M73
how would you react ladies.......
November 09 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well it is false and misleading conduct. Clearly anybody would be disappointed if they were lead back to your bed only to discover that you knew the whole time that you are incapable of cracking the seal. The question is how do YOU deal with a disapointed lover. For sure, it happens by accident, but that's another story. If I were in that situation, (one day no doubt) ... I would be more inclined to invite my chosen lover to be involved in some kind of group action so I could still have my fun to the extent of my capacity and she could get her penetrative intercourse wishes fulfilled. Just saying... it's like a night out at a swinger's club after you've been there for 4 hours and your junk just won't work anymore... so you gotta call for reinforcements!
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RHP User
17 years ago
I have been in this situation before, but usually only because there has been too much alcohol involved and he cant perform. Plenty of other things to do though
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RHP User
17 years ago
We met a couple at a resort here and during dinner the other guy raved about how big and hung he was....I was very excited. We went back to their room and he was reluctant to undress....My excitment was building....He finally removed his clothes and OMG.....It was the smallest penis I had seen. After giving it lots of attention, it finally got hard and grew maybe 1 cm, but by the time he took it from my mouth to my pussy......it was soft again.....He just sat back on the other bed then and watched while hubby and I had a great time with his partner. Funny thing was.....his profile pics had a very nice big penis....cheated again.
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RHP User
17 years ago
and there's more than one way to satisfy a partner! I would be a bit disappointed if I was craving penetration but as long as he used his other body bits to satisfy my needs, I wouldn't make a big deal of it. I have been with guys when this has happened. Sometimes its been their own performance anxiety and other times alcohol related. The first time it happened I told the guy it wasn't a big deal and next time we had sex, he was fine. I would be downright pissed off if he didn't make some attempt to satisfy my needs though, especially if he had promised big things. If I was in an ongoing relationship I wouldn't say much the first time it happened but if it continued I would definitely want to talk about it. I'd be concerned there was something going on for him. Cheers WildT
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RHP User
17 years ago
well it has only ever happened to me once , it was many a year ago , after a copious amount of alcohol had been consumed ,he did apologise and proceeded to use his imagination to finish the job . Then he promised he would take me out to dinner the next night , he stood me up , i cracked the shit's and went out by myself , i met my now husband that night, so even though it could have been a bad outcome , fate has a funny way of working it out .
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RHP User
17 years ago
I certainly wouldnt tell my friends about it ( as long as he got me off in other ways). I also wouldnt make a huge deal out of it (especially if it was alcohol related).
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RHP User
17 years ago
Ample supply of viagra and a vacuum pump... aided and abetted by the presence of a patient pretty lady... who won't laugh too much.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well, I've been around the block a few times, and this has happened to me also. I'm mature enough for it not to be an issue as long as he get's me off in other ways. Penetration is one thing, but there's so much more to sex than just that alone.
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RHP User
17 years ago
well to say the least if a guy was working me up on the expectation that ild recieve at least five inches of hard cockadoodledoo just to deflate my excitement like a pin to a balloon ild ahve to stand on the bed over him jumping up n down screamin LIMP DICK LIMP DICK HAHAHAHA GUESS WHO HAS A LIMP DICK BUT......... if we were at the pub and well there would have to be some sort of trust there for me to even consider going home to bed with him the subject shuld have already arisen there 4 any man worth his while shuld be able to pleasure a woman inso many other ways dick aint the only sorce of pleasure a man (real man) can offer a woman .......... and if i find that my husband was impotent 1 ild hope it wasnt me that gave him a limp dick and 2 ild been there thro the hard times why wouldnt a woman worth there salt wanna stay thro the soft times???? starr xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
My soft times with hubby have now hit 3 years and hence I am looking around - with his permission and blessing - for other options. I agree that there is a whole lot more that can be done besides the obvious BUT impotence has a huge effect on a man and his self esteem. It's incredibly difficult to love someone and want them and not to have that last piece of the puzzle.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Ha hahahahahahahahaha That's brilliant! I certainly hope i dont exeperience that! Very funny
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RHP User
16 years ago
there are plenty of other things that could be done....so just go with it and have fun in other ways but if it happens often...get to the docs and get checked roxxy xxx....bumped
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RHP User
16 years ago
