M66
attached men
April 20 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
It doesn’t matter why or how your here. But be prepared ....... you will be judged on how you live your life. And don’t forget the golden rule” Thou shalt not judge the swinging couple ”
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have no problem with attached men.... but they are not who I am looking for. I really don't want to be the mistress or the "other woman" My preference. Is there something wrong with that maybe??? each to his own...or...whateverrr..... Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would rather a man be honest and state that he is attached on his profile. That way I get to choose if I want to go there or not. There are plenty of women that I know (and men) that prefer an attached person for many reasons. Don't let anyone judge you for what you are doing...It's YOUR life and only you have to live with it. I applaud you for being honest on your profile and not lying like over 80% of men on here do about their marital status. I wish you all the best for what you are searching for xo xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am Attached . And if anyone on here doesn’t like that that is fine they are entitled to their opinion But to complain and whine and whinge they can do that also I simple couldn’t give a fuck... Everyone to their own.. As for the You will be judged .. ha ha for fuck sake you moron get a job with the Catholic Church
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RHP User
16 years ago
MEN who are married but state on their profile they are separated???? IF you are LIVING under the same roof, SHARING a bed AND STILL FUCKING your ALLEDGED EX well YOU AINT SEPARATED!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you're attached, how have you never met a woman you could call a real girlfriend?
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RHP User
16 years ago
DUUUUUCK ....................Incoming judgement There is a lot of judgement flying around...FFS look where you are!!! And you are anonymous...I don’t understand the hypocrisy I am not your morality police, nor are you mine....I can and do make my own considered choice and as for attached - if they tell the truth you know where you stand There is a delete button if you are not comfortable with another’s life choice and you can’t tell me that not one of you have ever lied omission?>. ...Oh did I see you wrote easygoing on your profile...ppfftttt
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'OneBrightStar' I have no problem with attached men.... but they are not who I am looking for. I really don't want to be the mistress or the "other woman" My preference. Is there something wrong with that maybe??? each to his own...or...whateverrr..... Jx Nothing wrong with that at all OBS!!! Love your work WOW but looks like someone is a bit touchy...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I couldn't be bothered lying on here. What's the point? I think I said it once before, being honest is not helping me get laid, but it sure helps when you look in the mirror
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'OneBrightStar' I have no problem with attached men.... but they are not who I am looking for. I really don't want to be the mistress or the "other woman" My preference. Is there something wrong with that maybe??? each to his own...or...whateverrr..... Jx Nothing wrong with that at all OBS!!! Love your work WOW but looks like someone is a bit touchy... Nahh, the topic didn't touch a nerve. But yes, I am touchy at the moment. And issues to do with honesty are testing me at the moment. I am dealing with Identity Theft...a few days ago, I was alerted to a slanderous profile on another site, which included a face pic of me, my name, number of kids I have and location. I had to prove who I was first before they would pull it down. It's a police matter now. So apologies...I come here to write and relax, but sometimes the transparency of my emotions comes through. Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey OBS - was refering to WOWOW not you. No I agree with you - why the hell would you want to be the other women when you can be the one women. Surley deep down that is what most women want - eventually - after they had their fun... hehe That is unbelieveable that someone would still your identity. Really strange - what is the point of it?? Sounds like maybe someone you know? Obviously a loser who wants to be as beautiful and cool as you!! Hope they catch them.. xx Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's my ex I think.... Soz...*not reading properly*..duhh You're a lovely woman Meeka :) Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dear Mrs S, I agree with you entirely, you have every right to choose who you sleep with. My post was not directed at you personally but referring to the opinions I have read in the past. Sometimes men and women don’t get the affection they would like and seek it outside their relationship. My view is that most are on this site for that little “extra pleasure or affection or attention” regardless of their attached or not. xxx For the wanker that called me a “moron”. I was not referring to heaven, and by the way I have a great job!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Got to love your name. Shows a great sense of humour. Sex is so much better when you are playing with someone with a sense of humour. Forums allow opinion to be posted but unless you are a perfect angel and have never commited a sin don't throw stones. Live and let live, and agree to disagree are what i live by. Ideally we make the right choices and dont hurt anybody except ourselves!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nooooo I don’t get touchy.. well perhaps sometimes. Just can’t stand dickheads
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RHP User
16 years ago
