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anal for the first time!!
February 14 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
hmmmm its not for everyone-personally I love giving, not so hot on receiving BUT there are plenty on here who adore it! Point being dont feel pressured, take it slow, lots of massaging, etc to relax and prepare, and see what happens.
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RHP User
13 years ago
"plus boys..can you please explain the fascination and ladies..."Sorry, I've got no idea. It's not really of interest to me, except in very specific scenarios... where it's less about the actual orifice and more about, say, providing a sense of being completely taken.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh yes I think you will love it! : ) I think being totally clean is important - then no one has to worry or be nervous about any embarrassing mess! Use an enema before your shower.... works wonders. Could I suggest you using a small vib on yourself to start with.... Make sure you use plenty of lube and that you are very stimulated. Play with the vib yourself and then let your partner use it. Sometimes it is easier for the recieving person to insert the vib/cock themselves.... then it is slow and at your own pace. You need to relax and breath.... it you are to tense it will hurt until your muscles relax. Obviously his size will also count for something ; ) Leesa
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RHP User
13 years ago
A lot of people I've met who say they're not into anal have had a bad experience in the past. It's important that above all else you take your time and use a lot of lube. I find that by allowing the woman to control the rythym and depth of penetration, she can go at her own pace and not get caught up in the guys needs/wants
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I find bout 2/3 girl cant think of anything more horrific, while 1/3 girls must have anal to supplement organsms. They either hate or love it. I personally dont care too much of it other than curiosity and the slightly higher temperature (Hotter) temp and titeness. I m just too straight for it. prefer fingering anas while fucking pussy. I am rather dominant and many subs love to get their ass fucked, which I do. too cruel to deny them but for some that works even better! I recommand muscle relaxant for first timers n pre stretching with small dildos. Use of condoms (must) does not assist in penetration! Now off you go girl
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'come_outand_play' Oh yes I think you will love it! : ) I think being totally clean is important - then no one has to worry or be nervous about any embarrassing mess! Use an enema before your shower.... works wonders. Could I suggest you using a small vib on yourself to start with.... Make sure you use plenty of lube and that you are very stimulated. Play with the vib yourself and then let your partner use it. Sometimes it is easier for the recieving person to insert the vib/cock themselves.... then it is slow and at your own pace. You need to relax and breath.... it you are to tense it will hurt until your muscles relax. Obviously his size will also count for something ; ) Leesa Succinct and spot on. Kudos.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me anal has to be apart of my sex life. 2 years ago I had not had much and was not so into it.it all about how the man does it and if he is thinking about you or if its just for him to give your tight bum a good fucking. Nothing make me cum quiter if I am on my tum with my rabbit vib on my clit with me driving and my man with a lubed finger slowly fingers my ass and as I'm getting closer gets faster. But for me it's not just a finger I love anal sex. ,ay be try just a well lubed finger first if your body is relaxed then it will be hot.if not it will hurt. X
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm really not sure what fascinates guys with it ? I'm really not interested in doing it
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RHP User
13 years ago
I understand some women love it.. some want to try it.. I dont have a problem doing it.. and enjoy it hugely when the girl gets off... but, it has never been a prerequisite.. or anything really important - So, I cannot answer why men are so facinated by it all I work with construction workers and miners.. and see trends that bother me a little. One is the drawings of penises.. We used to have "Girlie" mags everywhere years ago..and I guess to a certain degree they are still there.. but, with "Sexually explicit marterial policies" now, we dont get so many.. BUT.. every fckn where you turn, there are dicks and balls drawn. On walls, in toilets, on shirts, on fridges, on water bottle... a man cannot walk into a damned crib room these days without seeing a dick with balls SOMEWHERE.. The boys all talking about "Smashing her back door in" The boys talking about "Back, sack and crack" waxing? You know, I do not openly condone violence these days - BUT, it wasn't all that long ago, that fellas would cop a bit of a flogging for some of this stuff Certainly - Drawing a penis on someones personal space would warrant a belting! AND fckn body spray!!! some guys put so much on, you can't sit in a car with them. They bring their stinking shit to work, and I have to put up with it.. "Who are they trying to impress??" 300 men working together... no women.. why do they have to pimp themselves? Personally I would rather drive in a motorcar with an aborigine from the bush then half of these fellas. A man is supposed to SMELL like man.. working men sweat and stink.. that is GOOD!! *shrugs* Ok.. I will step away from the Computer now... I could write a fckn book on this shit
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess for a lot of people the attraction is more the taboo nature of anal sex - eg you're doing something "naughty" which adds to the excitement. Plus the fact that a lot less girls seem to entertain the possibility (and enjoy it) than not - so there is also a novelty factor there as well. The other thing is the girls that I have been involved with that enjoyed it REALLY enjoyed it - with explosively mind shattering results. So I wonder whether in general girls either don't like it at all or really like it. In which case having another tool in your arsenal that gets your girl whimpering in pleasure is always a bonus.BUT! and a big but! (har har no pun intended) it is so much about approach and situation. The guy really needs to make his lady relaxed. I find that a massage first helps, after a shower together where you can clean each other appropriately. Then you just slowly work your way towards it bit by bit, no rushing and use some lube! Until you're used to the sensation then you should work your way up to penis sized objects!! lol... defo don't start out there...Anyway, there are reams of literature available online on this subject, so do a bit of reading if you feel it will help. It should all be pretty fun and relatively care free if you just use your imagination, go slow and pay attention to your partner's reactions. Back off when it looks like you should, and push on when it looks like it's welcome :) Common sense really!Best of luck! Enjoy yourself and report back :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi yes i am sure you can see from my profile pic that I do love to give anal. And yes love giving it very much. I have also had the occasional lady return the favor. So how do you do it without being uncomfortable or hurting. It is not easy and I would suggest try it on your own with a vib on your clit and a vib to use on your ass. But make sure you use lots of lube and I mean lots of it. Suggest you place a towel down first. In regards to a guy trying on you, you have to control what is going on. Do not let the guy force his cock in there or he will tear something (if he has a large cock). So patience and persistence is the best and lots of lube.Hope I have helped !!