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March 04 2010

hello peoplesjust  wondering, how cool is it if you block some one, then they hot list you, then when you go into chat they get their little circle of friends to  ask you why are they on block? Isnt the fact they are on block enough for everyone to know you have chosen NOT to be bothered by them, and wouldnt  this come under common courtesy? Does this also cross that fine line of stalking some one? Does it show a degree of desperation in contacting you?And if you have blocked some one, and they via their freinds still insist on bothering you, what recourse is there? Thoughts people please ??

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    My thoughts are that there must be a lot of immature insecure people out there with too much time on their hands!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    There are all types on RHP.   We all have our shit going on... I don't hide mine... I'm highly fucked up in a cute kind of lovable way !   I try and not get pissed off (for too long) with the shit that goes on here.   I know some do.   I just try and ignore it and eat chocolate !    I've never blocked anyone as I find it's not very useful. Are you in Stealth mode in your profile ? That can help just a little.  It also helps to stay away from the chat rooms !  It's like one big food-fight in there sometimes !   Perhaps there's some official action that admin can take ? Im unaware of it.   Good luck, Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I witnessed that lastnight in chat citizen......instead of getting pissed off though, feel sorry for them., They obviously cant bring themselves to let u go off their hotlist.... perhaps they have too much emotional baggage, or just maybe they feel threatened by you and want to keep tabs on what u say in the forums. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I know a really good criminal barrister, if his behaviour continues.... ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    That kind of thing is so uncoolth. There are cliche little gangs in chat.. it's sort of a natural thing though.. the same thing occurs here in forums.. people tend to herd together.... and when one of the herd is being singled out for something others come to their defence... sometimes without thinking about it. Not sure how you can control it, but dont take any shit. Give 'em a blast. I think it's the only effective defense, unless you can make them laugh it off... So that's two approaches.. one passive and one agrressive. You choose what you do best... Oh wait.. you can also basically ignore them. Nobody is forcing you to answer their questions... just treat them like they dont exist.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    sober eniugh to comment but alas...no Cheers Nev.....& ......fuck you Mr Vodka...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I find it highly annoying when people obsess over who has blocked them.Move on already!!But if its me thats blocked someone...and others ask me why...then I tell the whole room...in great detail...exactly what kind of fuckwit the person is that I have blocked!!I don't block lightly...so when I have...peeps will know they have really fucking annoyed me!JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    BJ rocks.remind me not to get on your blocked list,ahahahahahahahahahahaaaahahhahhhhhhhaaaMAX

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Blocking fellow RHPs is common. You can't just like everyone equally. Some people are not your cup of tea.Blocking - people should understand, that you would politely like them to stop annoying you.For him to add you to his HOT list after you blocked him - delusional.For him and others to pester you for info on why you blocked him - bullying (definitely).It is stalking, even if it is virtually. Not sure of your recourse for the pain in the ass (maybe someone on the forum has a great suggestion for this).And finally yes he is desperate.Best of luck citizenKRobhello peoplesjust  wondering, how cool is it if you block some one, then they hot list you, then when you go into chat they get their little circle of friends to  ask you why are they on block? Isnt the fact they are on block enough for everyone to know you have chosen NOT to be bothered by them, and wouldnt  this come under common courtesy? Does this also cross that fine line of stalking some one? Does it show a degree of desperation in contacting you?And if you have blocked some one, and they via their freinds still insist on bothering you, what recourse is there? Thoughts people please ??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thank you to all people.Im glad to know I'm not being paranoid about regarding this issue. Quoting 'TWBARob' Blocking fellow RHPs is common. You can't just like everyone equally. Some people are not your cup of tea.Blocking - people should understand, that you would politely like them to stop annoying you.For him to add you to his HOT list after you blocked him - delusional.For him and others to pester you for info on why you blocked him - bullying (definitely).It is stalking, even if it is virtually. Not sure of your recourse for the pain in the ass (maybe someone on the forum has a great suggestion for this).And finally yes he is desperate.Best of luck citizenKRobBlock is wonderful, people need to respect you cannot like all the people all the time and maybe just move on and get a life which does not involve those few folk that have decided you are stalker material??Thanks for the support and suggestion fellow RHP er'sK

  • Genius_Ironman

    Genius_Ironman

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'loveparade2010'I know a really good criminal barrister, if his behaviour continues.... ;-) Why assume this was a male, CitizenK did not specify a gender.