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fake profiles

June 03 2018

Guys pretending to be women Honestly have had a lot of profiles contact us and start a chat then ask for pics and videos and then talk like a guyfor example I dont know too many girls who go staright in for the sex talk and bizzare requests and want to know what we will do to them??? Then when we ask for kik or a mobile its the same excuse im shy and want to get to know you on here first please dont waste our time do others get this?

Comments

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    8 years ago

    Yep. I suspect we all get this.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    Certainly happens a lot to us . We see it coming a mile away - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nope....can’t say I do..... I’ve no idea either as to why, but I also don’t seem to have issues that some others do either.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It seems like you've had a bit of a bad trot lately Xena. Can you change your settings or preferences or something?

  • CompersionCouple

    CompersionCouple

    8 years ago

    We've had all of the above. One guy pretended to be a chick, we arranged to meet up for coffee & when we met up, worked out its a guy, then he got a bent & twisted cause my man was with me. We've had the couples profile where the chick never seams to be available to meet up but the guy is always ready willing & able. Last but by no means least, a stalker. This guy kept sending flirts, messages & couldn't take no for an answer. We've got no idea how this guy worked out where we lived but he showed up at our home. Scared the hell out of me. After I refused to let him in he sat outside our home for ages. My man came straight home & after a few "words" with him we've never heard a thing from him again. Be very careful is the biggest advice I can give everyone. I now never do kik, email or give out my number. If you want to meet us you will only ever get my mans number & we'll be on the phone together. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    If you want a screening tool for the unsincere the fake and the time wasters contact us!! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Being on a sex site isnt permission for people to cross the line, blur the boundaries or break the law!! No one should feel intimidsred by anyone ever - but to be tracked down at your own home is a whole different level of pyscho.. I wont give out my mobile - ever - i only kik and even there I’ve had people tell me I’m a man lol.. (so this is the F responding) I hate not being able to talk to the female. As a female myself I want to be included in the selection and planning of anything we decide to do as a couple. I don’t want to be ‘planned’ per se and I cant understand the women who don’t participate in the getting to know people stage.. But that digression aside - I am extremely careful and cautious and am blessed to have a partner who will call a spade a spade. I am learning to go with my gut and that if something doesn’t seem right whilst chatting then it probably isn’t. I’m also learning to speak my mind and whilst I may have to reign it in sometimes at least people know what they will get with me... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Xena its sad fact that these profiles do exist only to be fake profiles which we have also come across ,very annoying indeed. Give us a call think you have our number. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' Certainly happens a lot to us . We see it coming a mile away - Posted from rhpmobile I am normally quite suspicious after being done over a few times, usually you can tell straight off that it's a bloke that messages you, no matter what the profile says. I still managed to get ghosted, though, the other day after arranging to meet a very artful ''couple'' (read ''married man straying'') that strung me along quite nicely despite my initial suspicions.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi. Here I wont say I have had the fake people though I have had a few men pose as women scammers on a few other forums try me on so apart from them I don't waste my time , I quess in my case being different men wont give me much time any way, so I wont get the hassle as you have brought up . I have to laugh any way I know I get type cast or told I,m not a woman.....funny that. then if they wont to know about myself I explain, any way some here have met me and talked with me. in Melbourne so quess I,m real after all. ...noeleena...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I want to talk to the fella as well. I want to know that he's totally cool with what's going to happen as it's not just blokes who pressure their partner into doing stuff they're not comfortable with and Ive had guys be very hostile to me on meet ups

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    "fake profiles Guys pretending to be women" You are not going to belive it, but I know a couple's profile with premium membership where the guy is pretending to be the women, the profile is not fake but when he is been called out! He is telling you he is a woman lol isn't that ridiculous? What's wrong with these fake people? Have you experienced anything like this ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I thought the verification tool was to make sure someone is real and confirm single or couple. I’ve known a lot of couples that don’t give out numbers anymore. Kik seems to work just fine. So if they start to feel someone’s dodgy, they can report and block them on kik and Rhp. I think the easiest way of dealing with fakes, once you confirm they are not who they say they are, to report and block the profile. Life is too short to let those fakes spoil the fun. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    8 years ago

    I posted on this forum saying the same thing and was called out on it, copped some criticism and others. You're getting off lightly on the comments :/ They are out there and just desperate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I understand that a validation is supposed to prove someone is real but if your chatting on kik and they won’t send you a current pic , I’m suss on that . Not hard to take a pic !! Makes me wonder are there fake validated profiles ? I have asked for a pick with them holding a spoon for example as it’s not something ppl would usually have pics of themselves with . I seem to have pissed some ppl off with this but if they can ask me to meet them at a hotel in an hour they can at least send a simple pic proving they are legitimate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    First though, there are differences between verification (through the site via photo you send to moderators with a code written on a sheet of paper. Verification is available for phone too), and validation (from other RHPers that you get to accept or refuse after they send it). All have their weaknesses for exploitation which is the byword in this day and age. I find pictures of pictures that are obviously copied then disturbing too. Peachy