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dating
April 02 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
But where do you find men to date????
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have had the opertunity to meet and date some guys from here ... without having to indulge in sex .. we worked out we like each other as friends and drink buddies rather than sex buddies ... not saying the sex might not happen .. but drinks / dinner / pictures / picnic / swimming have definately come way b4 the sex atm..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Fuck. honestly, i just wrote that above and then stopped myself and wondered 'why?' for about 5 minutes.why would i not have sex with someone right away if i wanted a relationship with them? what a weird 'rule' to set for myself.... where the fuck did that come from? I married someone who started out as a fuck buddy and we were together 14 years yet that shit still sits lurking in my thought processes? Weird!anyhoo, Jem, if you want to date, do it. Rock on with whatever makes you happy!xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to admit, I can't really hold out for long And if I date them first they will think i want the whole relationship deal *gasp in horror* But if I was looking for something long term I guess I would date first I think arrggghhh too confusing I obviously have NOT had enough coffee
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RHP User
15 years ago
Depends on your expectations, the courting period can be anywhere from 20 minutes to months. We are comfortable with a couple hours.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nah. You are the last remnants of a failed society I'm afraid to say. too many marriages have gone by the by because the participants fell in love, married and once the hysteria settled down, they realised that the sex was simply no good. It really isn't your fault if you fall in love with someone whose sexual interests are somewhat different to your own... but this is why, today, we fuck first and ask questions later. :p Plus, have you noticed how young people don't save anything? I mean, they live for today.. they have no hope of owning their own home... they travel around the world willy nilly... relationships are done and dusted on a txt message.... they hand around an employee for no more than 12 months.... everything is disposable.... it seems like nothing is cherished.... "there is no future" so let's fuck. I mean that's the way the world is headed. What is your generation going to do about it?I'm being a little naughty in my response.... but the truth is in there somewhere. HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hmmm good question.. in my opinion I would have to be attracted to the person, which would involve some form of verbal communication. I think the bare minimum is a few long telephone conversations followed by a great first night out... I must admit, I try my best to avoid sex on the first date, unless I am overly passionate about the person and can't control myself... I am only human. Ciao Mrpetresi
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RHP User
15 years ago
STALKY: im not sure where u got marriage from out of a dating question, but im not loooking for marriage and i dont believe in rule "try b4 u buy" been there done tht and iv only got hurt everytime... Y is it so hard for a guy to take a girl out on a couple of dates before he has to fuck her??? so yes a little a rude but iv got thick skin :-) DONTGOTHERE: i can see where ur coming from but again y cant a guy/girl meet a person more then 1 time before they fuk, like i said iv been there done tht.... i know there are a lot of ppl who do fuk on frist dates, me even but iv also never been taken on a date, its always fuk first, iv been single 2yrs and yes iv fukd guys on first meet but when all u get is lets FUK and not HI how ya going it gets boring :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am an adult that is in charge of my feelings and emotions! If I meet a guy that is hot by hell yeah I will fuck him on the first date! Have done this with most of my relationships...and a couple lasted a few years! < If I meet a guy that thinks that I am a slut because I fuck him on the first date...meh..he isn't for me anyway as I don't go out with old fashioned prudes (main reason why I only see younger men)! < It is up to you how you want to live your life...if you want monogomy before sex that is your choice...but if you find him hot and can't wait to jump his boner...I say that is your choice too! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I prefer to meet the first time with the option to play...or walk away. | After that if there is an "after life"...then maybe meet up for something social if we want to, but then and only then...and that will usually be with a bit of fun tagged along with it like an overnighter or a few days away together if we do get along as friends too with some similar interests. | If it's a walk away the chance of that occurring a less than zero.