TO cheat don`t you both have to be playin a game ,I don`t classify my marriage as a game.I believe its more likely to be dishonesty .Marriage vows can also state to except and work thru each others faults and wrong doings. Dont alot of people meet their new partners while still attached to another wether your married or just boyfriend girlfriend . cheers colt quietly waiting to cope the flax from the righteous
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Excited62
16 years ago
while I agree that some ladies are "hung up" on the attached thing, but it is their choice as is yours to be attached and playing around. I wouldnt say you are single on your profile to attract more women, because you wont find they will be happy when they realise the truth! there are ladies who play with attached guys, just not as many :-), and not many who want to be considered as a bit of fun!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't judge...but I was concerned at the amount flying past. If someone is attached and they wish to talk to me, why is it wrong? who decides? In my limited experience here many say they are attached and fine- I am OK with it. it is not a crime.....its a choice. Marriage, like life does not come with instructions or rules....you make them up as you go. and you cant have a happy marriage without a happy self.... OK ...climbing down off the soapbox now .......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'OneBrightStar' It's my ex I think.... Soz...*not reading properly*..duhh You're a lovely woman Meeka :) Jx hope all is alright brightstar... big bear hugs and kisses roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mrs S you are correct, he asked and you gave an honest answer, which is fair and to the point. You obviously have an open and understanding relationship with your partner J I have been married for over 20 years, my wife and I married young. How I feel about her or what problems we have is no ones business but ours as is my infidelity if/when I get caught. The reasons for cheating are many and varied and can only relate to those in that relationship. Stress, financial situation, getting no sex, getting too much of the same old thing, no privacy or intimacy, feeling unappreciated and the list can go on and on. However the point here is that those attached or married men on RHP that make it clear on their profile that they are attached, have given advanced notice of their situation and as such deserve some respect from those who don’t approve of their actions. We are not members of RHP to have judgment passed upon us, I am here to meet and talk to “like minded adults”. I read many forum posts and can’t believe that such broad minded and sexually liberated adults can be so small minded because not everyone on here fits into their little view of the world. I’m here to have fun and hopefully make some friends and if I meet some ladies, who are in a similar situation as me, then that’s great. I am however not here to be looked down upon or judged as being a lesser person by those who should know better, I treat with and show respect to all those I contact, if you haven’t spoken to me, how would you know if I am a sleaze or a fool or a nice guy? So how can you pass judgment on me or anyone else? People life is too short so enjoy it while you can and leave the judgment to those whose job it is to judge.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was commenting that I agreed with your post, that you answered a dirct question. Appologies for any offence, the rest of my post was directed at those who pass judgment. Rasler
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RHP User
16 years ago
It really doesn't matter to me what their status is as long as they are honest. The attached guys that contact me are usually looking for bdsm play because they cant get it at home. They would get a polite "thanks but no thanks" if they asked for straight sex.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Hon, i just simply could not do that to another woman, sleep with her man without her blessing. If someone did that to me my world would just about end and if my husband did that to me HIS world would end :) hehehehe (a titch harsh? :) Also, i need to be able to look in the mirror each day and see someone who i genuinely like and respect and i couldn't do that if i messed with another womans man. Mrs S xx HI Mrs S I total understand your thoughts and belief`s ,I respect them .To be total honest for me to stray the lady proberly have be someone pretty much out of the ordinary (the fantasy of all fantasy).But I aint going to force my opinions on those that do. I would much rather share that experience that with my beloved wife anyway.I am mainly on here for the meeting of like minded people and to be able to express like minded thoughts,As the the Circle of friends we have at the momment are some what prudish when it comes to all things sexual .We would very much like to enjoy and explore our sexual life to together. The only reason I am on here as a single profile is to protect my beloved from ridicule due to her public profession .If any one was to know my or her real identity She would be the innocent and I would be the arse which is fine by me as long as I protect her image.