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cougars

September 16 2009

hi all just a quick question ...i have been classed as a cougar ...which is an older woman who likes younger men...my question is .....what is a older male called that likes younger women...not sugar daddy cause to me they are the older men like huge heffner...milfness

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I don't know the answer to your question but you might find it at the link I included below... if not, you'll at least have a fun read lololhttp://www.thenaughtydictionary.com/b.htmlCheersMrs P

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    heheheheWelcome to Mrs P's new dicktionary!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think mostly that are called Dirty Old Men :) What do you call young women who like older men...Princesses ?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lmao Lovecurvie!!!! Funny as!   MrsP  I typed in that link and nothing...boohooooooo   And I still here MrsP ..hahahahahhaa

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    But problem fixed hehehe... @ http://www.thenaughtydictionary.com/ Hahahahaha LoveCurvie... spot on HugsMrs P

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    But i reckon its mostly a myth, that exists in guys imagination! Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You are still a young sexy babe, Milfness... everything is relative! :p   Middle aged guys who chase 20 year old gals are called "dreaming"... hehe.   Hugs Gazza.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    im a (fairly) young woman.... i think i might be a princess by lovecurvie's standards!??? nah Gaz, those men who like girls 20years or so younger arent always dreaming ;) *wink wink* i prefer my men with some age and experience under their belt.... mmmmm... the BEST LOVERS by FAR!!! dont get me started on it... or i wont stop...love jemma

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    eight years younger woman = cougarmen = hyena

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think they are called cubs and if your a cougar id love to be a cub

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thanks Gaz the truest and funniest thing I've heard all day.   Milfness any 20 year old would be fortunate to have your attention.  More than they probably deserve.   I would call older men interested in younger women and as hopeful opportunists - but truth is that is appears that just about everyone on this site is after young nubile female company - young males, older males, females, couples, groups.  So the single older guys are at about fifth in line.   That makes them the second last choice.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    We know everything exists both in extremes and in moderation.Perhaps we can ask how old is too old and how young is too young?What establishes the ideal gap?What renders it sleazy?What justifies it ok?Is there perhaps some studies, scripts, wisdom, science, and weight to it or not ruled by logic and health !!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Gaz thinks "WTF are you smoking escapepod". I've got wanking to do... I Can't be asking myself 30 new unasked questions everytime a sexy lady says she has a quick question! Hehe. Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I am lucky enough to be bothMy hubby is 58 , and my boyfriend is 31..I am 45....so what does that make me...maybe Greedy!!!.lolLeesa

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lmfao... I was feeling lonely until you saud that.... my wife is 47 and my boyfriend is 35... and I am 48. Yaaay.... I'm not the only one around who's greedy! :p   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thats what you are.....   Bring it on I say, to whomever wants it

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i think id be a princess by lovecurvies standards???Gaz... those older guys who like the girls 20 or so years younger arent always dreaming *wink wink*.... personally, i prefer my lovers with age and experience under their lovely belts..... mmmm. in my experience they are BY FAR the best lovers......love jemma