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am not interested in sex unless I like someone so could never jump into it without some form of getting to know one another, but, a little while back I met a man I was instantly drawn to. We could not stop talking from the minute we met. I was quite stunned at the impression he made on me. We spent the night together because we could not say goodbye but chose not to do anything sexual because we felt we wanted to know each other better first. We finally had sex two weeks later after spending most of the time together. It was intense and emotional and REALLY, REALLY bad. And it didn't improve and the relationship went nowhere rather than building up into something great and it took me a long time to get over him. My head was all messed up by the fact that he did nothing for my body and that my body's needs were important enough to me for me to stop seeing him. . Once I got over him I changed my attitude to men and sex and joined RHP. Waiting is one thing but if you don't know what you are waiting for then it can be a total waste of time.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The question implies there must be some sort of chronological order to relationships... and I think that is the root cause of a lot of relationships failing. . I wonder how many marriages out there are based on the premise "Well, we dated, fell in love, had sex, and have been bf and gf for 4 years now... I guess it's time to get married. It's the next step.". Letting some sort of chronological order determine what stage your relationship is permitted to be at, or worse still expected to be at, would mean that to me, the 'next' step is often likely to be 'Let's get divorced'. . For me.. following your gut or instincts is the way to go. It's likely to save you from a 'wrong' situation and just as likely to let you take advantage of a 'right' situation. I mean if you meet and your bodies are telling you to tear each others clothes off, why refer to your diary to see if you have dated for long enough?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first, I wouldn't buy shoes without trying them on beforehand, I wouldn't get a tattoo in Latin/French/Italian (or whatever language is sufficiently hip enough these days) without checking the English translation of it first. And I wouldn't get serious with someone if I didn't know what they were like in bed beforehand. Imagine shacking up with Mr Seems-Too-Good-To-Be-True, then realising afterwards that he's actually Mr What's-Foreplay?-Three-Minutes-Of-Missionary-Then-Snoring instead...! Doesn't necessarily mean you should have sex on the first date/meet; in reality the build up and the rising sexual tension over a period of time is incredible, but if your gut instinct tells you to rip each others clothes off in the first five minutes? Then that may be just as incredible, too! Tinks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Decided that if I was going to be with someone for a long time I want to be compatible in the bedroom before I worked out if we had complimentary personalities. Why waste time endlessly dating?It worked!! Yipeeeeee!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I like someone enough to have sex with them, I know when I first meet them so what is the point in waiting? I am with CM. I like to meet with the idea that we MAY play. If I walk away, the chances are very slim indeed. I have met someone and not had sex at the first meeting. More a get to know thing and then had sex on the second meeting. But it has been recognised at the first meeting that this is what is going to happen. Even when younger was never one for making him wait the alloted amount of dates before sex. If I said "no" then I was missing out as well. I dont like to miss out.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hello Jem78 I think I understand what you mean. You would just like a little social politness and some time to get to know the person a little first. I reckon men are getting a little spoilt and think that they can have everything up front without any effort. And girls too. Although I agree with the peeps above - I am definitley of the fuck first and ask questions later. Sorry. xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Stalky - isn't it your generation which has taught Generation Y & Z to expect instant gratification? That they don't have to work for anything, or save up for anything, just put it on credit, pay for it later, ask Mum or Dad, with just a click of a mouse the whole world is in front of them. Besides - I also didn't save anything and travelled the world in my 20's. It was the best time of my life and I wouldn't change it for anything! So don't be so hard on the young ones.xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
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RHP User
15 years ago
when you can get the milk for free...Why buy the whole pig when all you want is a little Sausage???Mr Justswinging and I began as an affair... eleven years ago... I didn't leave my husband at the time for him, we'd already been separated for 12 months (still married though so yep still an affair)... But we are both of the belief that a healthy and compatible sex life is essential for a relationship to flourish
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RHP User
15 years ago