You say that you know that you are impotent but you don't tell the woman beforehand? Then I think you are being deceitful and totally do not take her feelings into account at all! I have to be honest here (as I am sure that is what you want)...but I think that most women (having being teased and expecting the "great sex" that you lead them on to believe they would get) would be downright angry as you knew about your medical condition yet did not divulge this information before you took her to bed! I could understand if this was a relationship...but you are specifying this is a one night stand NOT a relationship nor is it alcohol related. Honesty is the best policy and then give her the decision if she still wants to go to bed with you or not, but do let her know what you can do for her other than pentetration. That is my 2 cents...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Regardless of age...largely attributed to emotional triggers however as Roxxy wisely advises, best to ensure there are no medical reasons contributing to inability to achieve and sustain an erection. Unfortunately, men do not tradtionally discuss their emotional or health concerns resulting in delay in diagnosis & treatment. Chronic or well established disease/disorders require far more intensive treatment, therefore early detection is the way to go! Another tip, prepare a symptom checklist to take to the GP, the more information you provide your dr, the easier it is for them to determine the correct course of action. Last but certainly not least....onya beppi for 'raising' the subject... pardon the pun...lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
If he knew he couldnt get it hard...but led me to believe he could...i would tear him a new one...and leave.And not because he couldnt get his cock hard....but because he was a liar.JMO..BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Regardless of age...largely attributed to emotional triggers however as Roxxy wisely advises, best to ensure there are no medical reasons contributing to inability to achieve and sustain an erection. Unfortunately, men do not tradtionally discuss their emotional or health concerns resulting in delay in diagnosis & treatment. Chronic or well established disease/disorders require far more intensive treatment, therefore early detection is the way to go! Another tip, prepare a symptom checklist to take to the GP, the more information you provide your dr, the easier it is for them to determine the correct course of action. Last but certainly not least....onya beppi for 'raising' the subject... pardon the pun...lol just stuck with a hard on that would cut glass and nowhere to SPEND itahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahhahahahahahaahahahhahaahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
I too would be mightily pissed off. If it was a random flagging due to too much alcohol then maybe I'd be ok but if I found out it was something he knew about before hand - I'd be cross! Yes there's fabulous sex to be had san-erection, but I'd feel upset, like I wasn't pleasuring him and besides all sexual roads (well mine anyway) lead to fucking eventually. Without an erection this would hardly turn out to be the event I was expecting. Did I mention I might be cross?! I had something similar happen to me once, I was dating a guy, and when we finally had sex - he had a flaggin penis. Although he assured me it was only with me (how nice!). He was very accommodating with oral, and fingers which was HOT and I tried EVERY trick in the book. His erection would appear - it just wouldn't stay. Anyway, a quick trip to the docs (not my suggestion he took it upon himself) and a script for those little blue pills had us fucking like wild things on our next date, and the next and the next. Soon enough it was getting hard and staying that way without the blue pills, although we did enjoy them! ......Ah, nice memories! A difficult issue turned out puuuuurrrrfect. Shiny
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can imagine the pane you're going thru...rather transparant problem you have there tho Earl...being a glazier in my past life...perhaps I can be of assistance?.... windex at the ready....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' If he knew he couldnt get it hard...but led me to believe he could...i would tear him a new one...and leave.And not because he couldnt get his cock hard....but because he was a liar.JMO..BJxxx you knew it wasn't gunna happen? would you still be there.ok, this fella has robbed you both of a few minutes of nice sensuallityand its not going on. is it that big a loss.just MY oppinionEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Us guys have the obvious arousal. Girls can get away with it. They can always fake it. I was a long time with my first sexual partner( 13 years). It came a rude shock to me that women cum differently. My first always had a involuntary shudder just before she came. This was great as it let me know when to blow my load. Since then from a small sample size I have only come across two where this has happend. Now for me mr limpy has only turned up a few times.(usually on second cumming or when it is really hot and sweatty) the worst thing is when mr limpy starts the more you worry about it the worse it gets. Oops I hope I'm classed now as a dead root. Lol Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
WELL BOY IF YOU ARE THAT STUPID TO BE LUCKY ANOUGH TO TAKE A CHICKY HOME AND CANT GET IT UP YOUR JUST A FOOL AND DESERVE TO HAVE HER TELL EVERY ONE . WE ALL HAVE BEEN STUFFED AND JUST WANT TO SLEEP THATS DIFFERENT TO PLAYING AND NO GET UP SO EITHER START DRINKING BUNDY AND GET THE CRAZZY IN BED FUN HAPPING OR TAKE THE ADVISE FROM HUGH HEFFENER VIRAGA GREAT STUFF LOL CHEERS PS GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR BJ
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now thats why vibes are better than a one night stand. You know exactly what your getting and you dont have to use a condom LOL. Earl you are such a cheeky boy..............now I cant look at my windows without thinking of you xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
If I went home with a guy who was impotent and he assumed he couldn't satisfy me, like gave , "Sorry!" and a shrug, I'd walk out.Guys who think penetration is the only kind of sex need to be sterilised.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love Gen Y!! Thanks xxashenxx....best laugh Ive had tonight..
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