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pmt questions

February 07 2010

Ok ladies help me out here. I am not trying to make fun of the subject and i know you do suffer from it. Some more than others. What i would like to know is how do you think a man( Husband, boyfriend, partner, not a workmate you see very little of) should act around you when you are going through it.   Be more attentive to your feelings, moods at this time   Leave your alone and not bother you   take you out for the evening   Give you a lot more TLC than usual   Be more sympathetic   or just carry as normal as though nothing is happening   Every woman is different and has different ways of dealing with it. From my point of view showing understanding and going with the flow is the best solution but i could be wrong.If i am please set me straight.  I am curios if there is a big difference of opinion amongst the women.

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I actually think that it's really sweet that you are asking (boy, the forums are full of 'awwwww' moments for me this morning).   Honestly...I say all of the above and all at the same time - which is difficult and confusing I know *giggle*.   I think that the biggest thing guys have to remember is that it isn't them, we're just a little more 'delicate' than usual.  Don't patronise us by any means or even worse, tell us that 'it's because we have PMT' that something is upsetting us.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    totally agree with you sonsie Quoting 'Sonsie' Honestly...I say all of the above and all at the same time - which is difficult and confusing I know *giggle*.   I think that the biggest thing guys have to remember is that it isn't them, we're just a little more 'delicate' than usual.  Don't patronise us by any means or even worse, tell us that 'it's because we have PMT' that something is upsetting us.   oh god dont ever patronise us and hell DONT EVER tell us its because we have PMT...if you do look out for flying saucers, pots, pans and whatever else we can get our hands on hehe   roxy xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Some women get it... yes some worse than others.   Honestly it makes no difference what men do, if women are at that time of the month you will get to know.  Yes one minute 'normal', then next for no reason all hell breaks loose.So just be normal, act yourself, because it doesn't matter what you do, it will make no difference.  If you do things out of the norm.. that will be worse.  It usually lasts for around 4 days... could be longer.Suggestion.  If you know roughly when in each month it will be starting (a week prior to) then that is the best preparation you have and probably planned to do more work in the garage/shed, work on your car and occassionally might suggest to her... hey want to go out for dinner... but dont make a habit of it, make it spontaneous.If you do other things, they will end up knowing what you are up to, and may try and play on it.But this is just my personal opinion on this topic ... Kaz (partyinsatiable)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Don't think your posts are going un noticed mr c... and you...my dear man...have finally worked out that forum is the best way in which to attract a ladies attention... Oooo...a smart meaty bite...far out!! Their evolving at a rapid rate ladies...so watch out....LOL

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lol... damn all this stiff competition.. hehe.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    LOL you goils are so onto things. . . . Mr contented one, ask her what she needs, if there is a particular her in mind.  If they are your work colleagues, ask them anyway.  They might blush that you've raised the topic but hell, its time to get over all the crap and find ways of getting through it I think. One of the difficulties of giving a clear answer is because sometimes we don't know what  we want when we've got PMT.  We might tell you to piss off and leave us alone and then the fact that you listened to us will have us crying. Its no fun for us at times.  That's why I say have conversations about it, like you are doing here, and you may get some strategies to help you and the women in your life. And Gaz, I thought it would be during menopause that men get tension cos I tell you, its an emotional rollercoaster that has me dipping and soaring, all on the same day. wildly waiting for the pause

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I agree with you sweety.....All of the above..   I get bad lower back pain...So cuddles.....massage...cuddles..kisses....sweet sex always helps me.     Now the dog!  Well he can get me mad easily at that time..Barking and charging at the door when friends or family drop by....I end up growling at him!  LOL.....     huggies   sweetpetite41

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    damn am I the only woman who always thougt PMT was just an excuse for other women to behave badly? You mean it really exists? It's not just a figment of their imagination and a means to manipulate their men?   sigh you live and learn I guess.........

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hand on heart ladies i was just curios but if you are offering that's another story.I might get my coupon back i lost with lips and Trish you naughty girl. You are putting all sorts of images in my head. Might have to have another dream.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think the best thing  women can do during PMT is to stay away from us blokes, It's not our fault you got it. Or if you cant move out for a week do something nice for your fella. Cook him his favourite meal, have a cold beer waiting for him at the door when he gets home, invite all his mates around for a piss up when the cricket is on and cook up a good feed for all of them. We blokes suffer to thru that time so dont forget to look after us girls. mr pip

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I had the best night sleep after i read your dream..I am not gay , but can i be in the next one !! if only to watch ?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Stalki...you read that in playboy too...lmaoI read an item of the male version of pmt...only you men dont bleed..but you men have mood swings,usually about the same time as the women..more so if been in a long term relationship.SO as for what to do contend..not knowing how long you have been with your woman..i can only say is tryall the above..usually the fact letting things slide and take no offence along with understanding is enough.and yet on the other hand if its been long term..many years..well if you dont know what she's like just beforethe time of the month...you never will....lol..then again some women that suffer not always know how to answer itAnd wildtassie in the same artical..men go through menopause...good idea more info..will help one to understandim still waiting..but no sign yet...lol....and never had pmt only..pms...not in the way you think..hahahatrish youknow what i mean...hehehexoxoxheymummahey i though guys were mindreaders..pmsl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Wild, do you mean that emotional roller coaster actually stops at some point before death... cause I was really starting to wonder about some of my friends... I mean, it's like they've been like that for years and there's no sign of letting up. :p   lmfao Heymumma.. you mean there are articles in playboy too? I just buy it to look at all the tits and bums. :p  HUgs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lived in a house with the ex and two teenage girls.the second time i got thrown across the carport i started living at the clubhouse for five days. all sweet when i got home. happy families again., Earl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Will it be held at the local hospital?Mr causewelikeit