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clit retraction

February 07 2010

I read somewhere that a man can tell if a woman is faking orgasm or not because when she really does orgasm, a woman's clit retracts back into the hood by around 50%.  Thoughts?

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    When a woman comes there are a number of signs that it is happening or has happened.   Blushing face or around the neck - virtually impossible to fake. Sometimes you can feel the tremours inside, even the clit can vibrate or withdraw but not always - usually noticed while giving oral with finger stimulation - unlikely to be faked. A cum face (my personal favourite) - some women have a very distinctive zoned out look and you can see it in their eyes - possible to fake but not so much if you have seen the real thing on that particular woman. Physical exhaustion - being unable to walk straight even slightly dazed - possible to fake but why bother. Vocal - easiest and most likely to be fake.  But then I've never had a real screamer to compare.   If you need to fake it then you do not trust your partner enough to orgasm or to admit you haven't.  Women often need to feel safe and trust their partner to relax enough to release.  A woman is very vulnerable during orgasm - internally focussed and zoned out.  If she is checking her watch or texting at the time that is a good sign it is fake.  The best way to fake orgasm (I have to admit - I have done so myself to end a session that was not going particularly well) is to do it in the dark and remember the last good one and repeat the process.   Unless you do not want to orgasm then communicating what works and what doesn't is the best approach.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I dont know if thats true or not. Never had a guy check my clit to see if I faked or not........... Dont know if that sort of scrutiny would be welcome after a really good fuck anyway......   If someone did that to me I wouldnt want them again. Too much pressure.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You're shittin' me right?  What man is going to go to the trouble of checking out the retraction of your clit to see if you're faking it or not?  And if a guy did, what's he then going to say?  "Oh my god!  You're faking!  I can tell cuz your clit isn't retracted."    Sweet

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    There are many forms of orgasm, if a woman chooses to fake it  thats her problem. It is a very individual thing, but generally the heat builds up inside the vagina then she clamps the penis before the uncontrolled spasm(s) of orgasm occur.  Many women and the statistics suggest < 75% do not orgasm during penetration .................of a penis, vibrator yes, so whether it is a matter of patience, stimulation, or inability to totally focus, I could not say.Hey girls make sure the guy makes you satiated, then does it matter whether you orgasm or not the end result is the same?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Put your finger on her sphincter as it is connected to the same pelvic floor muscles that involuntarily contract during an orgasm. Her bum hole will pulse. Hugs Stalkyboy

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    No amount of pelvic floor exercises can replicate the quivering of a woman down there when you have taken her to satisfaction town...sometimes that is all I need to feel to know I have helped her achieve her bliss!;) Michael

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lmfao Trish. Sorry babe...hehe.. I don't always use my finger.... shhhhh!!! hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think stalky needs a few paddles whacks!!!     LOL.....     huggies   sweetpetite41

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You know i've really thought that a girl might fake it until i started reading his stuff, YOU GUYS ARE MESSING WITH MY MIND!!  now i feel like i need to have the lady connected to a polygrath machine to know if her moans are real. thankfully gaz has found us men a cheaper option, which is just as well that FBI guy freaks me out.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Only here in forum surely?...lol Hey FJ! I wonder if Jean-Gerard would know something about this subject...I mean he is constantly lookin under hoods... Oh and....does anyone know if a bloke really cares whether a woman has had an orgasm....I mean...really?? ps: Love ya nic....frijjidJjones...hows that working out for you? LOL

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Lol Lippy. It's not fair how you can slice through the bullshit while the rest of us seem to just innocently play along with it... except for Jeano but even he's dilluded. I mean he's never going to fix both Datsuns, even I can see that! Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips'   Hey FJ! I wonder if Jean-Gerard would know something about this subject...I mean he is constantly lookin under hoods...   I can say with absolute confidence that the clit does not retract during an orgasm.  I have kept a close look on the clit both times I brought a female to orgasm (even used one of those torches you strap to your head) and have concluded that the two orgasm clits looked exactly the same as the 3,425 times I didn't make the girls orgasm.   PS - Stalky - you're wrong about the sphincter too....  Never seen one quiver (except for mine when I get the Datsun parts bill sometimes)  PPS - Shit unless my orgasm ratio is 3,427 : 0!  Girls don't fake though.... do they??