( ITs Like Afew years ago when people with tattoo`s where branded as lowlife`s of society.I find a lot of society brand people with open minded sexuality as morally wrong when they dont take the chance to get to know the person )So this site allows for you say and express things without the fear of people casting you as something your not. Its just annoy`s me that alot will brand married men as a cheaters before giving them a chance to explain themselves,Being a competitive person who show`s in competition being branded a cheater is the lowest of all lows. To be honest coming from a broken marriage my biggest endeavor in life is not to end up divorced,all my sisters have been divorced once or twice as well as my parents so I will do every thing in my power to not go down that path. So to sum it all up I just believe if a married or attached person is not your thing just move on there is no need to force your belief`s onto other people, or get into name calling or branding of of other people p.s. i throughly enjoy reading your posts ,the humour and the honesty of your belief`s cheers colt xo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sweetiepie, loved what you said. Too many think it is just sex, no harm could possibly happen but it often does, and often with disastrous results. Lives are broken, careers destroyed, all just so someone can get their rocks off.The one thing I am yet to understand is why a single person would get into a relationship with someone who is married. If it is just the one off meet and straight to bed, well then I guess that is fair enough. But to enter into a relationship, even a FWB type of situation does confuse me. Most of the time, they can't go out, can't go to dinner, the movies, hell even down the local for a drink just incase the married one runs into someone they know. And from what I have read, it is rare for the married one to leave their spouse, if they were going to do that they would have done it already. Most times that it does eventuate is only after they have been caught out and booted out of the marital home. I wonder if it is the thrill of doing something forbidden, that little extra spice of being secretive that is the lure. And I wonder if that still exists when the married person finds themselves single?I am not being judgemental here, what people do is up to them, as long as they accept any consequences of their actions.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am attached. My partner fully aware of my profile. I am allowed to play by myself. So to is my partner. I believe this is the defining difference. We are in constant communication about our "play" with each other. It is far fom other easy for others to understand. It is in itself not entirely easy, it does have lumps and bumps. However it strengthens our bound. Great books to read - Ethical slut and Opening up. It is not for everyone. Nor am I . I imagine it is difficult for others to contemplate beiing invloved. So would you could you on a train , would you could you on a plane ....... sorry channelling Dr Suess there for a sec! Brae
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Sweetness you never offended me at all. I was refering more to the term Cheating as to why its called that. I welcome freedom of speech and as you said this is what you believe in not what others should believe in.I asked and you offered your opinion you did not preach or brand me because I my thoughts arn`t that of yours. I can totally relate to your cousins statement I did not get married till I was forty for the same reason.Like I use to say to myself why get married I just end up divorced like the rest of my family ,this is also one of the reason I do not have childern as i did not want to wreck the life of others.But anyway spoke to my wife last night about this post and she more agreed with you more than me,but I must admit that you both have made me to rethink my my opinion on this matter. she told me that If I felt the need to be with another just for the purpose of sex that she wish`s that I would tell her first or aleast tell her that it happened.I also explain to her that if she did stray and tell me about it that I would not love her any less and do not believe a marriage should end just because we slip up from time to time as i have chosen her to to experience and share my life journery with thru good times and bad .(I thank you for sharing part of your private life with me.:)xxoo Mooka Maybe I can help give my reason on that question, Before I meet my wife I used to see and be attracted to married women .It was for some silly reason I believed that if I play with a married woman I did not have to worry about commitment to another and it would stay just sex . I could get me rocks off( Sorry ladys after getting her rocks off at least twice) Then go out with me mates, go to show`s,or do what ever i liked as i did not have to answer to anyone. Well i was wrong on that the last married lady I played with before I meet my wife fell for me , but she made the mistake of letting me meet and befriend the husband and kids ,she talked me into a three some with her husband and had convinced him to let me move in to the flat attached to the house so we share her.There where kids in this marriage And I told her this couldn`t work its not fair on them.So the threesome was the last time I saw them as was not going to be responsible of braking up a beautiful family.So i just rode off into the sunset. I learnt a good life lesson in that experience,thats what made me finally realise that it was what this couple had is what really attracted me. So i went and meet my wife(a lady that for the first time in mylife put me on the pedestal) tried her out for tens years (jokin)then decided that I should marry and that I shouldn`t fear marriage,as it is what you make it and if you are willing to work at it and work thru it in good times and bad and except that you both will proberly fuk up at some point, but are willing to forgive and learn from the life journey we have both chosen to share together and talk to each other, then every thing should b just A ok Thanks for listening I might have rambled on a bit and bit off topic cheers to all quietcolt
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RHP User
16 years ago
think the fact all of us are here is cool and everyone has different idea what is cool and not..so go with the flow..do not hassle other people if you don't agree with them and try enjoy life...its not that long you know till you will only remember what fun waz...i think ..i forgot already...lol
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