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M34

fetish!

January 23 2010

hey guys, i know im young and people on this site automatically freak out or just say nah hes to young and reject me! but i have a serious question.. why is it that i cant find a mature woman that will play with me? it happends in the movies! =( its my all time favoroute fetish but i cant seem to find anyone willing to give me a go =( is it something in my profile, i need advice :)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I would not class this as a fetish, more of a fantasy. Just can't go there, you are younger than my son. That is probably why most older woman shy away from a guy your age. Best of luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    While I admit to loving the term Cougar and hope to be a good one some day ... past experience with the really young ones like yourself has resulted in a very "fast" encounter... and while you all generally have excellent rebound time a "mature" woman wants quality over quantity.  Now I know that is not necessarily fair for you but that's generally the way of the world.    Also some women might be turned off your profile as you are after so much... a woman might be able to handle a guy interested in some bi experimenting but you have everything there is to have... once again, not your fault and you are completely entitled to try everything life has to offer but just to let you know that might not appeal to many women.   Other than that I can't help you.. I don't think you are alone on this site, as many ppl have reported b4 in other posts there is an abundance of single guys and few girls... maybe try swingers clubs or sex parties   Mrs Sassy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I moved to Sydney when 18 and in my first job I met a lovely woman who was in her mid 40s.   We dated a for a few months and she taught me a LOT of things in the bedroom.   As mentioned by 'causewelikeit' it is more a difficult thing for the older woman to come to terms with the age difference.   Thanks to TV shows like Cougar Town and films like American Pie the whole "Cougar" thing is becoming easier for older women embrace. (No offence meant to the older RHP members by the use of the term "Cougar")   Ultimately you just have to have patience and show respect to the ladies and one day you may be blessed by their attention.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Manii... the answer is that it would feel "wrong" screwing someone the same age as your own kids. Of course, there are people who have no kids... and they may not make the same connection, in which case you might be fair game for them. Good luck bud!   hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    now that you put it that way i see where your coming from... dammit that sucks! anyway :) thanks guys =D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    u  no... u r younger than my kids soo thats just wrong  to begin with. but just because im older doesnt mean i can teach. been with same guy since 16. i require a teacher too lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    All i can say is keep trying mate. From personal experience, if you can find a nice woman from 35yrs and up, you will have the best sex of your life, and they will enjoy taking the time in teaching you all the do's, don'ts, and how to do each technique properly to make you a better lover, so when you are with a girl your age you will blow her socks off. Anyway, after being with a mature woman, you wont want to go back to a young girl again, because they are just so much better.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i get it now, stupid tv shows putting shit in my head! hahaha thanks guys and gals! real help :)Manii x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    define mature....i know some very mature 18 year olds and some very immature 30 year olds. patience is a virtue.im only 28, so according to some previous posters not classified as older, and apparently not so good at fucking. i think its an individual thing as to whether or not you are any good, how can someone under 35 be not so good but over 35 is. it doesnt make sense to me, confidence is the key not age.mrs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    But age is just a number as its already been said, so you have to just go with the flow. And hopefully when the two/three get together other things will be flowing too. You will find the full mixed bag out there,  housewives with only 1 partner to singles/divorcees with x no of partners. So just keep your chin and other things up.       Quoting 'idontshare' u  no... u r younger than my kids soo thats just wrong  to begin with. but just because im older doesnt mean i can teach. been with same guy since 16. i require a teacher too lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    All this teaching caper,  experience is the only teacher, women are not like a box of matches, what works for one lady won't necessarily work with another! Thats been my experience anyway.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    That's a great way of putting it, Nev. Love your work. Hugs Stalky