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69'We thought you could be trusted to keep a secret...Now we shall lose the upper hand. How can we fake it with lousy lovers now?I am sending you a smack by express post!Trish Ummmm...this begs the question....why on earth would you even have sex with someone who was crap in bed? Is it because he's a hot looking six pack ken doll or is it that female thing of finding some guy and trying to turn him into someone completely different?   If you have to fake an orgasm when with someone then you're just cheating on yourself.Be honest,tell them they're not etting you off and show them how to do it or bugger them off and find someone who's more attentive,exploratory and willing to do what it takes to make you happy.That's normally what us normal none ken doll looking guys do seeing as we can't rely on our looks to keep the girl!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i think that is the first time i agree with whitehawk.. except the leaving you for a ken doll part, kind of shows how insecure he is but none the less, great comment hawk   i can tell when the other half is faking, but i can't say how incase she reads this   till next time   scott

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'mc21283'No amount of pelvic floor exercises can replicate the quivering of a woman down there when you have taken her to satisfaction town...sometimes that is all I need to feel to know I have helped her achieve her bliss!;) Michael Quoting 'mc21283' No amount of pelvic floor exercises can replicate the quivering of a woman down there when you have taken her to satisfaction town...sometimes that is all I need to feel to know I have helped her achieve her bliss!;) Michael My poor lil young one, A woman is capable of giving an award winning performance if she feels it necessary. Trust me on this; I have more 'o' academy award statues on my mantle than Katherine Hepburn, James Cameron & Guillermo Del Toro put together!! Why? Because I was in a relationship & cared enough to build up his self confidence Before teaching him how to navigate the at times complex world of female orgasms. Never, ever overestimate your performance based on hers!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    That's just mean lippy. Mike could have you clucking like a chicken he's so cute... and you know it! Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    you giving away our age mate. keep it on the down low.Earl (sneaking QUIETLY away)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Lol, thanks guys...love the comments and opinions generated.  MyNameOnYourLips..lol..my name says it all.. I know I know.. a square peg in a round hole on this site.. go figure..I'm hoping someone will melt me.Cheers allxFrijid

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well, if I'm so wrong about that Jeano, how come yours did, huh? Quoting 'Jean_Girard' PS - Stalky - you're wrong about the sphincter too....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ...you usually can't tell that someone is shit in bed until AFTER you've fucked them.Kinda thought that would be obvious.Yes....chicks can fake it...guys can fake it...but why would you??If you care about the other person...then tell them how they can help you get off.If you don't really care about them....then tell them to get off!!JMOBJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'mynameisearl2'you giving away our age mate. keep it on the down low.Earl (sneaking QUIETLY away) Yeah, you'd best sneak away... b4 u go tho...what gave away my age? the 46 yrs thingy on my profile or something a little less subtle?....PUHLEASE EXPLAIN lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'That's just mean lippy. Mike could have you clucking like a chicken he's so cute... and you know it! Hugs Stalky Who's Mike???....and why am I clucking?...lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    quivering spincters....damn it boys...don't you know its impolite to discuss matters pertaining to the poo jabbee? Now be off with you...SCAT..or I'll wash both your mouths out with...meow milk...   ps: worked out who mike is...'rolls eyes' forgot ppl in forum actually have identities names even...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    blushing...why would a woman fake it...sheesh...i hope they never do with me...what a great way to make a man feel like shit...that's so sad...jose......

