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do you like it rough?
April 17 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
i like to walk away knowing ive been fucked the rougher, the harder, the faster, the better Hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think rough sex has its time and place. Sometimes sensual slow sex is the go and other times a dominant primal encounter is just what the doctor ordered...Lol. I have had partners that love the rough play but none have enjoyed it all the time...it's one to keep in the bag of tricks for when the desire by both is there ;) Explore this play with people you know and trust. People you know that are not going to take things too far if you don't want to.
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RHP User
14 years ago
But I do like agressively passionate if you follow.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's an art if your with and know the right person and it's about pushing the right buttons and control.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Love dominating, it's a little bit of a trust thing. But if you have that balance, you can certainly go to town. A
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes I imagine this is not an all the time lust for thing, but boy it's been taking me by surprise lately how much I am enjoying it !! Maybe tough is too string a word ...... Passionately dominant?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find that more often than not I like it rough, in fact LOVE IT rough... we often start with the best intentions of "making love" and then usually end up fucking like animals! I agree that sensual slow sex has its time and place and it is certainly enjoyable. But nothing fulfils me quite like rough fucking - add in some spanking, hair pulling, hands around my throat, wrists pinned etc and I'm YOURS! Over the years Shooter and I have pushed and pushed these limits trying to satisfy my itch... for me it's not so much about pain (e.g. more pain = more pleasure) and it's not even about being dominated (e.g. dom/sub). Being typically dominated doesn't hugely turn me on, having the shit beate out of me doesn't either. It's hard to articulate the attraction but I think it's like others have said - the passion and the aggression that "rough sex" embodies... getting so caught up in the moment that it almost becomes a frenzy and you lose yourself in the sensations of continually wanting it harder/deeper/faster/more without caring about whether the position is comfortable or how your partner feels etc. Having said that it definitely has to be mutual and you have to have the right chemistry with your partner - I've had rough sex with others which has left me feeling hurt, bruised and upset. Nothing nice about that so you have to make sure your partner knows your limits and that you feel safe with them physically. And to add another spin on it, from a woman's perspective there can be the added thrill of being slightly helpless - men can easily overpower many of us easily and I think that vulnerability can also be a big turn on (right time, right place, right partner etc). Phew - need a shag now! Kitten K x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Passionate, I just can't help myself. Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have explored exactly what you are talking about and I love it. I certainly don't do it with just anyone, I have one very special friend who I trust completely to take me to that place. I sometimes even tell him that what ever I'm wearing can be ripped off me when he arrives, but he has never hurt me and knows my limits. It's only been in the last 2 years since my marriage ended that I have explored this part of me. I never entertained the thought when I was with my ex and I think in part it's being exposed to the wonderful mix of people on sites like this that have opened my eyes to exploring every aspect of my sexuality.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yep sometimes dark and dirty BUT has to be with someone you know and trust xHugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
I feel exactly the same way....grr girl your post made me all horny!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ms Delicious you've just described Mrs C's favourite position - pinned down, arms pinned behind her back, one hand wrapped around her neck and the other with a handful of hair, and of course rammed hard and fast. On her knees at my feet, handful of hair and firm on the back of her head with her mouth well and truly full works almost as well.Takes all of about 10 seconds for her to get soaking wet if I roll her over and pin her down. Cant complain!Not sure it would work with anyone else but it's possible if the guy knew what he was doing.It's not so much 'rough' as 'very firm', as she's not into pain.Mr C
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chickara, I am not into pain either, just a FIRM manhandling :)must.stop.posting.now
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RHP User
14 years ago
I know where you're coming from Delicious. It's not just rough and hard... it's oozing with passion and a sexual intensity when two people are clicking on the same wavelength! Your OP was like, hmmm sounds gewd!....Then kittens post was gettin me hot, so I best not elborate or else I'll lose it!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jahmon' I know where you're coming from Delicious. It's not just rough and hard... it's oozing with passion and a sexual intensity when two people are clicking on the same wavelength! Your OP was like, hmmm sounds gewd!....Then kittens post was gettin me hot, so I best not elborate or else I'll lose it! well I will be in Cairns soon .............keep reading , you might get aroused enough to come and manhandle me :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I prefer to drive rather than be driven. Rough sex just makes me sore and I'm left thinking that I was 'done' rather than being a part of something together....Not really sure how to articulate my thoughts on this subject . I do believe though, if you like it rough and you're with a partner who likes to give it rough, then that's a happy thing!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I could never see myself going too aggressive and or recieving a flogging..there are times when everything gets abit harder , stronger , faster..go with the flow at the time i find..