Meeka100 : u got it in one, thts exactly what im talking about :-) I also understand what Every1 else is saying but every guy tht has been im my life so far have been fuk first ask questions later, iv had 1 long term and 1 very intense 10wks with another guy, all the other where all talk and 1 tht just beat the hell out of me if i went to toilet while giving head.... So u could understand why it would be nice for a change of beat, if tht makes sense at all :-) Dont get me Wrong I LOVE SEX & great at it as well (no complaints yet) :-) but it would be nice to get tht next txt/date after i 1st meet a guy even if didnt sleep with him on first date. :-) thanks for all the comments every1 :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'jem78'STALKY: im not sure where u got marriage from out of a dating question, but im not loooking for marriage and i dont believe in rule "try b4 u buy" been there done tht and iv only got hurt everytime... Y is it so hard for a guy to take a girl out on a couple of dates before he has to fuck her??? so yes a little a rude but iv got thick skin :-) DONTGOTHERE: i can see where ur coming from but again y cant a guy/girl meet a person more then 1 time before they fuk, like i said iv been there done tht.... i know there are a lot of ppl who do fuk on frist dates, me even but iv also never been taken on a date, its always fuk first, iv been single 2yrs and yes iv fukd guys on first meet but when all u get is lets FUK and not HI how ya going it gets boring :-) Ahhhh.... I think I've found the hiccup here.. Y is it so hard for a guy to take a girl out on a couple of dates before he has to fuck her??? . That's an interesting mindset. You make it sound like sex (or 'fucking' as some so eloquently put it) is something that 'he' does to 'her'. No wonder you're constantly disappointed. . And without turning this into some sort of 'men's roles vs women's roles' debate (which is an excellent topic on it's very own... someone should start a thread)... why do you imply it is the man's fault that you fuck on the first date? I mean why don't you suggest going out for a coffee... or a meal... or a movie and hold out until the total spent on you reaches some sort of arbitary figure? . While I'm sure most guys are more than happy to fuck on a first date, I don't know many guys that would turn down a second or third date just because you didn't fuck on the first one, it's more likely because you chew with your mouth open or something...
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RHP User
15 years ago
No Jean Girard. Can't you see that Men are to blaim for everything! I mean, the only reason people fuck on the first date is because men demand it! HugsStalkyQuoting 'Jean_Girard' Ahhhh.... I think I've found the hiccup here.. Y is it so hard for a guy to take a girl out on a couple of dates before he has to fuck her??? . That's an interesting mindset. You make it sound like sex (or 'fucking' as some so eloquently put it) is something that 'he' does to 'her'. No wonder you're constantly disappointed. . And without turning this into some sort of 'men's roles vs women's roles' debate (which is an excellent topic on it's very own... someone should start a thread)... why do you imply it is the man's fault that you fuck on the first date? I mean why don't you suggest going out for a coffee... or a meal... or a movie and hold out until the total spent on you reaches some sort of arbitary figure? . While I'm sure most guys are more than happy to fuck on a first date, I don't know many guys that would turn down a second or third date just because you didn't fuck on the first one, it's more likely because you chew with your mouth open or something...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Stalky - isn't it your generation which has taught Generation Y & Z to expect instant gratification? That they don't have to work for anything, or save up for anything, just put it on credit, pay for it later, ask Mum or Dad, with just a click of a mouse the whole world is in front of them. Besides - I also didn't save anything and travelled the world in my 20's. It was the best time of my life and I wouldn't change it for anything! So don't be so hard on the young ones.xxMeeka It's the baby boomer's indulgent mess I think. It's your learned independence that provides you the balls to just take off and travel the world on your own... the rest of it is self indulgence.... especially the credit card part.... it's one thing to buy a house you know you will never own in your lifetime... it's quite another to own a credit card that you will never pay off in your lifetime. :pNone the less, our social values have changed a bit. Much of that has to do with the invention of oral contraception and the morning after pill.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'None the less, our social values have changed a bit. Much of that has to do with the invention of oral contraception and the morning after pill.HugsStalky Hence giving women independence and choices to do what they like... even if it is to go out on a few dates first before they fuck. Thanks very much Jean_Girard! So when are they going to invent a little blue chill pill for the boys. Seems like some of them need it lately. Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Thanks very much Jean_Girard! Meeka That's ok. I'm all for the woman being on top.. and underneath... tied up to a bed or on all fours in front of me. No discrimination or inequality here!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
