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married guy caught out
September 03 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
Tell him you aren't interest and to stop, don't tell the wife unless he continues to harass you. The reason for my opinion is, I have been cheated on and for me I would not have wanted to be told by a third party, I prefered when I was eventually told by my partner. Tricky one and sure you will get various opinions but thats just me. Good luck either way. Mrs A x - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
I wouldn't tell her.
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RHP User
7 years ago
He is saying that it isnt him despite me showing mim pics with the same tattooo he hasI fell for the sympathy vote when he told me the love of his life had died but find out she is alive and well and on his facebook profile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Block the fucker!! to say your wife died to get a shag is sick!! Plenty of other men to play with chick this is a guy who’s a retard play for fun and excitement not get consumed by a liar get over the fuck You definitely deserve to be treated like a queen xx good luck - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
What if you do something about it and he gets hostile?Look after yourself first.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You say "we" sent a message...your profile doesn't mention a partner...oh say you aren't one of those tightarse couples that refuse to pay for membership and when messaged by people the ol i have a steady playmate i only play with kind of deal's...lolol In closing, block and delete him Peace 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Forus1234
7 years ago
We personally wouldn’t get involved. Cut ties & move on. We wouldnt want to destroy a family, he will do it himself & get caught by the wife one day. On the other hand if I was the wife in a non-swinging marriage, I probably would want to know, to be able to move on & find a man who respects & deserves. Do people give out their surnames on this site? How would you find his Facebook profile without his surname, or did he give it to you? Only a couple of people know our surname, as they have known us for years from this site.
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RHP User
7 years ago
but I'm inclined to agree with Kool.You need to protect yourself first.Stay safe. Could you somehow report his profile to RHP?
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RHP User
7 years ago
She's just embellishing the story, lol... Peachy, and doesn't really want our opinions at all...
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Stay out of it. Tell him to ping off, block and never think of him again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Forus1234
7 years ago
Just reread your post, ws sent a message, just realised you were sent the message, disregard surname thing.
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RHP User
7 years ago
She's properly a cool chick and deserves truth. This guy may get away with playing around and what happens if he catches a serious STD and passes it on to her in the future...if you truly feel you are right then courage up and do it...he was ready to BS you for sex...fk em...nail the scumbag...and if it blows up in your face who cares at least you where staunch about it.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
You're probably going through lots of emotions right now. Things appear still raw. Ask yourself; is this how I want to spend my time (obsessing over him and his happy family) and losing your dignity over? Or spending time on you and saving your dignity? IMO The most loving and kindest thing you can do for your self is giving you the freedom to be free, of this drama Triangle. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Its that simple and he is taking his own risk. What goes around always comes around. Stay out of it as it will just cause drama in your own life. Im sure u could give that a miss - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It isn’t your business Sure he contacted you and fed you a line but you’ve never even met the guy. You owe him nothing, he owes you nothing, so move on You do not know the full story and there is always a full story, so just let it go There’s enough shit going down without you adding to it Curious as to how you found him on Facebook. You know his surname ? I though Facebook was all but redundant now ?
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Using her to get back at him is bad karma. Step away with pride Otherwise you put yourself in a bad place
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'pipsqueak' I though Facebook was all but redundant now ?A bit off-topic, but I'm just curious why you think that. I thought Fb was the biggest social media platform on the planet...with youtube coming second by 3/4 of a billion users or something.I'm kinda grateful that my first and last name is so common, that I'm virtually hidden on Fb with all the other people who share it. I'm the tree hiding in the forest.
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RHP User
7 years ago
..Correction.YouTube is more like a quarter of a billion users behind.When I throw around "billions", things get staggering..