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Escapepod,   While i posted that Dirty Old men Like young girls that was tounge in cheek to a degree. Age gaps are of no consequence at all seriously what is wrong with a 30 year age gap. So what do you call some one male or female sleeping with some one 30 years young than them...I would call them lucky.   What makes it sleazy, NOTHING sex really starts between the ears once the mind had set its self on some one age loks race...it does not matter one little bit.   Now some people crave the age differance and that is to fulfill some personal desire/need/fantasy and that is not sleazy. if you look around you will see that most people will find will partners.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Ive been on here for a about 6 months n yet to find what im seeking,which is a friend with benefits to get together on a weekly basis.yet no such luck,I dress in sexy lingere i know what im doing as ive had plenty of experience at it.which makes me think  we cougars are,.just a knotch in bed the post...lol and treated as desperate.Thus i agree with 'slowhands 'in which he said that just about everyone on this site n others are after the young nublile females for company and bypass us in favour for them..just my view so if an older guy gets what hes seeking id call him damn lucky.....lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'cum_spank_jemma'im a (fairly) young woman.... i think i might be a princess by lovecurvie's standards!??? love jemma  Princess you know you are by my standrad :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Dear heymumma   I might speak for a minority here.. but it is so much harder for a younger guy to be taken serious by a couger. I would say it is easier for cougers to be looking for people their own age rather that people my age, not reaching the 30's yet.   I used to be 23 or 24 and wanting to be in a couger's range, now at 29 I still find myself nowhere close to what it is desire by cougers...   in my opinion this website is soooo much better for beautiful cougers than young females.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well andrade, some cougars might not consider someone younger if they're the same age as their kids as it might not feel right bedding them.But i being 51 would consider someone 27 n up..if they treated me with respect,n can hold a decent convo n wanted to get to know me via chatting n there's a connection n they were interested in more than a on of or one nite stand n we suited what we both were seeking i cant see why not, its the person! not age that matters i guess you, slowhands n i are in the same boat...hehehe.may be like many others.hang in there.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Gosh andrade to be wiped out due to age at 29 and pining to be 23 again.  I see a lot of pining in your future.   Turn up to some parties and show how hot and confident you are.  Most people over forty can't tell the difference between 25 and thirty anyway.   You are right though this is a great place for cougars - who are aggressive and attractive. Enough buff available on hand for five courses covering appetisers through entree, mains, dessert with cheeseboard every night for a month.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hi all, well first... heymumma....if only you were bi.... id give you some action LOL... i dont understand why it is your having trouble finding a suitable playmate.... i had a look at your profile and your great!!!! *shakes head, throws up arms.... doesnt understand why your not batting them off with a stick*for some, age is a problem, be it younger or older.... i dont understand this either... i dont understand much today LOL... all i know for certain is that lovecurvie is right on the money when he says that REAL sexual passion "starts between the ears" and sometimes a large age gap between two people can enhance things.... mmmm. lol. i guess... i might be a bit more complex to please than some? you gotta do the right things upstairs before ill give ya a backstage pass... LOL but what do i call an older man that likes much younger women? well no, not a sugar Daddy... i think your right milfness, a sugar Daddy is prolly more like hugh hefner, in that they attract those ladies with their fat wallets and promises of material things.... so maybe... ill say it... they are just plain Daddy's ? oh my... how taboo...failing this.... what would i call them???? anything they bloody wanted me to!!!awwww lovecurvie.... you know ill always be your princes.... mwahhhhhh!!! :)love jemma

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Rule of thumb is Half your age plus 6...that is how us girls always used to gauge it..lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    your as old as the person your feeling at the time...   i always seem to ahve attracted oder women, dont know why, dont mind at all. find myself wanting soemthing younger, not a massive craving just for at least a bit of a change. ive always very much appreciated the experiences with older women, you are a lot of fun, what can i say...   everyone in this thread is a hottie

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    my question is .....what is a older male called that likes younger women...not sugar daddy cause to me they are the older men like huge heffner.i think i found the answer to the question ... Cougar—a woman over 40[10] who sexually pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior.[11]Manther—Male version of a cougar.http://www.wildmanther.com/2008/06/13/manther-basics-the-definition-of-a-manther/.

  • bluelight_taxi

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    16 years ago

    I think the right tittle for older men who like or go out with younger lady's are called..."Silver Fox" Peter

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You can call me Daddy if you want to Jemma :) Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    CI..... Half my age plus 6? Hmmmm nothing under thirty for me? That doesn't sound right! I prefer the nothing younger than my oldest child rule..... that buys me another 8 years to select from. Lolz hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    heymumma, thank you for reading what I wrote regarding the "cougars blog". There is something that it is still pretty interesting to me.   finding a young guy with the following qualities you described: someone who will posses a great deal of respect towards others, good communication skills and perhaps a fun and loving attitude towards life seems a lot to aks for a male in general.. jejeje jk   but truly what my area of interest will be "communication skills" and "things in common", that is why I wonder.. what kind of common interested do you see yourself finding with someone of the age of 27.   What attracts guys towards courgars is obviously sexual interest primarily, yet someone who has been experiencing 10 years of mature life (someone out of high school, 10 years later) can probably have an EXPIRIENCE IQ 4 times less than you. How would you relate to that.. ?   if you will like to pick one topic to talk between a cougar and the young male, other than sex, what would your topic be.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    DAMN GAZ! im sure that armpit pic you have there is just to tease me.... fuck... im so in lust after your armpits ill call you anything you want!!! grrrr!love jemma

