ladies & couples need your tips

Hi guys, How are you all and merry chrissy. Need a little help, partner is in her 50's, had a couple of threesomes, also watched her being bonked by a couple of guys at different times. said she loves it but this is only when she's had a few drinks, wont talk about unless had a few, but talks about it and said she loves being bonked when drinking, don't want push it but what i'm i doing wrong?? are their places to go apart from big parties, dogging places, bars etc, heard waterloo hotel in the valley and the jubilee thanks for your tips and take care