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RHP User
7 years ago
The only choice you have in this situation is whether or not you are the woman his deceit will become fruitful with.... Clearly you’ve made that choice.... But telling her isn’t going to stop the hurt you’re trying to protect her from as that’s a ball only HE can stop rolling...and I think you already know that from your previous experience.... Choose wisely, not spitefully.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
As if he’s the only one on here cheating. 🙄Telling her will only hurt her, and anger him towards you. Stay out of it. His problem. The truth always comes about anyway, I have an uncanny ability of always finding out the truth eventually from the most unexpected sources. It’s still a very small world 🌍 He’ll come undone. They always do. Just block and walk away. His stories and lies are disgusting, I would stay as far away as possible xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
we met a clients neibough at a party a while back ,i asked oh did you break up from —— he said oh yes we never got married , i let it go and thought ok maybe but put up the walls ,next day i rang the client and chatted away and slipped a question about the neibough and sent me a pic ,as i suspected he was married still is married , natural instinct was to don him in ,but it’s there business i don’t know the full story and his problems his lies as long as we aren’t involved in it that’s fine ,karma shall get him ,this stuff has a habit of getting dirty and nasty, twisting and turning in directions you can’t possibly imagine ,i’m way to simple to need to get dirty in other peoples stuff ,back away block and avoid eye contact ,that’s my motto mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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nightingale8
7 years ago
A married man started hitting on me about a week ago eg hand on my knee as he left, running his hand up and down my back while standing in a group next to his new wife...on. his. wedding. day. A couple hours after the ceremony. It's hard to know what to do in those situations, except to chat about it later with my partner, who happens to be cousin of the groom. My approach - People do strange and stupid things. I'm not a big believer in the institution of marriage but I do think relationships are more important than mistakes. Let others make them alone and keep your dignity. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Agree to all posts above. I am married too and play behind my wife, so I can be judged and branded many things here, but have never hidden this and have always been upfront about it. Quoting pipsqueak, there is always a full story, do not lose sleep over it and move on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It was a bit of a rhetorical question however in my age demographic, I am finding more and more of my friends, colleagues are moving away from Facebook and using different platforms as you mentioned, and the most popular one we all use is Insta. I think Facebook has lost its way on many levels I closed down my Facebook a month ago but it’s still not technically closed yet, man is it hard to close And the reason I closed it was a few months ago a client using my business card, with my full name on the card, sent me a friend request on Facebook. I was stunned that a client would do that . I thought it crossed a line and told them so. I still advertise my business on Facebook but no longer do I have a personal page I have found YouTube a marvellous tool for my business more so than Facebook, which I guess is why I’m now finding Facebook redundant and my friends are viewing Facebook as the new My Space
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RHP User
7 years ago
That is interesting. I guess time really will tell how the social media platforms move forward...seeing as it's new ground for everyone. I don't use any of them with regard to business...but I can see how important they all are to reaching potential customers.Facebook, I've found, is fantastic for finding and researching any small or big business services I'm looking for. Everyone advertises on it...given that it has the biggest reach in the world, I suppose. That issue...of your personal space on Fb, and your business identity, clashing...I see that juxtaposition already with travel bloggers, for one example.With the need for them to maintain a prominent profile, it will take some effort to maintain a private one, too.Is it just a bit more open than you want to be when it comes to business? I suppose, this is because Fb wasn't imagined as a social, and business, forum in the first place. YouTube, I still largely use for funny videos and hearing the views of interesting people. And they really have a handle on what YouTube is good for, as an open forum, I think. For now.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Face book et al is a wonderful thing if you want to avoid a mistake. Personally block and ignore. Does he impact on your life? No! Then ignore. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
As she probably have this false sense of security and she is having unprotected sex with him she is being exposed to risks she never agreed to in the first place. This guy has lied to you and to his own wife, who knows how many more people he lied to and under what circumstances. No guarantee he is having protected sex or even he is being careful or selective with his other sexparthsrs as his own pleasure seems to be the priority. - Posted from rhpmobile
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nightingale8
7 years ago
In my example above, the then fiancee of the groom made a pass at my partner last summer. Neither of them know we are in an open relationship and I didn't really mind. We just find it strange. So I can only conclude.... We are irresistible. And you never know what the full story is. 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have recently started chatting to someone who told me his wife died 3yrs ago....because we swapped numbers he came up on my facebook today as a suggested friend....so I stalked his page and his wife is very much alive.....who does this???? if you are going to lie at least say you are separated!!
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