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January 23 2010

guess its time to move on. I just got the biggest kick i've had in a while. I clicked on a forum topic and got "this forum is for females only " WTF???? i guess i realise my true worth YET AGAIN. look at my picture? what part of me is male? this is discrimination. My drivers licence says EMMA, and it also has the letter F. why? becuse thats who i am. I guess I AM angry about this, I was reccomended to join by a very good girlfriend, and all seemed good till now. I cant lie about who i used to be, but I am certainly truthful about who I am now. I argue that i'm the one who has moved on to embrace their true self, not all u closet boys n gals who are two scared to put up even a nice pic of your face on ur profile. that makes me probably a better and more confident person to be with than them, doesnt it? yes I am fairly pretty, I have a good job, I am surrounded by friends, and I am probably very good in bed, compared to many. and I was honest and said i had a past, and that physically some parts still linger, but i guess maybe that was a waste of effort. someone fix this pls, who do i fax my referals to? had my rant, i hate being less than equal, i really do. those who know me personally know i'm more than equal to most, socially and intelligently. I AM a GIRL. so treat me as one, and get over it!!! EMMA

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RHP User

16 years ago

Not to trivialise your feelings, but bear in mind that this site is computer based... and it's probably a little "messed up" and it's not setup right to handle your situation... RHP should fix this for you of course :-) Wayne

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RHP User

16 years ago

If you have something to say, say it. You will find posts that ask for, say, the guys opinions but that doesn't stop the couples, groups and guys putting in their bit.People might not go out of their way to open doors for you here but that doesn't mean you can't open your own doors, make your own way. Your opinions are of as much value as anyone else on here and likely to be unique due to your individual insight. People will always be insensitive, that is the way of the world. Admire yourself that you are not and find the others that feel the same way about you because they are around.All the best... Mrs P'

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RHP User

16 years ago

Why not just change you profile gender to Female then. Cheers Nev

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2more4fun

16 years ago

Just ask RHP to classify you as a female. If you live as a female and identify yourself as a female, then I don't see why you can't be listed as female. Yes, you may be 'different' but you only need to divulge that to people who take the time to get to know you on here.I see the TG/TV/TS listing more for those born male or female that take measures to become the opposite sex. This is also more of less a sex site so if you function sexually as a female mostly, I think the TG/TV/TS listing would be inaccurate in your case. I think guys seeking a true TG wouldn't consider you as such?

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hey Emma... I agree with you entirely. Secret men's business is definitely not for you. Yep. You're girly girl. Hugs Stalky

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RHP User

16 years ago

yeah i think its just a profile mishap hey? def change 2 female, and mention on your profile u r transexual and live as 1 of us girls completely?or...maybe rhp should have a 'secret transexuals business', secret womens is pretty boring hey, and i felt left out and checked out the secret mens business when i was over at a male friend rhpers house and that is pretty dull too.. :(hope u cheer up emma :) and listen 2 mrs peachy ;)

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RHP User

16 years ago

thanks guys. ur all gems, ill get over it or sort it out. have a great sunday huh? feel wayyy better now. I'm off to work. EMZ

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RHP User

16 years ago

I dont think you have been intentionally discriminated against.... I'm sure if you contact the site peeps they'll click a thingy or reboot something and you will be good to go..... Best of luck. Doggy.

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wannabyummymummy

16 years ago

hey there Emma,you are way more woman than some 'genetic women' out there so just hang in there and know that you are accepted by those that count :)

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