RHP

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hot encounters

October 31 2010

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Is there any women out there who just want to have the fun of a hot wild night of wild sex or are you all after relationships instead of a good fuck buddy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    No I dont want a fuck buddy! Nor am I openly seeking a permanent relationship. If it happens then I am fine with that but what I actually prefer is friends with benefits. The friendship is the important part. I like to know the person I am inviting into my bed and my body. If all they are interested in is a fuck without the actualy friendship side developing then it is going to be a very short lived fuck buddy relationship!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Madadz......... Seems more like a advert than a question ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    So, you are not after a "Fuck Buddy" situation at all?? Obviously you are after one night stands?? And I quote: "Is there any women out there who just want to have the fun of a hot wild night of wild sex"!! A Fuck Buddy is someone that you do on a regular or semi regular basis with no strings attached. I think you just want the one night bang! Not that there is anything wrong with that...but you are contradicting what you are after! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You might think on a site like this it would be like shooting fish in a barrel, but even here I still don't believe women are able to be as superficial as men are. The women who are more inclined to answer yes to your question are the ones looking for a mfm threesome, they seem to like the comfort of having someone around as a safety blanket, which might suggest single women still worry they'll feel obliged to put out so to speak.I think for the single women here there certainly has to be a connection that goes beyond a brief conversation, certainly a feeling of safety and the knowledge that meeting up does not leave them owing you something, and that includes women who indicate in their profile that they are on a quest to quench long hidden primeval urges to just screw!. I think as a guy you need to accept women are delicate and fragile creatures, perhaps when they can feel that in you it will reassure the women you contact that you're prepared to engage them mentally first, even when they say they want to be gagged and chained to a wall in their profiles!.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes Secretfuntime, I agree... some messages are so brief ("You're hot, when can I fuck you" - Uuuum, prolly never dipshit...) that it makes me feel like a working girl and I can be 'ordered' like a pizza. Other men take a moment to communicate what they like about me, a bit about them, a suggestion for a first meet, maybe something that will intrigue me or make me smile/laugh. Seduction really isn't that difficult, I've been seduced with a few lines. As they say, compliments will get you everywhere! Anyway, back on topic - I'm looking for hot one night stands, extreme group sex, awesomely sexy/hot/reliable fuck buddies, friends who are on the same page as me, and ultimately a sex fiend who wants to be mine (I will let he/she out to play though). I want it all and I want it now. Love, delicate and fragile Betsy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Betsy, I think I am exactly the same, I need to feel an attraction there. I have as a younger guy taken girls home and it's been like a contest, you're both naked and still standing off from each other!. I need to know that when I get naked with someone it's because someone wants to share the moment with me, not feel under pressure or in competition!, I'm looking for someone that will orgasm at the same time as me and feel comfortable sharing that wonderful moment with me.