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was trying to keep my composure this thread...all of a sudden I have the urge to spank my own bum! Thanks Delicious, I just lost it ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like it gentle. No rough handling at all me at all. I like to feel my body vibrate and hum and it is a finely tuned instrument. It takes a master to get the best and that means, soft, gentle, long and slow. Not so much as a tug on the hair nor a slap on the arse....Nope...instant turn off for me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wow aren't we all so different !! No wonder some men can't figure us out haha :)
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m3bmw
14 years ago
Me and the girl love this stuff, choking, soft biting, handcuffs... and she has recently begun turing the tables on me and pinning me down.Rough sex ftw
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some men??? Cheers Felonius....Thinking it might be a lot more than a paltry some...lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lol Delicious....welcome to our world.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' I like it gentle. No rough handling at all me at all. I like to feel my body vibrate and hum and it is a finely tuned instrument. It takes a master to get the best and that means, soft, gentle, long and slow. Not so much as a tug on the hair nor a slap on the arse....Nope...instant turn off for me. i cant remember the last time i had sex like that the rougher the better here Hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
Please be strong,please toss me around, please don't stop when I fight/struggle back, please bite me and enjoy being bitten.Please, please, please?Of course, I'm too nice and subsequently rarely ever get it rough.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like it rough sometimes, I like it slow or hard and fast, I love being teased! and being dirty is good sometimes too but in response to your questions,I think you can try out safely in this scene, baby steps, maybe with your partner first or a playmate you already know. I am very much like you MrsDelicious, the whole bondage and discipline scene, roll play etc is all a bit too much for me, I like heat of the moment passion rather than a pre meditated fantasy played out for me. I have tried them and they just don't quite work the way i think they will or I can't take it seriously enough.I am not one for dominating men, not in the way we are talking about here anyway. I will push a man up against a wall or back on to a bed, if they get a slap from me it is because I am being cheeky and I am prone to grabbing and pulling hair or enthusiastically biting a neck but that is more passion than rough stuff.I do like to play rough with other women, but only if they give as good as they get. That is alot of fun ;)xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like the feeling of being with someone who is far stronger than me, it's the way it's supposed to be isn't it?He's showing us his masculinity, making sure we know he has our arms pinned over our head with one hand only (god yes)his knees between ours, shoving our legs apart, bucking and twisting out of his other hands way in a last ditch (pretend) effort to have some control but knowing there isn't much point because "Fuck it , fuck you, I'm not begging you to let me go"!!!You give him that "You asshole" look......he smiles back knowingly....cheeky prick!!Game on!!.Then you smile back knowingly because very very shortly he is going to be a little busy and too consumed to realise that you have turned the tables and have him mentally pinned All's fair in lust and war
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RHP User
14 years ago
we work on the theory that sex should always 'enhance' your relationship.... to us....that means no 'rough play' at all........
