asking for face pics

Comments

• 

  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Are giving you the message.... That is, they lack integrity.... And is that a quality you seek?? If so, you have a clear screening tool to say NEXT with. - Posted from rhpmobile

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Has happened once or twice to us,Seems there are a lot of different types of people interested in swinging, most have great manners and communication, some need a little work,, We dont dwell on them but rather focus on the ones we are looking for, at first it was a little off putting, but have gone on to meet some really nice people..

  reply

  like

• 

  RedHotCoast

  8 years ago

  All the time. It's a unwritten rule in the lifestyle that you should show your pics first before asking. We tend to over share. Mischa, remember lots on here are fakes or the guys doing it without their wives knowledge. Ask for the girls to have a quick chat on the phone early in the process.

  reply

  like

• 

  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  There are lots of photo hunters on here, that simply want to see ones photos and have no intention of ever meeting. We have been messaged by someone, have opened our face photos first and then never heard from them again. Either they find us to be unattractive or they were just photo hunters. We now make it very clear that we will generally only open the PG containing our face photos, to verified profiles and that the PG containing nudes will only be opened to those people we have met in real life (should we decide to open it after meeting them - which is rare ) We do ask those, who message us, for recent face photos. We do make it clear that if we don't find them attractive ( and therefore don't wish to meet) , that there will be no point in us opening our face photos in return. If someone contacts us / initiates contact with us, we expect them to be the first ones to open their face photos upon our request.

  reply

  like

• 

  gazpacho

  8 years ago

  There are plenty of trolls on this site. Creepy. Guys in basements pretending to be someone that they’re not.... from all over the world. Arranging meetings and then not showing up, collecting photos to upload elsewhere and so on. Then there are more genuine people. If I’m meeting anyone from here for the first time, I usually choose a plan b for the noshows. Something convenient. If I get an inkling of fake in correspondence I just drop them cold. Meeting at. Events is the best strategy. Finding your crowd at events... might mean choosing different events until you feel. It’s a good fit. Your photos are obviously desirable. You should, with respect, decline to share first. Hugs Gaz

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  8 years ago

  In here, anonymity gives the wrong people the kind of advantage they need because they simply can’t get away with it in the real world. Do what you feel is right for you both. If that falls over..... it’s not your failing but theirs 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Thanks for the feedback and will take it on boardI am not unattractive i think but i agree a lot of pic hunters and fakes on herelive and learn

  reply

  like

• 

  DonnaBrett

  8 years ago

  What we find most annoying are people who message or flirt us without showing their faces upfront. Our profile says specifically that we want face pics if someone contacts us first (ours are clearly shown). We very rarely bother contacting other people unless they have public facial pics or at least semi disguised ones that still give an indication of what they kinda look like. Public profile pics just showing 'bits' mean nothing. We totally understand that some people don't want to show faces on public profile but if they are going to message people they need to be totally upfront.

  reply

  like

• 

  gazpacho

  8 years ago

  Get into a chat room and say hello face to face. Problem solved. Then open picture gallery, once reassured. The pics are only partially reliable. It’s all about the angles. Btw, all those underwhelming dick pic owners should have invested in a fisheye lens. :) Hugs Gaz

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  8 years ago

  meet with someone if somewhere in our interaction they don't produce a clear face pic. I usually aim to get it out of the way early on so we are not stuck playing ping pong. Photos of body parts, however artistic and well done, don't do it for me. As I find that most of the sexual appeal, for me, is in the face.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  8 years ago

  A simple rule for me is ''thou that asketh shall first sendeth''. Carved in stone on some ancient plateau it is, emoji and all. Sounded a bit like Yoda then.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Yes me too, probably just photo collectors or butt ugly and know that when they share theirs ,that will be where the messaging ends.. - Posted from rhpmobile

  reply

  like

• 

  markgreggson

  8 years ago

  RedHotCoast. I don’t see the problem with over sharing. If comfortable putting it out there why not. Being asked or offering absolutely determines the interest. End of the day a picture only tells part of the story.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Having said so we won't do face pics. I know at least 2 couples who have had there professional lives placed in difficulty and 1 that lost a major contract as a result. - Posted from rhpmobile

  reply

  like