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    The thing with experience IQ is that I don't think we can base it on living years lol... some of us have had waaay more experiences than others and while I am only a couple of years older than Mr P, I often feel a lot older cos of our compared experiences AND our individual reactions to them... I think we strike a good balance for each other Makes me think of that Dr Hook song... 'A Couple More Years'...I've got a couple more years on you, babe,that's all. I've had more chances to fly and more places to fall. And it ain't that I'm wiser - it's only that I've spent more time with my back to the wall. And I've picked up a couple more years on you, baby, that's all.Cheers RHPeersDa Mrs P

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    we are always hearing that women mature faster than men (who we also hear, never grow up hehehe), so wouldn't it make sense that the older male ~ younger female is a perfect match up! hahahahahaNice one Peter... silver fox... sounds kinda sexy Hugs n mwahsMrs PUp too early

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Good quote Mrs P..Well andrade Life experiences n peole can affect our attitude n such.Thus having younger siblings in their 4os n 30s n kids 27,12 n 17 i can relate to those generations....and the things that their into like gamming,music etc..that has made me young at heart...lol so i can be a big kid,i also enjoy watching the same shows,eg animated n others, i could right a loong list..lol but surfice to say..there would be heaps of random topics to talk about,that's how we find out what floats  a persons boat.PS heres on for u Mrs P its only their toys that get bigger..lol..sorry guys no malice intended anyway i refuse to get old n grow up....lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Peachypear'Makes me think of that Dr Hook song... 'A Couple More Years'...Didnt Dr hook have a song Called Sylvias' Mother as well...could be wrong but i think they did that seems to fit as well

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Nah,  “silver fox” is not the equivalent to “cougar”.  “Silver Fox “  is the equivalent to  "MILF "   . the difference is that a Silver fox is chased by younger females and Manther chases younger females therefore “Manther” is the equal to “Cougar” ,      Silver fox—A term denoting an attractive older male who is pursued by (generally much) younger women   MILF (an acronym of "Mother [or 'Mom'] I'd Like to Fuck", widely-used idiom that was popularized in the 1999 film American Pie)—a sexually desirable older woman,   Cougar—a woman over 40[10] who sexually pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior.   Manther—Male version of a cougar.   Puma—a woman in her thirties who dates a younger man (i.e. 20-somethings), often considered to be "cougars-in-training".   Chickenhawk—an older gay man who sexually pursues younger males, i.e. "twinks"/"chickens" or underage boys.     Source :  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    :D ANY OF YOU COUGARS HERE CAN EAT ME UP :D anyday lol ..... hmmm a male version .... i just call a older dude who goes for younger women a old billy goat or a rooster...old bull? i dont knwo lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    heymumma... lol @ it's only their toys that get bigger hehehe. Really glad to hear that you liked the quote, it's a favourite of mine  LoveCurvie... Dr Hook do have a song called 'Sylvia's Mother' but it's about a young man trying to get his ex-girlfriend's mother (Sylvia's Mother) to let him talk to her, as she's leaving to get married... While I was googling I did learn that there is another verse to the song (but only sung in concert and no lyrics) where the young man speaks to Sylvia's father and we learn Sylvia is pregnant to him. So thnx for the prompt to extend my knowledge US2PLUSU2... thanks for the correction, you come up with some of the best stuff lol... love your work as always! Hugs allMrs P

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well , the fact is the women have the power of choice to go with a older man or not so it is in fact the younger female that might be chasing up any approach from a older male , not the male. The young ladies according to what I have been told refer to the males as DILFS . That's "dads I like to fuck" . Who's chasing who ?? the seducer which could be either or !!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think they are often called "lucky".... ;-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    saw it in a movie last night got curious did a little reading its called a tom cat............... im going to do some tomcatting going after younger girls........ lol meh but i think it should be something so much cooler then that

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    HMMM, Not sure or what they call old guys who chase young women. Found a girl on another site who said she was 18 ? Cant say for obvious reasons how old she turned out to be. HOW YOUNG IS TO YOUNG ?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    how young is too young??? well.... im thinking all involved at least need to be of legal age and consenting.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I call them SILVERBACKS  as in silverback gorillas  i seen one at work at panthers a few months ago and ever since then my mates and i have called the SILVERBACKS bring on the SILVERBACK name thats what i say   Dave

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    my situation is odd but fulfilling..im 44,have a relationship with a 37yr old,have three bits of fluff  they are 21,24 and 35. i had a add  on another site for a teacher for young and inexperienced young men,and even though i am a BBW i had over 240 replies.has been great fun having interviews to find a new bit of fluff.   i think the trick is to be honest if that is what your after,worked for me.