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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I've lost count of the times I've heard similar feedback Evil. During 'Mistress 101' training it was required of me to experience the full gamut of what I may find myself 'doing' to the potential slave/subbie. I was not a happy camper as being caned and cuffed is not my idea of fun....however had the desired effect of preparing me for all the delightfully flavoursome activities bdsm has to offer. My time as an 'acting subbie' was definately a role reversal for me and one which effectively eliminated any potential fantasies I may have had about kneeling down to 'the man'.... I dare not reveal my ultimate fantasy....cos it definately conflicts with my normal self....(if in fact there is a thing, lol) Besides....isn't 'normal' just a cycle on the washing machine??

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I am normally the Domme so having the usual consensual/non consent restraint and forced sex type fantasy was as far opposite as one can get. However having had it fulfilled once I am looking forward to doing it again. Alpha males with a submissive fantasy are usually looking for release. I hope you enjoyed yourself with the Mistress. Was there anything you didn't like?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  im so dom in all aspects of my life , im sure its why im chasing this fantasy, 2 let go wit a man who knows how 2 push my buttons, remove the guilt wit crazy mind blowin sex, that is sumthing im 'forced' 2 enjoy hehe it, for me is very interesting that "my fantasy manifested itself in the complete opposite to how i normally live, in control at home and and work, submissive to no one with structure and organisation. the feeling of not knowing what was coming next and not being able to see also was incredibly intense for me" i relate so well....its fascinating, sexy, crazy, and oh so good...i hav had a few messages stating is that im sure i want, i come across like a dom, i can assure i am not, i am just very clear and in touch wit what i want xxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I'm your typical Fountain Head, running around licking my client's armpits and such. I wouldn't say conflict.. but contrapuntal or contrapunctum are probably useful words in the circumstances. HUgs Stalky

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  there was nothing that i didnt like, however i needed pretty quick relief when she put dencorub on my cock, only last two minutes there. not a fan of the restricted breathing by ball in mouth though. everything else was great. looking to push some further boundaries next time. expensing habit though.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Thats what makes fettishes so exciting.......they are forbidden to us in our "normal" lives. They are an escape from the "normality" that we are encouraged to conform to and the expectations we become trapped into living up to. Like the judge that wears the frilly knickers under his robes, or being a "swinger" (whatever that is). In my working spheres i am in control, my opinion is sought, my advice followed and colleagues seek my knowlege....but in the bedroom......I love to grant control completely to my master. I understand there are many levels of submission and these differ for each sub/Dom relationship. Submission is often confused with a right to abuse. It takes a very skilled Dom/Domme to push ones boundaries effectively. He (not being sexist) needs to be emotionally secure, humble, aware, respectful, intelligent, have no arrogance, and respect that this is a gift he is being given. Submission to me is not about someone taking something from me..(my freedom or my dignity) but is more about me trusting someone to give them the privellage of control. Releasing me from the burdon of being in control. He has to prove his worthiness before i would submit. I dont always submit easilly.....I consider myself equal to him ....untill i call him master or Sir. I enjoy the psychological game involved. It thrills me. As does being spanked for not doing as asked. Sometimes (especially if ive been stressed) I just cant do anything that im asked to.....just cause it feels sooooo goood LOL Playing with a skilled Dom is an awesome experience. Having boundaries pushed is such a rush...scary but exhillerating all at the same time. The desire to please the Master can be intoxicating. But the bestest thing ever ....is snuggling and spooning each other affectionately after the play has fulfilled. So YEAH it is in complete contrast to my "normal" life.......but I love it....... cheeky miss b

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  only lasted two minutes before i made her rub off the dencorub because of the heat, not only lasted two minutes before cumming, in case my last post was not clear.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Dencorub is for beginners...how about tobasco sauce poured down the urethra?....Whisky also does the trick. The worst Ive seen is a bic pen inserted into a blokes cock...OUCH! Numbing patches and CBT is about as adventurous as I get with a willing slave....

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hmm. Are you sure she was professional? I have known a few pro Dommes and they wouldn't bother with such amateur stuff. I hope that your next encounter with a Mistress is better. If you ever want to chat about it feel free to message me. Have fun with your kink!

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