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calling all introverts

July 17 2018

after so many people fessing up to being introverted in another thread ,it got me wondering do you know why ,for me i had a bad childhood and teenage years ,humiliated in public, family violence ,changing schools way too many times and being the new kid your always an easy target for bullying and trust me you mays well we’ll wear a cow bell around your neck they gunna find you anyway ,so you fast learn to be quiet and not draw attention to yourself in any way shape or form ,just find a wall shhhh and become invisible as best you can ,do that for enough years and it’s a bloody hard lesson to undo ,mrs b is also very quiet and hates attention being seen to herself but does love a outfit when swinging that’s screams look at me ,go figure ,lol. but she had an exact opposite life to me , so what do you think was a catalyst to you being introverted , or if not that just very wary of people ,for us it’s not a problem and when people become our friends they realise ,it’s just how and who we are,we don’t lock ourselves away but throwing ourselves our there doesn’t come easy or naturally , somedays some extroverts are the enemy , loud and brash and it’s like yup home time but the more friends we make in this lifestyle ,the easier it has become, nothing like a friendly face you know to put you at ease and relax you then you look at the extroverts and secretly wish you had a little of that in you , DRINK PLEASE !!!,lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I take your point that shyness has an environmental basis as my growing up was'nt rossy either. But extrovetism can be also develped from similar paths. Extrovertism can also mask shyness or be manic forms of depression. So to be envious of just an appearance of sociability can be misleading. As i have become older i have found relationships change especially when you dont go down the parenting route. Freindship in general is of a differing ilk...maybe because of social media...maybe the busy demands of life. I think takeing time for people, and actual interations count for so much more in the current times. Id also say having both younger and older people as freinds also matters To understand others is a great way to understand yourself. And knowing yourself help build that strengh and love of life. Im sounding a bit Oprah....not so bad. Im dping this on my phone so if the spelling and grammer is off be kind....lol Mark - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If I’m introverted or extroverted.... My understanding of introvert is someone that finds socialising exhausting and finds a great deal of energy from being alone... Whereas extroverted are those who seem to become energetic in groups of people.... I don’t see myself as either one.... The more time I spend alone, the harder it is for me to want to come outside....but when in a group situation I tend to feed a bit off the energy that’s present...so I’ve no clue really... But... I can tell you that whilst I like the idea of meeting people, I find myself constantly questioning their motivation for being around me...which is probably just a protection thing I have so that people don’t get too close....as really don’t think there are many that are genuine but I think that’s a whole different topic... Sorry if I’ve been absolutely no use to this topic boobsy.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    anti ,you actually just sound like a normal person ,FUCK!!!! who woulda thought that to come out of one of my threads ,damn i gotta rethink my thinking 🤔 @arkane ,cross eyed ,lmao sorry bout that ,but i’m also relegated to typing on a mobile phone and gave up careing years ago with the no edit feature in this place ,grrrr ,😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hey bnb i like the topic u brought and want to help it keep rolling. Ifvthats ok. i was watching some kids play and one of them...seemingly strange to the group surrounding him started playing and then i over heard him say. "Want to be freinds" with the other agreeing. It was charming.. No assumptions, no need for somekind of inyer2nal defenses. Justb the frivoly of the moment. Very cool. I guess guarding yourself has a real purpose but dropping the guard has too. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    When i type on the phone grammer n dpelling is out the door. 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Lol I better go make another post on your other thread that people seem to think I’m not normal !!! Errrr.... Hahahaha I just read that back hahaha *licks his window* - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    you know that name has grown on me ,might need to rethink and change boobsy, hmmm ,lol, - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    For our brain 🧠 Very much like you Anti you window cleaner. If I’m comfortable I can definitely bring the energy to a group. Also very happy being by myself. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    For our brain 🧠 Very much like you Anti you window cleaner. If I’m comfortable I can definitely bring the energy to a group. Also very happy being by myself. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    For our brain 🧠 Very much like you Anti you window cleaner. If I’m comfortable I can definitely bring the energy to a group. Also very happy being by myself. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And it said this :- “You got: Ambivert! You're an ambivert, which means you're the perfect blend of introvert and extrovert! You're quite happy piping up in a group conversation, but normally when it's on a topic you feel very comfortable talking about. There are times when all you want is to be out having a laugh with your friends, but then other times you just need to be at home alone, taking a break from it all. You identify with both introverts and extroverts, because you are both – it just depends on how you feel that day.” - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ill take pervert, thanks