i just go with the flow..If i like her and she wants sex Sex it is .. If i dont then No sex when i dated that is
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RHP User
15 years ago
some women dont like that... they are only interested in the one night and then NEXT... I wonder if it is the 'how many can I conquer' syndrome? For a bloke it is off putting when you date a woman, and on the first night they talk about getting married and having kids. Not saying this is not what I dont want in the future, but like to get to know a person for who they are now, and what common interests you potentially have. I am sure women (as we have read) have gone on their first date and have sat opposite the male and thought get me outta here... Oh the joys of dating! cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
WTF!!!! atm, IV BEEN ON DATE S WITH GUYS SINCE BEING SINGLE ie: FOR COFFEE, LUNCH, BRUNCH EVEN DINNER AND THEN ITS WANNA FUK NOW, EXCUSSS ME!!!! LIKE I SAID I KNOW THERE ARE SOME GUY/GIRL WHO WILL DO THT, BUT LIKE IV SAID IV BEEN THERE DONE THT B4, AND IV ALSO BEEN BEATEN SHITLESS COS I WENT TO TOILET WHILE GIVING HEAD!!!! SO Y IS THT U GUYS ARE TAKEN WHAT I SAY TO HEART, THIS IS A FORUM AFTER ALL, OR DID U FORGET???? AND WAS ASKING A QUESTION, THERE WAS NOTHING IMPLIED THT I WAS TALKING ONLY ABOUT MEN!!! AGAIN PPL PUT WORDS IN WHER THERE NOT NEEDED !!! AND ASSUME I WAS TALKING ABOUT GUY, IM JUST TALKING IN GENERAL PPL NOT BUTTING BLAME ON ANY GENDER :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have read all of the replies and did not see anyone had taken your question to heart. Also don't forget that you put this in Girls Ask...so many would assume you are talking about men also your profile says you are just looking for men? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
funloving.... say no more... i will resist on commenting on this one anymore
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RHP User
15 years ago
well im not into women so i guess my profile would say im looking for men, it also says taking things slow, so dont see where what iv said on my profile comes into account on here ??? and yes i put in girls ask cos im a girl and im asking a question LMFAO now im starting think y i even bothered asking ??? hmmm make me think y some of u r on here.... and if what u r saying is actually working ??? cos i know it didnt/doesnt work for but then tht could just be my morals talking out loud
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RHP User
15 years ago
(insert whistle blow sound here) . You-all got Jem78 shouting now! (capital letters = loud voice) . Realise: Dating sites are known for dating and have passive names similar to "Seeking my Soulmate.com" so dating can be found in abundance one could assume? . Notice: This site is called "REDHOTPIE" and not "COLDMOLDYCHEESECAKE" and attributed to be a Sex~Site so guess what's in abundance here? . Imagine: A new category called "WARMCUSTARDTART" where first dates are plutonic meets only, so men don't ask, so women don't feel cheap, so men don't encounter rejection, so women don't lose respect....with a money-back guarantee if not satisfied (to S.A. residents only/5c per kiss on return) . Jean_Luc_Pickard(ex capt of starship enterprise aka Jean Girard) you are a light of hope for all 'man-bashed' men all over the world. May a foundation be named after you. or - good on you mate for pointing at the truth. . Stalky & Meeka, I think I heard a Bell indicating "Round 2"of your tournament is about to commence....
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RHP User
15 years ago
TonyErotic.... brillant comment...LOL.. very entertaining.. :-D
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some good points there Jen. *gurgle* I mistakenly thought this post was in reference to yourself because you use the word (or is it a letter...?) 'I' and 'my' a lot. That's usually a reference to 'U', or at least it was until you clarified it. A little off topic, but that's my defence mechanism for boredom: Does anyone else think that the lol / lmfao / pmslotfwabh thing is getting out of hand (in written communication in general). Last week we had 'cop a boob feel' day. I propose that this week we have 'read your post out loud and see if a lol is really what you would do if you were talking to someone in real life' day. lmfao
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Jem,I don't think anyone has taken what you said to heart... in fact quite the opposite.. perhaps too lightly.. and around here taking things to heart is dangerous.... and its a good lesson learnt. As for the dating thing... we get it... some people want to take it slow... some not... and the word "next" is most effective in all the circumstances of mismatch.As for you Meeka..... you couldn't handle me and a likely lad or two on blue... just saying... we're way out of your depth.... :pHugsStalky Quoting 'jem78' WTF!!!! atm, IV BEEN ON DATE S WITH GUYS SINCE BEING SINGLE ie: FOR COFFEE, LUNCH, BRUNCH EVEN DINNER AND THEN ITS WANNA FUK NOW, EXCUSSS ME!!!! LIKE I SAID I KNOW THERE ARE SOME GUY/GIRL WHO WILL DO THT, BUT LIKE IV SAID IV BEEN THERE DONE THT B4, AND IV ALSO BEEN BEATEN SHITLESS COS I WENT TO TOILET WHILE GIVING HEAD!!!! SO Y IS THT U GUYS ARE TAKEN WHAT I SAY TO HEART, THIS IS A FORUM AFTER ALL, OR DID U FORGET???? AND WAS ASKING A QUESTION, THERE WAS NOTHING IMPLIED THT I WAS TALKING ONLY ABOUT MEN!!! AGAIN PPL PUT WORDS IN WHER THERE NOT NEEDED !!! AND ASSUME I WAS TALKING ABOUT GUY, IM JUST TALKING IN GENERAL PPL NOT BUTTING BLAME ON ANY GENDER :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