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RHP User
14 years ago
You nailed it DTG !! Exactly what I love :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' we work on the theory that sex should always 'enhance' your relationship.... to us....that means no 'rough play' at all........ We also work on the idea that sex should enhance your relationship, and feel that rough play actually does this.However many blokes get this VERY wrong, and it has a lot to do with how it is portrayed in the adult entertainment industry.Many women LOVE the notion of rough play, as it compels a deep seated urge for a man to be a man, and take his woman!A man who is confident, and takes charge!That said it needs to come from a mutual trust and respect, and ears!Yes ears - you need to be totally tuned in to how she is reacting, and there is no better way than to really listen.Every woman also has different levels of rough play they like, and it takes trust and communication to find out what gives!The secret is to start slow and build momentum.Pinning her hands above her head with one hand as you passionately kiss her.Slowly entwining a silk rope around her wrists with the other, as you force her legs apart with your knees.Grabbing the front of the dress/camisole or the like, and ripping it apart is a GREAT mood setter (we buy cheap for this purpose)Then ravishing her body with your hands and mouth, pinning her down on her back, the exquisite sensation as she is pinned to the bed with your hand around her throat as you start to go down further and begin to ravish her lips.The helplessness, as her hair is grabbed, and forced towards your sex. Of course she will try to fend you off, and even scrape her teeth against you, only to be rewarded with a pussy tingling spank.There can be a LOT of fun in exploring new boundaries, thus enhancing your relationship.It's not for everyone, ............... but we LOVE IT!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'luvitruf' Quoting 'mikeandshel' we work on the theory that sex should always 'enhance' your relationship.... to us....that means no 'rough play' at all........ We also work on the idea that sex should enhance your relationship, and feel that rough play actually does this.However many blokes get this VERY wrong, and it has a lot to do with how it is portrayed in the adult entertainment industry.Many women LOVE the notion of rough play, as it compels a deep seated urge for a man to be a man, and take his woman!A man who is confident, and takes charge!That said it needs to come from a mutual trust and respect, and ears!Yes ears - you need to be totally tuned in to how she is reacting, and there is no better way than to really listen.Every woman also has different levels of rough play they like, and it takes trust and communication to find out what gives!The secret is to start slow and build momentum.Pinning her hands above her head with one hand as you passionately kiss her.Slowly entwining a silk rope around her wrists with the other, as you force her legs apart with your knees.Grabbing the front of the dress/camisole or the like, and ripping it apart is a GREAT mood setter (we buy cheap for this purpose)Then ravishing her body with your hands and mouth, pinning her down on her back, the exquisite sensation as she is pinned to the bed with your hand around her throat as you start to go down further and begin to ravish her lips.The helplessness, as her hair is grabbed, and forced towards your sex. Of course she will try to fend you off, and even scrape her teeth against you, only to be rewarded with a pussy tingling spank.There can be a LOT of fun in exploring new boundaries, thus enhancing your relationship.It's not for everyone, ............... but we LOVE IT! ...'rough' play brings back some really bad memories for my wife.... the boundaries are there for some pretty good reasons...and its only because I was as gentle and kind to her as i was, that she was able to get past the harm done to her, by her perverted and cruel ex partner....her burns, broken bones, crushed vertebrae and perforated ear drum all healed to a degree, and her hair grew back eventually.... but her inner scars have taken much much longer.... no..she'd run a mile if pain, restraint, roughness or any kind of force were ever introduced into our play.....i can be male to her female without ever doing things she doesnt like......and thats good enough for us...we enjoy gentle sensuous play and touching....it kinda fits with the soft lighting, fine wine and soothing music theme we usually employ......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'D_G_T'I like the feeling of being with someone who is far stronger than me, it's the way it's supposed to be isn't it?He's showing us his masculinity, making sure we know he has our arms pinned over our head with one hand only (god yes)his knees between ours, shoving our legs apart, bucking and twisting out of his other hands way in a last ditch (pretend) effort to have some control but knowing there isn't much point because "Fuck it , fuck you, I'm not begging you to let me go"!!!You give him that "You asshole" look......he smiles back knowingly....cheeky prick!!Game on!!.Then you smile back knowingly because very very shortly he is going to be a little busy and too consumed to realise that you have turned the tables and have him mentally pinned All's fair in lust and war Exactly-well written
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's alllll about mood. Sometimes, the wrong move can just make me cringe or wince or whimper. But if I'm angry/upset/generally pissy... oh god yes, push me, hell yes I'll push back, though I don't want or expect to win! Give me a target then turn it around so that I'm left wrung out, bruised and battered... cleansed of all the inner roughness in the evocation of the sexual... Damn straight, rough sex is one of the best balancers I know! :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
i LOVE rough sex by a woman giving it to me..... i guess alot like yourself, as our positons of responsability increaes in our work, the more you want to let go in the bedroom..... and then i found out i love pain, being manhandled by a woman...... and i have tried stuff into the extreme and i LOVE it!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm only trying to meet men on here who are abusive and extremely rough but only for one off's.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Be careful... You may get more than you bargained for.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But not with a stranger, has to be someone I know.
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