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I like the sound of that.Usually I detest labelling myself, but it's nice to know there's a name for it.No ambivalence about it..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ambiverts anonymous, well, not so much now. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    7 years ago

    I used to think I was introverted but I was wrong. I discovered that once I become single. As much as I do enjoy alone time and it does recharge me I also bore myself after a while. There's only so much introspection I can do before I think it becomes a bit self indulgent (me personally not introverts in general). I gain lots of positive energy from being around or talking to people that stimulate me mentally and I do crave that connection.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Love spending time alone. It was the thing l yearned for when l was in the married way. Being in this scene has thrust me way outside the comfort zone but it has taught me how to cope in the most intense situations of lots of naked people having sex. By doing that it has also taught me to appreciate my alone time and balance the extremes Being partnered with Annie does my head in in so many different ways. She calls me her anchor. I said shouldn't that be rock? She said no, anchor

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I too was born this way and don't know any different and then Meander just summed me up perfectly For anyone wanting to know what they are as Cuckshells said, Myer Briggs is a great indicator and insight into your personality Also from the internet, I saw this sign when Trump was going on about something or other and there was a protest in Washington "Its so bad even the Introverts are here"

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  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    thought likeing my time alone was a growing up as a single kid thing ,gawd i enjoy quiet time in the toilet these days ,👍 but crowds and places of madness just do my head in ,damn boxing day sales are my evil enemy , my sole cant wait till warmer weather and i’m getting on my bike and put putting away a few times by myself ,it’s been too long between rides - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Textbook: "Quiet achiever" at school, was certainly bullied also, if I kept a low profile I could go days without saying a word, unless a teacher asked me a direct question. Early primary school I remember being heaps more social and playful, an event happened that changed that somewhat. Became more social again though in late high school, hanging out with other misfits so to speak, eventually a dux and school captain, but still not the best with all words all the time, but public speaking/debating I was reasonable at. I would call myself the reluctant introvert. I am actually comfortable and perhaps energised in groups, at least those that I feel included in, but have had enough time alone or feeling isolated that I guess I have had to learn some type/s of coping mechanisms for majority alone time.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I have been an introvert all my life. Dont know any other way.. I can be loud and very direct at work. Only cause i need to be at times . I do need alot of time to myself. I dont like being round alot of people i dont know. May never get to a party or club because of this. Dam it. But i can live with that - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    just did the myer briggs questioner and ended up with. intra j,personality ,reading the whole. report on that type of personality ,it’s almost perfectly spot on , and pointed out many positives to do with that personality ,feel like i’m going have a good afternoon now ,lol , - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Introverts uniting separately in their own homes 😂 So much truth in that statement. Lucky for the inter webs eh! Introverts unite! ( behind many a keyboard ⌨️) 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    I always come up as ISFJ (Introverted Sensing (Si), Extroverted Feeling (Fe), Introverted Thinking (Ti) and Extroverted Intuition (Ne). Ms Foxy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I was a single kid too. I think it can create. A disposition for being alone. But is wanting to be alone or rather being comfy being alone is not a bad thing. Im sure all of us if we want can rock a house party at a drop of a hat.... Ive been known to...lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I was a single kid too. I think it can create. A disposition for being alone. But is wanting to be alone or rather being comfy being alone is not a bad thing. Im sure all of us if we want can rock a house party at a drop of a hat.... Ive been known to...lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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