And yes, that's what I'd do. But only because I doubt anyone would understand me if I said "lmaosfhtbp falls out"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'jem78'well im not into women so i guess my profile would say im looking for men, it also says taking things slow, so dont see where what iv said on my profile comes into account on here ??? and yes i put in girls ask cos im a girl and im asking a question LMFAO now im starting think y i even bothered asking ??? hmmm make me think y some of u r on here.... and if what u r saying is actually working ??? cos i know it didnt/doesnt work for but then tht could just be my morals talking out loud Some of us are on here as we use this as a sex site and want SEX SEX and more SEX! Finding the odd guy to just go down on me is great too....now, could that be called "dining out" or "dining in"? Whichever, I always get called back for more! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I mean we all know we're all dirty little sluts to be on here but really are we like this ALL the time?Dating is fun! It doesn't have to be sex, sex, sex!!!! I still take Mrs Pup out on dates, wine and dine her, drink in her intoxicating beauty and after well and truely intoxicated we do invariably end up rooting like bunnies.Mind you, we were so hot for each other on our first date that we ended up having each other for desert but being a gentleman I didn't want to fuck her on the first date (I kinda had an inkling that we would have plenty of time for that) so we just cuddled up to each other and let our tongues do the talking, so to speak. So second date was planned for the next night, sex on the second date is ok isn't it? Haha
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RHP User
15 years ago
With Guys.....nope no dating....ever! Just sex With Couples.....see above.With women, on my own.....I tend to be cautious, and like to do the whole getting to know you thing first,without worrying about sex. I like to just let nature take its course, if its meant to happen it will when the time is right.Apart from that I enjoy the social interaction of just hanging out, or going out. Definetly a Friends with benefits type of fella.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
dating? isnt this a sex site? doesnt that remove 'dating' from the equation?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I find there is many u can date before sex, I think its what you set for yourself realy. But if some one realy does it for you on that date why not just go with your feelings and find out more about that person and see if youare a mach in an intermate way as well. But the main thing is getting to know the person and knowing your own desires at that moment.
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RHP User
15 years ago
And here I was thinking it was an Adult Social Network Site. Be it for friends, sex, dating, dating and then sex, fucking, sex whatever. Thanks for clearing that up Tonyerotica and Mikeandshel. l Dating can be fun. Yes Puppy I agree, even when you are in a long term relationship dating is still a great thing to do. In fact then it is one of the things that help to keep the romance alive and flourishing. I guess many of the married people on here tend to forget that not all are here just for the sex, sex and more sex. I like going out for a nice meal every now and then before hitting the bedroom, back seat of the cab, elevator walls, where ever the mood strikes really. l Like Stalkysaid above...if the guys go to fast for you just call....NEXT. There is a nut forevcery shell...you just gotta keep looking for that nut that fits your shell.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I prefer to fuck first , because goddamit I love sex so much I've just gotta have it!!!! I mean I'm a certifiable sex maniac , simple as that lol it's funny coz it's true. Thank God , I wouldn't have it any other way. However I am a very good actor and as I used to be interested in other things (before I found out how great sex could be ) , can still go on a date and talk about 'stuff' , I can even do a couple of dates like that , but of course I'll be thinking about sex the whole time. Btw for anyone who might think that a little shallow ----I gotta say ----whateva----because sex and/or making luuuurve baby ;) can be the very deepest thing ever. So suck on that , no I don't really mean to be rude , I just wanted to write suck on that because I'm really enjoying my bjs at the moment and wanted to think about that , but I digress :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
dating is so old school... i would rather i just roll up fuck you and then leave we dont have to pretend to have things in common i dont have to pretend your funny you dont have to pretend i am interesting . Its all time wasting for the next fuck so pants down and fuck / if your too tierd then Blow Me
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RHP User
15 years ago
no worries fiona... we get that you have no clue. happy to help.
