like them. That's just some. Do I practice these 100% all the time? No, but I try to. When I do I find myself in a much better place. Sub xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Fabulous post! Apart from one line......you know what that is! "Ive shacked up with my tractor"....... xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
But for that one thing..... Pure awesomeness!
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