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Well, if I'm so wrong about that Jeano, how come yours did, huh? Quoting 'Jean_Girard' PS - Stalky - you're wrong about the sphincter too....I was faking... the same way you were when you spat on my back and told me you came *lmao*

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Melancholy???  OK, I get the feeling melons part....   Hey mate.. if it makes you feel any better you should try to remember that you don't really care, we're actually just pretending to care... sometimes guys get so invovled in the lie that it becomes reality.. jeese. I mean, you never stop until you finish do you? Thought so... there you go.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Alyndrew.....pick me, pick me. XX

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I couldnt agree more with whitehawk n Bj..i rather show and tell...than cheat myself and the other person.It doesn't help anyone by faking it...and i prefer to be satisfied than left hanging and frustrated.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    not before time either i might add...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    What the fuck!!!!  why would anyone fake an orgasm!!! makes no sense!!!  If u havent got to the point of climax!!! one would think your partner would work harder!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'Put your finger on her sphincter as it is connected to the same pelvic floor muscles that involuntarily contract during an orgasm. Her bum hole will pulse. Hugs Stalkyboy or what about hooking her up to an EEG machine that reads brainwaves. kinda kills the spontaneity and passion, but it circumvents the pooey finger. however, if your name is klaus, and you live in frankfurt, disregard the first sentence... "mein gott, scheisser scheisser!"

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    and i guess we can add kosack dancing to your list of talents jean, you dark horse you

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    If your a master at making ladies orgasm, then you can master the involuntary impulse of squirting.   It's hard to pin the clit retrating as the only response to an orgasm as there are different types of orgasms and different strenghts to orgasms. Some can last for hours (tantric sex) and some can be explosive.   Either way, it's bloody obvious when someone is faking, especially when one is used to constant orgasms.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Christopher.. dear dear Christopher.... you sound like you've never put anything in a womans bum before... hehe... first you should make sure you rim that bum with your tongue.. and you get your fingers all sticky with pussy juices... get it all wet and you'll find your finger easily nudges in... and you can simply ease the tip of one finger in... and gently out.. in.. and gently out... and "diddle" and "twiddle" it... hehe.. you can do this (except for teh rimming part) all the while you are screwing her with her ankles over your shoulders (if she has good hip flexors lol)... Now I have to admit this takes a bit of strength and balance for a big guy to do so your huge muscular chest doesn't crush her to death while you are at it..... a bit like doing one handed pushups I suppose.... anyway I'm sure you'll manage...  and by the way the entrance is usually pretty clean.. all the industrial stuff is stored deep.. lolz...   Hugs Dirty.. errr.. I mean Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    stuff yer thumb up their bum while you taking them from behind.makes her bite down hard on yer cock with her pussy.ahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl. memeries only i'm afraid

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    good on ya darl, being 100 years old and still getting it ooooonn.you a living legend FrijidJones.ahahahahahhahahaEarl.   loves his nanna

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Christopher.. dear dear Christopher.... you sound like you've never put anything in a womans bum before... hehe... first you should make sure you rim that bum with your tongue.. and you get your fingers all sticky with pussy juices... get it all wet and you'll find your finger easily nudges in... and you can simply ease the tip of one finger in... and gently out.. in.. and gently out... and "diddle" and "twiddle" it... hehe.. you can do this (except for teh rimming part) all the while you are screwing her with her ankles over your shoulders (if she has good hip flexors lol)... Now I have to admit this takes a bit of strength and balance for a big guy to do so your huge muscular chest doesn't crush her to death while you are at it..... a bit like doing one handed pushups I suppose.... anyway I'm sure you'll manage...  and by the way the entrance is usually pretty clean.. all the industrial stuff is stored deep.. lolz...   Hugs Dirty.. errr.. I mean Stalky i love a bit of bum action as much as the next guy. i definitely had my tongue in my cheek when i posted that one.(if you'll pardon the expresssion) nothing gets a woman hotter than eating her asshole out, thats for sure and certain. providing there are minimum standards of hairlessness and hygiene that is. and i love nothing better than doing a girl doggie, or with her on top, and slipping a moist finger in her jacksy right at the point of her no return. fucken wow indeed...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    But then its very difficult having sex that way. If the glass breaks then she is either... 1 - Very very hot and probably had an orgasm. 2 - Her internal orgasmic contractions broke it. 3 - She sat on it in an orgasmonic frenzy. What ever the case it's off to hospital to remove the glass. It will certainly be an affair to remember.