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RHP User
15 years ago
C'mon mikeandshel, sure I butt heads with Fiona often but we don't need to resort to snide cheap shots at every opportunity do we? Geez I hope I'm not as petty when I grow up...even if there's a lol to soften the blow!Now I do agree that really this is predominantly a sex site BUT I guess as we all probably do spend waaaay too many hours on here that things can broaden up and become more social. Anyway all the posts about every topic concerned with sex have been posted and these were much better answered (ie FUN) in the past. So I guess we can talk about dating here and it's role in maybe ending in better sex! Can't we?Now more focused on sex...kudos to shel, that is one awesome bottom!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dating and nsa both have there places it depends on where your at emotionally to what suits your circumstances. Sometimes its the need for passion, sex and physical pleasure and sometimes its having that special someone who you know wiill not care that you look like you are the devil in human form when your not feeling well. That safe place to go to when you just need a hug.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love a good date... a few quiet drinks.. then a few double entendres slip into the conversation... it's all very sexy. And then to top it all off a new first kiss and then days to think about about it before you see each other again. I love sex on the first meet but stretching it out with a date or two is like slow sexy foreplay on a grand scale.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I recon dating is a way to get to know someone before you you have sex....gives people time to think and process bout the person before them. no downside I recon
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RHP User
15 years ago
Listen, if there were women I found who were attractive and we were happy to date before getting down I'll happily take that path.However, if she's more interested in the sex than non-physical intimacy then whom am I to deny her. Plus, I don't see much action anyway, so any fun is good fun as long as nobody gets hurt (unwillingly anyway).
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xxticklishxx'But where do you find men to date???? Found one single man to date
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' C'mon mikeandshel, sure I butt heads with Fiona often but we don't need to resort to snide cheap shots at every opportunity do we? Geez I hope I'm not as petty when I grow up...even if there's a lol to soften the blow!Now I do agree that really this is predominantly a sex site BUT I guess as we all probably do spend waaaay too many hours on here that things can broaden up and become more social. Anyway all the posts about every topic concerned with sex have been posted and these were much better answered (ie FUN) in the past. So I guess we can talk about dating here and it's role in maybe ending in better sex! Can't we?Now more focused on sex...kudos to shel, that is one awesome bottom!!! hang on......we directed nothing at her , but have to put up with her smarmy comments? wtf? and its us thats in the wrong? read the posts. its she who singled us out. again. like we said....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'LilyRose10' I recon dating is a way to get to know someone before you you have sex....gives people time to think and process bout the person before them. no downside I reckon I usually talk to people and get to know enough to get a feel for them and decide whether i want to spend a few hours in their company first before agreeing to meet in person. It's pretty easy to tell in the first 15 mins chatting if they're someone i'm interested in getting to know better so if they're not my type at least i have the option of saying 'no thanks I'm not interested' and logging off or hanging up the phone rather than having to climb out the bathroom window of a cafe or wherever.Plus all that "yeah, so.... I'm happy to swallow but you're not allowed to spank or choke me and if i want it in my ass, I'LL tell YOU, so you need not ask" stuff doesn't need to be done over a dinner table 4 feet from a lovely couple celebrating their 10th wedding anniversary.xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dating happens, but I'm thinking if you found your date on a site such as this it should not be entirely surprising that your new 'friend' would like to get busy sooner rather than later - this place isn't a Church social club.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I still believe you should take a woman out first and get to know each other, have some fun and get some good communication going before taking it further.