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newbies in more ways then one...

September 29 2011

sex

My Hubby and I are totally new to "the scene" and attending our first couples party on Saturday night. we are both a bit nervous but also excited about what we will experience on the night. I'm really hoping that the couples we are going to meet will help ease us into the night. we have been married for 11 years and started dating when i was 16 so I have only ever been with him. he was 30 when we meet so has experienced other women before me. our sex life is amazing it truly is and this is just another way to mix it up and keep it on fire.I guess what i want to ask is in the past before we decided to try this as a couple i would feel strange when out with the girls and a guy hit on me. which i guess is because my hubby wasn't there, I'm nervous I will feel the same way now or the fact that hubby wants me to be hit on will ease my nerves. ...... any thoughts??

Comments

  • jandv

    jandv

    14 years ago

    We were in the same boat, we both met in high school and had no other experiences until we got in the scene. I remember going to our first couples party. We were so nervous, we sat in the car for like 20 mins deciding if we should go in or not. LOL. We finally got the courage and so glad we did because we actually had a ball. After 5 mins inside we were very comfortable. I should add, we decided we was not going to play with another couple on our first party BUT we met a really nice couple and played that night. My advice is, JUST HAVE FUN !!! You will have a ball. Make sure you email back and let us know how it went. All the best.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    hi notplaying69, we are in the same bout, thinking about heading the the couples international event this friday night for our first night out, looks interesting and exciting. I'll let you know how it goes : )

  • doubles72

    doubles72

    14 years ago

    Good place to tes the waters, think of it as a place to go out talk, dance have a good time and if u choose u can have sex on venue either as a couple or invite a patron along... U will see sexy times, and if that's all u want to do is watch that is fine too! Good mix of people at CI

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hi! Similar boat too! I've had less than a handful of experiences rolled up into a year before I met my hubby (waited a loooooooong time before I ditched the L plates lol!) We're heading to CI this Thursday to give it a shot, and surprisingly found a couple we are quite good friends with eager to come too! So it will be a fun night (I hope!)