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Back a few years ago when the subject of anal sex reared it's head a joke was made about a certain European group of people and their liking for anal sex. Then with freely available porn courtesy of the WWW more people could access "blue" movies and what was once the thing of a rare actual film shown with a projector at a bucks night was now something anyone with a computer and internet access could watch. As they saw more it became a little "bland", and trends developed shaving the pussy so you could see the thrusting among other things, shaving the meat and veg so it looked bigger and possibly cleaner for the camera. Then moving to certain acts that were whispered about but not normally given the light of day or camera. Sure the fetishes were there but not so easily accessable. Men being very visual creatures looked on in wonder and thought maybe there is more to sex than missionary and doggy with oral and mutual masturbation thrown in for something a little different. Bondage and S&M became more acceptable along with some other acts that I'm afraid I don't even enjoy watching and I watch a lot of things. So to finish off this war and peace epic, for me I don't look for anal and while it has been offered everything wasn't quite what you see in those movies and it did put me off. I much prefer to go traditional and let my fingers or a dildo do the walking if that is what my lady likes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
From having a cock in your ass and a thumb in your pussy, you won't walk properly for a week.RELAX. Slow and Steady. Lube, and most of all, an open mind. If you think it's gonna hurt, then it will. Me, I like that initial twang of pain.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' "plus boys..can you please explain the fascination and ladies..."Sorry, I've got no idea. It's not really of interest to me, except in very specific scenarios... where it's less about the actual orifice and more about, say, providing a sense of being completely taken. Although a bigfan of ana sexl, it's far from a definitely not essential for me during sex and sometimes wont even cross my mind to go there. Some friends and i we're discussing this the other day and had some odd conclusions. In exaple, I personnally find Oral alot more PHYSICALLY stimulating than anal but funnily enough ass sex is the quickest way to get me climax. So i ruled that out..I reckon its possibly more of an egotistical thing?? As its not the most favoured position from the ladies, Maybe we feel like were have a bit of a win when we do get some. The Old pride might even swell at the thought shes giving us some thing she might not regularly throw around that easy??Mind you bieng
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not enough Gen Y girls like anal. Yes some do, but i'm still wanting to meet more. It is very kinky to me :P) enjoy!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think the fascination some men have with it is because it's a bit taboo & kinky. For me a pussy feels way better as it's a continuous sheath in contact & I think anal is just a tight ring.It's not something I've done with heaps of woman as my cock is too thick for most who have tried. If you do try it the lady (or receiver) needs to do the driving as it can really hurt & harm a person. Use a condom, plenty of lube & go at your own pace. Don't go from anal to vaginal or oral as you may get an infection or gastro.Like all forms of sex, do it if it feels good, stop if it doesn't.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love giving anal sex. Why? its hotter, tighter and feels amazing and if the lady orgasms while I am in her ass, it feels amazing sqeezing my cock. Plus the fact that a lady is trusting me to fuck her ass is one of the biggest turnons. Some tips: Lube, Lube, Lube, its a must. Take things slow. Make sure your in control, let him know the speed and depth you wish as hes doing it. If at any time it hurts stop. Anal is not ment to be painful.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We managed it once but I've never really been able to handle a cock up the ass, never really been comfortable, always hurts too much after a few seconds. But the times when we nearly got there, I was warm (like under a blanket or on a hot day or something) which helped me to relax, and we had lots of lube and foreplay, and I was in the right head space at the time. We might have to try a massage next time. - Ms Otori
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RHP User
8 years ago
Messolonghi, honestly for me its forbidden and a different feeling I guess its naughty and yous feel it more and we see that and get of but a good feeling if its done rite. Lots and lots of lube :)
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curiousnhorny05
8 years ago
I always thought never! And then we run out of ways to fuck each other so we thought let’s give it a go. Tips: - go slow, at first you thrust different to get going. slow and long. - so much lube get wet! - guide him at first helps get the angle right. And try different positions, side on can be easier - give it LOTS of time! And then some It’s a huge turn on for me, feels slutty and naughty. It’s now a regular for us. Enjoy! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Trust and slow and respecting pain thresholds and wishes. Stop or slow down means exactly that ... Why do I like it ...? Hot watching my cock enter and withdraw, tighter feel , the trust that is shown I think is part of it...forbidden perhaps, but oh so hot for both parties if performed right. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LissnJules
8 years ago
Always use an enema prior that way no mess. Plus u will feel more relaxed. We start out the same as always lots of foreplay. Then i mrs insert a soft rubber butt plug not too big but enough to relax everything. We continue with vaginal sex or other play until i feel ready to start anal. This makes initial penetration easier and painless having used the plug first. Its very intense. I love it - Posted from rhpmobile
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