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'puppy' C'mon mikeandshel, sure I butt heads with Fiona often but we don't need to resort to snide cheap shots at every opportunity do we? Geez I hope I'm not as petty when I grow up...even if there's a lol to soften the blow!Now I do agree that really this is predominantly a sex site BUT I guess as we all probably do spend waaaay too many hours on here that things can broaden up and become more social. Anyway all the posts about every topic concerned with sex have been posted and these were much better answered (ie FUN) in the past. So I guess we can talk about dating here and it's role in maybe ending in better sex! Can't we?Now more focused on sex...kudos to shel, that is one awesome bottom!!! hang on......we directed nothing at her , but have to put up with her smarmy comments? wtf? and its us thats in the wrong? read the posts. its she who singled us out. again. like we said.... Hehe sorry guys but her disagreement was rather mild and venomless (this time). I understand the irritation though but we should play nice in the sand pit and save the fighting spirit for when someone really starts throwing sand in our eyes!Again, more importantly, yet another lovely butt pic...me thinks i'm developing a bum fetish!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'puppy' C'mon mikeandshel, sure I butt heads with Fiona often but we don't need to resort to snide cheap shots at every opportunity do we? Geez I hope I'm not as petty when I grow up...even if there's a lol to soften the blow!Now I do agree that really this is predominantly a sex site BUT I guess as we all probably do spend waaaay too many hours on here that things can broaden up and become more social. Anyway all the posts about every topic concerned with sex have been posted and these were much better answered (ie FUN) in the past. So I guess we can talk about dating here and it's role in maybe ending in better sex! Can't we?Now more focused on sex...kudos to shel, that is one awesome bottom!!! hang on......we directed nothing at her , but have to put up with her smarmy comments? wtf? and its us thats in the wrong? read the posts. its she who singled us out. again. like we said.... Hehe sorry guys but her disagreement was rather mild and venomless (this time). I understand the irritation though but we should play nice in the sand pit and save the fighting spirit for when someone really starts throwing sand in our eyes!Again, more importantly, yet another lovely butt pic...me thinks i'm developing a bum fetish! irritation? like a rash?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fiona bee' I guess many of the married people on here tend to forget that not all are here just for the sex, sex and more sex. I like going out for a nice meal every now and then before hitting the bedroom, back seat of the cab, elevator walls, where ever the mood strikes really. l Couples have complained to us some couples arrive at their place and say " lets get started we havn't all night " and are offended with that approach. Our recipe is we are meeting to play, but first Dinner and socialising mentally which takes around 2 hours let the anticipation build then play in up market surroundings such as a 4 plus star apartment. Its a whole evening 6 hours plus not fuck anywhere and run. Yes this is a sex site, some on here are only looking for friendships or long term relationships ????? duh!, First and foremost we say, We are here to play, not date for ages.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Quoting 'fiona bee' I guess many of the married people on here tend to forget that not all are here just for the sex, sex and more sex. I like going out for a nice meal every now and then before hitting the bedroom, back seat of the cab, elevator walls, where ever the mood strikes really. l Couples have complained to us some couples arrive at their place and say " lets get started we havn't all night " and are offended with that approach. Our recipe is we are meeting to play, but first Dinner and socialising mentally which takes around 2 hours let the anticipation build then play in up market surroundings such as a 4 plus star apartment. Its a whole evening 6 hours plus not fuck anywhere and run. Yes this is a sex site, some on here are only looking for friendships or long term relationships ????? duh!, First and foremost we say, We are here to play, not date for ages. Good on you two...and the other couples like you. I always find it so much more pleasant and enjoyable getting to know the person I am planning on becoming intimate with. While I do realise that it is each to thier own and everybody does have a different perspective on things, personally I would find the "I havent got all night" approach too much alike a paid for escort without any money changing hands. There are plenty of people on here who find the friendship way more important than a quick fuck. Now even I am not silly enough to think that many couples are into the long term dating thingy as they are (presumably) with the one they want to be with but that does not mean that all singles are only after the short term, once only fuck and forget 'em approach either.....duh!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
If a woman wants to drag me home, I wont complain, but I like dating to get to know someone, and I would prefer a relationship with a woman who made me wait. I hate the little games that often come with dating, but nothing gets me hooked quicker than an honest women who makes me work for it.
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